#supportivewords

[theauthorsnetwork]

How do you deal with bad days? For writing, I meant. Today I woke up feeling like absolute shit about my projects and my writing ability — I know it's not completely but I've also recently started writing in a new format than my usual and the way it has absolutely humbled me despite my years of writing experience has been low-key, crushing. I'm really trying my best and reminding myself that I want to write for myself but feeling like I'm not good enough has been haunting me the entire day.

Sorry about the heavy ask, I'm not sure who to talk to about this 😭

Hello there friend!

I think this is the most relatable ask I've had in a while. Sometimes you wake up and everything seems so daunting (currently "writing" my PhD).

Personally, and this is thanks to my therapist's notes, I remind myself that we ALL go through highs and lows, no matter how tempted I feel to compare my progress to that of others.

To say something very clichéd (and I'm sure you heard it several times), your feelings are valid, and giving yourself permission to experience them can be a powerful way to navigate through difficult times. If you're not in the mood for writing, just don't do it, do something else. I wholeheartedly discourage forcing yourself to do something that you love because you'll end up hating it.

Try to be kinder to yourself (something that doesn't come easily to many of us). Try to recognize the effort you're putting into following your passion and trying new approaches. It's not always easy to stay committed, and there are days when everything feels like an uphill battle. But the fact that you're still trying your best every day deserves credit. Give yourself the acknowledgment you deserve for persevering through challenges. Progress progress isn't always linear, sometimes it's a whole labyrinth, and every small step forward counts. Trying new approaches, even if they don't always work out, is a valuable learning experience.

I can relate to battling imposter syndrome—it's no joke. But, seriously, your accomplishments are valid. Own them, and don't let self-doubt dim your success and the years of experience you have accumulated. A trick I use to get myself out of that mindset is that I tell myself, if I were an imposter, I would have been found out by now! Trust me, it works!

Your determination is inspiring, and it's clear that you've chosen not to give up. If you ever need someone to talk to or support, don't hesitate to reach out. We're all in this journey together, and sometimes a listening ear or a friendly chat can make a significant difference.

Cheers! 🌞✨

[gudgin]

Card of the Day: The Voice From the Roots & Wings Oracle Deck. Our words, both said or written, have great power, both to do good or to do harm. We should be aware of the magic of our voice and use it wisely. We might think especially about our friends while wielding this power. === Have a great weekend! Although I mainly post to social media during the week, I still do readings over the weekend, because, let's face it, our day-to-day problems don't take a break on Saturdays and Sundays. I still check social media too, so if you need a reading, drop me a message or order directly from my website: tarotbygraham.com #tarotbygraham #tarot #tarotreadersofinstagram #oraclecards #oraclereading #oraclereadersofinstagram #rootsandwingsoracledeck #cardoftheday #thevoice #words #speaking #writing #powerofwords #friends #healingwords #supportivewords #destructivewords #magic #weekend (at Edison, New Jersey) https://www.instagram.com/p/CP-9l4dn_7U/?utm_medium=tumblr

[creamfrosting]

This is too! Thanks! (Sebab dua-dua kawan, jadi harus di post!) Hehehe #touching #supportivewords #dontgiveupsoeasily #friendshipbonding