#talk to me -> guidelines/byf/rules

[kameyyy]

« She was born on December 8th, 1980, at 10:50 p.m. The exact time as Mark David Chapman killed John Lennon. For me, though, that’s just a coincidence. All I care about is that she was born at that exact moment. Her name: Lily Chou-Chou. Genius. Or rather, genesis. The Ether personified. From: philia »

« Dear blue cat, talk to me. Tell me about Lily. Or about the Ether. Or about her, a girl who likes Lily and Debussy. From: philia »

[puppy-earz]

Welcome to my age/pet regression blog!

Welcome to my new age/pet regression blog! This blog is strictly made for posts about age/pet regression, with the occasional announcement as needed.

On this account, I post both requests and my own ideas! (moodboards, stimboards, outfit inspo, little/cg scenarios, userboxes, paci icons, headcanons, conversation cards, and many other things). If you want to send me a request, please read my request rules (click) and DNI!

Get to know me!

My name is Hildri, or as some of you have known me as Rory! I've turned 19 as of July 30th, and I'm both a pet and age regressor! However, I don't regress very often anymore unless it is involuntary. I use it/its pronouns along with some neopronouns that can be found on my pronouns page (click). I am also an artist and disabled! At some point, I'd like to start taking emoji requests and make my own!

I have a very loving boyfriend, whom I appreciate and love with all my heart. I'm very open to making friends, as well! However, if you do wish to become friends, please message me with a good conversation starter (I'm awful at small talk, I'm sorry)!

Once I have finished my carrd, I will add it to this post. Until then, you can refer to my main account's carrd (click). cw: possible bright imagery

Before you follow...

This account is a side-blog! Meaning I will not be incredibly active on this account. If you need to get in contact with me, please refer to my carrd or message me on my main blog (click).

I will not be placing content warnings (cw) or trigger warnings (tw) on posts that contain talk or imagery of food, drinks, periods (no imagery), mental health, chronic illness, or miniscule cussing.

Any venting will not be on this account!

Do not interact...

Do not interact or follow this account if you fall under the following: basic DNI criteria (click), NSFW, gore, DDLG/ageplay/CGL/ABDL & their variants, pro-eating disorders/self-harm & thinspo, bodily younger than 13 or over 30, minor in kink & their supporters, anti-agere/petre/furry/kemonomimi/therian/otherkin, and proship.

This account is 100% safe for work! If you wouldn't show a child the content on your account, then this account isn't for you!

This DNI is subject to change.

Hashtag Key

#puppz guidelines - DNI, BYF, request rules, etc.

#little puppz - Content relating to age regression/dreaming

#little animalz - Content relating to pet regression/dreaming

#educated pup - Content related to age/pet regression or other education

#puppz asks - Answers to non-request related asks

Hashtags are subject to change.

[ask-the-prowler]

⋆.˚—̳͟͞͞✰ Welcome to Earth-42

 🎧 Revelations - Mos Def Send a drawin 👾The Discord

My name is Miles Morales, but you can call me the Prowler. Or not, I don't care.

GUIDELINES

- Have some sense, you've got home training, I can and will turn off anons if necessary. - Don't flirt with me, I'm a stranger not yo man. - No NSFW, I'm a minor. - Dm's are closed, please don't message me especially on this account.

DNI

Basic DNI, after that don't be a weirdo or you gon' get clapped. (Blocked + Possibly reported if needed.) Keep that weird shit off my page.

BYF!!

- I am black, I do say the N-word often. Please keep that in mind. - I talk about politics on the occasion without warning. - Replies might take awhile, sometimes I have no idea how to respond to things.

ABOUT THE MOD

The nigga that run this bitch! Mod Jayce, Jay's alright too though. He/Him teen running this blog off a shitty old chromebook, lmfao. Sometimes I make text posts, those'll be tagged as #Jayce Just Chattin.

Sometimes I take asks abut myself, just don't be invasive. Again, you know better and I shouldn't have to remind you.

You can find me here! Same rules apply. @kyngjaice

[beepboopkek]

٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و ♡ requests guidelines!

HELLO BEEP BOOP GANG!!! officially setting up my requests so I can write more frequently :3

u can call be Paro or Boop! (he/him) I'm a digital artist (2D/3D), writer (poetry/fanfiction) and number one fan of my fat cat

(pls don't ask for links to my other accounts i don't want to link two different online personalities LMAOO)

BYF: I'm still kind of new to using Tumblr so I'm not well versed with how fandoms and things work here so I may be a little out of touch, sorry about that , I'm not a minor, i indulge in nsfw posts that may include writing and art so if you don't like that don't follow !!

DNI: hard dni is proshippers and dark content likers/creators, you can still follow me if you want? but I will never interact with you, don't even expect that and yeah general dni criteria don't be an asshat

there's not too many rules bc I don't know my hard hard limits either but i hope you guys do follow the ones im listing down !!

1. I write for both afab and amab reader, gn reader ometimes but i probably won't be able to write smut for you (i think) but I'm willing to try!

2. i post x reader fics here but on my AO3 I have some ongoing works with other ships (non self insert)

3. i don't write for bottom male character, it's just not my thing . at best i can do power bottom reader :)

4. idk what the inflow of requests will be but I'm also busy with irl stuff and my works are very motivation based as I find it hard to work with deadlines (I'm still trying) so please try not to push your request multiple times

5. if I don't fw your request I'll probably not do it sorry 😭😭

I write for: Genshin Impact, Honkai: Star Rail, Wuthering Waves (more coming soon trust)

and yeah that's it!

here's some brainrot ideas I have from like a Year ago so u guys can send in someyhing that interests u :) most of them are jing yuan shut up (u can see the strip starchess inspo)

- wearing initial leg chain on date x jing Yuan

- gamer bf jing yuan (malding, vox inspiration I'm gonna kms)

- cwing Jing yuan while he focuses on work

- foxian reader x jing yuan

- meeting after a few months x jing yuan

- light bndg jing yuan

- strip chess jing yuan

- trailblazrrr app (grindrrr but HSR) x dense jy

- collared reader x jing yuan

- neighbours au jing yuan (awkward interactions and then he gets a kitten (mimi))

- accidental stalker??? reader x jing yuan

- pet play ayato (and/or) zhongli

- complete sensory dep x alhaitham

- Love bites x Dan Heng (more like. biting k1nk)

- Voice Kink x Zhongli (tea making)

- poly ratiorine x reader, ratio coming home late

Id love to interact with more people so i hope I can talk to u guys more :D

ps sorry for the bad formatting for this post, I'm currently out on a trip and typing this on my phone so it's a little bad but I'll work on editing it later when I'm back home!

[dreampurpledreams]

DNI IF...

☆ You are racist (all races), homophobic, anti-feminist or anything else just generally hateful. I'm not gonna list everything but I'll just block if I don't like it. I really don't/shouldn't have to go in depth. Y'all are not dumb so don't play like it.

☆ You don't like the fact that I'm christian. I'm not going to push my beliefs on you. I will respect you so you need to respect me. If you don't like it please hit the block button. I'm open to talking about religious concepts.

☆ If you support (like,follow,consume) dark content (sexual manner) or people that support it. Examples: non-con, dub-con, incest, necrophilia ect. I don't kink shame, but I don't want that kind of negativity here. Horror is welcome but I won't repost it.

BYF know that..

☆ I am woc (black/black, native american). I write all of my x reader as poc (mostly black). I probably won't write gxg or mxm. I'm straight and I may not deliver to your liking. I will write gn reader, but default fem reader if not specified.

☆ I will refuse requests if I feel. Requests Not following my rules/ guidelines I will automatically delete. If I'm not comfortable writing your request I may recommend you ask another writer, who I feel may be better suited.

☆ I don't write everyone one in every fandom. If they are not on he masterlist, I probably don't write for that character, but your always welcome to ask.

☆ I will curse in my fics, and I will say the n-word.

☆ I will get to it when I get to it. I'm not the fastest writer, but if I haven't responded in about a week, your request was deleted, or I'm writing it.

[jadoresamu]

▸ ★. SECTION II ᠉ RULES + BYF .

▬▬▬ ❪ 🍒 ❫ hiya !! it’s yasmin >:) . there’s a few things i wanted to make clear, so please read through this carefully before following me & interacting with me & this blog .

▐ rules & guidelines …

i’d personally prefer for minors, 14 and below to not interact with me or this blog, especially nsfws content i’ll be reblogging. i’d feel uncomfortable as a 21 year old to be talking to a 13 year old .

if you can, please showcase ur age somewhere i can see before following me.

i will NOT be writing nsfws content but i will be reblogging some so if you are a minor, or if you’re uncomfortable with that in general please block my nsfws tag ❪ 🍒. nsfw . . . & haikyuu smut . ❫.

i WILL WRITE mostly fluff, pure angst or angst with comfort. ngl, i used to really enjoy writing angst and i’m not sure if that’s changed.

i ONLY write f!reader, it’s simply what i find easier for myself at this moment.

i WILL be writing on my own schedule, and that shit is random as hell so i apologize in advance. i’ll do my best to post content actively but i do have a job, and tend to care for my younger siblings.

do NOT send in requests unless i ask for them, please don't send me any. i hate feeling obligated or pressured to write something and i will end up panicking and feeling like i have to do it. so spare me the anxiety, and just don’t do it until you see a requests open.

▐ before you follow if … you fit basic dnfi criteria. you hate or shit on any of my faves. you use slurs you can’t claim. you romanticize rape, sexual harassment, abuse, etc.

▐ don’t not interact if … you’re blog doesn’t state ur age, or if you are a minor. you support minors writing smut. if you don’t know how to respect me or others. you promote anything problematic like pedophilia & incest. you don't refer to people by their preferred pronouns.

▬▬▬ ❪ 🍒 ❫ hiya again !! i truly hope i wrote down everything i wanted to and didn’t forget to say thing. i was sorta rushing to put this out before doing anything else. i truly thank you for taking the time out to read this & i hope we get along well besties !

[nymphoheretic]

˜”°•.˜”°• The Rules/BYF/BYI •°”˜.•°”˜

I was @/kxkyuu, so when I repost my fics please don't be alarmed its me! Please use my new pseudo on tumblr.(discord/moots can still call me by old pseudo).

 ★·.·´¯`·.·★General Guidelines★·.·`¯´·.·★

The most important rule to know is: This blog is strictly 18+. What does that mean? That means no minors/ageless/blank blogs are allowed to follow or interact with my posts. Your age must be in your bio pinned post, carrd, somewhere I can easily see it. I will not hunt through your blog for your age. If I suspect that you are a minor, I reserve the right to block you for my own safety and peace of mind. 

Examples of acceptable age indicators: 20s, 21+, adult

Examples of unacceptable age indicators: +18, not a minor, DM for age

If you are uncomfortable with having your age on your blog, please either DM or send me an ask off Anon. It will not be posted.

★·.·´¯`·.·★DNI★·.·`¯´·.·★

Do not Interact:

1. If you do not fit the basic DNI criteria

2. Are Anti-LGBTQ+

3. Support or glorify EDs

4. A racist, bigot, or a Tr*mp supporter. You are never welcomed! Period!

5. Anti-aging up/Baji Purists

Everything that I write is depicted as fictional and the characters I write in adult situations are considered to be adults.

6. Against Dark Content

This blog supports and contains Dark content. If that makes you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.

7. If you cannot differentiate fiction from reality. It is not my job to tell you that this is fandom, not canon. When I am writing, thirsting, or otherwise simping over a character, I am not imagining them as their canonical age. I am imagining them either my age or older. If you cannot understand that, then my blog is not for you. I will not argue with you over fictional characters.

★·.·´¯`·.·★Roleplaying and Charanons★·.·`¯´·.·★

I simply love roleplaying!! If you ever wish to mod for me, a huge thank you!! All I ask that if you are not my mutual, to send me and an ask with your age, again it will not be posted, for my own peace of mind and safety before continuing. I am okay with both sfw and nsfw role plays. Please visit my aethestics rp blog @itskireibabie if you wish to rp with me!(DC roleplays must be redirected to my Rp Blog @darkkakyuu​) I am pansexual so any charanon or fluster anon is welcomed.

★·.·´¯`·.·★Interactions★·.·`¯´·.·★

Interactions are very much welcomed! Please do not be afraid to come talk to me! I am not a mean person at all! Feel free to DM me, send thirsts to my ask box, play tag/ask games with me, tell me about your day. Whatever you want and I will get back to you as soon as I can! All I ask that if you are going to vent in my ask box is to use the proper trigger warnings and not just drop them on me unexpectedly.

 ★·.·´¯`·.·★Writing★·.·`¯´·.·★

I only write x Reader fics and most of the time it is either GN!reader or AFAB!reader. I try to keep everything inconclusive to descriptive features but, as I am a black content creator, some of my work will be black coded or tagged as Black!reader. You are still welcomed to read it, but know that I wrote that with a black woman in mind. 

As stated earlier, all characters are assumed to be in their mid to late twenties.

Although I do not consider myself a dark content creator, my blog may contain dark content or I will reblog dark content. If this makes you uncomfortable, then please do not engage in these fics. All I want is for you to respect me as a writer and those who choose to consume it.

Hard kinks will always be tagged according as well as anything that could be potentially triggering. To further protect yourself the tag tw [topic] will be used in my tagging system. Please feel free to block those trigger tags. Also if I ever miss a trigger, please do not hesitate to tell me and I will fix it immediately.

Exceptions: only when writing blurbs for a moot will I ever dip my toe into the trans community. I don't want to step on anyone's toes and I know this moot personally and he won't feel affected if I mess something up.

 ★·.·´¯`·.·★Dark Content★·.·`¯´·.·★

Although I am not a Dark Content creator, I do write it in some fashions. I am in not way responsible if you do not heed the warnings and by clicking the read more you are agreeing to be exposed to the following content.

Dark content I write: Yandere, toxic relationships, hybrids, various harder kinks, stepcest

Dark content I will not write: incest, pedophilia, necrophilia, zoophilia, scat, piss, or vomit.

★·.·´¯`·.·★Selfships★·.·`¯´·.·★

I do selfship with alot of characters, but my main ones are Kyoujuro Rengoku, Keisuke Baji, Itachi Uchiha, Yuuji Itadori, Shouto Todoroki, and Katsuki Bakugou. What this means that I will post my selfship art (please do not relog without permission) and my own selfship fanfics. These fics are of my own self-indulgence and will have my own descriptive features. I also write selfships fics for my mutuals. If you feel offended by this when I say that what I just is a selfship fic, just know that I do not care. That is for me and I only posted it as a x reader fic.

★·.·´¯`·.·★Requests★·.·`¯´·.·★

I do take requests, but only when they are open and only 3 slots. It takes me a while and my hyper fixations jump from one anime to the next or I may forget about it, If you request something when my requests are closed it will be taken as a suggestion or inspiring idea that may or may not get written.

But, thirsts are always welcomed! I may or may not write a very short little blurb or it may turn into a ficlet? Depends on my time and if I vibe with it.

★·.·´¯`·.·★Copyrights★·.·`¯´·.·★

Everything I write is property of me. I do not give anyone permission to alter, copy, translate, or promote my work on any other platform, especially tiktok. If you see my work on a different site other than tumblr or AO3, please notify me immediately.

[musings-and-moans]

Best visible in dark mode <33 • pfp credit: @mrswinchestxr • Suggestions (may not always turn to requests): open/closed (but replies will be slow) • Thirsts: always open

“Hey, Upper East Siders. Gossip Girl here.” [ About Me ]

“your one and only source” - Collab WIPs | Masterlist

Spotted (Recently Completed Works)

Nozel Silva Thirst Headcanons

Homewrecker (Hajime Iwaizumi x Reader)

I Can't Help It, I Want You (Hajime Iwaizumi x Reader)

“into the scandalous lives of” - Character and Kink Rules

“Manhattan's elite” - Network Affliations: @tokyometronetwork @hanayanetwork • “Who am I? That’s a secret I’ll never tell.” - BYF/DNI

“Send me the deets.” - Tags Navigation | Taglist -> Here / Library Account: @shynahasabookshelf • “Google ‘revenge’ and you get BlairWaldorf.com.” [collabs] - In Another Fantasy Collab

“You are no one until you’re talked about.” - Charanon Guidelines

⤷ Main/SFW: @tetsukentona (Likes, Comments and follows come from here)

⤷ Listening to: Vegas - Doja Cat

⤷ What's on my mind rn: the full frontal Nanami shower art

Headlines (upcoming):

In Your Eyes (Kento Nanami x Shyna)

Daichi Sawamura Spicy Headcanons

Into You (Jotaro Kujo x Reader)

© Aisha 2022 - As I post on Wattpad & Instagram under the same username, and Quotev under RushiMushi16, (and will start writing on AO3 soon), I do not give permission to repost, modify, translate or share my works on any other platforms. I'd appreciate it if I'll be notified about situations like these should they occur. Also, if you're inspired by my content, please do speak with me before you credit me.

[the-travelling-witch]

𝐆𝐔𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐁𝐎𝐎𝐊 [rules]

ABOUT THE BLOG

This blog posts both sfw and nsfw writing; sfw is mostly x gn! reader, whereas the nsfw works will be mostly fem!/ fem-bodied! reader [I might try out different stuff but this is what I'm comfortable with/ used to]

For all my writing, please make sure to read the warnings, especially for heavier topics, and decide for yourself if this is something you want to consume (if I ever happen to forget a warning, please politely point it out)

I'm still experimenting and exploring what I'm comfortable with nsfw-wise and I will choose not to engage with you if it makes me uncomfortable

While I won't block minors/ ageless blogs for interacting with me, I will ignore/ delete/ block you if you interact with my nsfw works (i.e. asks, comments, mentions) [a carrd does not count here, your age needs to be visible on your blog]

I strongly urge minors to block the tag 'minors dni'

I don't have a posting schedule both time and fandom wise; I'm a college student, so I often don't have the time to write more and my content usually revolves around whatever interest is currently stuck in my brain

BYF - Before you follow

I don't mind interacting with people who create nsfw content even on my sfw blog; so if you do write nsfw feel free to reach out

Please don't ask to be moots; I will follow people on my own accord when I enjoy their content or enjoy talking to them; so if you interact with me often, it'll probably happen on its own

Moots can ask for my discord or genshin uid, I love talking to people outside of tumblr too

DNI - Do not interact

Basic dni criteria: no hate to any group of people (racism, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, etc)

Don't bring other people's drama into my inbox/ onto my blog or send any hate-mail directed at me or other creators

Refer to my general blog info (above) for nsfw dni

Don't talk about child characters in any way that is not platonic

Just be a decent person

ABOUT ASKS

I love talking to people on here, so don't be shy to reach out

Please watch your tone; I have no qualms against curse words (I swear a lot myself) but please stay polite

I'm guilty of being a slow responder because I want to make sure I have the energy to give an answer you deserve; just note that I don't mean any offense by that

If you want to vent in my askbox please ask for my permission first and give a little info on the contents in the beginning, so that I and others reading the ask know what we are getting ourselves into

Also refrain from sending story spoilers, I won't answer them; I keep up with banner and character leaks for genshin but even then start off with something along the lines of "Have you seen the leaks for 3.6?"

ABOUT REQUESTS

I don't take requests anymore; they put an immense amount of stress on me, so please respect that; that doesn't mean I'll never write anything with your prompt but please don't expect me to

If you do leave your headcanons or requests, please remember that I’m not a writing machine but a human; humans like hearing things like greetings or compliments for other works… just food for thought

Every now and then, I might open requests for events or to collect ideas; my request status can always be checked in my pinned post

Feel free to share headcanons or ideas with me though; although I might not write a full-blown fic for them, I usually always have something to say

Asks/ Requests for my Genshin Modern AU and my (Obey Me!) OCs are a little different because they’re my own creation; I can’t promise how fast or lengthy those answers will be

Common request language: “Can I request [XYZ]?”/ Can you write [XYZ]?/ Can you make a part 2 for [XYZ]?/ More [XYZ] please???”

Common headcanon language: “I just thought about [XYZ]!!/ I think character [A] would do [XYZ]/ The thought of [A] being [XYZ] is so cuuuute!!”

Some anon ask conduct guidelines

[bbbambam]

— Guidelines ( the rules, byf / dni )

♔ Sfw blog only.

♔ I’m still only a minor, so no nsfw or anything eighteen plus please.

♔ My inbox is always open. Feel free to talk / interact with me through asks or dm’s anytime ! Anons are warmly welcomed here as well, and you can put emojis or certain names too. So that it’s easier to communicate.

♔ Although sensitive, triggering or personal topics are prefer to be talked in private.

♔ Do not interact if you’re a racist, sexist, hate women, homophobic, islamophobic, extremely rude, mdni blogs, against black lives matter or stop asian hate. You body shame, bully others, only going to spread hate / being rude or disrespectful to me and others, whether on or off anon.

♔ For mdni blogs, if you happen to follow me, I won’t block you. But just that I’m too uncomfortable to interact with you.

♔ All ages can interact with me !

♔ I have a very unstable writing schedule, may not be able to write often or constantly, but instead I’ll only write when I have free time, ideas or the inspiration.

♔ I don’t take requests, sorry but this is for my own good. However I do take suggestions, even though I can’t really promise you that I’ll do them. I’m terribly sorry for this fact and hope that you all will understand.

♔ Currently writing for Haikyuu, Kimetsu no yaiba / Demon Slayer, Boku no hero academia / My hero academia, Tokyo Revengers and Jujutsu Kaisen. But please keep in mind that I haven’t read any of the mangas.

♔ This blog is for character x reader only, and most of my work will be female readers ( I have nothing against male readers, they’re just not my strong suit ).

♔ I write for fluff, angst, hurt to comfort, au and tropes, both romantic and platonic relationship, basically anything as long as it’s not an nsfw ( but low suggestive is fine ).

♔ English is not my first language, so please forgive me if I did any grammar mistakes.

♔ I tend to use pet names a lot, so please tell me if you’re uncomfortable.

♔ If you have any doubts, problems, comments, suggestions, questions — please don’t ever be afraid to send them in, I’d love to hear from you !

♔ Likes or reblogs are always highly appreciated.

♔ Please don’t repost or plagiarize my works / ideas without permission.

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- With love, BamBam 🦢🌙

[rotationalsymmetry]

Some more suggested rules/guidelines for avoiding causing needless suffering (especially to other people) while talking about social justice stuff online:

Rule #1: do not engage with trolls. It’s not worth it. Disengage, let them “win”, block if necessary.

It’s not always possible to tell if someone’s a troll. That’s ok. Disengaging is never a bad idea if you’re not sure. If you suspect the possible troll may have a point (and someone can both be a troll and have a point), set aside some time to look it up later, or ask someone that you know isn’t a troll who knows something about the subject.

If an issue is new to you and you don’t know what questions might cause offense, lurk for a bit. Do an internet search for “(issue) FAQ” or “(issue) 101.” It is also OK to ask questions of someone who’s explicitly invited questions. (If they say they aren’t going to answer specific questions, don’t ask those.)

I have found that specifically seeking out information about an issue I don’t know much about, tends to result in a much gentler/friendlier approach than just wandering around and having random encounters. Just because some people are in your face about the issue when you randomly stumble across it, does not mean everyone will be like that.

In particular: when a marginalized person brings up a topic and other people (tbh including people in that group) insert their opinions, especially disagreeing opinions, this tends to get a really hostile response even when the people making disagreeing opinions are being very polite in their word choices.This is because the behavior itself is seen by many people as rude and intrusive.

Actually, many people see it as so self evidently rude that they won’t bother with saying it’s rude, they’ll just say whatever they think will shut it down fastest. Including “shut up” and calling the people saying disagreeing opinions -ist or -phobic.

A lot of the ugliest online fights involve two sides that each think the other side is being hopelessly rude. (Which is not to say they’re equally likely to be right. But it does mean: if you think people are being really rude, it’s possible that they are, but also possible you’ve done something incredibly rude by their standards. In either case, disengaging is a good idea.)

Somewhat tangential: people tend to really dislike it when someone asks for advice, gets advice they didn’t want to hear, and argues with it.

When unsure, take a moment to calm down and pay attention to how the discussion started and/or who’s “space” it is. What’s rude on your own post and what’s rude on a reblog are different.

Don’t pretend to have an identity you don’t have. (This should go without saying, but for the sake of being thorough.)

Trying to show that someone else doesn’t have the identity they claim to have is risky and can go horribly wrong. (I’m not super knowledgeable about blackfishing specifically, so I’m not going to weigh in on it.) In general I think it’s best to not make assumptions about people’s identities. People from any group can have perspectives that disagree with other people’s perspectives.

Arguing with people who are wrong or who you think are wrong, is not necessarily as constructive or worthwhile as it feels in the moment. Pointing out someone else’s bad manners is usually itself bad manners.

“I” statements (statements about you personally and your experience) are sometimes a lot “safer” than generalizations. This is a bit contextual though: “this is a common experience for x people”/“I’ve never experienced that” might not be constructive. Additionally, sometimes people don’t want to talk about their own experience because that can be very vulnerable, so it’s not a good idea to impose that standard on other people.

Unfollowing and blocking: unfollowing or blocking a stranger is no big deal, do it as often as you like for any reason you like. Explaining why you’re unfollowing someone who’s shown no interest in you is unnecessary. If you’ve had a lot of interaction with someone (not just one-sided on your part) and they do one thing you don’t like, it might be worth trying to talk it out. (Maybe it was a mistake.) Telling other people to not follow a specific person is kinda extreme (controlling) and should not be done lightly, and it’s worth asking yourself what you’re trying to accomplish. Personally I have yet to see a “don’t follow this person” callout that I thought was justified. (Granted: very small sample size.)

DNI/BYF (do not interact/before you follow): Some of these make a lot more sense to me than others. Regardless, people get to set whatever boundaries they want, and I can’t think of any situation that would justify interacting with someone who has requested you not interact with a specific post or their entire blog. It’s worth checking someone’s description before following them or liking/reblogging from them, as a matter of respect and consideration.

Don’t send death threats, or suicide bait, or doxx people. Or anything else blatantly mean and unnecessary.

Anyways, this is just some thoughts off the top of my head. I would unironically love it if someone wants to point me towards anyone else’s list.

I really do think that a lot of conflict in social justice land (and between social justice types and the wider world) comes from people operating off of different and conflicting social rules (often without ever explicitly saying what the rules are), so the more we get these rules into the open the better.

In particular, I feel really in the dark about how tags are supposed to work (not technically, in terms of how people should tag) and would love asks/messages/reblogs/whatever from other people on how you tag.

I also think there’s more stuff to say about parasocial relationships and stalker-y or “creepy” behavior, and where the lines are on sending asks and so on, but I’m way out of my depth on that.

[kimblestudies]

How to write a “Before-you-follow”

*Doing this for Quotev, but figured it could also be applied here*

For those of you that don’t know what a “before-you-follow” is, it’s basically a post that is usually linked in your about me or tagline. It’s a set of rules and guidelines for interacting with your account. 

I was asked by someone on Quotev what their BYF should contain, and this is the best I could come up with. Keep in mind that each post will be personal to however writes it. 

Think of it like Terms and Agreements for interacting w/ your account, except (on Quotev, at least) people usually read them :).

So here are the sections I broke this post into for what it should contain. 

1. How you deal w/ other people

Discrimination, what you are okay with dealing w/ vs what you’re not, stuff like that. This could literally be the majority of your BYF, just because it’s what matters. 

Remember to tell people what is acceptable on your blog/account. 

In mine, I mention that I don’t accept being dragged into drama, even though I will happily give advice. I of course also mention that no discrimination will be tolerated.

Your guidelines can be similar to those, or slightly different, but these are extremely basic and you should definitely consider including these. 

2. Think about the content of your account

My Quotev account (along with my main blog on Tumblr), is extremely writing based. One of my rules is that while I will happily accept constructive criticism on my stories, I will not tolerate to senseless hate of anything on my account, or even on my friend’s account. 

If you’re into RP, instead of writing, include your roles for roleplay in this as well. I don’t RP that often, so I didn't include them in mine at first but eventually added them in bc nothing’s stopping you and it’s better to have them at least.

Anyway, just take a look at what you want your account to be about and make sure that your BYF reflects that. 

3. What you’ re okay w/ discussing

I could have probably put this into the first section, but it’s really important for how to interact w/ your account. 

Obviously, the most notable “Taboo” subject on a lot of sites is politics. Personally, I love talking about them and could talk politics for days on end. I know that that’s not the case with a lot of people, and so if you’d like to keep them out of your internet life, mention that.

Other subjects that you may not be open to discussing; tw things like Suicide, mental disorders, eating disorders, etc. Or things about your irl self.

I can’t really instruct you on this part bc it’s entirely your call but I definitely recommend including a section like this if there’s anything, in particular, you’d like to avoid a conversation about.

4. Rules for Following

(Considering that this is literally the title, I should have maybe put this first haha)

Do you follow back? I don’t really know if this is a big thing on Tumblr, but there’s a huge “Follow-back” Culture on Quotev. People will follow you and immediately send a msg to your inbox asking that you follow them back.

Personally, I stopped following back about a year ago, and I enjoy my activity feed a lot more bc a follow seems more meaningful. I lost a lot of followers from this and have basically plateaued in followers but oh well. 

But yeah, you definitely should include if you intend to follow back, or what the requirements are for you to follow somebody back once they’ve followed you. 

5. Summary

Basically a TL;DR section.

At the end of your post, just write up some bullet points for those who didn’t read through your entire BYF. As an example, I will summarize what I wrote in the paragraphs about

-What you will tolerate from other people

-What you WILL tolerate from other people

-What other people should expect from you

-What your following system is

-Summary 

TaDaaaa

Hope this was helpful, especially to the person who requested it. 

[shijakbuteoda]

WELCOME !!

introductory, rules & guidelines + works in the making !! 

just a little psa, if you ever, and i mean EVER, need someone to talk to about your troubles please don’t hesitate to message me. i don’t care if we don’t know each other, i wanna be there to help. although my advice may not be the best, it feels better to just let it all out rather than hold it in !! u r so so loved <3

name : just j (privacy reasons lol)

age : 18 (‘03)

pronouns : she/they

likes : kpop ( nct / wayv, txt, atz, skz, oneus, tbz, golcha + more ), alternative / pc pop ( rina sawayama, gorillaz, tame impala, the driver era, mgmt, icp, slayyyter + more ) women, men, n my non binary babes, animals, literature, modern history .

dislikes : time constraints, discrimination, studying, maths & science, pressure/stressing .

byf : i’m inconsistent with posting, mainly post my ults ( nct, txt, oneus, p1harmony, the boyz + a select few others ), feel free to call me out & sb if i make u uncomfy by chance . this is a safe space for all !! if u are racist, ableist, homophobic, fatphobic , sexist gtfo my page u are not welcome here .

dfi : under 14 or over 25, an anti of any of my ults ( unless u have a valid reason ), don’t follow just to unf when i fb, if u don’t interact with posts all that much

RULES / REQUESTS :

requests : open feel free to request i begin writing any of my ‘coming soon’ prompts !! 

↳ pls don’t request any 18+ content, especially any that alludes to the sexualisation of minor individuals - i will block u

↳ i don’t feel comfortable doing member x member requests personally - refrain from any requests of this nature

↳ i will not get back to u on ur request straight away, tumblr is one of the apps that i use the least frequently. please be patient :D

↳ i mainly write for boy groups as i ult a majority of them, i will only write for specific girl groups . if ur request doesn’t end up being fulfilled it may be due to this

↳ will mainly write for : nct/wayv, tomorrow x together, oneus, the boyz, ateez, stray kids, golden child, hyuna, chungha + more , will respond to ur ask on whether or not i will write for ur requested artist :)

↳ i’m australian so don’t call me out on my spelling n stuff or ill eat u :o .... i won’t that’s an empty threat jus . leave me n my .. aussie self alone SJDJD

COMING SOON...

↳ spiritual awakening ; oneshot !! (possible series) reader x txt’s choi soobin you were dead, you figured as much upon glancing through your hands. so - why was there a ridiculously handsome face staring back at you as you appeared, and why was his expression lacking fear or even surprise.

- supernatural au, seer!soobin, poltergeist!reader ↳ crumbling ; oneshot !! reader x nct’s jung jaehyun assertive, detached, independent; all characteristics of an aquarian. the very same characteristics that worked their way into jaehyun’s persona. once his mind was made, there was no wavering him from his goal... or so he thought. 

- soulmate au (hearing each other’s thoughts), jungwoo’s childhood friend!reader, idol!jaehyun

↳ shitty books and coffee ; oneshot !! reader x wayv/nct’s wong kunhang (hendery) hendery skips practice, you skip classes, and the pair of you find yourselves in a routine of coming to a small bookstore/cafe to catch a glimpse of one another. the pair of you find an escape in reading. you both start reading the same book only to find out how shitty it is, thus striking up a conversation and maybe something more.

-  choreographer!reader, idol!hendery

↳ inner thoughts ; possible series !! reader x the boyz lee juyeon you have psychometric powers, which are hard to keep under wraps in being an idol wherein you have to make physical contact with your fans, dancers, other idols and anything of the like. you accidentally bump into juyeon in the halls after promoting at music bank, and are floored when your powers don’t work on him.

- idol!reader, idol!juyeon, supernatural au, co-mc protagonists (the show) ↳ break in time ; oneshot !! reader x the boyz sunwoo wherein everyone has a soulmate, but a different way in which they meet them. reader has never had any inkling as to who their soulmate is, nor their connection, but comes to meet sunwoo in, well, a weird circumstance.. time has stopped. 

- soulmate au, college au 

↳ immortality ; possible series !! reader x golden child choi bomin OR lee jangjun ALTERNATIVELY reader x huang renjun every time you die, you are reincarnated into a new body. unfortunately, the first few times, you failed to act as a normal child after being reborn which attracts much unneeded attention. (blank) finds out about said phenomenon and is almost instantaneously drawn to you.

- supernatural au, highschool or college au

[genderwav]

About:

i’m jules, polaris, or octave. i’m 22, white, and queer. i follow from @magarula!

this blog has historically been centered around nonbinary people, love between nonbinary people, etc. but people who aren’t nonbinary can follow! i have changed a lot since i made this blog and even though i don’t identify as loveless, sometimes i get into moods so i’ll probably post less lovey-dovey stuff.

BYF:

i have too many followers to prune super carefully, but generally speaking here are my guidelines for what gets you blocked. i block liberally, sometimes its for something not here either. since this is a sideblog, sometimes i forget to block from my main and this one too.

- racism, antisemitism, islamophobia

- radfem beliefs

- transmed beliefs

- exclusionist beliefs

- if you choose to label yourself an anti-anti

- not really something that will get you blocked but just so you know i don’t tag queer if it’s being used as an identity (the same with other lgbt+ identity slurs) and i would prefer you not do it either on my posts. if my blog’s not for you there are other options!

i don’t want to debate these with strangers

Discord Server:

i also run a discord server! unlike the blog itself, the server is exclusively for nonbinary people (it is also an appropriate place to question being nonbinary). there’s a carrd for the rules and information about the server, but the same details are in the server itself if you want to join to read them that way. it is all ages and i’m very careful to keep it appropriate, but it does trend 17-22ish

https://discord.gg/8XPbXR67wH

https://genderwave.carrd.co/

Notes:

if the askbox is open, feel free to send something! discourse will be deleted but if you have a genuine question about my stance on something that is the line between you feeling comfortable or not, please send off-anon. DMs should always be open, so feel free to shoot me a line that way.

finally, i don’t necessarily follow everyone i reblog from so keep that in mind. reblogging from someone doesn’t mean i support everything they’ve said (especially because i probably only took a cursory glance at their blog). please talk to me off anon if there’s a problem! i’m not going to take a random anon message at face value and post it, and if i cannot find evidence myself i’m going to assume it’s not true.

[anzuuyo]

A dying Uni student-

Requests are open

Currently watching: Dynasty

dni/byf

Rules&Guidelines

Recent works

Would you still love me if I turned into a worm? ft. Mikey, Sanzu, ft. Draken, Chifuyu

Fake Boyfriend | Sanzu Haruchiyo

How they act when they have a crush, ft. Mikey, Chifuyu

If you ever need a friend or just someone to talk to, my inbox is open. Feel free to message me whenever!

I also need mutuals on here-

[todorkihoe]

Rules and Guidelines

When requesting something or interacting with this blog, please keep these rules and guidelines in mind.

RULES:

Multifandom but currently most interested in writing for JJK

Not a spoiler-free blog; manga, anime, and franchises are discussed

If you end up requesting something that I don’t want to write, but wasn’t previously on my “not accepting” list, I’ll make sure to let you know.

I am a very busy student, so it could take me awhile to get to your request. Remember, fanfiction writers do this for free so please respect them.

Not a rule but if you find a problem with any links on my blog please let me know!

I enjoy interacting with character anons but please don’t roleplay with me in my inbox

Do NOT repost my works on any platform. (ie tiktok, wattpad, ao3)

Also not a rule but my messages are always open if you need to talk <3 This is a judgement-free zone!

BYF (Before You Follow)

this is a very active blog i interact with anons and moots a lot; don’t follow if you’re gonna get annoyed by my constant spam posting.

DNI (Do Not Interact):

Minors DNI with 18+ content but you’re free to interact with sfw posts. I would prefer if you were 16+ when interacting with any content.

This is a very BLM and LGBTQ+ friendly blog, if you do not support these, leave my page. 

DNI if you’re a pro-shipper, read/write incest, post/reblog p*rn videos or images, racist, homophobic, xenophobic, etc.

Requests are currently: OPEN

WHAT I WILL ACCEPT:

Oneshots

Headcanons

Scenarios/Blurbs 

Any genre (smut, angst, fluff, comfort, etc.)

AUs 

SFW, NSFW, Smut

Dubious Consent 

Platonic fic

LGBTQ! Reader 

A/B/O Dynamics

Male & Gender Neutral Reader

Triggering content (drugs, alcohol, mental health issues, death, abuse/abusive relationships, etc.)

WHAT I WILL NOT ACCEPT:

SMAU (social media, fake texts, etc.)

Short Series

Incest

Pedophilia 

Character x Character (all works will be character x reader)

Original Characters

Non-Consensual 

Crossovers

Male Reader Smut

Pregnancy (breeding kinks are ok though)

If you request something that is not on this list but I don't feel comfortable writing it, I will respond to your ask letting you know and update the list.

WHEN REQUESTING PLEASE INCLUDE:

Name of character(s)

Gender of reader (if you don’t specify it’ll probably end up being fem or gender-neutral)

Type of fic you want (hc, oneshot, blurb, etc.)

Try to be specific about the situation so I don’t have to guess what you want

All requested fics will include the tag “asks with alex”

ADDITIONAL NOTES:

Headcanons: You can ask for multiple characters but keep it reasonable. There is no set number but don’t go asking me for hcs on 15 different people.

All triggering and sensitive content will always come with extra warnings/tags

Mental Health Issues: Generally, I’ll try to keep it vague if it’s on the darker side but if you wanted to request something like comfort for depression then I could go more into detail.

Non-Con: There are much better blogs out there for fics like that, I’m simply not comfortable writing it

Male Reader Smut: Once again, I’m not sure how to write for it. You can still request a male reader for SFW and Platonic fics though.

Send me an ask if you have any questions & happy reading!