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#theyre like mid 30-early 40 and theyre immortal and theyre going through a lot of shit
deoidesign
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something that makes me sad is when people tell me the healthy communication in my writing is "unrealistic."
like guys this is how me and my partner talk with eachother... I'm writing from personal experience...
#like it's sad both on the front of 'dehumanizing my real life'
#but also on the front of 'you deserve to have healthy communication in your life'
#like if you think this is unrealistic it means more than likely you havent experienced someone being patient and understanding with you
#and that makes me very very sad
#I'm sorry
#also it's just rude to tell me my writing is unrealistic LOL like hey
#real people talk all kinds of ways. shut up
#I've been told it's also in part cause they always understand their own feelings when theyre talking
#but I'm like...
#theyre like mid 30-early 40 and theyre immortal and theyre going through a lot of shit
#I feel like theyve thought about it a lot
#also the comic takes place over the course of a year so far
#we're seeing the big moments and the fun mysteries
#so
#its about grown men who love eachother
#sorry that they think about what they want to say before they say it
#also as if adam isnt constantly wrong and steve isnt constantly pushing shit down
#he's only JUST RECENTLY starting to share his emotions as they come up
#instead of pretending theyre not there and letting things boil over
#I think people just THINK theyre communicating way too clearly because their partner
#who loves them
#is listening and responding with kindness
#like..
#idk I have a lot of thoughts about this
#would LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE for this to spark a discussion
#and especially for it to cause people to reread a little more critically
#and perhaps even introspect on their own ideas of communication standards
#I've been with my partner for 10 years. this is how we talk to eachother
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