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When your Characters Need to Stay in Love

To stay in love - means to maintain a romantic connection and relationship for a lifetime.

Whether or not you choose to solidify such a connection with your partner through marriage is up to both of you.

At the end of the day, putting in the effort to remain in love and avoid heartbreak has more to do with daily actions than a single wedding ceremony.

As long as you can continue to approach one another with an open heart, you have the chance to stay in love for a long time.

How to Stay in Love

There’s no one secret to what makes for a long-lasting relationship, but there are certain ideas you can put into practice to make it easier to stay in love. Keep these tips in mind as you spend each day reminding your partner how much you love them:

Communicate your needs. Every long-lasting partnership requires effective communication. Your partner won’t know what you need from them unless you tell them in the first place. If you notice your relationship trending toward a point of stasis, take a step back and ask yourself if you’ve told your partner everything that’s been on your mind. Make sure they know how you hope to receive love from them and ask how they would like to receive love from you, too.

Compromise on nonessentials. To have a healthy relationship, you and your partner will both need to decide what’s nonnegotiable and where there’s room for compromise. For instance, your partner can be honest that they can’t change something essential about themselves for you but also still be completely in love with you. Fortunately, when it comes to trivial matters, there’s likely to be plenty of room where both of you can meet each other in the middle.

Date each other long term. As you settle into a long-term and loving relationship, continue doing fun things together. Try to plan weekly date nights as well as occasionally longer romantic getaways from time to time. Go to places with sentimental value for both of you. Explore new areas you’ve both always wanted to see. Seek out concerts and other events you know will be positive memories for both of you.

Engage in productive conflict. Long-term relationships can sometimes flounder and hit significant speed bumps. For that matter, it’s common for even the happiest couples to experience at least some degree of conflict. In either case, relationships can sometimes feel like hard work. Circumstances like these require you to fight with each other fairly. Avoid defensiveness or cruelty, choosing to mutually listen and empathize with each other instead. Consider speaking with a marriage counselor if problems persist.

Express your love often. There are an endless amount of ways to say “I love you,” so do your best to zero in on the way your partner most palpably experiences love. For example, some people might want you to explicitly tell them you love them on a regular basis, while others might feel more love if you just do little things around the house for them. No matter what the case, do whatever will make your partner feel special and communicate what you hope they would do for you as well.

Maintain independence. A good relationship is a balance between individual independence and joint togetherness. Staying in love doesn’t mean being around each other all the time and putting your individual lives on hold. You should both still have time to see other loved ones, tend to your own mental health and physical wellness, perform meaningful work, and pursue enjoyable hobbies. When two fully formed individuals come together without any sense of codependence, they have a better chance of making their romantic love last.

Spice up your sex life. True love obviously goes quite a bit deeper than sexual attraction, but sex still remains a prominent aspect of staying in love. Sex can operate as a tangible experience in which you both can renew your sense of affection for each other. Try new things with each other in bed if you both are willing. Alternatively, there’s no problem with expressing your physical affection toward each other in more comfortable, routine ways, so long as you both remain satisfied.

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Vladimir Makovsky (1846-1920) - “Call”, 1874

illustration for Nikolai Gogol's 'A Terrible Vengeance'

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Vladimir Makovsky

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"Morning Tea" ("Утренний чай") by Vladimir Makovsky (1846-1920). Oil on wood, 1891. (Image Source)

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'Portrait of Samara merchant Lavrenty Semenovich Arzhanov' as painted in to 1907 by Russian painter Vladimir Makovsky (1846 - 1920).

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Vladimir Makovsky : Goodbye Papa (1894)

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the collapse of a bank by vladimir makovsky, 1881

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MUSEO IRREVERENTES: “Residencia para pernoctar en Moscú” (1889)

Vladimir Makovsky (1846-1920)Óleo sobre lienzo94 x 143 cmTretyakov Gallery (Moscú, Rusia)

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Festa

"Via-se que os funcionários já estavam reunidos havia muito e já tinham tomado a primeira rodada de chá. Akádi Akákievitch, depois de pendurar, ele próprio, o seu capote, entrou na sala e cintilou-lhe à vista, de chofre, uma mistura de velas, funcionários, cachimbos, meas de jogo, espantou-lhe o ouvido uma confusão de conversas que soavam de todos os lados, de barulho de cadeiras arrastadas."

Nikolai Gógol, "O Capote"; pintura de Vladimir Egorovic Makovsky.

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Vladimir Yegorovich Makovsky - a virtuoso of genre painting

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Vladimir Makovsky (1846-1920) - “The third cross shattered, the third dead man rose”, 1874

illustration for Nikolai Gogol's 'A Terrible Vengeance'

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Владимир Егорович Маковский – Варят варенье (1876) Vladimir Yegorovich Makovsky – Jam Making (1876) Wladimir Jegorowitsch Makowski – Beim Marmeladekochen (1876) Vladimir Egorovitch Makovski – Faire de la confiture (1876) Живопись в Третьяковской галерее

Vladimir Yegorovich Makovsky (1846 - 1920)

Making Jam, 1876

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Artist Vladimir Egorovich Makovsky at work on a portrait of Empress Maria Feodorovna of Russia.

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'The Antiquarian Book Seller' as painted circa 1896 by Russian painter Vladimir Makovsky (1846 1920).