If you're white, please can you not say bulldyke? That is a slur aimed at black lesbians. This is a just in case you come across it. I have been called it before and I would rather white people wouldn't say it. Thank you!
I am Black and am familiar with the term, but I'm also gonna post this as sort of a PSA because I've also seen it misused before by white folks who didn't know its history. The same is true for bulldagger (which is derived from the same term "bulldiker")- both words are generally used to refer to butch lesbians but especially Black butches specifically.
The exact etymology of the terms are unknown but the dehumanizing implication of "bull" is apparent. It is a term that, like others, has been reclaimed, but its use is complicated by its history of racialized usage; terms like "stud" are similarly racialized.
There's nothing wrong with reclaiming slurs, but be mindful!! Not all words are for all people, and some terms have more complex connotations than just meaning queer. Do your research!
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Question, other masc/studs/butches do y’all feel really hot pulling your pants up over your boxers and buckling your belt? Especially with a packer/strap? Cause something about hearing the clinking of the belt and seeing the packer pressing against my jeans really just makes me feel hot.. 😵💫
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just played the demo and loved it! do you think you're going to add any references to trans ford in the full game?
i want to so badly but im having trouble thinking about what to squeeze in where
well, aside from his lack of nipples, which is going to be in the game
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punk spot and goth sarah stuff 🫰
i also made playlists of the kind of music i think they'd listen to :') you can listen to spot's here. most tracks fall under the hardcore subgenre, but there's also a good amount of ska and pop. generally has a chaotic, garage, and/or dated kind of sound, really wanted the kind of stuff that scratches my brain in a specific, rough way
there's also sarah's playlist, which i'm less confident about because i'm wayyy more immersed in punk subculture and music. but. i tried! some gothic rock, mostly punkabilly and gothabilly. i feel like she'd be into music that has that campy slasher feel, so that's the overall mood i was gunning for
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Have I used these before for Tux Tuesday?
Do I care...
Plus - what is he doing in the second one?
Anyway, bonus hands... so there you go
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viserys hearing the phrase ‘seed steed’ and getting so hard he gets nauseous: i think i hauve ;the shivers
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