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charmedreincarnation · 2 years ago

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I don't think you have to stray too far to get to the wrong parts in reddit. It's filled with borderline predators who say disgusting things and justify themselves "cus shes 18". They act like such hornyfucks..just go to oldschoolcool or r/pics wherever theres a picture of a skinny girl/woman they have to act like creeps or rip any woman who doesn't fit the beauty standard to shreds. i know the general narrative is that women are bitchy and insecure jealous and all men are so lighthearted humorous and fun but then you see most of their comments and you understand why women had to struggle with their rights so much in the past and also in the present. They can be so nasty,mean, vile and just downright vulgar

girl I hate men (not my anons ofc but ykwim)you don’t have to tell me twice. I especially hate the basement dwellers on Reddit. Honestly with the internet, freaks can come together and be even more annoying vile freaks together lol. Plus Reddit is one large echo chamber depending on where you are depends which type you get. I suggest keeping it cute. Im barely on there and stay along the informational and spiritual aspects of Reddit. Just general advice though… as someone who used to mindlessly scroll and find and argue with idiots, incels, misogynistic barnacle heads, racists, etc.I promise you there is no point arguing with souless buttfucks lol. Most of their lives suck and that’s the the reason they can be so chronically online and stupid with no repercussions.

What you feed your mind is so important and also creates your perception. I’m not even talking about the law of assumption rn but yes that too but in general. Spend too much time around that stuff and you’ll find yourself being very nihilistic and violent. And because of your algorithm the more your angirly click, the more you see it, and the more people you think are like that! When I come across that stuff now I’m lowkey shocked because to me those people can’t engage or interact with me because I choose to not be aware of them. But then I recently downloaded instagram and omg both the men and women are misogynistic bitter losers, so I have to stop being aware of them as well which is hard bc it’s everywhere 💀 but in reality I don’t see or experience any of that sort of stuff in the real world, so let them have the internet it’s not real anyways.

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destinyc1020 · 2 years ago

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Have you ever had a twitter account and if you haven’t, how would you deal with Twitter trolls and other ppl who don’t like Tom lol. I’m a new fan who got into Tom because Uncharted and TCR and going on the bird app to tweet about him is low-key chaos lol. Something about him evokes a lot of hate and I really like him. Im aware this is a silly question but I really like your perspective of stan culture and you see to be a chill stan lol.

Good question Anon!

I DO have a Twitter, but it's mostly just to check the bird app from time to time, and it's not a public account, so nobody but ppl I know irl can see what I tweet lol 😅

I deal with Twitter Trolls the same way I deal with Tumblr Trolls honestly.....I just ignore them!? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, so I don't take ppl's opinions too seriously.

Trolls are called trolls for a reason lol 😆

I also don't go looking for negative stuff online, cuz I swear, sometimes these apps start feeding you stuff based on your algorithms. 😵‍💫

I generally like to stay positive, so while some fans might get sucked into the rabbit hole of reading a bunch of negative tweets about Tom online, I usually just stop reading after a while and don't let myself get consumed with negativity. 🥴

My thing is: If you like Tom (or ANY celebrity for that matter) that's YOUR right, and proudly claim it and own it. 👏🏾 Just coz others don't feel the same way as you do, it doesn't mean a hill of beans. 🙄

Most of these ppl you don't know irl anyway, so why is their opinion a factor in the first place?

Half of them are just bitter ppl who like to hate on ANY celebrities who are popular atm, and their hate usually has NOTHING to do w/the celebrity personally, and more to do with that individual.

Anyway, you're right.... I'm a chill stan/fan.😌 I try not to take this too seriously. Yes, reading negative stuff online about one of your faves is annoying and discouraging, but at the end of the day, their opinions don't really matter. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I try not to allow my feelings for whatever celebrity I'm a fan of get to the point where I'm caring SO MUCH about what other ppl think of the person. I tend to value my own opinions over others, especially when it's obvious that they're just being petty or hateful just to be mean or nasty towards someone that they don't even know personally. 😒

So, while the Tom hate is annoying, I try to just keep it in its place and realize that Twitter is NOT real life. I also remind myself that more ppl LOVE Tom than hate him. 🥰

I hope that helped you to feel better and answered your question? 😊

Welcome to the Tom Holland fandom btw! 😁

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