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my big thank you is finally here!! thank you to the anticare fandom for supporting me (and the other victims) so much! feel free to add on your own characters in the reblogs (if you can find a spot to shove them)

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my big thank you is finally here!! thank you to the anticare fandom for supporting me (and the other victims) so much! feel free to add on your own characters in the reblogs (if you can find a spot to shove them)

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Valerie’s color name being “Taffy” filled me with so much joy that I decided to make it a different character

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With the uncertainty about tumblr’s future and people talking about other social media, I really really recommend Pillowfort.

It has long-form text capacity, with a tumblr-like layout and tags. It has image hosting. It has the ability to hyperlink things in text. It has a threaded comments section to talk to both OP and others without getting confusing or jumbled up. It had communities before tumblr did!—and honestly I like Pillowfort’s implementation better. It has post-by-post privacy options. It has no ads, and is funded by users, not the whims of petty CEOs. AI generated content is entirely banned.

It is hands down my favorite social media platform I’ve ever used. I’m active there, and it’s a great community. Crafting, photography, book discussion, and aro and ace discussion are particularly vibrant. As well as furry artists.

I have invitation codes if anyone wants a Pillowfort invite, to check it out and maybe crosspost some of your tumblr posts you like!

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suprised more people havent seen the fuller context of this clip cause its way more insane

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/hj is the funniest earnest tonetag in the world even without the handjob joke because it's ostensibly meant to clarify tone for autistic people, but the tone it's clarifying is "unreadable level of ambiguous seriousness that requires social context beyond what text can convey /glhffgt"

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more owed for kashoob of another flower oc :)<

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cw nudity ?? not actually

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Dichotomy time if you were depicted in a red/blue characters dynamic

No other colors you are getting SHOEHORNED into these boxes

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Anyone want to pet and scraiutch me on the animal head? 🐱

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Love Rainy Weather....

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This isn’t a callout; it’s a vent

I hate hate hate hate hate making a post like this bc I never want to be seen as a “drama account” but if I didn’t tell anyone this I would explode, I don’t want to be the only person who knows about this

This is a vent about an ex friendship that ended last month w/ the account sus,net,www/flo,werwife (Twitter) or malade,en,tout,le,sans (tumblr). (Corrupted the usernames for my sake, omit the commas from the first 2 usernames and the last one has hyphens replacing the commas.) I am tagging the BB community bc she is a member of it.

(I repeat: THIS IS NOT A CALLOUT. I’m not making this as a way to say someone’s a proshipper/abuser/pro-para/whatever label. I will not tell you what to think of this, you can make your own conclusion. I never want this to be seen as creating drama, I am merely making this bc I have no other ppl to tell this to. Do not fucking harass, contact, or ask her about this post, I just want to post this and get it over with. DM questions, don’t send asks. And I would rather prefer you just block her instead of witch hunt her. You can see this as a vent, even as a “warning” about an account or something, but not a callout.)

This will be mostly photos bc there’s a lot of text. TWs listed under the cut. I would like everything to be read bc I really want to be understood (Under the cut)

Only one example listed after the explanation bc of the image limit on mobile. Since one part in the explanation is very personal, it will not be shown in any pictures. Some text has been redacted for TMI and editing purposes

MAIN TWS: S/H AND MICROAGGRESSIONS, TW TAGS ALSO APPLY

Example of what I mean by “OC stuff”:

(Last image is her joking about her OC being a rapist)

She’s said that she thinks I (black woman) have more rights than her (disabled white/asian) and that black ppl experience less discrimination than Asians. Genuine question for any black ppl in CA, she is a native Californian so what is the situation in CA because that doesn’t even make sense?? Unless she believes that it’s universal??

Despite what she said earlier abt not liking white trans women w/ incest fetishes (just because of the commonality of it), she would go on to talk about liking the “principles” of incest but not the incest itself, as well as making it public knowledge (which just felt like weird paraphilia elitism to me). It is not my job to judge what ppl are into, I know this, but me and her ex friend made it clear we were uncomfortable with her talking about it, but she just kept talking and trying to rationalize with us, instead of respecting the boundary that we set. I have no problem with paras, and you should be allowed to have spaces where you’re free to talk about it without being ridiculed, I agree, but respect the boundaries when people put them there. My mother was an SA victim. It’s why I’m so scared of leaving the house or the country. She also knew this.

Even after she stopped that specific conversation, she would still talk about more topics we obviously weren’t comfortable with, repeatedly, which eventually led to her ex friend leaving and her blaming me for it.

(question: I do not know a lot abt paraphilias or the community, but is it common courtesy to respect when other ppl who don’t have them make boundaries abt what paras they’re not comfortable discussing? I’m trying to find out for myself so lmk)

It’s like

I’m getting tired atp

Like when can I meet a friend that WONT see my obvious sheltered life as point where they can exploit me

I’ve had to go through this almost every stage of my life and I thought that we could actually be friends for longer but I guess I just don’t know what signs to trust. She didn’t even act like this until she turned 18 last year. I just keep asking myself if I could’ve prevented this by noticing the signs earlier but I feel like it would’ve happened at some point anyway

It’s been about 3-4 weeks since this happened and it hurts, but I still have friends that I’ve known longer than her, and I have gotten over it before so this won’t be any different

But I hate it every time it happens. It just makes me more scared that people are just hiding how much they don’t like me because as I said, she didn’t say at any point when I was annoying her!!! She just treated me the same way she was treated by others because. Why. Idk. I’m just tired and want an actual friendship where I feel like I’m not the entertainment.

I remember her saying that she has never had any black friends before and it reminded me of a post I saw

It said something like “if you don’t have any black or trans people in your circle, you should think about why they don’t feel comfortable around you”

And I think this is a good example of that

Anyway after posting this I’ll get better, I just wanted to vent

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shh, he's having his dinner... don't bother him right now

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The final stage of every OC's creation is having to go through websites like this to name it:

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ah! didnt see u there! u caught me indulging in one of my most fascinating interests as of late. its called a "dictionary". *turns page and softly chuckles* oh, this is clever...

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Deserted In Urban (@desertedinurban)-We gonna have up to sonic movie 7 🥷🏽💨

Credit: Deserted In Urban (@desertedinurban)