#avoid trans fats

[smarteatinghabits]

The truth about #TransFats! 🚫 #HealthEffects exposed—learn to #AvoidTransFats now! #HealthyEating #NutritionRisks

[diabetes-health-corner]

Trans fats and the correlation with Type 2 diabetes

Trans fat can influence our blood cholesterol levels. It is considered more harmful than saturated fat. Therefore, a healthy diet includes eating as little trans fat as possible by avoiding foods that contain it.

Read the full blog here to know more: https://www.freedomfromdiabetes.org/blog/post/trans-fats-and-the-correlation-with-type-2-di/2998

[diospore]

Rant below the break bc I was mad at 3 am last night.

People kinda need to learn how to criticize someone's skill (writing/art) without mocking them for their kinks or identities or other things that don't matter.

(This is about a specific post trend I've been seeing, where I have seen on multiple occasions people's kinks and identities being brought into a conversation unnecessarily where prior to that the discussion was about the quality of their skill. And even then why the fuck do you care. The art isn't FOR you.)

Like you aren't inherently Cool and Epic for making fun of someone who likes feet or omegaverse or pregnant men or something. You're not Awesome and So So Smart for mocking someone for identifying as a catboy or something. Get over yourself. Learn to properly criticize writing/art without mocking someone, because your entire argument becomes worthless with insults like that. You think I'm going to reblog you even if I agree with you once you pull that shit? No, I'm fucking blocking your ass and everyone in the replies who agrees with you.

And god, if you purposely misgender someone over their art, holy shit. Gendering someone properly isn't something that can be Taken Away for Being A Naughty Naughty Horny Person. You see how fucked up that is right? I don't have to explain that, right???? What is this, 2014? Stop mocking people for being bunny boys or puppy girls. The fuck is with you? God forbid people have fun with their genders in 2024. Oh the humanity, bunnyposter likes his large chest and sexualizes himself and reclaims his features. How will the world recover from this tragedy of- gasp! A trans person having a semblance of acceptance around their appearance that they can't fucking AFFORD to do anything about and not wallowing in misery 25/8.

Get a hobby, damn.

[girlwithrituals]

GLOW UP GUIDE FOR 2025⠀

READ: On average, it takes more than 2 months before a new behavior becomes automatic — 66 days to be exact. And considering that 2025 is precisely these many days away, why not start with our glow up plan already?

Physical Glow Up-

BODY

— 5-10K steps a day.

— 7-8 hours of sleep.

— workout everyday for 1 hr atleast- yoga/stretching/pilates/cardio/lifting weights. a workout may take one hour, but your mood will be boosted for the next 12 hours.

— posture training.

— sunlight exposure after waking up for at least 10 minutes.

NUTRITION

— 2-3 liters of water every day.

— limit your caffeine intake.

— avoid sugars as much as you can.

— high protein diet, pre and probiotics.

— more fruits and veggies (+ green smoothies if you like).

— no junk/processed food/trans fat.

— no eating after 8 pm.

SKINCARE

— be clear on your skin type (oily, dry, combination, sensitive).

— once you're clear, use these accordingly- cleanser, toner, targeted serum, eye cream, moisturizer, sunscreen (≥50 spf).

— keep your bedding clean as well.

— no picking of skin on your lips, cuticle etc.

— gua sha to help improve blood circulation and lessen toxins.

— cold therapy may take three to five minutes of being uncomfortable, but your energy levels will be boosted for the rest of the day.

— remove makeup before you go to bed.

BODY CARE

— shower every day.

— exfoliate 2x a week.

— use body lotion (shea butter/aloe vera gel/coconut oil).

HAIR CARE

— wash hair 2-3x a week

— oil your scalp 2x a week, at least 3 hours before shampoo.

— hair mask 1x per week.

— never brush wet hair.

— use silk pillow case.

HYGIENE

— brush your teeth 2x a day, clean tongue and the roof of the mouth daily.

— floss daily.

— cut your nails 1x a week, never remove the cuticles.

— glycolic acid under arm for odor and discoloration.

— never use soap on your coochie.

Mental Glow Up-

MINDSET

— set clear goals- define and breakdown your aspirations.

— start your mornings with positive affirmations.

— surround yourself with uplifting content and people.

— be shamelessly selfish to your career and mental health, remove anyone or anything that doesn't align with your priorities and wellbeing.

— boost your brain health by these 4 neuroscience tools:

difficult first: start your day with the most difficult task (cortisol and dopamine are high in the body meaning that your body/mind is primed to work).

rest your eyes: introduce a micro-pause after learning by resting/closing your eyes - will help retain information better.

tomorrow's worries: write tomorrow's to-do list before bed as it is proven to be effective in helping you fall asleep.

find time to play: engage in low-stake play. can be anything you find fun but where the outcome doesn't matter (induces neuroplasticity + reduces stress).

MIND

— meditation might take as low as ten minutes, but your focus will be improved for the rest of the day.

— no social media after waking up and at least an hour before bed.

— keep aside 1 hr of time to read daily! reading a new book may take five hours, but you will keep the knowledge forever.

— journaling, gratitude.

— digital detox once a week or for 12 hours.

— limit unnecessary screentime, unfollow or cut off people you don't want to see.

JOURNALING

— choose a regular time each day to journal, making it a part of your routine.

— find a quiet, comfortable place free from distractions. light a candle if you want.

— allow your thoughts to flow without censoring or editing.

— write about your feelings and emotions to understand them better. write about things you are thankful for to boost your mood. write about your short-term and long-term goals. identify what triggers certain emotions or reactions

— set a timer for 5-10 minutes and write continuously during that time.

— reflect on both positive experiences and challenges.

— make lists, journal your thoughts on these questions.

— journal at night to clear your mind before bedtime, because emotions and thoughts lose their power once we acknowledge them.

— a gratitude practice may take five minutes, but your mindset will be shifted for the rest of the day.

AFFIRMATIONS

— customise affirmations to your needs.

Personal Life-

WEEKLY TASKS

— initiate small changes: begin with small, manageable tasks such as making your bed or cleaning your room every sunday.

— celebrate your success: reward yourself when you achieve your goals or have a consistently productive week. consider treats like buying flowers for yourself or watching your favorite show.

DAILY WORK

— set achievable goals: establish realistic goals for the day, week, or month ahead.

— track your progress.

— organise your work space, declutter your shelves etc.

— embrace the power of lists: keep a list of tasks to be done and their deadlines. this way, you start each day with a clear plan. to make it visually appealing and motivating, consider using productivity apps like evernote, habit tracker, or notion.

PRODUCTIVITY TIPS

— wake up early.

— plan ahead everything, do scheduling. you can use:

google calendar / notion / tasks .

— if the task takes less than 2 minutes to finish, do it immediately.

— countdown rule, if you are procrastinating, count 1-2-3-4-5 and jump.

— start slow, don't rush and try to do everything at one time.

— follow a proper routine, use app locks based on screentime.

— pomodoro technique, 25 min work, and 5 min break.

— schedule longer break times as well e.g 30 min nap.

[cypr1anlatew00d]

Actually I can't decide if Butter was like, a Class S novel or also an "abandoning your given gender role makes you go to superhell forever; it also makes your earthly life bad" novel in a roundabout way! INTERESTING

[smarteatinghabits]

Trans fats are lurking in your food—but why are they so bad? Our latest article on Smart Eating Habits reveals the dangers and how to ditch them for good. 🛑 #HealthyLiving #TransFatFree #NutritionMatters

[boneless-mika]

Why does this research based podcast, that has made several episodes on trans people, think the correct word is “cisgendered”??

[genderqueerdykes]

can the online lesbian community please stop treating butches like we're walking strap ons.

for years now i've had to avoid the butch lesbian tag on here because 80% of the posts are people yearning about a butch's strap on, or something else about a butch fucking them. it's fine and normal and healthy to express lesbian sexuality. being attracted to butches is good and fine, and yea of course its hot when a butch wears a strap. like duh

but when all i see people talk about is our straps (never our penises, only strap), or fantasizing about how big and strong we are, or all the things we could physically do to them, how we would be their Big Strong Butch and provide for them and take care of them and make it so that they don't have to go to work... it makes me wonder if people see us as. people. or if we're just walking workhorses and sex toys.

like, are you gonna be there for your butch in a way that doesn't involve sex when they're having a bad day? are you gonna be there to listen when they discuss butchphobia? are you gonna help them bring in their groceries because they're physically disabled and can't be strong for you? are you going to defend them when they lock up in an anxiety attack while they're being misgendered? are you going to be there to reassure them that they're still butch no matter what anyone else says? are you going to be accepting when they come out as trans, genderqueer, non binary, or another gender? are you going to treat intersex butches with dignity and respect and not immediately default to misgendering us?

are you going to be there to help them domestically? are you going to be there to help drive them to work, class or shopping because they're too disabled to drive? are you going to care about them as a person if they become too disabled to have sex anymore, experience reproductive health issues, or lose interest in sex? are you going to be normal about them telling you they're asexual? are you going to focus solely on their appearance? are you going to be normal about them being fat? are you going to listen to them when they talk about their interests? are you going to be the one that cuddles them when they wake up from a PTSD nightmare drenched in sweat and addled with fear?

or are we just walking sex toys? it's bad enough that none of the online lesbian community acknowledges that some lesbians have their own penis. god forbid a biopenis shows up. rubber dicks? a-okay. flesh and blood penis? THREAT! if folks are fiending so hard for dick, why's it gotta be a dildo? you really can't accept a butch that has a penis, whether they were born with it or got bottom surgery? you want a penis on the butch soooooooooooo bad but it has to be silicone? really? you're really gonna throw all the lesbians with dicks out despite how horny you are? what's the double standard here about? is it really that hard to treat butches like people? are we really just play things that don't have feelings to the uninitiated?

this shit's a joke. treat butches better. don't be like this. we're people. we're not walking (fake) dicks.

[elumish]

How do you write friendly teasing like between friends or siblings? When I try to write it, it always comes out a bit mean

To me, there are a few key pieces:

Avoid the pain points. If it's something that someone is sensitive about or that is part of an existing marginalization, the teasing will probably come out as mean rather than friendly/familial. Teasing a fat person about not fitting in a chair, teasing a trans person about whether or not they pass, teasing someone about bad grades when they worked really hard to get good grades--all of those will come out as mean in the vast majority of cases.

Lean on inside jokes. Someone misspelling something in the group chat, or that time they got all the way over to their friend's house carrying their little sibling's backpack, or the way they refuse to eat meatballs because one time they got high and thought that they were eyeballs.

Establish reciprocal teasing. To some degree, things like teasing can become like a script--I say x, you say y, and we know that this is how it goes. It's a comfort as much as anything.

Let people take part in teasing themself. If they are part of it, it will come across as less mean, because they're clearly participants.

[tropicalscream]

i like being fat I think its cute but it does suck how being fat justs...

locks you away from so many experiences. especially if your a trans fem. so many socialization, friendships, or invites are often based on how attractive you are to other girls

& in a community focused on passing fatphobia both consciousness & not run rampant and you just get to experience maybe a 1/8th compared to everyone else and then that lack of experience just makes more ppl avoid u and it compounds so much

and no one even thinks about it if their not fat. they dont realize how hard it is until i tell them but then they immediately forget. even my friends are guilty of this

[luvrinne]

╰ tips for eating healthy ও

remember that eating healthy is based on long-terms habits, it’s about making balanced choices to nourish ur body in the best possible way

don’t skip breakfast - breakfast gives u energy to start the day and that’s why it’s the most important meal of the day. choose healthy options sush eggs, fruits and yogurt.

includes a variety of foods - be sure to include fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins and healthy fats in your daily diet. the more variety of foods you consume, the more different nutrients you will get.

control portions - pay attention to the size of the portions to avoid overeating. use smaller plates and serve suitable portions. listen to your body and eat until you feel satisfied, not until you are completely full.

limit the consumption of processed foods - highly processed foods are usually rich in trans fats, sugars and sodium, and lack essential nutrients. try to limit its consumption and opt for fresh and natural food.

drink enough water - water is essential to keep your body hydrated and for the proper functioning of all systems. replaces sugary and carbonated drinks with water to reduce the consumption of empty calories.

cooking at home - preparing your own meals gives you control over the ingredients and the way you cook. avoid eating out frequently, as restaurants usually serve large portions and contain less healthy ingredients.

reduces salt and sugar intake - many processed foods contain excessive amounts of salt and sugar. read food labels and look for healthier options with low salt and sugar content.

plan your meals - organize your meals in advance to avoid resorting to quick and unhealthy options when you are hungry. prepare healthy meals and snacks and have them on hand to avoid falling into unhealthy temptations.

chew slowly and enjoy the food - take your time to eat and chew slowly. this will help you enjoy the food, feel satisfied faster and avoid overeating.

increase the consumption of fruits and vegetables - fruits and vegetables are rich sources of vitamins, minerals and fiber. try to include a portion in each meal and as a snack between meals.

remember there are no tricks for a healthy diet. all you need is desire and will 🫶🏻

@ luvrinne

[rainrot4me]

any thoughts of ftm tim. rain please. ftm tim with a fat t-dick in my mouth. WHO SAID THAT!

GIVE IT TO ME GIVE IT TO ME I AM DROOLING EVERYWHERE PUT THAT T-DICK IN MY MOUTHHHHHHHHHHHH. this is about to be incredibly thirsty.

As I type this, I am working on a Masky + Jeff t-dick headcannon thing so keep an eye out :)

── .✦

Little afab Tim was the classic “messy kid that you can’t tell if it’s a boy or girl at first glance” appearance. Shaggy haircut, scraped-up knees, always coming home muddy and bruised because he just needed to burn off that restless boy-energy.

Was nerdy as hell—obsessed with horror movies, superhero flicks, comics, anything violent and grotesque because it let him live out fantasies of being the tough, strong hero, even if everyone around him kept telling him he was supposed to be a “nice girl.” Always compared himself to the big strong main character that always saved the day.

Loved to act out cop and robber or cowboy and rebel roles with friends—a plastic knife tucked in his belt, running around yelling “I’m the bad guy!” and it just felt right, like the aggression belonged to him, and no one could tell him to sit still or be soft.

Had a couple neighborhood boys he hung around who accepted him as one of the guys, which helped him survive, but still went home to parents who forced him to wear skirts for family photos. That made him burn with shame.

When he got older, he fell into video cameras and storytelling—documenting everything, creating worlds where he could be the character he wished he was. Masky, in a sense, was the grown-up evolution of those childhood roleplays: an identity that could be harsh, unbreakable, male.

Teen Tim would put on sports bras under giant hoodies, trying to flatten his chest while avoiding locker rooms, telling everyone “I’m just shy,” but really wanting to disappear. If anyone feminized him in childhood, it felt like being punched in the gut—but he didn’t have language for it. He only knew he hated hearing “young lady.”

He’d definitely draw himself as a boy in school art projects. Comic heroes, video game characters, action dudes—he’d design them to look like him, but male, an escape hatch.

As any media and internet rampant child does, Tim found transitioning and symbolic metaphors for such in film. The first real time learning what it meant to be trans was a film festival entry that gave a really poetic presentation on transitioning and the elements of that. He dove deeper, looking up buzz words and researching what a binder was—and it kind of all went from there.

There’s something heartbreakingly real about Tim using Masky to finally live out the fantasy of being strong, unstoppable, respected as a man—even if it came at the cost of everything else.

Tim, by the time Marble Hornets starts, is probably only recently living openly as a trans man. He’s legally changed his name, maybe started low-dose T, maybe hasn’t even gotten top surgery yet—or decides not to get it at all—depends on how he feels.

He still feels raw and exposed, especially on camera. He’ll check angles obsessively so nobody catches sight of binder lines or any slip-ups. Those “behind the scenes” takes where he’s adjusting his hoodie? That’s him making sure nothing is showing.

The anxiety is off the charts: not just because of the Operator, but because he’s still working out how to be seen as Tim. Correcting people on pronouns, bracing for slips, constantly hyperaware of his voice, his shoulders, the way he takes up space on the crew.

Alex and Brian (Hoodie) respect him, and Masky becomes a tool to reclaim his masculinity. He makes Masky hyper-masculine on purpose: broad, terrifying, unstoppable. In the mask, he doesn’t worry about being read as “not man enough”—he is a man, no questions.

During the stress of the Operator, that old dysphoria flares. He feels like his body is betraying him again, that he’s too fragile, too easy to break. So he pushes harder—taking risks, doing dangerous stunts, trying to prove he’s strong enough.

Physical dysphoria + mental decay go hand in hand. The constant Operator interference makes him doubt his reality, and he hyper-fixates on his body: “Why do I still feel like a scared little kid?”

The Operator, in a twisted way, makes him more determined to be Tim. If he dies, he wants to die as Tim, no one else. That fear fuels him to correct people sharply if they misgender him, even as the tapes keep rolling and the world collapses.

If you look at his movements during the series—hunched, guarded, tense—it’s partly the dysphoria talking. He’s so aware of how every part of him is being recorded, judged, preserved on film.

There’s also a deep resentment. He’s just started to live his life as himself, to be free, and now this monstrous creature is tearing it away. There’s a special kind of rage there, one that burns through every Masky appearance.

Tim grows up with this sense that “being a man” means being big, being loud, being dangerous. When he’s younger, people treat him like a “tomboy,” calling him “feisty” or “wild,” but it never feels right. It feels like they’re letting him be “like a boy,” but not a boy. That cuts deep—so by the time he transitions, he’s determined to go all the way.

In his head, real men are fearless, aggressive, capable of hurting if they have to, and respected because they can instill fear.

So once the Operator takes him and he becomes a proxy, that deep-seated idea comes roaring forward. Masky is built on it: a brutal, cold, unstoppable force. When Tim kills or threatens or screams at victims, it’s cathartic—he feels powerful, like no one could ever misgender him again.

He channels every drop of dysphoria-fueled rage into becoming someone terrifying, because if you fear him, you can’t question him.

It goes from survival to performance: hyper-masculine, toxic, even, but it makes him feel safe. Killing is twistedly validating. It’s the ultimate declaration that he is a man—strong enough to protect himself, violent enough to protect what’s his, and ruthless enough that no one will ever see “weak” again.

There’s an almost childish logic behind it, like he’s still that kid trying to prove he belongs in the boys’ club—except now the stakes are bodies and blood.

At night, maybe he lays awake and wonders if he’s overcompensating, but the next day, he’ll pull the mask on and stomp those doubts out. Because in the mansion, in the field, in the kill, he is Tim. He is a man. No one can argue that. No matter how loud is head is to tell him otherwise.

꩜ .ᐟ

[smarteatinghabits]

#FoodAdditives #HealthRisks #AvoidThese #SmartEating #NutritionTips #HealthyLiving #CleanEating #WellnessJourney

[yukiqueer]

— yukiqueer.

yukiqueer is a blankqueer label that is separate from radqueer, but shares many similar beliefs. yukiqueer focuses on taking complex things by a case-by-case basis, and using intelligence to deduce one’s own support or disdain.

the emoji codes for yukiqueer are 🌨️🌈 / ❄️🌈 / ☃️🌈. it can also be written as snowqueer, ゆきqueer, or 雪queer.

specific beliefs are under the cut.

yukiqueer is in favor of:

— shipping and fiction. all works between fictional characters have a right to exist. an individual who is yukiqueer does not need to identify with the proship label to have this belief. — media literacy & critical thinking. analyze how media treats its taboo topics, and use your intelligence to know whether or not this is trying to change your views. know propaganda when you come across it. — kink, fetish, and other sexual fantasies. as long as all involved parties can and are consenting, any sexual fantasy can be brought to life. — “contradictory” labels. afab transfems, lesboys and gaybians, and all other labels that people say don’t work together should be allowed. — personal definition of labels. only you can define what being bisexual, or pansexual, or anything else is in terms of your own identity. — trans-ID for almost all facets of life. your physical body is just a vessel, and the way you identify is more important than that. — consent for all relationships. you choose what is best for you. — landback for indigenous peoples. indigenous people have a right to ownership of their land, but not to kick all non-natives off of it. — obsessive, grooming, or otherwise abusive relationships with consent from both parties. as long as all involved people have given the okay, what others do in their relationship is up to them and them alone to decide. — selfshipping. this applies to all sharing stances as well — a yumeshipping relationship is as valid as a relationship between non-fictional people, as long as the yumeshipper wants it to be so. — women’s rights. women, both trans and cis, have the right to equality with men. — rights for people of color. racism is backwards and narrow-minded, and has no place in an intelligent society. — full body autonomy. with your own body, you are in full control. abortions, tattoos, hormone therapy, self-harm — all are allowed, and not stigmatized or villainized. — fat and disabled liberation. all people with larger bodies or witn disabilities deserve proper access to the same opportunities and treatment as their thin and/or able-bodied counterparts. — gender non-conformity. no person has to conform to a gender role unless they choose to. a self-identified man, regardless of cis or trans standing, can dress feminine, and the same goes for women and non-binary people.

— otherkin/alterhumanity/IRL/delusional attachment. only we are allowed to choose how we identify, and if the human body you have does not fit you, perhaps another form is better. — romanticization of stigmatized things. you can romanticize or glorify your trauma, or your “bad” habits, or other villainized/taboo things. — proper tags/warnings on all public content. some may not be okay with the same things as you, and it’s important to properly warn people of what your public content contains so those who aren’t okay with it can avoid the upset, and those who are interested can more effectively seek out such content. — informed self-diagnosis. getting a “proper” diagnosis can be extremely difficult, and is out of reach for many. the medical system as it is now is extremely bigoted, and pursuit of diagnosis can be far too expensive even for those with more privilege. as such, intelligent people can recognize and treat a self-diagnosis backed up by information and knowledge as validly as they would an official one. — consanguineous relationships. people who are related can be in a relationship as long as both are consenting and they are informed on the possible risks of having children with one another (with the second rule not applying to couples/polycules unable to have children for whatever reason, or those who are not related by blood but are adopted/transfamily/et cetera). — sex work. sex workers deserve respect and support for what they do, including those who post NSFW content online as their income. inversely, those who pay for sex work should not be shunned either, as long as the relationship between worker and client is not harmful. — medically unrecognized disorders/syndromes. the medical world is not the end-all be-all of neurological knowledge, and if one has found a medically unrecognized term that fits the symptoms they live with, the term is just as valid as any medically recognized one. — all religious beliefs*. *provided these beliefs do not encroach on the rights of others not following said religion. all religions and faiths have a right to exist. an intelligent person can hate a specific religion for any reason, provided their hatred does not manifest publicly and is not used as a shield to treat members of that religion poorly. — sexual education for all ages. all people, regardless of age, should be able to know their body and to know only they have the rights to it. with this in mind, youth should receive sex ed with depth relative to their age — meaning that, for example, high schoolers would receive more in-depth sexual education than middle schoolers.

yukiqueer has a neutral stance on:

— the radqueer label and community. yukiqueer is not inherently supportive of or opposed to those who are radqueer, and in intelligent society it is most sensible to take each individual on a case-by-cade basis. individuals who are yukiqueer may choose to support radqueer, or may be against it. — real person fiction/selfshipping with real people/NSFW fiction of real people. this goes beyond the limits of fictional characters, and as such, is a highly debated one. therefore, individuals who are yukiqueer may choose their own comfort with this concept, as long as they do not try to force their beliefs on others. — anti- and pro-contact stances. individuals who are yukiqueer can choose whether or not they support either of these staunch beliefs in favor of or against contact for the “big 3” paraphilias. — the reclaiming of slurs. yukiqueer individuals can decide if they want to use and reclaim slurs.

yukiqueer has a complex stance on:

— romantic/sexual contact between adults and minors. the relationship is okay if: - it follows romeo and juliet laws (meaning the age gap is 3 or fewer years between parties) - it is a relationship between headmates - both are chronological adults and one is transage OtY - both are chronological minors (following romeo & juliet laws) and one is transage YtO — romantic/sexual contact between humans and animals. the relationship is okay if: - it is a relationship between headmates - both are human and one is transspecies/otherkin/therian — romantic/sexual contact between living beings and corpses. the relationship is okay if: - it is a relationship between headmates - the corpse gave consent prior to death - both are living and one is transdead/transcorpse/anything in that vein.

yukiqueer is opposed to:

— harassment of any kind. if an individual holds beliefs you do not share, an intelligent individual should choose to either ask open-minded, polite questions about the other person’s beliefs, or simply curate their space and remove themselves from contact with the other person. it is never okay to harass someone. — bigotry in any form. racism, queerphobia, sexism, and anything else have no place in an intelligent society. — the creation, distribution, or possession of CSEM/CSAM. no child should be exploited for sexual content. — nazism of any kind, including holocaust denial or inversion. the holocaust was a genocide specifically targeted towards jewish people. while other groups such as queer and romani people were also targeted, one must know that nazis are against jewish people as their main point. a jewish person cannot be a nazi. — misogyny and transmisogyny. women are not inherently lesser than men in any way, and trans women are women. trans women are not a “threat” to cis women. — misandry and transmisandry. men are not inherently lesser than women in any way, and trans men are men. men are not all abusers, and trans men are not “basically women” nor are they “transitioning into privilege.” — transhateful labels, such as transnazi or transbigot. even with no intent to transition, using the transid label in terms of saying you identify with a crueler mindset does not fit with the beliefs of yukiqueer. if you are transbigot or transnazi, you will be treated like a bigot or a nazi and that is not welcome here. — forced recovery. this falls under violation of bodily autonomy — only you can decide if you want to recover from an eating disorder, or an addiction, or anything similar. forcing someone else to recover does not fit the beliefs of yukiqueer. — intersex genital mutilation and forced hrt for intersex individuals. this is a traumatizing violation of bodily autonomy and has no place in intelligent society. no intersex person should be forced to try to appear perisex.

yukiqueer was created for its coiner as it did not agree with all of the beliefs of radqueer, and it wanted to make a label focused on intelligence, open-mindedness, and bodily freedom.

anyone who shares these beliefs can identify with yukiqueer. if you have questions or would like to share your experience with this label or any other blankqueer label, the coiner’s inbox is open.

[fifty-fired-fay]

Trust me. I'm not mad, I understand where you come from.

I'm transfem and "TMA". I've been in queer spaces online for about 10ish years (starting when I was 11 or 12). I've seen the discourse over bi's in straight passing relationships, aces and transfems. Kink, dyke slur, faggot slur, even queer as a term for the lgbtqia++ community, I've seen them all have their turn in the spotlight. I've seen the community try and pit bi's and pans against each other, calling the other transphobic and alike. I know the hate that black people (especially black queers), intersex, and non-binary communities get from people that should be their allies within the general queer community.

I know what it is like for "baby" queers. To have a sense of community for the first time. naturally you want to protect that. That's perfectly understandable. I would be lying to say that I wasn't myself a part of it when I was younger. On reddit, discovering terms for the first time and believing the first person who tells you their definition. I found a community that enforces that definition. I can tell you from experience, the communities that police definitions ALWAYS fails and falls apart. It especially hurts when your only link to the queer community is online. They always alienate a valuable part of our community from your circles. Some may never trust you again, there's nothing you can do about that (not to say you shouldn't make amends). Not to mention the real hurt and loss of self-understanding rigid definitions cause YOU.

So, please believe me when I say, TME/TMA is not a definition you should rely on to define communities. Overly simplistic and rigid definitions are things we NEED to avoid at all costs (only a cis deals in absolutes lol). There will always be exceptions to binaries. non-binary, intersex, or even having features often seen on the other sex (height, muscle mass, fat distribution, etc). These people often experience what we might call transmisogyny. Does a dyke with big muscles and tall figure feel any less invalidated when they are suspected of being trans in a bathroom when they're not? Does an intersex woman feel any less humiliated when they are bullied for having a bulge? Not to mention how black women are so often automatically seen as trans for not fitting the white beauty standard!

Some people (although I won't say all) have taken TMA to being the "most oppressed identity imaginable and the lowest class on the social hierarchy". Sorry to be blunt, no it isn't. You don't need to fear the police like a black person just because your TMA. Your money and basic rights aren't taken and given to routinely abusive parties on mass because the state thinks you don't deserve it/can't handle it like a disabled person.

I especially hate it when TME/TMA debates use transfem murders as a "gotcha". Those are BLACK transfems. killed because they are BLACK and trans. When a white trans person is killed, guess what? the national news reports on it. When it's a black person? silence.... They aren't your statistic, they're not your "gotcha". White people using black people as a political pawn in debates has a very long and unfortunate history, it's not a Wikipedia article don't contribute to it.

To be fair do I think transfems have it worst when only their queer identity is taken into account? sure! Is it productive to say? maybe. Don't only center yourself in these discussions. If a transmasc says "hey i relate!", don't tell them to make their own posts. It's just an asshole move. Especially don't single out people within vulnerable communities. It always ends with harassment or worse.

Yes, there are "TME" people who are assholes and act in the ways you describe. They are the minority. Always have, Always will. NEVER use a few members of a community to represent the whole. Terfs and other fascists use this tactic against everyone they don't like all the time. (especially us) Don't be like them!

Look, I know how hard it is to get out of these communities, to grow beyond this way of thinking. Some communities you might have made yourself. Ngl, it hurts alot at first, but trust me when I say this IF SOMEONE HARASSES YOU FOR LEAVING, THEY WERE NEVER YOU FRIEND or at least not a friend you want to have your back. (genuinely that's like cult shit and I was born into mormanism)

love all your trans brothers, sisters, and other siblings. it's the lgbT for a reason. all for one, one for all !

[hydroj1ns]

manga editor goes to the office commando?!

akaashi keiji forgets his underwear

cw: literally just ogling no sex, trans!akaashi

it’s rare that akaashi has to go to work in person. he’s usually only called in when there are particularly important company meetings.

when he does attend, he makes sure to wear his best suit and tie. however, when he gets ready that morning, he notices that it’s more difficult to squeeze into his slacks. curse that osamu, always giving him freebies when he goes to onigiri miya.

he examines his backside in the mirror, and decides that the way the fabric clings onto his thighs and ass is perfectly appropriate for the office. i mean, he’s not showing any skin, and it’s not entirely his fault that he’s grown out of this two-piece. besides, the suppleness of his lower half isn’t nearly attractive to receive any attention, or so he believes.

by the time he’s on the train and the doors have already closed, he feels an uncomfortable chafing against his crotch. shit. did i really leave the house with no underwear? with one hand clinging to an overhead handle and the other gripping his briefcase, he hopes no one notices his lack of undergarments. his trousers are thick enough, right?

wrong. perverts on the train aren’t uncommon, and a pretty boy like akaashi, well, he’s going to get ogled. it doesn’t take much analyzing to figure out that this spectacled salary man is going commando to work today. all the raven-haired man can do is stare down at his loafers to avoid eye contact as strangers smirk at the way the slim-fit pants frame his cameltoe perfectly. he spends the rest of the ride with a blush that goes up to his ears and an amplified throbbing in his nether region.

it’s after the meeting that akaashi hears his name called by one of his fellow editors, asking for his help to review a recently-submitted manuscript. he decides he has some time to spare, so he heads over to his coworker. propping his hand on the desk, he leans over the other man’s shoulder to quickly scan the contents on the screen.

keiji is unaware of how good he smells, his sweet scent wafting over the other editor’s shoulder. he’s also unaware of how the entire office staff are taking unsubtle peeks at his back profile. and for good reason too. the way the black fabric of his pants are taut over his ass, perfectly complimenting its shapeliness, is impossible not to stare at. and not to mention the slight slight outline of his cunt. some of those in closer cubicles are blessed with being able to lower their heads to get a better view of it, and by god, it was worth it. it’s so lewd, seeing the puffy lips of his pussy through the thin cotton. was he even wearing anything underneath? the rest of his coworkers can only imagine bending him over a desk and fucking him hard and raw as his moans fill the whole building.

when he unconsciously shifts his weight from leg to leg, everyone in the office flinches, thinking that he’s about to turn, but when he doesn’t, they go straight back to staring.

when akaashi is done reviewing the document, he returns to his work area to pack up his belongings and go home.

until his deskmate “accidentally” knocks over a huge stack of papers. and of course, like the good samaritan he is, he helps pick them up. with so many documents, it’s a good ten minutes of akaashi bent over, looking ripe for the taking. however, it’s an unspoken rule that no one can make a move on keiji. but it’s also an unspoken rule to regularly drop things in his path just to see his fat ass in the air and for some extra fap material.

today was an extraordinary day for the office. it had been around a month since keiji had come in, and his fuller frame was surprising, but much appreciated. the way he filled out his clothes had his coworkers drooling, not to mention their first look at his (clothed) pussy.

they couldn’t wait for the next time akaashi came to work.