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Real Friends - When You Were Here
#music#lyrics#my edit#fuckloveihavemusic#song lyrics#lyric edit#real friends#when you were here#real friends band#when you were here lyrics#Real friends lyrics#Blue hour#i wish i could#i wish#i wish I could let go#Let go#Blame#blame someone else#punk rock#rock
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DELTARUNE CH 4 SPOILERS!


Kris has had enough of you.
#my art#digital art#Deltarune#Deltarune chapter 4 spoilers#deltarune spoilers#kris deltarune#kris dreemurr#Hi guys I’m insane#Chapter 4 making my brain run marathons#They could never make me hate you Kris Dreemurr#Kris when we aren’t in control is so heartbreaking to me#These small moments of their true personality shining out when they’re finally not under someone else’s influence#It really hits#Please god someone give them peace#They want to be rid of us so bad#And I can’t even blame them
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Conceal, don't feel, don't let it show.
[First] Prev <–-> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangji#lan xichen#You can practically hear LXC's emotions vacuum sealing back into his body when LWJ tells him about wanting to bring someone back to Gusu.#This *is* a confession of both having feelings for someone else and also and admittance of terror at such feelings.#And honestly - can you blame LXC? Knowing how to respond to people in emotional turmoil like this is a skill that few manage to master.#There is a part of him that is so genuinely happy that his brother has fallen for someone!#And there is a part that acknowledges that LWJ needs to come to his own conclusions about this all.#Hence the extremely restrained reactions! He is so in his brother's corner that he's accidently clipped through the wall into another room.#Sadly that's how it goes sometimes...We want to be there for people in the best way. We give them space and hope for the best.#But space can leave someone isolated and alone. It heals some emotions but it makes others fester.#The fact that LWJ is at the point he's open about what he's feeling (even a little bit) means that it's a Big Deal.#LCX is just as bad with his own emotions. He only knows how to keep things in his own heart down.#There isn't anything he could have said. There *were* better things to say but does he have the capacity? No.
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DAREDEVIL: BORN AGAIN | 1.09
You couldn't call me?
#Daredevil Born Again#Karedevil#Karen Page#Matt Murdock#ddba spoilers#Daredeviledit#Daredevil Spoilers#Not Revolution#GIF set#Mine#Shippers gonna ship#I find it really hard to express why I like this so much and yet STILL want Kastle#It's something about how Matt relaxes around her#He's so guarded 99% of the time. And he pushed her away HARD many MANY times over the years for whatever BS reason he could think of#and they've finally gotten to a place (and it's a year later than would have been better for everyone) where this is permanent.#This is safe. This is home. They're stuck with each other.#And I love the contrast between Matt anxiously trying to convince Kristen and his gf that there's a threat and he has to go DO STUFF and#how different the reaction is when he says the same things (albeit with more detail) to Frank and Karen. It's night and day.#He's only a real person with people who know his secret identity.#There's something delicious about a phone call being where Matt's stuck. As if he doesn't have a history of dodging her calls. And I get#that he would have welcomed calls now - or in the last year - but there are so many scenes were poor karen is just getting shutdown by Matt#and Foggy. Calls unanswered or ended quickly. Because they have other stuff going on and lying to her is hard so it's easier not to pick up#And then you have Frank who is like... a fugitive? A hermit basically. Someone off the grid. Living in a basement. Who has an active cell#plan and has made sure Karen has his number in case she needs it. And he clearly answers when she rings. And there's no one else ringing.#So it's basically a phone - maybe specifically so Karen can reach out.#AND I LOVE THE FRAMING OF THIS SHOT. I love how close Matt and Karen are sitting. I love that Frank is pretending to ignore them.#Coz there's no way he's okay with how close they are. But he's not going to make it weird because he's a good friend to Karen.#Maybe I should blame Karen for me shipping every ship that involves Karen.
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It is really weird when people act like the Bruce in the Search for Ray Palmer/Countdown was what Jason wanted. The simplest interpretation is that he wanted his own Judy: the woman who killed the serial killer (the dumpster slasher) who murdered her sister and said there was no jury that would convict her. (They would really have to have make an effort to rig that jury to prevent jury nullification). Judy didn't become a serial killer or a vigilante or do any of that other stuff. She killed her sister's killer and that's it, that's enough. Jason agreed with her at the time, to Bruce, so Bruce knew Jason supported vengeance killings of serial killers in name of family.
Yes!!!
Judy Koslovsky mention my love let's goooo
Tbh, I could actually picture Bruce going out of his way to prevent jury nullification and get her for entrapment (even though honestly that's a stretch) and premeditated murder, just because he can and to remain in control/hold onto his status quo sorry, his morals-but maybe that's just me being a hater idk. I love the idea of her as some kind of parasocial mentor for Jason, she has no idea he exists and meanwhile he views her as someone who taught him such a valuable lesson...
Also worth noting that not only did Judy open the door for Jason to consider that it's possible to just kill one person to avenge your family, that it's feasible, that it's fair- I fear we forgot far too easily about Consequences, right after The Diplomat's Son, a story in which Bruce accidentally causes te death of Jose Garzonas (Felipe Garzonas' father) after he tries to kill Batman and Robin to avenge his son. Bruce puts the blame on Jason (despite, I repeat, being the one to accidentally cause Jose's death) and tells him, straight up, explicitly, that it's only natural for a father to be ready to kill to avenge his child. This is the issue right before A Death in the Family. Obviously it makes sense that, coming back to life to find out he wasn't avenged, Jason would interpret this as "being abandoned as his father's child", as Bruce failing him as a father. Of course he'd want and expect it- it's what he was taught to expect, what he was taught is owed to him. A kid like Jason, with such abandonment issues and such a deep yearning to be loved, being told "this is the proof of parental/familial love" and then having it withheld from him-how else should he interpret it?
What else should he want?
Jason didn't want a mass-murdering tyrant who doesn't believe people can change; Jason wanted a father, because Bruce taught him that's what a father does, and Judy taught him that it was possible.
#dc#dc comics#“but bruce couldn't do it without losing/betraying himself” L + ratio#judy did it#also bruce's killed plenty of people and he can handle it just right#what he can't handle is accepting/acknowledging responsibility for kt#*it#as long as it looks like an accident or he has someone else to blame including the victim#he's okay with it#he can't handle losing control#his rigid ways of thinking require the defense of the status quo#tbf though i've been reading pretty exclusively some of the worst versions of batman 🤷#anti batman#anti bruce wayne#jason todd#red hood#ask#ask answered
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just thinking about how binghe had no idea that without-a-cure even had a cure and he spent all his years as a disciple thinking his shizun would at best be disabled for the rest of his life and at worst die a slow and painful death, and it was to save him.
#svsss from binghe's pov would be heartbreaking#stagnating qi is described as ''a profoundly terrifying problem'' to cultivators#and yue qingyuan and mu qingfang were devastated and started blaming themselves for it#shen yuan's goofy personality makes it easy to forget that everyone else has no idea about these magical cures and future events#and that theyre seriously worried about him and feel guilt for not being able to stop it#binghe must have felt so much guilt too#especially with the way he was raised#the way its set up is so tragic too#binghe says that that moment was the first time someone has ever believed in him like that#and then immediately sqq gets badly wounded with an incurable poison#it must have fed into dark-binghe'a beliefs that he destroys everything he touches too#argh sad hours#i just love bingqiu angst<3#bingqiu#svsss#shen qingqiu#luo binghe#svsss angst#scum villian’s self saving system#scum villain
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"wow you look just like [person whose death you're still mourning]!! well, when he was [alive and healthy] i mean."
#maybe the reason zack grew his hair out was so that people would stop mistaking him for someone else.#at least then if it happened again he could just blame it on the buster sword..........#ffvii#ever crisis#zack fair#angeal hewley#my art <3#first soldier is going to rewire my brain. just a little bit maybe.
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opal is me every time adam parrish exists in a scene
#i love him so much and so fiercely i get this#i think there was a line about how he assigns blame or credit to someone else in the matters of money#and didn’t understand how rich people could be so cavalier about money#and i got violently thrown back in time when i joined a school full of rich kids for my last two years of high school bc they offered-#me the subjects i wanted to take to pursue the career i was going for#and yesterday it struck me just how much of an adam parrish i was#his insecurities#him not fitting in#him getting adopted by one friend (gansey. my best friend from high school who took me in ADORES gansey…)#and his other friend being a brutally honest sarcastic smartass (our third friend)#like man we really were the raven boys of our school#also the bisexuality…#fortunately i’ve patched things with my mother but it was NOT a good time for me then either#like my god i don’t think ive seen myself in a character like this before#adam parrish#how is adam not a taurus#thoughts
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Can someone explain what’s going on with the whole English VA Genshin Impact drama to me like I’m five bc I’m so. Confused. Everyone is super angry at Paimon’s VA for some reason, I thought they were on strike bc of super unfair working conditions—and isn’t that supposed to be like. A good thing? For them to speak out about wanting to be treated fairly? I know a lot of English Genshin VAs went on strike due to the whole AI thing which is also super fair I’d do the same thing
#Apparently there was drama with Kinich’s VA?#So they recast him without the original VA’s permission or smth#And the new VA they brought in is from Japan so the strike doesn’t affect him since he’s with a different studio?#And Paimon’s VA attacked him or smth?#I get them being upset about the original VA being replaced without his consent that’s valid#But yeah blaming it on someone else is…hmm.#Genshin Impact#Shima speaks#I saw a reel on IG with tons of comments of people wanting Paimon’s VA to get recast#As well as literally every other Genshin VA on strike#And I’m like dude no why?? They don’t want their voices to be used to train AI why is that a bad thing?#People are so stupid lmao
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it mattered because when my brother asked me what if this is the happiest you'll ever be? the best you'll ever get? the thing i felt was fear, not peace. everybody thought you were so perfect for me. even i thought you were "helping me grow". i had to challenge every internal clock. make myself more thoughtful, more kind, more beautiful.
i told my therapist it was good because i like the changes i made and there's something so strong about saying i did that. the problem is that i can like the difference all i want, but i changed for you. something akin to getting your name tattooed, all my progress is stamped with fuck you.
it was the happiest i'd ever been and also the best i'd ever gotten. i would still get in the car and think what the fuck just happened.
#warm up#writeblr#i spent a lot of time picturing our future#how funny to think: in each version of our future#i was never myself#i was someone smarter kinder braver#better adept.#who could navigate the way you shouted and got angry at small things and never fucking believed the best of me#i would never be needy and you'd never get tired of me#people usually talk about how we picture people as being “fixable”. but i assumed i was the problem. my idyllic picture wasn't of you.#it was a version of me that wasn't ill. that needed no extra help. that could be your wife and happy#the fact i wasn't happy was because there is something so wrong inside me. it's always been that way. i convinced myself:#if i stay i can change. if i stay i can make it worth it. i can apologize and fix this. and make us both okay.#for the last year i've been thinking about how you blamed our whole breakup on me. how it was my fault for whatever thing.#and i agreed with you. because of course i did. you'd trained me to believe everything was my fault . that you wanted to love me and i made#it far too hard. that i was always finding ways to ''set you off'.#a few days ago while i was doing something else#i realized that while i was in crisis you told me to fuck off and find someone else to get help. and you never fucking apologized .#you said i made you do that because i wasn't being sensible. i had been crying too hard to speak clearly.#you said: you're doing this to manipulate me.#you forgave yourself for that. i had to forgive you without apology. you said you were right to react that way. and then you were SO#SO annoyed. any time i said: i feel like you aren't nice to me. it is hard to trust that you love me.#i don't think about you that much anymore. but these days when i do: all i can think is that im not sure u ever really understood kindness#you were the cruelest to the people closest to you. and most of the time. that meant it fell to me.
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12 Shredder: puts Karai in a situation that gets her mutated
12 Shredder: Why would Splinter do this?
LEGIT:

Even Tiger Claw was like, "Ayo, u sure about this?" But Shredder really thought initiating a fight in the same room where someone is hanging from a rope for dear life wouldn't have any unintended consequences😭
#answering your asks#i almost launched myself into a tirade about how genuis the writing there was to show how shredder will go to any length to shift the blame#i /might/ do that another day idk—it wouldn't be anything that someone else hasn't already spoken at length about tho lol#tmnt#teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt 2012#tmnt 2k12#tmnt shredder#tmnt karai#meme#memes#eric andre#2012 shredder#2012 karai#oroku saki#karai#i never know what last name to give her in the tags lol
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hmmm. thinking about how veilguard seems to subscribe more to the more traditional "video game as personal power fulfillment fantasy of heroism" than any other dragon age game, except perhaps origins, though origins does it more artfully.
#da2 certainly is not a power fulfillment fantasy#and inquisition seems like it could be on the surface#but under that surface is the horror of how power corrupts#and rots you from the inside and steals everything from you even yourself#maybe thats not true for a trevelyan#but inquisition at least has the opportunity to be played as either#depending on how the world treats your character as someone they are comfortable with having power#or not#which is a commentary in itself#origins idk#it has never stuck with me the way the other 2 games did so someone else will have to do that analysis#but veilguard is sooooooo hero fantasy fulfillment in comparison#you win in the end#nothing bad ever really happens to you at all#you tell everyone what to do and they listen and love you for it#no one blames you for anything ever#you are always right#you save the day!#compare that to leandra telling hawke their baby brother/sisters gruesome death is their fault#like JHERGJKHERGKJHREG#anyway its not necessarily a bad thing#but its a very... traditional#video game narrative path#that i dont think most of us were expecting or interested in#from a franchise who has deconstructed such things in the past#veilguard critical#mine
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no cause i think one of the reasons any life series ship with grian is automatically so ironically stingingly tragic is that it's /his game/.
like putting aside the watchers for a second, grian created the life series. this is /his/ death game, his circus his monkeys. sure, when the person closest to him inevitably dies some gruesome death at his own hands, the pain in his chest still makes him want to jump off a cliff, run face first into a warden, fall a couple hundred blocks and splat, but...
it's still. /his game/.
when other players lose their teammate, it's tragic for them because their friend got ripped from them in an instant and there's nothing they can do. when grian loses someone close to him, it's all /his fault./ he made this game, he wrote the code, he said "if this then that if player gets ripped to shreds in a cactus pit, falls off a bridge in the sky, blows up in our own tower, then they die".
he just. never thinks he's gonna be the one to do it.
he knows it's just a game, he knows he can just hop back on hermitcraft and see his friends alive and well and not shredded splatted blown to pieces.
he just.
his game. his friends. his hands.
gets him every time.
#c's not cc's#orbviously imo#hi yes this is creative writing im not actually blaming grian for playing a game#this was written kind of from his perspective. at least at the end. a bit. if that makes any sense#also i know i said “he wrote the code” and “log on hermitcraft” let me restate#CEES NOT CEECEES#characters not content creators#i had a really hard time getting my idea into words mainly cause i forgot my first idea and had a second one halfway through#so#if it feels. idk weird#probably why#if someone else wants to make this make sense feel free#oh yeah i should probably. tag this huh#ew#sjhgsdg#grian#grian hermitcraft#hermitcraft#hermitcraft grian#hermitblr#life series#life series smp#life smp#trafficblr#traffic life#the life series#third life#life series spoilers#i mean. i fucken guess#tags tags tags
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it’s always so crazy to me how much weight is put on John and Paul’s romantic relationships and how they affect the Beatles, not Ringo or George’s.
I feel like it’s always “John fell in love with Yoko”, “Paul fell in love with Linda” and that’s why the band fell apart. Which - aside from being absolutely crazy conclusions that lack the nuance of, y’know, acknowledging Ringo and George (and also the whole host of other problems the band had) - is so fascinating to me because what do you mean it all hinged on John and Paul being together? What do you mean the band was absolutely peachy when Ringo or George were in love but as soon as something serious drives a wedge between John and Paul it’s all over?
There’s something in stating they found other people so they couldn’t be together that implies such a toxic codependency but also an insane jealousy of anything that takes the other’s attention away. Point is I think their devotion to each other made the breakup worse.
#and like obv yes the beatles existing hinges on any given members desire to keep participating#like any of them couldve walked away for any reason and that wouldve dissolved the group#but like talking strictly in reporting and also like beatles meta i see abt their breakup#i just find it fascinating how important paul/linda and john/yoko r seen compared to george/paittie or ringo/maureen#and i dont think its wrong for happening bc dang. those gay bitches jealous#but thats my point like#i feel that a lot of ‘why did the beatles break up?’ will be hasty to end the conversation at ‘its bc they fell in love’#no!!#bc they’ve BEEN in love#its because neither paul or john could handle someone else other than eachother being the most important person in their life#this post may just be a roundabout way of saying stop blaming yoko bc john and paul’s jealousy is at the heart of the conflict#which im not saying any of you hot ppl on tumblr dot com r doing#but others are and it annoys the shit out of me bc literally#those gay bitches jealous#the beatles#john lennon#paul mccartney#john and paul#mclennon#<- to the enlightened
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opened tiktok (mistake number one, i know) and immediately saw someone saying that Thomas Hutter subverts the "disbelieving husband" trope which... listen i love a thoroughly pathetic mess of a man myself and i get that Ellen's other option is a 400yo evil corpse, but can we please not give him credit for things he didn't do?..
the literal inciting incident of the story is that Thomas DOESN'T listen to Ellen. he doesn't believe her. she tells him that she's got a bad feeling about this trip, begs him not to go, tells him about her nightmare - and what does he do? he calls it a childish fantasy, tells her to stop worrying, and implies that she would benefit from talking to a doctor. saying shit softly doesn't make it any less dismissive or insulting, like i'm sorry but this is peak Disbelieving Husband in a Horror Movie behaviour. he only changed his mind once Orlok put him through the horrors himself, which is also a perfectly standard thing for a Disbelieving Husband to do in the second act. furthermore, from the beginning of the film, he neglects Ellen's emotional needs, is uncomfortable with her abnormalities, and doesn't even really know what sort of gifts she likes - and again, these are all standard flaws for a Disbelieving Husband to exhibit. they're indicative of a disconnect between him and his wife that he continuously refuses to bridge.
caring for someone doesn't mean you can't neglect or harm them, and that applies to everyone - including Normal People like Thomas, like Harding, like Sievers, like the viewer; and that's the point of the film
#nosferatu#nosferatu (2024)#ellen hutter#thomas hutter#the thing is i LIKE thomas as a character#he is sympathetic and fun to dissect and i kinda wanna put him in a jar and shake him#but also he HAS FLAWS. MANY OF THEM. that's what makes him a well-rounded character in the first place#much of the suffering ellen endures throughout the film is a result of socially acceptable mundane forms of violence (e.g. medical)#and thomas contributes to her suffering!! despite his best intentions!!!#but many many people are uncomfortable with the idea that someone who looks and seems so soft and normal and Safe could cause pain#because that invites a deeper sort of self-reflection and perhaps even accountability#nonono. much easier to blame all the violence that ever happens on a Monster from Somewhere Else#and a soft-spoken normal human guy is not a monster right?? look how hardworking he is how could he ever cause her any pain???#let's go on a big witch hunt and destroy this inhuman freak!!! so nobody will be ever harmed again because We're Normal and Safe#and when the freaks are gone then the poor people brainwashed and groomed by these freaks will become normal again <3#lol can you tell i am an autistic transgender immigrant from these tags#anyway thomas hutter is reaping what jonathan harker sowed. and he doesn't deserve the credit
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It boggles my mind how people would go to such lengths to demonize Rook to defend Solas. Like yes Rook should have stood there and waited for Solas at the ritual site like a good boy and let him release demons into Thedas. It wasn’t like Solas messed up his own ritual because he stabbed Varric. No, it must be Rook’s fault. Like you have to always blame someone else other than Solas. It’s Rooks fault, it’s Mythal’s, its Varric’s, etc. let him get some accountability like damn. You guys treat solas like he’s not a grey character and coddle him like a baby.
#da fandom critical#solas critical#rook should have been meaner to him#he deserves it#was willing to sacrifice thousands of lives for his pride and ego#I’m a solas fan and love the dark side of him#No need to blame it on someone else to make him look better#fandom critical
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