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Challenge #04354-K336: Proof of Might
Why do you keep insisting on picking on these havenworlders? Do my students need to kick your tail a second time? -- Anon Guest
Master Twii tended to keep their dojos in the Edge Territories. It was where they were needed most. It was where one could easily find cogniscents 'proving' their strength by beating up smaller and weaker ones.
To Master Twii, it only proved that they wasted their strength on bullying. To Master Twii, people like that needed some kharmic realignment.
Of course, it couldn't be the master that taught bullies a short, sharp lesson in manners. It had to be their former victims. So they started teaching. Simple lessons. How to fall without being hurt. How to regain solid footing. How to stand to reduce being toppled.
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Who is this sassy lost child?
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangji#a-yuan#A-Yuan knows how to to utilise his big wet eyes to get treats. What a little legend.#The crowd comments about LWJ being 'daddy' and WWX being 'the mother' are a little too 'fan-service bait' for me.#So I am personally reimagining it as another layer of 'misinterpretation of a more complex situation' commentary.#I like how the different styles of interacting with children WWX an LWJ exhibit say so much about their own childhoods.#We - human beings in the real world - take two lessons from how we were parented: What we valued and what we wish we had.#LWJ leaning into indulgence is him pushing back against his own childhood of asceticism. It's something he didn't have - so he gives it.#WWX on the other hand has been *so* defined by his drive to indulge. And here he is the restrictor!#It takes a bit more to see what's going on here. The factors are not singular.#but to keep it in theme with LWJ; I'd propose it is partly his way of establishing structure when he did not have it as a child.#Both approches are a way of saying 'I didn't have this and I wish I did.'#With LWJ it's pretty obvious why...but WWX? What is at your core? What is your regret towards a lack of restriction?#Or...What benefit do you think it gives this child to learn the harsh lessons of going without?#Did it make you strong when you were a child? Do you think it is just the nature of the world and we all must learn it?#How we interact with children is such a fascinating topic to delve into our psychology and neuroses.#In a more light hearted turn of topic:#WWX confirmed to be 'person taking the car to the drive through to order one black coffee for himself' on the triangle spectrum.#LWJ is saying 'we have food at home' as he is opening his wallet ready to order for everyone.#(Technically this is comic 213 but yippee! We are in the 200's now! Thank you all so much for reading and cheering me on!)
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can someone go back and tell the person i was on november 7th everything about this past week pls? she didn't sleep for two nights or eat for almost four days lmfao she needs to know she doesn't have to put herself through that 😭
#embarrassing to admit but here we are lmaooo#this isn't being me super confident about what's coming either#this show taught me a harsh lesson in stepping away and not getting too comfortable#buuut this past week or two would have been unfathomable back in november#.txt
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#life lessons#harsh truths#life advice#self discipline#transformation#aesthetic#vintage#ontology#self reflection#life is unfair#100 days of productivity
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I love how this is the only entry on the wiki page for the Rite of Tal'oth. Both T'Pol and Spock talk about their Kahs-Wan and it seems to be an extremely common thing for Vulcan children to go through but ONLY Tuvok so far has mentioned this Tal'oth rite so it doesn't seem to be as expected of Vulcans. This jives with my impression of Tuvok's character being the most spiritual of the three main Vulcans (from what I understand the spirituality of Vulcan that we see in 'later' series is seen as highly taboo and illogical in ENT's time? EX: Tuvok was raised beliving in the katra while most Vulcans in T'Pol's time think katras are a myth). Tuvok speaks about questioning his faith in katras, he has a holoprogram that seems to take place in a monastery, he puts great stock in prayer (his wife and children say prayers for his safe return and he is sure to tell Neelix that the temple they go to is among the holiest on Vulcan), some of his favorite music is monks chanting, and he was pursuing the kolinahr in his youth - the only reason he didn't complete it being that he went through the pon farr and chose to be with T'Pel instead. To me, it would make sense if the Rite of Tal'oth was only undertaken by certain Vulcans who did so for spiritual reasons or as a personal test of some kind rather than something all Vulcans do at a certain age. Tuvok later goes into Security so it's possible he's always had an interest in the kind of life-or-death strategy that such rituals (Kahs-Wan and Tal'oth) require, even if his first time in Starfleet he's shown as a Science officer, likely at his parents' "request." Speaking of, we learn in 'Flashback' that Tuvok's parents pressured him to join Starfleet AND that Tuvok's father is heavily implied to be part of Starfleet. This, and the fact that Tuvok's father specifically was namedropped as the one who disowned him as a teenager makes me wonder whether or not Tuvok was pressured to participate in the Tal'oth ritual - perhaps as a way to prove himself Vulcan once again (after his adolescent failure). Or even as a preparatory method for Starfleet itself since his father was/is part of it. "If you can't do this, how are you going to be a Starfleet officer?" sort of deal.
#chara analysis#I just find it interesting <3#star trek#star trek voyager#Tuvok#Tuvok being put through an impromptu one man boot camp by his father to prepare for being in Starfleet is a sad and funny image to me#Tuvok: I got accepted into Starfleet Academy. <- unenthused bc he doesn't want to go but feels obligated to#Tuvok's Dad: -about to abandon him in the lava desert for four months with nothing but a knife- Oh?#<- I also wonder if this might in part inform how he trains others as seen in 'Learning Curve'#I think Tuvok is old enough for this not to be entirely the fault of his father but having extremely harsh 'lessons' normalized from a youn#age and rationalizing it as being good for the recipient (and then never having this be contradicted) might lead to his#slightly draconian approach to training others#We see that Tuvok with both B'Elanna & Harry Kim mirrors very closely the lessons that that monk taught him in 'Flashback'#so I don't think it's far fetched to assume he might unconsciously or not be carrying that sort of thing around with him#To me Tuvok seems like a guy who DEFINITELY has issues with his father#but just decided he didn't. Doesn't want to. My dad was right for all that shit he put me through actually. -eye twitch- made me stronger
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Had to replay this choice two times due to extreme cases of 'He would not fucking say that'
#mien is not just non-religious he is specifically a cynic atheist#at first I thought 3 was about lessons from solas's story so like#'hey maker is not important not giving a bunch of ego maniacs power to destroy the world is what's important' or some shit#considering that it's at the spot where stoic options usually are I thought it to be the harsh response#nope he just talks about how chantry teaching are what's important#yeah my guy the chantry that demonizes your whole race constantly#then I read that 5 was a non-believer answer and thought it would be like#'maker may be a bunch of baloney but don't let it distract you from real problems like the blight that's happening'#instead he reassured harding that she could still believe in the maker???#finally settled on 6 because at least 'let the chantry clerks worry about that' is somewhat character-fitting#didn't pick it in the first place because I thought it would just awkwardly dismiss the revelation because of how the tool tip is worded#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#veilguard#the fuck do I even tag this?#dragon age the veilguard spoilers#veilguard spoilers#dav spoilers
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Just to be clear, my ask was not meant to judge you about how you love your pups! My question stemmed from a sad thing I witnessed at the last obedience trial I worked. A woman from my training club entered her two dogs that day – one got her OTCH, and the other NQ'd in open. She came out of the trial hall furious, yanking her dog's leash, and proceeded to tell us she wasn't going to "waste" any more of her time training him, because he wasn't a winner or whatever. She brought her other dog out to visit people and sniff stuff later in the afternoon, but the dog with the NQ stayed in his crate the rest of the day, and it absolutely broke my heart. Nobody else seemed to have any problem with the idea that she would totally reject one of her dogs because of his trial performance. (And what's worse is she really did stop training him and spending time with him after that.) So anyways, whenever I hear anyone say they have a favorite, all I can think of is the sad puppy sitting in the back of a van all day because he got startled during a trial. Which obviously is very very very different than "Sparty is my roommate and Troja is our dog."
That is indeed very different.
It is also different because Troja is the succesful ribbon earning certified sheltie dog and Spart? Spart is an effective DQ. Somehow still everyone's favourite.
#also a lesson that some people in dog circles#do not like or care about dogs very much#this happens in all avenues#some just care more about achievement than relationship which#honestly i think is a sad way to live.#and then you have those that are ride or die for their dogs and will shift their hobbies to give their dog a venue to succeed in.#there was a change in competition rules recently letting officials disqualify for harsh handling even outside of the ring#it remains stunning to me that people can require so much self and imoulse control from their dogs but then be#unable to keep their own composure and not 'get' their own dog whenever they get frustrated
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i no longer enjoy having days off
#staying home isnt ideal anymore#i like it bc i get to have my baby all day lmao but#i cant handle my sister's harsh criticisms & judgements & life lessons. i cant talk to her about ANYTHING without getting lectured whether#its related to my baby or otherwise#i just wanna cry man this is too much#if i could run away with my baby i would
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i stopped riding 5 years ago due to covid. i wanted to go back to it, but i never found a barn that i liked enough and met my standards in terms of horse welfare. well good news, i found one! we’re back baby
#not dog related#the barn in marseille had deplorable turn out#it was terrible#especially for the amount of horses there#but here! lots of turn out. the horses are well taken care of#the trainer is really nice and i like her way of teaching and her way of going about the horse#i haven’t seen harsh bits in the tack room and none of the lesson horses go in additional tack#the stalls are full of straw and hay and are clean#overall impression is really solid for now#all of this may sound really basic but this was not the case at the barn i rode at in the US#and i could not live with myself if i rode at the barn in Marseille seeing the conditions the horses lived in#i’d rather not ride#i don’t need to ride#im glad i found this place
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How's Louie doing? I'm going to show you the post-session art and let you decide.
Anyways, don't go into a plan or battle alone. You will die within 2 turns. Especially when you're a caster.
AND YEAH ITS THE DEAD YAMCHA POSE. I ONLY HAVE ONE COPING MECHANISM AND ITS COMEDY
#dnd#D&D#dungons and dragons#aasimar#tw blood#i got my ass handed to me by a bunch of frogs#its a harsh lesson but its one i needed to learn#god forbid I wanted my cool moment
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If nobody hates you, you're doing something wrong
#study motivation#studyblr#quotes#study inspiration#studyspo#studying#study blog#study goals#study motivator#student#harsh studyspo#study aesthetic#studyblr community#bella_studies#school#exam season#exams#high school#study with me#study rant#study techniques#study tips#studybrl#study productivity#study plan#study progress#studyinspo#study session#Life#life lessons
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After this year, I've learned a lesson.
When someone ghosts me, I know where the door is.
When someone ghosts you, it means they aren't mature enough to have an open, honest, raw and uncomfortable conversation with you.
I've stopped blaming myself when someone ghosts me. I blame them.
Like I said in a few posts that I did; when someone can't have that open, honest, raw, uncomfortable conversation with me... I'm leaving, for good.
I know you made your bed and I made mine. By me leaving and I'm never coming back.
#trauma hard truths#ghosting#hard lessons#lessons learned#hard truths#the truth about me#harsh truth#hard truth#telling the truth#cptsdhealing#living with cptsd#cptsd problems#cptsd thoughts#cptsd vent#actually cptsd#just cptsd things#tw cptsd#actually ptsd#cptsd tag
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#Can't believe I even have to say this but unfriendly reminder!#if you reblog my shit just to be rude in the tags expect to be blocked!#like literally i dont give a shit about trolls antis whatever. online people will be online ppl whatever#but people being needlessly rude about strangers' art boils my blood#whether its my own or anyone else's#you do know that artists see your tags when you reblog our posts right?#you're not yelling in an echo chamber with your buddies.#if you wanna make fun of my art in private with your friends i literally don't care nor can i stop you#but for god's sake learn some basic fucking decency#signed: an artist very tired of seeing how needlessly rude and cruel younger people are about art in this day and age#it's not fucking cool to clown on someone's art/style to their faces and if you think it is you need to be taught a harsh lesson#also social media is way more public than you think it is#learn to use fucking gc's and dm's people#don't you have friends you can yap to
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The mothers
only pray
to get
Lawyers
Doctors
Presidents
and
Engineers
then
the world
stares on,
finding it hard
to give us all our daily havocs,
for the rest
of our lives.
Some are whores
and
gigolos
so you
marry them at
your own
risk
that when you
find them
extramarital
you know that
this was it,
the destiny thing.
#life#life lessons#meaning#prose#life quotes#understanding#wisdom#existence#chasing dreams#chasing shadows#chasing wind#parental issues#marriage#inner thoughts#loyalty#love#harsh truths#harsh reality#expectations#expectativas#destiny art#fate#my truth#god’s truth#spilled truth#truth#philosophy#original poem#deep thoughts#thoughts
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https://www.tumblr.com/ho-for-joequinn-fics/778099242090840064/httpswwwtumblrcomho-for-joequinn-fics7780931?source=share
Imagine being his girlfriend, and finding out he cheated on you so instead of leaving him you're teaching him a lesson why he should never cheat on you 🪶 🪶 🪶
Oh, I wouldn’t tickle him; that’s not a harsh enough punishment. I’d handcuff him to the bed and edge the fuck out of him until he’s got blue balls and a raging red cock and then I would leave him there until the next day 🙃
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foggy walk to my last lecture of my senior year
cosmos dye bath
first spring blooms in my neighborhood, spotted on my first hot girl walk of the year
broke stressed and didn’t study nearly enough yesterday so i have much to do today. so much class work, so much genuine work, and i need to send out so many emails and make so many appointments oh my god im going to freakkkkkkkkk out.
i feel a bit better than i did tuesday, but not by much, the only real change i’ve been able to make for myself is taking my meds on time, which is good!!! and it’s helped a lot, but oh i fear nothing will get better until all my assignments are in and submitted.
my presentation on aphrodites epithets is at like 9:30am monday and i think ill vomit! but this is ground work for a class i want to teach this summer, the start of my first organized poetry collection and i might turn it all into a zine. who knows! but like! i think it’s due tomorrow at midnight i have NOTHINGi have my NOTES and i work all day today until monday when i go back to class !!!!!!!!! AGHH it’s fine. i’m fine. everything’s fine.
#i’m racing against the mercury retrograde clock rn. everything NEEDS to be done in every aspect of my life by the 14th.#fuck retrograde fuvk eclipse season#not like actually their lessons are valuable even if harsh at points#can’t wait to be done with classes for break so i can read#and study my astro books#again mutuals………. once this quarter is done let me read ur tarot let me look at ur astro chart#dani speaks
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