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Please show me what you look like 😭

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me: why the FUCK do my hips hurt SO MUCH

also me: *sits like my legs are made of spaghetti*

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Death doesn't make you special

does everyone have a teacher that they still have beef with/ hold a grudge against today??

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Stonewall Riots + 5 Names To Know

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healthcare should not have a weight limit.

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This year for pride month I want trans people to be alive. Thank you.

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if tumblr shuts down you can find me on tumblr. ill still be here. they cant make me leave

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getting better but also becoming worse. u wouldn't get it

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It’s crazy how low self-worth fucks with peoples lives

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people: you can go back to the past but nobody is there anymore

me: she is

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“Why are you scared of dating” I’m not scared of dating, I just haven’t found anyone’s company to be more enjoyable than my own. And also I don’t care

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All roads unfortunately lead back to tumblr.

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I've been many people, but none of them have been me

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physically disabled people who are also fat deserve mobility aids just as much as physically disabled people who are skinny.

we also deserve to have mobility aids that fit us, we shouldn’t have to settle for ones that don’t meet our needs. whether it’s having a high enough weight limit or being wide enough or being sturdy enough, we deserve that.

it doesn’t even matter whether a person is fat because of their disability/ies or if they’re disabled because they’re fat. that person still deserve good mobility aids that meet their needs.

[this is a post about fatness and physical disability, derail and i will steal your mail for three months and two days]

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look I'm a disability studies scholar so I know why people are like this. but. people really do get so pressed about the dumbest shit. why do you care if someone has multiple people in their head? why do you care if someone is existing with a mobility aid in your line of sight? why do you care if someone takes a couple extra seconds to formulate a sentence? even if you don't believe that someone is legitimately disabled (which is bad on its own. but still). what do you lose by just taking people at face value? and what do you gain by living life as an angry little ass all the time?

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phil putting on any sort of dress or long wig: i am confident enough in my own gender and sexuality that this doesn’t affect me. toxic masculinity is a prison and there’s no reason in our modern society that we should be constrained by it. i can be a man and still enjoy traditionally feminine things and i don’t care what anyone else thinks

dan putting on any sort of dress or long wig: i’m a woman now