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Just another day

Constantly fighting between holding on to things and letting go. Between waiting for him and moving on. Between speaking my mind and not saying a word. Between loving him, and well, just loving him.

- Complications of an unrequited love

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My desires in a relationship have changed over time. I no longer want someone who promises to always love me and never leave me, I need someone who understands that life happens and sometimes things don’t work out. I don’t want someone who sugar coats things and never gets angry with me, I need someone to tell me how it really is and put me in my place. I need to be able to go five hours without talking to you and not feel lost or incomplete. I am complete without you. But with you, I want to be so much better. I want to be stronger with you. I want us to grow together and help each other grow individually. I don’t need you, but I really fucking want you. And this may not work out, but the fact that you understand all of this and this how our relationship works, makes me think we’ve got a pretty good shot.

reallyquiet (via wordsnquotes)

Boo

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You may find out things that you won’t like about me. You may find out that I write too much, you may find out that I love too much. They say that I pour into cracked glass, but I’ve only been collecting the pieces pierced into the soles of my feet. You may find out things that you’ll like about me. You may find out that I love kissing. Lots of it. The more lips and hickies the better, you may not find words within limbs that refuse to be apart, but I will. You may not like kissing me as much as I like kissing you. You may find out that my feelings will be as stated, when I say that I miss you. I mean it. You don’t have to second guess it. I won’t have to repeat it. You’ll only need to hear it once. You may find out that love could be in the air, or maybe it’s just the weather and we all need a jacket or two to spare. It’s going to be cold this year, it’s going to be tears we won’t want to cry or it’ll be everything that’ll drown where we’ve been wanting to burn. You may find out that love isn’t for us, or I’ll find out the complete opposite. Whatever we find out, I’m just glad it’s with you.

10.29.30 (via inkypetals)

Boo.

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Only you could have done that. Touched my mind before you touched my lips.

lydiaasl  (via wnq-writers)

You.

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You know how, when you dip your feet in cold water and let it rest there for a while only to realize that the once very cold water feels just right on your skin? Or how, when you have absolutely given up on the hope of something happening is exactly when it happens? Or how when you swim underwater for too long you find yourself getting longing to cut through the surface in pursuit of air? This year I learned that people are like feet in cold water. They need time. And given that time, everything falls in place and seems to be fine. I learned that if something ought to happen, it will happen. You can pray all you want and try all the same but it won’t ever happen if it isn’t supposed to. But sometimes things do go your way just as you give up. On the contrary something you thought would never happen does happen and there really is nothing you can do about it. I learned that any relationship has to have some space. That confining one another never helps. One needs to have that space to think clear and to be oneself. Or either one will just end up choking or leaving in search of fresh air. I learned that life can never be as you expect it to be or think of it to be like. It always has surprises in store just round the corner. That it always tests you to make sure you’re fit to walk down further. And becomes your teacher when you aren’t.

whimsical-muser, writing prompt #73: Write about the lessons you learned this year. (via wordsnquotes)

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I think sometimes we let nostalgia trick us into forgetting that the people in our past are there for a reason. We must remind ourselves it is either because we purposely left them there or they ended up there for reasons beyond our control. It’s okay to think about the past and reminisce the good times occasionally – but don’t obsess over it to the point where you’re sacrificing opportunities in the here and now because you’re too attached to the echoes of things long gone… The present is the greatest gift you’ll ever have and the future holds wonders beyond your imagining… Don’t throw it all away by constantly looking for the things you lost along the way…

Ranata Suzuki (via wordsnquotes)

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Let all you do be done in love. I found my word!

Attraversiamo - Let’s cross over (together)!

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All I can think about is you❤

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You ever see a post and think it's just for you?

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Just too many feelings

Have you ever been so hurt that you can feel tears rolling down your cheeks even when you are asleep? When you try so hard not to think about that one person, but all you end up doing is reading those old texts again. You pick up their habits that bring you comfort even if it’s for a while. Every morning you look in the mirror and say that it doesn’t matter and you will be okay. But you are not really okay. You fight back tears when you are in public and you fake a smile. And suddenly you see someone who eyes are the same or who laughs the same way and all that heartache comes back in a millisecond. There’s this bit in the tummy and it’s like you can’t breathe. Falling in love is too easy, but you never get out of it. Maybe you do stop crying after a while and maybe the heartache someday goes away. But that one feeling which you can’t name is always there. Always.

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Singleness

The best people in the world are single people. (Not saying this because I am single!) (Nope, that’s not why I am writing this !) I have had my other half, but I have always been single.

Singleness is all about individuality. You are the only one who completes you. You can't depend on others for your own happiness. Your relationships are as good or bad as you are. Nothing more, nothing less. We often confuse being single with being alone.

BUT, the single you are, the more successful your relationship will be. People who are lonely, often think what they need is a relationship to feel okay. Yeah maybe sure your partner makes you feel better or A LOT more than better. But you cannot depend on your partner to make your loneliness go away. In fact, you should not depend on them.

Things get okay with them, but it is not their duty to make you feel less lonely. Well, when you aren't content with yourself, how can you be content with someone else? Learn to live with your own self and then go soul mate hunting. Still trying to live with my own existence. But oh-yes a partner does make it easier at times!

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Celebrate the love that hurt you. celebrate the person who couldn’t love you right. The one who kept you guessing and lead you on, who would kiss you and under the same breath say, “we are just friends”, Who would say “I love you” and disappear, Who made you feel like a desperate version of yourself. Celebrate that you recognize and see now what inconsistent, unbalanced love does to a person and remember to never give it yourself. Celebrate in knowing you are better off without that kind of love, celebrate to know that love changes and shifts, just like life. So sometimes “the one” isn’t really “the one” and just a lesson needed in that moment of your journey. Celebrate that love had power to move you and that’s how you know it was real - it changed you. Celebrate that you know how to hold a heart without breaking it. Instead of crying tears of hurt pop a bottle, put on your beautiful smile and celebrate what you gained, not lost - you lose nothing, they do. Celebrate that this insane, crazy, miraculous life is much more than just one unbalanced love - celebrate that you deserve more.

Demetra Demi   (via wnq-writers)

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Just taking my chances ! Maybe it might just work :)

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

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I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.

Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets  (via wordsnquotes)

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I know I say I don’t care and I run around acting like whatever we are isn’t even a big deal. but really, you’re the first person on my mind when my eyes open in the morning and close at night. I can’t help how I feel about you, and I’m sorry my hearts cold towards you for hurting me. I’m making an effort to let you back in, but you have to act like you want me.

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