anonformerpro

[anonformerpro]

On the topic of gay men using women as beards:

So, how come when I say that it’s evil and predatory for gay men to use straight women as cover ups, I’m suddenly homophobic? They’ll either move the goal post and say “what about lavender marriages!” Or they’ll completely deny that it’s even a thing in the first place and it’s just made up to kill gay men.

News flash, it’s actually such a thing that we have a term for it. It’s called “Beard. “ like y’all need to read sentences properly. Work on your literacy and comprehension skills. Because I never say it’s evil to be gay, I say it’s evil to be gay and LIE to a woman and pretend to be straight. Literally wasting a woman’s time. It’s especially gross if it’s led to marriage and children. Like these men should NOT feel safe doing this shit.

And I feel like this proves my point that even in the most so-called progressive spaces, they still side and suck these men’s asses in some form. Because we’ll talk about how men waste or hurt women all day long, but the moment we say “it’s not just straight white men that do it” y’all slip and switch sides.

[anonformerpro]

Cw:men, abuse, r*pe, p*dophilia, z*ophilia, ptsd, female rage

Rant on my blank account for anonymity .

Side note: Do NOT touch my post with that “not all men” bs please.

I hate men. I truly do. I think they’re a disgusting group of people who will r*pe children, animals, women and corpses. I think they truly see women as pure resources to be used at best or for what ever reason, violently hate us at worst. It’s bad. Even the most progressive, leftist spaces still hold a certain level of misogyny or sexism toward women just because there’s men there regardless.

One of my struggles is that I’m a straight woman. I hate it. I hate it that I’m biologically programmed to be attracted, both physically and romantically to the worst possible group ever.

I want to have an honest, loving and safe relationship with a man. No choice. That’s my orientation, and I’m kinda shamed of it. Because I know what men are like, but I’m still sexually attracted to them in general. But at this point, just finding a man who won’t r*pe me, other women, children or what else that walks, OR cheats on me or gaslights me for fun—seems like a miracle. The bar is that fuckkng low. It’s not on the ground, it’s in hell.

Sometimes I feel like maybe I can drop my misandry and just see them with an open mind, regardless of their gender. I can’t. It feels like another day gives me another reason to not trust them. It’s safer to hate them and suspect they’ll always do something horrible to me.

Quick warning:I’m gonna be using various tags for this and not be quite sure which ones fit but I just want to get my feelings out there to a broad audience, I don’t necessarily identify with or even understand every single sub group of whatever this should be tbh. I’m just hoping other women will see my feelings.