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our friends little made their host a letter and we found it (they let us read) they are our age!!!

oh, that's amazing!!

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hi

hello!

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I drew a foto and im reely proud!!

awh!! that looks awesome!! good job! :D

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i really hate it when people tell me that because of me being a age regressor (3-10 ) that i cant be sexual with me partner when im big, like you dont know me or my partner so dont comment on our relationship or stuff we do when im big -🌌🩷

oh, yeah that's annoying as fuck. Just because you age regress doesn't mean you lose the ability to consent outside of age regressing. That's so stupid

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Hey, just here to say- I love this blog and the idea behind it :))))

Awh, thanks!

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I didn't know you had a blog like this! When did this happen?

Also, hi :D my system regresses quite a bit. You probably didn't know that. But here you go :D

-Lexi/@mamakellythewatertimer

hi! Yeah, we didn't promote it much after it's creation and we don't post a lot on it, but yeah! Lol

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hi :D !!!! i am feeling. small!!!!! but i has teddy bear :3 his name is beau and hes a bigggg bear :D

-🎬 Benjy !!!!

hi Benjy!! Sorry I took so long to reply! But that sounds awesome! Beau sounds adorable and I'm happy you have him! :D

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Endos / endogenics and why they aren't valid :

We've made posts on this before but we decided it might be good to make one big post to link to for when / if anyone asks again. We tried to cover everything we could in this post but we'll likely be making other posts similar to this later on.

So what are endos? Endos or endogenics are people who claim to have DID/OSDD without trauma or claim to have alters / be a system without having DID/OSDD.

Why is this bad? This is misinformation because as far as science knows DID/OSDD is a trauma based disorder (specifically caused by trauma in early childhood, which is speculated to be 1-9 / 1-12 years old) and your brain would not split / create alters without reason. To add on you cannot have alters without having a disorder, this is common sense as it's not normal to have alters. To add onto this endos also take over our communities and steal our terms. (We'll make a post with further information on that in the future).

There is also a carrd that explains why endos are bad and debunks a few myths if anyone is interested in it! If not continue reading

Why can't you have DID/OSDD or alters without trauma? As far as science knows DID/OSDD is a trauma disorder and in order to have alters in the first place you require dissociation, which is also a trauma response. Here are tons of medically reviewed sources that say this:

“ They suggest that DID is caused by experiencing severe trauma over a long time in childhood. By experiencing trauma in childhood, you take on different identities and behaviours to protect yourself. As you grow up these behaviours become more fully formed until it looks like you have different identities ” — rethink.org

“ Dissociative identity disorder (DID), previously known as multiple personality disorder, is a complex psychological condition caused by many things. These include severe trauma during early childhood (usually extreme, repetitive physical, sexual, or emotional abuse). It's also known as split personality disorder. ” — webMD

“ DID is usually associated with adverse experiences in someone’s past and traumatic memories. ” & “ Dissociation — a major part of DID — is a defense mechanism the body uses to reduce your awareness during overwhelming trauma ” — pysch central

“ DID is associated with long-term exposure to trauma, often chronic traumatic experiences during early childhood. ” & “ Dissociation—or disconnection from one’s sense of self or environment—can be a response to trauma. It can happen during a single-incident, traumatic event (e.g., an assault, a natural disaster, or a motor vehicle accident), or during ongoing trauma (e.g., wartime; chronic childhood abuse). ” — mcleanhospital.org

“ Dissociative disorders often develop as a way to deal with a catastrophic event or with long-term stress, abuse or trauma. This is particularly true if such events take place early in childhood. At this time of life, there are limitations to your ability to fully understand what’s happening. In addition, your coping mechanisms aren’t fully developed and getting support and resources depends on the presence of caring and knowledgeable adults. ” — my.clevelandclinic.org

“ There are many possible causes of dissociative disorders, including previous traumatic experience. ” & “ Switching off from reality is a normal defence mechanism that helps the person cope during a traumatic time. ” — nhs.uk

“ Dissociative identity disorder is the result of a natural way of coping with childhood trauma. Our page on the causes of dissociative disorders has more information. ” & “ Dissociation is a natural response to trauma while it's happening. But some of us may still experience dissociation long after the traumatic event has finished. Past experiences of dissociation during traumatic events may mean that you haven't processed these experiences fully. ” — mind.org (two links since they're two different pages)

“ Dissociative disorders usually start as a way to cope with shocking, distressing or painful events. The disorders most often form in children who go through long-term physical, sexual or emotional abuse. Less often, the disorders form in children who've lived in a home where they went through frightening times or they never knew what to expect. The stress of war or natural disasters also can bring on dissociative disorders. When you go through an event that's too much to handle emotionally, you may feel like you're stepping outside of yourself and seeing the event as if it's happening to another person. Mentally escaping in this way may help you get through a shocking, distressing or painful time. ” — mayoclinic.org

Most of these sources are pretty recent too, with the most recent one being made in September 2023 (webMD)

What about religious beliefs / tuplamacy? First people are not required to believe or participate in your religious beliefs (and religious beliefs are not exempt from criticism) and second tuplamacy is a closed Buddhist practice that has nothing to do with being a system and should not be compared to being a system nor should it be included / involved in system communities. Note that the DSM-V also says that in order to have DID; "The disturbance is not a normal part of a broadly accepted cultural or religious practice." <- this does not mean it's possible to have alters due to a religious thing, if anything it says they cannot be counted as alters / as a system.

To add on, no you cannot pray to be a system or transition into being a system. If you were to pray and one day magically become a system you are either in denial or you've convinced yourself you're something you're not. Believing you can be a system without trauma or that you can become a system by praying is like believing you can get autism from vaccines or drinking too much dairy milk, that's just not how it works.

What about mixed origin systems? Mixed origin systems are not a thing. DID/OSDD forms purely from trauma, you can't form from a mix of trauma and not trauma, that's not how it works. If you identify as mixed origin you are likely in denial and really need to come to terms with the fact that you are either traumatized or you're not a system at all.

What about other kinds of origins? Other origins like "willowgenic" and all that bullshit? Yeah no, same thing as endos, not possible. Look above for all the proof you need, DID/OSDD is only caused by trauma. Traumagenic is the only valid origin.

But I gave myself DID! / But I created my own alters! No you didn't. That isn't possible, you cannot turn yourself into a DID/OSDD system and creating alters is a coping mechanism, not something you do for fun, sources on this;

“ DID Isn't Something You Can Give Yourself on Purpose. Having DID was not a conscious decision those of us with the disorder made when we were children. Dissociative identity disorder is not a selective disorder, meaning you cannot decide that you want to develop this brilliant coping mechanism and then you have it. ” — healthyplace

“ In any case, additional alters are usually the result of extreme stress. The mind does not like to be fractured even when an individual already has DID or OSDD-1. Many individuals cannot split unless a split is strictly necessary for their protection, functioning, or ability to remain hidden as a system. That said, there are exceptions. Some individuals may become so used to using splitting as a coping mechanism that they may split easily in response to seemingly minor stressors. ” — didresearch.org

Isn't being a system like the same as being trans or being LGBTQ? No, many endos compared the two but they are completely different. Being LGBTQ is an identity, it's something you are born as. Being a system is a debilitating disorder caused by severe trauma, it is counted as a disability which is;

“ 'A person has a disability if: They have a physical or mental impairment, and the impairment has a substantial and long-term adverse effect on the person's ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities.' ” — gmc.org

The reason DID would be counted as a disability is that;

“ Having a dissociative disorder can affect your ability to keep a full-time job, especially one with work stresses, which can worsen your symptoms. ” — disabilitysecrets

And the DSM-V criteria literally says;

“ The symptoms cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning ” — traumadissociation

But the DSM-V says that trauma isn't required! No, the DSM-V actually says CSA isn't required, there are other forms of trauma that don't involve CSA or child abuse. To act as if it saying that the trauma isn't always CSA or child abuse means that it doesn't require trauma at all is extremely invalidating to those who are traumatized in ways that don't involve child abuse or CSA.

But this source claims endos exist / DID doesn't require trauma! Most of those sources are extremely old and / or made by endos (or pro endos) themselves. (We'll make a more in-depth post on this topic some other time, but for now this is all we have to say on it)

But we don't know everything about the human brain! You're right, we don't. The brain is mysterious, but we do know enough to know that it doesn't do these kinds of things for no reason. We know the brain reacts to trauma and we know what the difference between a normal brain and a disordered brain is. Just because we don't know everything doesn't give people an excuse to jump to conclusions and spread misinformation. It is better to stick to what science currently knows which is the theory of structural dissociation, which is the current theory about how DID/OSDD forms, and so far no one has been able to disprove it. And before someone says it, no it is not only a theory, it is a scientific theory which is;

“ A theory is a well-substantiated explanation of an aspect of the natural world that can incorporate laws, hypotheses and facts. The theory of gravitation, for instance, explains why apples fall from trees and astronauts float in space. Similarly, the theory of evolution explains why so many plants and animals—some very similar and some very different—exist on Earth now and in the past, as revealed by the fossil record. ” — amnh.org

And to add on;

“ Scientists develop theories to explain the natural world and to advance scientific knowledge. A theory is the highest level of explanation in science. Some features of scientific theories are that they: have been thoroughly tested over an extended period, provide accurate explanations and, predictions for a wide range of phenomena, are widely accepted by the scientific community, demonstrate strong experimental and observational support ” — study.com

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hiii, guys,, :33 working on a post to disprove endos existence / to disprove the fact that endos are possible,, any points you want me to bring up?? ((i have lots of sources too, literally 8 different sources))

I have been working on this for like an hour or two now, unsure if I'm ready to post it or not

It's gonna be on @antimisinfo btw

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i should be good to start posting again, I think, but it might just be more simple posts for a little bit. ^_^

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I'm not gonna be able to post for a few days, sorry guys, can't really explain it but I promise I'll try reply to a few asks every now and then

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sorry no posts lately guys, started school again and chronic pain has been kicking my ass. Will eventually start posting again, just need to get everything in order

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I wanna fank chu for not judgin widdwe speak, it makes me more comfy ta tawk ta ya!

-🐻 from🧋sys

No problem!! we want everyone to feel safe and comfortable here so we don't mind how you talk, as long as you're comfy ^_^

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Age sliding is so weird. Like. Sometimes I'm a four year old who doesn't talk. Other times I'm an 18 year old who doesn't shut up. And I can be anywhere in-between. Like, I'm 9 rn, and while I'm mentally more mature that when I'm 4, I'm not physically as mature when I'm 13 even. And my caretaker can't leave me alone in front no matter how old I am just in case I slide down to an age I can't be alone at... ugh

- 🛵 from🧋sys

age sliding can be weird, we have a few age sliders who feel like that. I get it's annoying sometimes, being unable to be alone even when you feel you're mature enough to handle things on your own.

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elo! m clover n a lot of pepol like to in valid date a nofer lile in our. Sys becase aes 7 bu acks like a 15 yeer old from trusma. bu when aes hppy ae acks like a nor mal little so i tink pepol ar jus sily

Hi clover, I'm sorry people invalidate you, it is silly. You are valid, even if you act older sometimes ^_^

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hey im sorry if this isnt a good place to ask, but i wanted to know what trans-id meant?? i tried looking it up and i just got transaction id stuff or what transgender meant lol

trans-ID or transX is people claiming to be trans-race , trans-abled , ect.

So it's like a white person claiming to be "trans-black" or a allistic person claiming to be "trans-autistic"

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being a little is weird :(

because I'm not like other littles but I'm also not like.. other littles! I'm not adult enough but I'm not baby enough I'm seven! but I do a lot more than adults in this system but I dont understand enough either

:( its always so weird because sometime people assume Im adult but Im not and then they just. stop talking to me.

insult to injury, since we're dd a lot of people already think we're weird and its hard to make friends. I just want friends and for it to be ok :(

-🤎 from 💜🩰

We get how you feel and we're sorry. We hope you find a safe space and some nice friends, you don't deserve to be treated like this. You're valid. You don't have to be "baby enough" and you don't have to be "adult enough", you can just be you