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being aroace in fandom not fun :(

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An Aegosexual pride stimboard for Pride Month!!!

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Pride month reminder that not everyone’s queer experience revolves around love

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To my fellow aspecs,

If you can acknowledge that many asexuals do want romance, and that many aromantics do want sex, can you please also acknowledge that many asexuals and aromantics do want kids?

Being childfree is not synonymous with being aro/ace.

Thank you. <3

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"love is what makes us human" actually it's 'select all images with boat' but go off I guess

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Happy International Asexuality Day!!! 🖤🩶🤍💜

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I wonder if the queer people who are Weird about ace people (considering them not to be the A in LGBTQIA and such) will acknowledge them now that JK Rowling has gone after ace people?

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Link

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This is officially my new favourite way to deal with trolls and I suggest everyone copy it because it’s very funny

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The survey, which collated the thoughts of 400 people in England, suggests that misconceptions around asexuality are widespread across the UK. It showed that 26 per cent of those surveyed believed asexual people simply haven’t met the right person, while 11 per cent hold the notion that asexual people don’t even exist.

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Reblog for something aspec to happen to you this summer

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Smutty fanfiction is so great, I wish sexual attraction was real

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I don’t crush on fictional characters I crush on the characters together. Dating that one character myself? Ew no. Putting those two characters together like barbie dolls and making them kiss? Yes please

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Update for the new year...

...I guess

A lot has happened but I haven't felt compelled to write it down.

I went to an OBGYN who encouraged me. She told me she was very confident I'd be successful. She asked me to walk her through everything that happened and then advised me to buy vaginal dilators. If the dilators didn't work out, she gave me a number for their physical therapist.

And vaginismus has actually improved amazingly with the dilators. There are 5 sizes and I have gotten up to size 4. When I was able to actually do 1, I was absolutely floored. It was like a huge mountain that I had to climb; it was something I thought would forever be impossible for me...it put hope back into my heart.

You're only advised to use the dilators a few times a week or every other day, but I've just been doing it every day, and longer than a half hour too. I don't really follow the directions. I skip around with sizes and see what I'm capable of. I read smut to help things along (I really am trying to have a baby in the most aegosexual way possible.) The downside of doing it every day is that my legs are really sore: it's hard to hold them in the same position like that for an extended period of time.

That said, the vaginismus is still there, and we'll see what I'm capable of when it's actually time for the HSG. It's at the end of January, so I've got to be able to get to the biggest size before then. (I'm like a child who needs to be potty trained before the daycare start date.)

I have been feeling pretty depressed today. This is the third NYE in a row that I've spent by myself. The only person interested in hanging out with me is my dad, who lives 45 minutes away (and I feel like even more of a loser when I spend NYE alone with him.) Everyone else is going out to restaurants or parties. They don't invite me. The thing that really got me was that my closest friend told me she was going out with her boyfriend. Of course there's nothing wrong with that, but it brought back my old insecurities...that if I weren't ace, there would always be a person for me to fall back on. I also asked my sister what she was doing and she said going out. She just sent me a snapchat from home.

Idk, just sad right now. But who knows? Maybe 2025 will be the year I have a child.

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agender, aro, ace & aroace lockscreens

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