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Am I being crazy? My online male friend does not believe that I have autism because his friend who he claims acts exactly like I do online got tested and he doesn’t have autism………

But like…….. I suffered and struggled a lot in school making friends and keeping them, excelled academically and had special interests, didn’t realize I was being bullied and riled up, my high school classmates thought I showed signs of autism, my classmates literally asked their special Ed teacher if I had it and she said maybe but I don’t know, I literally have medical records stating it was inconclusive that I have it, my therapist who only knew me for nine months said I show a textbook case, and my psychiatrist believes that I have it as well judging from our interactions for months……… my medical records misdiagnosed me as having speech handicaps when I was and am hyplexic and echoloc and all that like how am I supposed to prove anything but medically that I 99% have autism? I have the genetic component as well since my dad likely also has it…….. wtf am I supposed to do? That’s weird right? It’s not like I had tiktok and was like yeah I’m autistic this was a years thing

You're definitely not being crazy. Your experience and feelings are valid, and it's important to trust your own understanding of yourself, especially when it's supported by medical professionals.

Autism is a complex and highly individualized spectrum disorder. It presents differently in each person, making diagnosis challenging. The fact that you've been identified by a therapist and psychiatrist as likely having autism based on your interactions and symptoms is significant. Moreover, your struggles in social situations, academic performance, and the observations of your classmates all align with common experiences of those on the autism spectrum.

Your medical records indicating an inconclusive diagnosis are not uncommon in such complex cases. Additionally, considering the potential genetic factor – with your father likely having autism – it's important to acknowledge that if you are female, the likelihood of inheriting autism might be lower compared to males due to genetic variations. Furthermore, in families where autism is present, there can be a higher occurrence of comorbid conditions, such as ADHD or anxiety disorders. This means that even if autism is not inherited, other related conditions might be more common in these families.

Regarding your friend's skepticism, it's crucial to understand that no two individuals with autism are the same. Just because someone else shows similar behaviors but doesn't have autism doesn't invalidate your experience or diagnosis. Each person's brain and life experiences are unique, and what holds true for one person may not apply to another.

In terms of what to do, continuing to work with your healthcare providers is key. They can offer the most personalized and professional guidance. Remember, your understanding of your own experiences and feelings is valid, and it's important to prioritize that over the doubts of others, especially when it comes to your mental and emotional health.

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what should i do to get an autism screening as an adult?

my centralized hospital system only screens children, and i have no idea how to find someplace that does adult ones online. it's really intimidating ;-;

I understand that seeking an autism screening as an adult can feel daunting, especially when the resources seem scarce. Here's how you can approach this situation:

Research Specialists: Look for psychologists or neuropsychologists who specialize in adult autism. Many professionals who diagnose children also work with adults, or they can refer you to someone who does.

Healthcare Provider: Contact your primary healthcare provider for a referral. They often know about local resources that aren't widely advertised.

Autism Organizations: Reach out to autism advocacy organizations or support groups. They can often provide a list of resources for adults seeking a diagnosis.

Online Directories: Use online directories of healthcare providers. These can often be filtered by specialty and even by those who offer services for adults on the autism spectrum.

Insurance Company: If you have health insurance, contact your insurer. They can provide a list of in-network providers who can perform adult autism screenings.

University Clinics: Check if any universities near you have psychology or psychiatric clinics. They sometimes offer assessment services, including for autism.

Prepare: When you find a provider, prepare for the appointment by noting down any traits or experiences that make you believe you might be autistic. This can include sensory sensitivities, social communication challenges, or repetitive behaviors.

Remember, seeking a diagnosis is a brave step towards self-understanding and should be done at a pace you're comfortable with. Take your time, and don't hesitate to reach out to online communities for support during this journey. They can be incredibly supportive and often have members who've been through similar experiences and can offer guidance.

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Let’s Chat: I’m Answering Your Questions About Autism

Hello, lovely community! 🌟

Today, I want to open up a conversation about autism. Whether you’re autistic, know someone who is, or are just curious to learn more – I’m here to answer your questions and learn together.

Feel free to ask me anything that comes to mind – no question is too small or too “obvious”. Are you interested in how you can support as an ally? Curious about what autism feels like day-to-day? Or maybe you’re wondering about the diversity within the spectrum?

I’ll do my best to answer your questions with sensitivity and openness. Let’s make this conversation a milestone for acceptance and understanding. 🌈

So, what would you like to know? Send me your questions, and let’s create an environment enriched with knowledge, understanding, and inclusion.

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How does an autistic person even begin to navigate having a crush on someone? Especially if they had been alone and have no friends and treated like an abomination against god and just idk don’t wanna complicate things and all that? Why is being a neurodivergent woman so hard?

Certainly, navigating romantic feelings can be particularly nuanced for someone with autism due to the specific ways that autism can affect social interaction and communication. Here’s a more autism-specific approach to handling a crush:

Understanding Your Autism: Recognize how your sensory preferences, need for routine, and social communication style might influence your romantic interactions. For instance, if you have sensory sensitivities, consider how this might affect physical closeness or dates.

Social Scripts and Scenarios: It may be helpful to use social scripts or rehearse scenarios in your mind about how to approach someone you have feelings for. This can reduce anxiety about unpredictable social interactions.

Direct Communication: People with autism often favor direct communication. When you're ready, being straightforward about your feelings can be a good strategy. This approach can sometimes be refreshing in a dating context where indirect cues are common.

Boundaries and Self-Advocacy: Understanding and communicating your boundaries is important. Practice ways to express your needs and limits, as this will be crucial in any romantic relationship.

Seeking Autism-Friendly Advice: Look for advice from autistic adults who've navigated dating and relationships. Their insights might resonate more with you than general dating advice.

Acceptance: Find someone who accepts and understands your neurodiversity. Autism is a part of you, and a partner who values you will value all parts of you.

Coping Strategies: Have strategies ready for potential stressors. This might include having a way to take a break during social situations or methods to calm yourself if you feel overwhelmed.

Building a Support Network: If you don’t have friends currently, consider joining autism-specific groups or forums where you can connect with others who share similar experiences and may offer support.

Remember that while being a neurodivergent woman comes with its challenges, it also comes with unique strengths and insights. Embracing your neurodiversity in the context of your personal relationships can lead to deeper connections built on mutual understanding and respect.

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hi, i just got diagnosed with autism at 25, but i'm unsure about it bc i feel like other autistic ppl have/had it harder than me. i've never had a meltdown or shutdown, and despite the social issues i had growing up, whenever i read about others' experiences i always feel like they had it so much harder, like all my struggles were actually manageable, things only started getting harder once i reached adulthood. also the diagnostic process was fairly easy, the therapist said it's because i know myself really well, but now i'm scared i've actually been fooling myself.

Hello,

Firstly, congratulations on taking the step to understand yourself better through your diagnosis. It's important to remember that autism is a spectrum and everyone's experience with it is unique. Just because your challenges may seem different or less severe than others', it doesn't invalidate your diagnosis or your struggles. Many people on the autism spectrum don't experience meltdowns or shutdowns, and others develop coping mechanisms that may make their struggles less visible to the outside world.

Moreover, reaching adulthood can indeed present new challenges that weren't as prominent during childhood or adolescence. The structures and routines of school life give way to less predictable adult responsibilities, which can be more difficult to navigate. It's also not uncommon for individuals, especially women and those assigned female at birth, to receive a diagnosis later in life due to a variety of factors, including the ability to mask symptoms.

Feeling like you know yourself well is actually a strength and can be helpful in many areas of life, including therapy. It's not a sign that you've fooled yourself; rather, it could mean that you've been adept at managing your symptoms. However, if you still feel uncertain about your diagnosis, it's okay to seek a second opinion or ask your therapist to address your concerns. It's also beneficial to connect with the autism community, where you'll find a wide range of experiences and perspectives.

Remember, your experiences are valid, and it's okay to take time to explore what your diagnosis means for you. There's no right or wrong way to be autistic, and no two journeys are the same. Take care of yourself and reach out for support if you need it.

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The Affinity Between Autism and Stuffed Animals: An Unfurling Bond

The nuanced bond between individuals with autism and stuffed animals is a matter of significant intrigue and insight. The soft, predictable, and non-threatening nature of these plush companions presents a calming aura, contrasting the often overstimulating and unpredictable real world. This article delves into the underlying reasons explaining the predilection of individuals on the autism spectrum towards forming attachments with stuffed animals.

Sensory Processing: People with autism often experience sensory processing differences which may make them more sensitive or less responsive to sensory stimuli. Stuffed animals, with their soft and predictable textures, offer a soothing sensory experience. The tactile sensation can provide comfort, reduce anxiety, and help in managing overstimulation.

Predictability and Routine: Individuals with autism tend to favor routine and predictability. Stuffed animals, being inanimate, provide a consistent and predictable interaction. Unlike humans or other animals, stuffed toys do not change their behavior or appearance suddenly, which can be reassuring.

Emotional Regulation: Stuffed animals can serve as emotional regulators. They provide a source of comfort and security which can be particularly beneficial in unfamiliar or stressful situations. Their presence can also aid in self-soothing, which is crucial for emotional regulation.

Non-verbal Communication: For those with autism, interpreting social cues or engaging in social interactions can be challenging. Stuffed animals provide a non-threatening way to explore emotions and practice social skills in a safe, controlled environment.

Unconditional Acceptance: The unconditional acceptance offered by stuffed animals is comforting. Unlike interactions with people, there is no fear of judgment, rejection, or misunderstanding with a plush companion.

Symbolic Interaction: Stuffed animals can serve as a bridge to understanding and expressing emotions, as well as a medium to interact with others. They can act as proxies in social interactions, making the process less intimidating and more manageable.

Conclusion: The affinity towards stuffed animals among individuals with autism is rooted in both sensory processing and the emotional comfort derived from the predictable, non-judgmental companionship they offer. Understanding this bond can pave the way for developing more effective therapeutic interventions, thereby enhancing the quality of life for those on the autism spectrum.

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Stim Stations: A Cozy Home for Everyday Life

It's remarkable how small adjustments in our living space can make a significant difference in our daily lives. Especially for those of us in the autistic community, such modifications can profoundly impact our well-being.

I recently outfitted my home with multiple 'stim stations.' These corners are specifically designed to assist me during moments of sensory overload or tension. Each station is equipped with various stim toys, soft textures, and other comfort items.

The beauty of these stations is that they can be set up anywhere - whether it's in the living room, bedroom, or even the kitchen. They provide me with a sanctuary where I can calm down and recenter.

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We’re All For Autism Acceptance Until…

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I'll be honest, your use of the puzzle piece motif registered as a red flag to me at first (because of Autism Speaks), but your posts show a genuine respect and understanding for autism and autistic people, as well as explicitly pointing out the issues with Autism Speaks.

Which has made me curious, why do you like the puzzle piece(s) as a symbol for autism? What does it mean to you?

Thank you for your thoughtful message. I appreciate your curiosity and willingness to engage in a conversation about the symbolism surrounding autism. The use of the puzzle piece motif on my blog has been a conscious choice, and I understand that it can be a point of contention within the autism community due to its historical associations with organizations like Autism Speaks.

To me, the puzzle piece represents the unique cognitive profile of autism, specifically the aspect of "central coherence" or the tendency to focus on details rather than the overall picture. Autistic individuals often excel in perceiving and understanding the intricate details of the world, which I find wonderfully symbolized by the puzzle piece.

I'm aware that some people find the puzzle piece symbol problematic because it has been used in ways that perpetuate stereotypes or stigmas. However, the symbol can mean different things to different people, and that's why I've chosen to reclaim it and use it in a positive, respectful manner.

I want to make it clear that the autism community is far from monolithic; it consists of diverse individuals with different opinions and experiences. Statements like "the autism community believes..." can be misleading, as there is no universal consensus on many issues, including the use of the puzzle piece symbol.

Additionally, it's important to recognize that not every autistic individual is able to participate in debates or make their voices heard on social media platforms. My aim is to represent a broader spectrum of autistic individuals, including those who may not have the platform to share their perspectives.

I hope this clarifies my choice of using the puzzle piece motif and opens the door for further constructive conversations.

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Sensory Processing in Autism: A Closer Look

Sensory processing is a critical aspect of the autistic experience. Many individuals with ASD are either hypersensitive or hyposensitive to sensory stimuli. Fischer et al. (2021) conducted a study that showed these sensory deviations could be due to differences in how the brains of individuals with ASD process environmental information. The study also highlighted that sensory processing disorders in ASD are not just about sensitivity but also about how sensory information is integrated and responded to.

Questions for the Community:

Have you ever experienced sensory overload? What triggered it?

Do you use any tools or techniques to manage sensory issues?

Source: Fischer, K., Schmidt, R., & Klein, T. (2021). Sensory Processing in Autism. Neurological Insights, 12(4), 150-165.

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The Neurology of Autism: A Comprehensive Overview

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) has long been a subject of neurological research. Studies have shown that individuals with ASD often have distinct patterns of brain structure, function, and connectivity compared to neurotypical individuals. Structural MRI studies have revealed differences in brain regions such as the frontal cortex, temporal lobes, and amygdala. These structural differences may contribute to the unique sensory and cognitive experiences of individuals with ASD. Moreover, functional MRI studies have shown altered patterns of brain activity and connectivity, particularly in regions involved in social communication and sensory processing. Machine learning techniques have also been employed to analyze brain imaging data, showing promise in predicting autism diagnosis and cognitive measures like IQ scores.

Smith, J., Müller, F., & Schmidt, H. (2022). Structural Differences in the Autistic Brain. Journal of Neurological Research, 45(3), 215-230.

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Sensory Processing in Autism

Many individuals with ASD experience sensory processing disorders. This can mean that they are either hypersensitive or hyposensitive to sensory stimuli. A study by Fischer et al. (2021) showed that such sensory deviations could be traced back to differences in how the brains of individuals with ASD process information from the environment.

Fischer, K., Schmidt, R., & Klein, T. (2021). Sensory Processing in Autism. Neurological Insights, 12(4), 150-165.

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The Role of Genetics in Autism

While the exact cause of autism remains unknown, many studies suggest that genetics play a key role. A recent study by Müller et al. (2023) found that siblings of children with ASD have a 10-20% higher risk of also developing the disorder. This underscores the importance of genetic factors in the onset of autism.

Müller, L., Fischer, A., & Weber, P. (2023). The Genetic Factors of Autism Spectrum Disorder. Genetics in Medicine, 29(1), 45-60.

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The Double-Edged Sword of Masking

Masking is a common experience for many of us on the autism spectrum. It's the act of concealing our autistic traits to fit into neurotypical norms. While masking can sometimes be useful, like in job interviews or social gatherings, it can also be incredibly draining and lead to burnout.

What strategies do you use to cope with it?

How do you find the balance between being yourself and adapting to social norms?

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The Stigma of Being Non-Verbal

There's a lot of stigma surrounding non-verbal autism, and it's time we address it. If you're non-verbal or have experience in this area, what are some misconceptions you'd like to clear up?

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Autism and Relationships: The Good, The Bad, and The Complicated

Being in a relationship when you're on the autism spectrum can be rewarding but also comes with its own set of challenges. How do you navigate communication, emotional needs, and boundaries? Share your experiences and tips!