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#🥺🥺🥺 Steve Harrington and Dustin Henderson ST5 Teaser Trailer

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LOKI SERIES (2021)

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On another note, it really speaks volumes about how protected men are in this world the final nail in Horner’s coffin wasn’t the inappropriate behavior or harassment allegations from a woman (his employee), it was the poor performance of the car. Tells you everything about who and why men actually get held accountable

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christian horner lived (firing people unceremoniously mid season) as he died (fired unceremoniously fired mid season)

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DING DONG!

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NON-freaks dni. This is a freaks only zone

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Thunderbolts* 2025 | dir. Jake Schreier

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i can’t believe we’re all young professionals and academics and we’re still logging on to tumblr.com every single day to clown on ourselves. who let this happen

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he wants to learn. you’re the lesson.

oscar piastri x reader 📌 this was meant to be a one-shot and then oscar’s curiosity got involved. now it’s a series about closeness, nerves, and learning each other.

info: gonna link the parts when they are done

part 1: teach me

part 2: teach me more (returning a favor)

part 3: teach me on the other side of the world

part 4: teach me properly part 5: teach me aftercare (emotional dynamic shift)

part 6: teach me vulnerability

part 7: teach me silence

part 8: teach me jealousy

part 9: teach me about feelings

part 10: teach me how to touch

part 11: teach me dating

part 12: teach me to be seen

more parts to be added

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first f1 podium

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when your man just got his first podium

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15 years in F1, 239 race starts, a Le Mans win and one semi-retirement... Nico Hulkenberg is finally a Formula 1 podium finisher

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demisexuality can be so hard to explain because it’s misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isn’t sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.

I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who aren’t experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because we’re taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.

And when you’re learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction aren’t necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.

But “I trust you enough to have sex with you” isn’t the same as “I’m not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason I’m sexually attracted to you now after we’ve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust we’ve been able to form”.

It’s easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if you’re unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But it’s important to acknowledge the difference between “no sex until I trust you” and “no sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even then”.

Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. It’s part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. It’s part of why the definition for asexuality includes “little to no sexual attraction”. It’s a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.

While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.

I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, it’s noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.

Remember, not everyone is demisexual. There’s a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.

But if you read what demisexuality is and think “everyone is like that” or “that’s just being a woman”, you either 1) are demisexual 2) don’t understand what it is or 3) both. And it’s okay to not know. Just as long as you’re willing to try to learn.

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So, a totem. It's a small object, potentially heavy, something you can have on you all the time. It has to be unique, like - this is a loaded die. Only I know the balance and weight of this particular loaded die. That way when you look at your totem, you know beyond a doubt you're not in someone else's dream.

JOSEPH GORDON-LEVITT as ARTHUR INCEPTION│2010

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I’m LIVING.

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Inception dir. Christopher Nolan | 2010