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balljointcutie · 7 months

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i didn’t realize this was going to be something i had to address but .. here we go i guess

one of my moots showed me this post . i completely understand where these concerns are coming from , as they do bring up some valid points and i’ve seen scammers on here before , but it is absolutely not true and it’s extremely hurtful that i’m being accused of this when i’m genuinely just asking for help . it feels like a lot of reaching and assuming when there's information on my blog and in the post that refutes a lot of the points made .

my blog is fairly new , as stated in my introduction post , i just remade it at the beginning of last month . my ex was sending her friends after me and was having them stalk my blog , which was making me extremely paranoid and uncomfortable . so i decided to start fresh . i honestly wouldn’t have put as much personal information into the donation post if i didn’t think it was relevant , because it’s risky enough to even put myself out there . i don’t want them to find me and i don’t want to have to remake again , especially now that i’ve been accused of something like this . that would end up making me look one hundred times worse .

i didn’t think i was being pushy or indicating a sense of major urgency . i have a roof over my head , and bless her heart , my sister would give me the clothes off her back if she had to . i’m reaching out for help because i don’t want to be a burden , neither of us were expecting me to be crashing on her couch for the next three months . i just needed some extra help with affording food so she wouldn’t have to take money from her own pocket to feed me . i also needed help affording sanitary pads and my medication . and this is all temporary because after i graduate , i’ll be moving to live with my partner and things will be a lot more stable .

i mentioned my entire family in the post .. my biological father passed away when i was a kid , and it’s just been me , my step-father , and my mom ever since my older sister moved out . we live across the country from any extended family . i don’t have many friends IRL , and we’re all still in high school anyways , so i can’t exactly ask them for much help either .

i’m not sure how much more updated they want my post to be , i was literally just kicked out yesterday morning . i updated yesterday when i received some help . i’m still extremely distraught and i feel so betrayed by my mom , i’m just trying to process my emotions and now i also have to deal with all of this . i didn’t have anywhere else to turn so i made a post . i’m just trying to survive this .

i’ve also seen the comments on this post - i type like this because i like how it looks . it’s that simple . and i definitely have posted bjd content , but i like more than just dolls . in my introduction post , i mention several other things that i enjoy that i post frequently . at this point , it feels like cherry picking .. like you guys want to believe that i’m not a real person asking for help .

“if you’re genuine i’m so sorry” but now i’m being spammed death threats in my inbox , they’re calling me horrible names , telling me that i’m a horrible person . every time i delete one , i get another . i just don’t know what to do anymore . i’ve never felt so isolated in my life . if i had known this would be the reaction i’d get , i would have never made the post to begin with . i would rather be struggling then receiving this type of treatment

hi mister gaiman , would it be alright to ask for you to reblog my donation post ? my transphobic step-father kicked me out just a few hours ago and i could use every bit of help i can get .. it's on my blog , but it's also linked in my pinned post . thank you for reading !

Good luck.

#i don't want to ignore this because it makes me look suspicious but addressing it could also bring more negativity #my heart feels like it's shattering into a thousand pieces right now #i just needed help and now all of this #i think i'm going to log off for a little bit for my own mental sanity #thank you to those who believe me . i appreciate it more then words can say #ask to tag

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why am i getting death threats over my donation post .. what is happening

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$25 so far , thank you so much !

i was kicked out by my transphobic step-father , consider helping me stay afloat for the next few months

hi everyone .. my name is amara and i’m an eighteen year old nonbinary person who just got kicked out of my home . my step-father somehow logged into my personal computer while i was away from the house and went through everything . he knows everything , he knows that i’m queer , he knows about my partner , every little secret that i kept hidden about myself to protect myself … when i got home , he was in the process of ransacking my room .. started calling me horrible transphobic and homophobic names , said i'm no longer allowed to live under his�� roof . he told me to get the fuck out , all while my mom watched and didn’t do or say anything to defend me or stop him .

my older sister is letting me stay with her which i appreciate so much but she is a single mom and she’s already struggling without me adding more to her plate . i’m trying to finish this final year of high school so i can get my diploma and go to live with my partner . i have $75 saved up from babysitting but that’s going to go so fast with buying my own groceries and necessities . i’m going to start selling my art soon but in the meantime , i could really use some help .. if anyone can send a few dollars to help me stay afloat until i graduate , it would mean absolutely everything to me !

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i was kicked out by my transphobic step-father , consider helping me stay afloat for the next few months

hi everyone .. my name is amara and i’m an eighteen year old nonbinary person who just got kicked out of my home . my step-father somehow logged into my personal computer while i was away from the house and went through everything . he knows everything , he knows that i’m queer , he knows about my partner , every little secret that i kept hidden about myself to protect myself … when i got home , he was in the process of ransacking my room .. started calling me horrible transphobic and homophobic names , said i'm no longer allowed to live under his roof . he told me to get the fuck out , all while my mom watched and didn’t do or say anything to defend me or stop him .

my older sister is letting me stay with her which i appreciate so much but she is a single mom and she’s already struggling without me adding more to her plate . i’m trying to finish this final year of high school so i can get my diploma and go to live with my partner . i have $75 saved up from babysitting but that’s going to go so fast with buying my own groceries and necessities . i’m going to start selling my art soon but in the meantime , i could really use some help .. if anyone can send a few dollars to help me stay afloat until i graduate , it would mean absolutely everything to me !

moneyapp + payfriend

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i was kicked out by my transphobic step-father , consider helping me stay afloat for the next few months

hi everyone .. my name is amara and i’m an eighteen year old nonbinary person who just got kicked out of my home . my step-father somehow logged into my personal computer while i was away from the house and went through everything . he knows everything , he knows that i’m queer , he knows about my partner , every little secret that i kept hidden about myself to protect myself … when i got home , he was in the process of ransacking my room .. started calling me horrible transphobic and homophobic names , said i'm no longer allowed to live under his roof . he told me to get the fuck out , all while my mom watched and didn’t do or say anything to defend me or stop him .

my older sister is letting me stay with her which i appreciate so much but she is a single mom and she’s already struggling without me adding more to her plate . i’m trying to finish this final year of high school so i can get my diploma and go to live with my partner . i have $75 saved up from babysitting but that’s going to go so fast with buying my own groceries and necessities . i’m going to start selling my art soon but in the meantime , i could really use some help .. if anyone can send a few dollars to help me stay afloat until i graduate , it would mean absolutely everything to me !

moneyapp + payfriend

#lgbt #queer #crowdfund #financial aid #queer crowdfund #community fund #mutual aid #mutual aid request #signal boost #idk how to tag this to be honest . i'm new to all of this #but mutuals if you could reblog this it would help so so much

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