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ITS HARD TO BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP, IF...

you'd rather bottle things up forever than have uncomfortable or vulnerable conversations

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Girls knows other females intentions just like guy do, so when they tell you not talk to someone, then just don't.

It's for a reason

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it's not about who likes you or interested in you.

it's about who is brave enough to decide to take the risk of pursuing you intentionally and consistently, with the decisions to keep choosing you, followed by a words that matches their actions.

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Dating can be very exciting but quite daunting at the same time, especially if you are new to it. Here are some things you must know when it comes to men and dating.

1. A person is either capable of cheating or they are not. It's an issue of morality. So, once that barrier has been broken the chances of it happening again are quite prevalent (regardless of whether they cheated prior to you or whilst with you).

* 2. Men don't date for potential. They never date a girl thinking of who she COULD be. As women however, we tend to get fixated on the potential. Darling, this is not a build-a-man workshop, throw away those keys and never look back.

3. If you ever share something deep/traumatic with them and they use it against you whether it's a joke or them treating the issue with any hint of insensitivity...then please leave. This will escalate over time.

4. If you had a son like him would you be proud? The answer should be yes.

* 5. If you had a child/pet together and you passed away, would you fully trust that he'd care for that child just like you would've? The answer should be yes.

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I wanna die — "she said" he asked "why"

she replied "there's no peace inside my heart and mind.

he said "let's run away in the woods and build a small cottage to live in, where there will be you, me nature and peace.

"she smiled"

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Don't feel bad if people remember you only when they need you.

feel privileged that you're like a candle that comes to their mind when there is darkness :)

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Don't tell her she has trust issues when you have a history of lying to her.

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Being loved is the minimum

Make sure that you're also being valued, respected, prioritized, supported and understood

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the feminine urge to take care of him, hold him till he falls sleep, kiss him while he sleeps, wipe his tears for him, make sure he always feels loved, be his number one supporter, pray for him, make sure he's comfy, buy him anything he wants or needs, help him achieve his goals

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Dark psychology:

• If someone is yelling at you just look in their eyes and say, "Damn, all what they said about you is true." They won't say another word.

• If you want to know someone is looking at you, just yawn and they will yawn back.

• If you want to make someone feel nervous, just look at their forehead.

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I read a book that said:

'Marriage is hard.

Divorce is hard.

Choose your hard.

Obesity is hard, Being fit is hard.

Choose your hard.

Being in debt is hard.

Being financially disciplined is hard.

Choose your hard.

Starting a business is hard.

9 to 5 is hard.

Choose your hard.

Life will never be easy, but you can choose your hard.

Choose wisely!

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My roman empire is my current relationship. If we breakup I will never ever recover. I would look for him in everyone and everything because lam unconditionally and irrevocably in love.

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Imagine, she's gone. Gone. No, she's not stubborn, not arrogant, you just wanted this. You wanted her to leave, and she did it without reproach, freeing you from endless messages, smiles, and silly jokes. Are you happy? A week will pass, you'll check social media, and it will be empty. There will be messages from friends, but not that annoying message from her.

There will be no more absurd conversations she tried to build every evening. No one will eagerly await to hear about how your day went. You're foolish. You thought she lost you, but it's you who lost her.

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My boyfriend will never be in competition with another boy.

Ide what you look like, what you, or who you are. My boy will always be the most handsome in my eyes & imma help him get everything he wants out of life!

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Before she left me she said

"I'm in love with the Man you showed me in the beginning; and I'm thankful for the memories we made. But I was forced to learn that in relationships, it's not about how they start, it's about what they continuously show. and I refuse to let the person you ONCE WERE be the reason I let myself keep getting hurt by the person you have become."

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Phrases that will murdur their ego

I'm not mad, I'm just losing interest.

It's ok, I excepted the bare minimum anyway

If I'm too much for you, you're just not enough.

You keep coming back, so obviously I'm in the problem

You never seem to learn from your mistakes, you always find a way to dissapoint.

I don't know why I thought you could handle this.