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Judging Others

You shouldn’t judge others as they have already judged themselves, haven’t you?

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My moms cats ♥️

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Pepper ♥️ #mainecoon #beautifulcat (at Lehigh Acres, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/ClursDbNNjk/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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My moms cat never lets me near her - what a sweet moment for me! #maincoone #beautifulcat ♥️ (at Lehigh Acres, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Clon4EvutjY/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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My saving “Grace” aka “Gracie” - she showed up on my parents lanai a few hours before my dad passed away at home. ♥️

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“True love stories never have endings.”

— Richard Bach

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“If you can’t figure out where you stand with someone, it might be time to stop standing and start walking.”

— Unknown

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“The more you have loved and have allowed yourself to suffer because of your love, the more you will be able to let your heart grow wider and deeper.”

— Henri Nouwen

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One of the most difficult experiences I have endured is not only the pain of ending a relationship with someone I loved and cared about but losing their children in the process. I wish things ended differently so that we all could still be a part of each others lives. That hurts more than anything. 💔. All of our kids were together for 3 years. The realization that my ex doesn’t care about my kids says a lot. It’s really sad - makes me wonder if they ever meant anything to him at all.

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This is often difficult to accept, but it gets better over time with healing.

“Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.”

— Steve Maraboli

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I have been asked why I don’t delete pictures of my ex since we are no longer together. I found an article where the author has answered that question perfectly!

“The truth is that there’s a reason why all of those pictures with my ex remain on my Instagram, and it’s not because I’m too lazy to delete them; it’s because I still want them there.

After a breakup, I do believe in cutting ties; going your separate ways and moving on with your life, but I don’t believe in banishing memories from your mind and pretending that they never happened.

Even though that person is no longer a part of my life, for a long time, they were, and it’s not a chapter I’m just about to cut out, especially when it makes up so much of my story.

Just because so many things went wrong in our relationship, doesn’t mean that so many didn’t go right. And just because now I’m over that person, doesn’t mean that I don’t want to remember them.” - Rori Raye

I will always have love in my heart for him. The good memories are precious to me. I miss his kids which became a part of my family. When we ended, it was sad as I wish it ended differently. I think of them all often and pray they are happy and doing well.

So… there’s my answer! xo - B

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ⓘ The best thing about tumblr is that you can write sad, drunk, hot, frustrated and there will always be someone who understands it.

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“Don’t forget - no one else sees the world the way you do, so no one else can tell the stories that you have to tell.”

— Charles de Lint, The Blue Girl

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