etherealcauldronseer

[etherealcauldronseer]

ok so i need help like serious help. so im that girl who made that post how to know if im being groomed anyway things have escalated big time. so i want to know if his gonna hit and dip (witch i want since ima be 18 dont wanna be locked down or if his gonna get worse)

so ik im stupid and still had contact but we work together so its not just gonna go away anyways im young his in his late 30s wont tell me his exact age. but anyway ill be legal in a few months he is aware of this anyways.

so when we first interacted he commented on “lift this i wanna see if you can handle it” so i did then he said “make sure you squat” witch i was already doing but then he says “good you got the form down” so then the second time we had a actual interaction he asks if im in school, my work schedule, then a compliment.

so anyways we had some eye flirting then he started complimenting me saying i should stop smoking etc. then he asked when i started i said 14 he said your trouble.

anyways a few days later asks if im married or have a boyfriend im like nope his like why not and i said idi geuss they dont like me then he said thats a lie and you know it. then he asks what vape i have and i showed him then he shows me his saying he started yesterday.

then asked for my snap i give it.

so then it started off normal. then he started asking to see me without makeup claiming bcs the lashes and eyeliner make ppl look so different so i showed him with LESS makeup not none. anyway then it was kinda basic stuff then we moved to snapping and it was kinda how was your day etc and i feel like this is a important part to say but he was telling me how he was cleaning then made a joke about coming over and helping him and i was being dumb and said im a excellent cleaner i will then he asked can i cook to.

anyway basic stuff then it got sexual but normal then sexual at the same time kinda. so anyway same day we were snapping then he asks to see my room and im like why and he said to see if im organized.

anyways a few days later i unadded him bcs he left me on delivered a little long and i fell asleep the next morning he sent a chat saying “un?��� and texted back saying “wrong person sorry” and added him back (im a idiot ik) anyways he didn’t respond for two days then i saw him at work and confronted him about it kinda. i was like sorry it was a accident and he was like sure sarcastically and then i said it was and he was like its ok were still friends so i said you gonna add me back and he said no with a smile and slowly so i said why not with a head tilt and he said ill think about it so i backed off a little saying ok then he said ill consider it. anyway that night he adds me back and i dont acknowledge it just posted to my story and then a few days later i sent a regular snap and he snapped back so weve been doing dry snaps rn.

then anyway the other day the morning i didn’t really do much but then we botg were in a posting where we had to cross positions and he stopped smile i smiled then said go and he did so that evening when we saw eachother and he was professional at first then it got wierd.

then that evening i was alone pretty much ans it started OK SO ITS A LOT but anyways i went on my break after the cold behaviour and i assumed hed be gone! by the time i got back so anyways i go to the office my co workers there so anyways shes on the phone ans he walks in! and says come with me and im like wtf so i follow him and his leading me to the back dock doors opens the door then shuts it so its just us alone anyway he says i need help with my truck and im like oh i thought i was in trouble and he says you are in trouble for a lot of things and i was like whatt then he says get in there and its the drivers seat so i jump up his close as i do ans his like ok push down on the brake pedal so i do then he comes back is reaching over me touching my leg talking balh blah about cars ans i start shaking cant stop so he walks over and is like why are you shaking and im like fuck off and he laughs jumps up and is like leaning so im like backed into this spot and then he says ok good so i jump out his right in my soace as i do and his like thank you i gotta teatch you how to drive then he turns around fast and like walks fast toward me a couple steps all big and i backed away a couple steps bcs it spooked me then he just stopped and went back to normal anyway we go back in and im with my co worker again and shes explaining a bunch of shit with me ans then we walk to the doors (because one truck was late) so shes asking wben its gonna be here and his like dw ill help her ans tben after shes like he musy like you his nixe to you he wasnt with me while laughing ans im just chucklinh a long then

then he asks for my help with the break pedal AGAIN so were in that situation again and his doing the same shit then wben i get down his all close his arm brushes my boob etc then my coworker leaves ans its me and him and his outside fixing the truck then he comes in is like help me and so i help him carry some stuff inside to the office and then he gets me to sit down on a chair while his putting stuff away is trying to get me to learn how to read a car manual confusing 😭 ans then for like 20 minutes im sitting there hi standing there talking blah blah blah it was def to just keep me there

then anyway we walk further back to the department and his like asking questions about the inside part of the job how to print shit and things so anyway his like go get your device and im like i put it away you get it and he says go get it firmly idk why but i was like fine kinda attitude but went and got it anyways im “showing” him im like why do u need this ans his like incase one day i need to help u guys out but knowing how to print is nothing 😭 anyway he grabs the temp gun and is like lets take your temperature and dose my head tben moves it down to my boobs ans is like its hotter there then i think he was gonna do my downstairs but baild out 😭 then he had me like waiting 30 mins past my shift is done waiting for this delivery driver giving excuse oh ill take the load or lets give him five minutes then he gets me outside again with the delivery to wait for him so then were outside alone door shut and his talking about my nails then how he gives ppl shit then jokes about his his my boss and i said your not my boss and he said yes i am then we were talking about that time when he dominated my supervisor i said it was kinda funny how he cowered to you and he was eating that up and his just talking about how he fires ppl and his the boss etc then how the other drivers are intimidated by my supervisor but not him and he gives ppl shit witch shouldnt be attractive but it was im sorry 😭 anyways i was like your scary when u get mad and shit and i now realize he did dominate me i challenged him a little but its whatever

thats not even full detail or all of it

and my mom and nona are like thinking he wants more than a hookup and think he is gonna try and move me in because he knows i wanna move out at 18 and he said better start saving then but that was when we first started talking.

anyway i need advice if im being groomed or its just a hit and dip witch is what i want thats what i assumed going into this but now im confused. so thoughts?