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⋆˙⟡🕯⋆ 𝟗𝟎'𝖘 𝖆𝖓𝖎𝖒𝖊 𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖘 ♡‧₊˚🕸🔮

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IM SO EXCITED

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Le Chansonnier Cordiforme, c. 1470, music manuscript ― facsimile by Vicent García Editores of Valencia, Spain

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im going insane

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Gonna come down on Mia who was traumatized and exploited by the porn industry as a teenager instead of the hundreds of millions of men from your own faith who are (still!!!) streaming and demanding that content. lol fuck you

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Grey Scale

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thinking about her (the ghost barbie from the 2012 haunted beauty series)...

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Victorian heart mourning ribbons 

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“And I have talked to some genuinely mistreated men, and that was, indeed, how they reacted; they come up to me and say things like, “I really get what you’re talking about, because I actually had a pretty similar experience.” So I get immediately suspicious of a man who stands up angrily, and starts growling, “Why aren’t you talking about this happening to men?? This happened to me!!” This style of guy doesn’t express any caring about what is happening to women. Nor does he express any gratitude towards the women and men who are working to assist abused women and to stop abusers. There’s no sign that he feels any sense of common ground with abused women. So I don’t buy his story. I think what he’s really mad about is that we won’t shut up about what so many men are doing to women.”

“Twenty years or so ago, we started to hear that it was important to talk more about male victims. The argument was that it would give our movement against domestic violence more appeal, because men would realize that it can happen to them too. We’d broaden our reach. It’s been a tremendous mistake.”

“The domestic violence movement has de-genderized itself. The programs are now called “domestic violence programs,” not “abused women’s programs” as they were known before. We talk about abusers and victims as “he or she,” ignoring statistics that show that it’s overwhelmingly male-on-female. When we talk about the issue, we try to make sure we aren’t hurting men’s feelings with too much truth-telling. Has this broadened and strengthened our movement? No, not a bit. The domestic violence movement is far weaker than it was twenty years ago, not stronger. Many, many of the gains that we made are now being stripped away, more every year. (Women’s rights in general are being stripped away in our times, as you have most likely noticed.)”

“Don’t be apologetic about making women your agenda. Don’t apologize for putting women’s needs and rights front and center. When someone tells you that you should be talking about male victims too, I encourage you to respond, “There are hundreds of issues in this world that need to be addressed. Are you saying that I can’t address what happens to women unless I also address every other wrong that happens in the world? Why isn’t it okay to make women my focus?””

Excerpts from: Lundy Bancroft. Men’s Angry Messages to Me Part 2. November 14, unknown.

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i think right wing women by andrea dworkin could be a great text to understand shiv better

NO AGREED i haven’t read it in its entirety yet but i’ve read a few chapters and it 100% helps inform my shiv understanding. highly recommend to anyone interested — here’s a pdf of the book for anyone who wants it!

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Within seconds TikTok removed this video for "dangerous or illegal behaviours by minors" so my friend said to post it here qjshskhajajaj

I'm so grateful I'm not a teenager anymore.

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Posted May 27 2021

Okay my last post got 0 traction or donations, so here we go again.

I’m a 2-spirit indigenous lesbian and survival sex worker, who is severely physically disabled, immunocompromised, and neurodivergent. I had a “ministroke” only twoish weeks ago, likely from stress, and just found out I have genetic heart disease.

My phones touch screen is broken, my drawing tablet doesn’t connect anymore, I owe 125 in phone bills, and am over 2k in debt due to needing to escape a transphobic roommate (debt is from the first months rent, getting basic furniture and food staples, and paying a damage deposit plus covering my roommates pet deposit (they have been paying me back, but have limited income too.)

Without my phone or drawing tablet I have no additional income sources outside of a meager disability pension (that barely covers my rent and food bills), so those are my priorities right now. If I pay my phone bill off I can upgrade to a new model (I need a decent camera for camming), and hopefully I can start making income again for my other bills.

Hoping to raise 400 for the phone bill, upgrade fees, and new tablet. Extra donations will go towards my active debt.

Donations via paypal and etransfers can go to my email - ezekielmith@gmail.com

Total Raised: 260/400

Please rb if you can’t donate!

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Artemis, you thirsty bitch

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I made this for my girlfriend

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