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please please please do yourself a favor and PERSIST in your assumptions. never ever ever go back to the old story. persist to the point where you may sound delusional. it’s gonna happen. it’s the law. never doubt yourself. never doubt your powers. you don’t deserve it.

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a breathe is the best way to cope and relieve anxieties ~~~<3~~~take a second to breath

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💎🔮

How to become a Dream Girl: A DREAM GIRL GUIDE!

today i’m going to tell y’all how to actually become your dream girl, aka your desired self. 

one thing i HATE about “dream girl” tumblr is how judgemental they are! they have so many stupid rules, saying that to be a dream girl you can’t be this, you can’t have that and spew a lot of hateful rhetoric that is rooted in bigotry. (i.e misogyny & classism.)

first of all, this is your reality. as in, you can do whatever you want. so using that logic, we can be whoever we want.

first things first: decide who your dream girl is.

i want you to imagine your desired self. go beyond your wildest dreams. who is dream girl? what does she look like? what does she do for a living? ask yourself questions like these to start your imagination, and either type out it on a device, or write it down on a piece of paper. 

feeling uninspired? watch tv shows, go out with friends, read books, watch youtube videos, scroll on social media. whatever makes you feel inspired! i would really recommend making a pinterest board. pinterest is AMAZING for inspiration. 

if you’re really stuck, let me ask you some questions!

what does being a dream girl mean to you?

what does this woman look like?

what is her dream job?

what’s her salary?

where does she live?

what is her house like?

is she single or in a relationship? if so, describe her partner in detail.

what does she do for fun?

what are her hobbies?

how do others perceive her?

how is her mental state?

what is her personality like?

how does she dress?

how is her relationship with her family like?

what are her friends like?

describe the average day of the dream girl.

don’t feel pressured to desire a certain thing that you actually don’t want. you are unique. your “dream girl” is unique to you. just because you see 834778393893 blogs talking about how they’d like to live the hedonistic high life surrounded by materialism, doesn’t mean you have to. i mean if you want to live that way, be my guest! 

the “dream girl” isn’t a fixed aesthetic. this isn’t about anyone else. this is about YOU. so if your dream girl is you living in a pretty cottage in the middle of nowhere surrounded by art – that is YOUR dream girl. or if your dream girl is a woman who wears suits and is a ceo – that is ALSO a dream girl.

anyone can be a dream girl. and i mean, anyone. don’t listen to those stupid ass blogs that say shit like “you can’t be fat or skinny if you want to be a dream girl.” “you must act like this or you must have this” oh my god, PLEASE SHUT UP.  i swear to god if i see another post like that i will lose my damn mind. don’t listen to those blogs! you are beautifully & wonderfully made. :)

the big secret, how to actually become a dream girl.

okay, if you have been following me for a long time, you know what i’m about to say next. there is no secret. HA, FOOLED YA!

the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl.

yup, it’s that easy. just assume that you have everything you want. do not see your desired self as a fantasy, but as a reality. as a fact. wishful thinking will not do you any good.

as neville goddard once said:

“health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the arrangement of your mind-that is, by your concept of yourself, and your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true.”

affirm for your desire. and when you affirm, affirm from a place of knowing. don’t view affirming as some kind of technique, but as present fact. at the end of the day, your assumptions manifest. so assume you are your dream girl.

when affirming, you can either use separate affirmations like:

“i have my dream job”

“i look like xyz”

“i have the perfect boyfriend”

OR 

you can use general affirmations. i personally find these easier because you only need one affirmation, because they cover everything you want. and don’t worry! your subconscious knows exactly what you’re talking about when you use a vague affirmation, because we assign meaning to our thoughts. if both you and you friend used the same affirmation, you would both get different results because you both want to manifest different things. understand?

that being said, here are some of my fav general affirmations:

“i am a dream girl!”

“everything in my life is perfect”

“isn’t it wonderful”

“i am happy”

“i live my desired life.

etc.

(oh, and one last thing. you don’t even need to believe in your affirmations. affirm & persist anyway, until you have your desire. so for those of you who struggle with belief, it is okay to be sceptical! don’t be so hard on yourself. you can be in the shittiest mood, have intrusive thoughts and lack belief — but as long as you are persistent in your affirmations, you’ll be fine. after all, that is the law.)

you don’t have to affirm if you don’t want to. i know affirming isn’t for everyone. instead of affirming, here are some alternatives:

visualization

scripting

subliminals

praying

spells

placebo effect (yes, you can use it to manifest)

manifestation techniques (369, 5x55, etc)

so here you go, folks! remember, the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl. no, you don’t need to lose weight, buy a prada bag or invest in chanel.

you already are your dream girl already! 

here are some nice posts by me, relating to the topics, as linked below. happy manifesting, my loves!

https://bit.ly/3ixfmu2

https://bit.ly/3hNyTY5

https://bit.ly/3BpaIHm

https://bit.ly/3wNgpet

[grateful-goddess]

🦋play the game so good you become the creator of your own reality 🌙

࿐ ˚ . ✦ *·˚ ༘♡

life is like a game.

you can either play the game, (take control over your reality & manifest everything your heart desires) & win

or get played by the game, (be stuck in the victim mindset & let “destiny” control the outcome of your life.) & lose.

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🌸🌞🌟<3 affirm

you don’t have to work hard in order to be successful.

you don’t have to work hard in order to receive your manifestations.

you don’t have to work hard in order to be rich.

you don’t have to work hard in order to receive your desires.

destroy the idea that you have to be constantly working in order to get what you want.

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🌙stop being enslaved to the world of the senses🌷

if you’re famous in your imagination, you’re famous period. if you’re the most beautiful person ever in your imagination, you’re the most beautiful person ever period. if you’re rich in your imagination, you’re rich period. why? because your inner self (who you are in imagination) is your true self. stop identifying with the outer world, stop being enslaved by the world of the senses, and start identifying yourself with your inner self. who you are in imagination will project itself unto the outer world so why identify with the outer world if it’s just a projection of your inner world?

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🕯💚

affs for 2022

 — personal

 ╰ MANIFESTING

𓆉 i manifest quickly and easily

𓆉 i manifest FASTER than the void

𓆉 my manifestations appear in less than a day

𓆉 my subconscious is like my sugar daddy

𓆉 i am the physical embodiment of my desires

𓆉 everything is handed to me on a silver platter

𓆉 i'm on the pedestal

╰ LIFE

𓆉 it’s literally my birthright to live my ideal life

𓆉 my life is perfect and dreamy

𓆉 life always treats me better than i expect

𓆉 my life is on easy mode

𓆉 the world works for me

𓆉 the world is my oyster

╰ LUXURY

𓆉  my lifestyle is luxurious

𓆉 my closet is full of high end products

𓆉 money loves me

𓆉 why am i always getting money?

𓆉 wealth runs in my bloodline

𓆉 i live a princess pampered lifestyle daily

╰ SELF CONCEPT

𓆉 i am the mf blueprint!

𓆉 everyone loves me

𓆉 i want it, i got it

𓆉 i have always been everyone's dreamgirl

𓆉 i have always been the most perfect

𓆉 i am always treated like a spoiled princess

𓆉 i am the main character

╰ SCHOOL

𓆉 school is so easy for me

𓆉 my teachers love me

𓆉 i always get perfect scores on my tests

𓆉 i am so lucky with school

𓆉 my handwriting is perfect

𓆉 i get all a*s

𓆉 i have a photographic memory

╰ REVISION

𓆉 revision is so easy for me

𓆉 my life has always been perfect

𓆉 my past fits my ideals

𓆉 my past is perfect

𓆉 i did everything i wanted to

╰ AURA

𓆉 everyone loves me

𓆉 my aura is hypnotic, magnetic & alluring

𓆉 my vibe is addictive

𓆉 i have the halle berry effect

𓆉 i have the marilyn monroe effect

𓆉 i have the audrey hepburn effect

𓆉 i have the princess diana effect

𓆉 i have the noami campbell effect

[grateful-goddess]

✨money is energy ✨

constantly moving towards me; i am a magnet for abundance

💰💸money is in love with me and desires to be around me 💸💰

🕯🧚🏼‍♀️

[grateful-goddess]

💋I am the exception 🕯💋

"world is mine" affs

the world works for me

the world is my oyster

everyone breaks their backs to get me my desire

i am in control

i am the operant power

why do i always get everything i want?

everything i desire is already mine

i love being the god of my reality

i'm in control of my reality

my life is on easy mode

i am limitless

my life is perfect

everything always works out in my favour

[grateful-goddess]

for my solace

“when man finally identifies himself with his imagination rather than his senses, he has at long last discovered the core of reality.”

~ neville goddard, the law and the promise

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Period

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magic in the details

Life is a constant motion, a force that flows freely within each of us in its own unique and magical manner. It expresses a bittersweet duality in the experiences it brings us; there are moments full of joy, excitement, peace, and calmness. But how can we appreciate and be grateful for these moments without also experiencing the confusion, sorrow, numbness, and fear that accompanies life?

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2022

favorite parts of 2021:

my birthday trip

october retrograde

making my blog

meeting new people

true love

options for sp

shifting

vlogs

almost in void on halloween

knowing how i can get in void

growth

healing

being a better manifestor

learning/smarter

health for me +

hobbies

better glowed up plans

(etc)

for 2022+:

some of my goals so far

getting even better at the void

perfect relationship

dates

moving

money

house

traveling somewhere

new house party

car(s)

graduate

good food

no drama

privacy

side goals

in nature more

fun year

prettier

clothes

birthday party

go to a wedding

events

figure out fam situation

best friends

[grateful-goddess]

*·˚ ༘♡ beautifully spoken words *·˚ ༘♡

It lingers for your whole life, Katie Maria

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money comes to me easy

money comes to me easy

money comes to me easy

money comes to me easy

money comes to me easy