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Doodle dump that I should’ve made months ago

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My happy pill 🧡

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death the kid (and you know he was incredibly particular on the symmetry of those piercings)

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redraw of a piece from last year :)

alt + og under the cut!

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I am baffled that the hatred of trans men and mascs has spread so much that it's to the point a cisgender perisex white man is comfortable telling trans men of color that we're wrong about our own experiences while still calling himself an ally.

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People aren’t saying that cis or perisex folks cannot talk or advocate for transgender or intersex folks. What people are saying is that cis or perisex folks should not be determining what type of experiences an entire group of transgender or intersex people go through. There is a difference between education, uplifting, and advocating for a group and speaking over an entire group of people by determining what a group of people experiences, again a group of people that you are not part of. Also, if you’re listening to part of a group that does not mean you’re listening to the whole. You have to talk to the specific group of people you were talking about to be able to advocate for them and to learn about their lived experiences!

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Denying that trans men face oppression simply because that wouldn't nearly fit into your "feminism 101" should tell you that it's time to update your feminism.

But speaking broadly, I think it's very telling of a Tumblr blog to only speak highly of one group of marginalized people, and condescendingly speak ill of another marginalized group in the same community.

What I'm saying is, you might as well be a cop, because you sure talk like one.

Fellow transmascs, let's recognize this lame attempt to divide the trans community and move on. Continue to build solidarity with trans women, nonbinary people, everyone.

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Yea, fuck no, cis men do not get to lecture trans men about our experiences or jump into trans community discourse like you get to have any authority on it or like we need YOU to explain what misogyny is to us. Are you fucking stupid? This is not your lane and you do not know what the fuck you are talking about. Shut your ass up, god damn.

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It’s such a red flag to me when cis people are involved in trans discourse because genuinely Who Asked You

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if you follow pocket-deer-boy or think what he's saying about trans men is right then just block me bc yes he is speaking over trans people. the reason it may seem like trans men "have it easier" is because we're being actively silenced. we're assumed to be too stupid to know what we're talking about which is exactly what he's parroting by insisting we're privileged. trans men do not get treated like ugly women when we don't pass, we're treated like freaks. when ppl talk about protecting little girls they're talking about trans boys. being infantilized is not better than being demonized. not even mentioning that if infantilization doesn't work they'll just switch the latter. friendly reminder to be more critical of cis ppl engaging in inter community discourse, cuz often these mfs just wanna find a group they can shit on. i am saying this because I reblogged and liked a lot of his posts, not thinking much. but it's saddening to see him just be open abt his hate for trans men / mascs and suggest that we're simply whiny babies (what does that sound like to you?)

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'partial dissection of the chest of a man' by jacob roux, 1822 in the art of medicine: over 2000 years of images and imagination - julie anderson, emm barnes + emma shackleton (2011)

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hello. I think that the minotaur is a transmasculine icon for reasons that are difficult to articulate. A heavy lumbering "spliced" creature sealed for the crime of his creation, he is a monster and he is a child, the bull a symbol of violence and masculinity but also fertility and prosperity, a being of great suspicion and veneration. A body seen as unwhole and offensive. A body that is hairy and hot and fills the dark winding halls of the labyrinth with its smell and its breath and its voice. The horns and the eyes and the blood, the soft ears and curling tail and thin dainty hoofed legs. I also feel like being transmasc and not having top surgery can feel like being an awkward top heavy uncomfortable sort of creature? Always hunching and curling to try and make space in the uncomfortable constriction of the flesh. Does this make sense.

You, dear anon, are a visionary.

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Do not think for a moment that this admin is only going after trans folks. They are ultimately going after the whole LGBTQ community. They start small, like getting rid of a hotline option, then go BIG.

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☆ | SOUL EATER ◇ PROJECT ARCANA | ☆

Cards 1, 2, and 3: Death, The World, and Temperance

☆ Wanted to go back and update each of my three cards, to make sure all of their colours popped out more and looked more visually appealing and unified when put together.

☆ This project is by far my most popular series thus far, and I sincerely appreciate everyone who is patiently waiting for the next card. As previously mentioned, Project Arcana will be my biggest and longest project to date, with a whopping demand of 12 personalized tarot cards in total. I've been sprawling the workload out between other personal artwork in order to keep myself from becoming too burnt out, and after i complete a commission i recently just recieved an order for, I will proceed on with the fourth card for this project.

- Our next character certainly wouldn't mind the wait, just as long as his long awaited arrival to the scene is as bright and bold as he is... ⭐️

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