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How to Get Over Someone

You literally are taking the steps to get over someone that you had feelings for despite it being painful, and this is sign one of growth. Understand that this was considered a loss and you are allowed to grieve. You shouldn't push your feelings/emotions away because this may make the situation a lot worse, so please don't do that. Anyways, I hope this list helps <3 ------ -------- ------- -------- ------- ------ ------- ------ ------- Stop Romanticizing Them -You are going to need to reality check yourself at points. When you notice that you are trailing off and having romantic thoughts about this person, you are going to tell yourself the reality of it all. Remind yourself of their flaws and what is actually happening. We are taught as human beings to constantly try to avoid unpleasant feelings and times, but in order to heal properly, we are going to need to pay attention -Stop listening to love songs for the time being. Until you are FOR A FACT over this person, ditch any love songs. -If you want to listen to music, listen to vent music. Personally it helps me, but everyone is different <3. -Like mentioned above, shift the thought whenever this person comes up or allow a vent session beforehand, moving into the reality of the situation. -If you just met them and they're bombarding you with compliments and their love for you, they might be love bombing and not actually have feelings for you.

Vent to someone you trust or a therapist

Vent in a notebook to let all the anger and sadness out

Include some positives at the end too and that tomorrow will be a better day. Even if you don't believe in it RIGHT AWAY. The more something is repeated to the subconscious; the more it is likely to believe what it is being told.

Pick up New hobbies

What have you always wanted to do that you never really had time for? Go do it! Start that hobby! Embrace your best-self!

Practice gratitude

This may not be right away, and you might not know there purpose at the moment, but acknowledging the lessons that you learned from this person are very important: What did this person teach me about myself? What is something in my life that is consistent that I am grateful for? How did I grow because I met this person? How am I grateful for experiencing love? Why am I grateful for this person, even though they were not the right person for me?

You can also do this now anyway. Start practicing gratitude everyday to acknowledge what you do have rather than what you don't.

Treat the situation like a job interview Don't give just anyone your heart; remember that people have to earn it -- just like in the workforce. Give it 3-6 months unless you see red flags.

Ask yourself if you would want this someone with the same personality type as your crush dating someone you care about.

You most-likely will have a completely different perspective thinking from this lens as well. If you don't want them dating a friend than chances are they shouldn't be with you either.

Write down what you want in a partner, including makers and breakers.

You will be able to identify red flags a lot easier with this as well.

Set clear boundaries If you don't set boundaries, you could be setting yourself up for being taken advantage of. Some people will keep pushing and pushing your boundaries to see how far you'll go until you say no. With the person I'm currently getting over, I noticed that they would keep asking me to do stuff, and it eventually got to be too much, but not in the most extreme way. He wanted to constantly hangout after we finished our days and asked me to take a picture together, including physical contact, pushing me to go to his place every time he saw me... Mind you we had just met a week ago, and I wasn't comfortable with any of these; not to mention, I had a lot going on. If I hadn't set these boundaries, he probably would have kept pushing. As someone who has had boundaries pushed so many times... Do it right away before it gets too extreme so they know that you're not a pushover and have a spine.

Remember that if you don't love and respect yourself first, why expect others to?

Block Them If this person is especially toxic, BLOCK THEM. I know it will be hard at first, but if you want to heal, you will need to block this person or you won't be able to.

Reduce your Interactions Sometimes you cannot do that, and you'll HAVE to see them everyday, but if you don't, separate yourself and anticipate when you'll see them and avoid that spot.a If you are forced to see them in a work or classroom setting, see if you can switch spots in order to not have to interact with them. If you want, you can go by them still and just ignore as much as you can, but I tried this, and it didn't really work for me; it made it more painful and less helpful. If they do confront you, just grey rock them. Don't ask them questions and use short answers when they ask about you: Yes, no, nothing, etc.... You can also, if leaving to go somewhere, put your earbuds in-- I do this all of the time, and people tend to get the message... If they don't, grey rock them and don't feel obligated to answer; you can always pretend not to hear them.. Unfortunately I suck at this and grin whenever I hear someone try to talk to me when I have earbuds in out of awkwardness...

Take a Social Media Break I honestly think just deleting social media is your best bet... I only have Tumblr now, and I haven't looked back since I deleted Instagram and Snapchat two years ago. When I did try re-downloading them, I immediately dropped both apps right away, having little-to-no-interest. I feel like when you do this you'll realize who your true friends are and also can just take a moment. If you don't want to go that route, you can always temporarily delete it and take time to think if you really want this. In my opinion, deleting social media is way better.

Try Affirmations / Meditation Links for where I found some of my information: How to Stop Romanticizing Someone Gratitude Questions

Good Luck and Happy Healing <3

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How to Win Friends and Influence People (a summary <3)

Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.

Give people your sincere appreciation; don't fake it.

Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Become genuinely interested in other people: --Learn more about what makes them genuinely light up.

Smile.

Remember the other persons name.

Actively listen and encourage others to talk about themselves.

Talk about the other person’s interests.

Make the other person feel important.

Show respect for the other person’s opinions.

If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.

Begin in a friendly way.

Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.

Let the other person do a great deal of the talking: think the 80/20 rule.

Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers. You can Seed the Idea: Instead of presenting the idea directly, start by asking questions or making statements that lead the other person to the idea naturally. Guide the conversation in a way that allows them to arrive at the idea on their own.

Begin with praise and honest appreciation.

Call attention to people’s mistakes indirectly.

Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.

Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.

Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.

Use encouragement and make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.

Talk about what they want and show them how to get it.

Next analysis will be on The Art of Seduction <3

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Dealing with Narcissists -- A Guide

Use the Grey Rock Technique or Ignore Completely

When talking to this person, use a neutral and dull tone that lacks emotion and also give short answers, preferably one worded like: no, fine, etc, etc, without asking about them.

Even better, ignore them completely. If you know they'll be seeing you, put earbuds in and make it clear you're listening to music even if you're not. This tends to work most of the time, since they will mostly get the hint. If not, just use the grey rock method which also depends on your situation.

If you have to work with them for any reason whatsoever, keep a neutral tone and focus on the work given and when they ask about you, use one-worded answers and don't ask about them.

2. Keep Calm / Stay Neutral

Narcissists crave attention even when not positive, so when you don't give them anything, they'll eventually give up and stop praying on you.

Even a little attention that you give them, no matter whether positive or negative, little or large, they will assert their power over you, and they know this.

3. Don't Ask About Them + Don't Give them Attention + Don't Acknowledge Them

I mentioned this a bit earlier, but they crave attention whether it's positive or negative; never give into them.

4. Don't give them personal info

Narcissists can use this information to hurt you so don't give them any or even make up interests to see if they'll take advantage of this, but if you already know you're dealing with a narcissist.

5. Set Clear Boundaries + Don't Let Them Have Control

They may start pushing your boundaries more and more every time you agree to do something for them; your best bet is to always say no to them, because you don't want a narcissist in your life anyways so forming a friendship with them is really not an option here.

6. Don't Confront Them

They will deny, deny, and deny some more and cannot be honest with you. Their behavior is also not likely to change either way, so it's not even worth it.

7. Sometimes Bad People KNOW Bad People

It takes one to know one. A friend of my friend who's not a great person warned me about him, and I thought back to the sly comments he made, heard what she said, analyzed the situation deeper and realized she was right. I've also never seen her vulnerable about a guy and always treating nice guys terribly, but her tone and identity almost shifted indefinitely when she brought up him again and how he's a player. He started to not even hide if after time, and I just started ignoring him completely even when he tried to talk to me, because he's toxic asf.

8. Go No Contact

Block them. Block them. BLOCK THEM.

I am going to make a post about what self-reassurance has taught me and being my best-self, so you can best avoid toxic relationships and get your life together.

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🧘Affirmations to Get Over Someone🧘

I am free from any and all attachment to the desired person. I am confidentially in full control of my emotions and feelings. I no longer miss toxic individuals. I am easily prioritizing my well-being above all else. I easily cut off toxic people from my life. I exude confidence and embody the best version of myself in every situation. While others may miss me, I maintain boundaries and prioritize my own happiness. I effortlessly detach from people, freeing myself from unnecessary burdens. Moving on from toxic people is natural and empowering for me. I am free from becoming stuck to anyone. I possess the strength to move on from anyone whenever I choose, embracing new beginnings with ease. I am whole on my own and only seek self-validation. I acknowledge my worth and deserve better. I am the best version of myself and acknowledge my worth. I am able to keep my distance from this person and easily focus on myself. I am free from talking to them and contacting them as I know that I deserve better. I don't need to convince someone to be with me; the right person will always want to be with me, wholeheartedly, with no hesitation and no strings attached. I find self-control easy and fun. I embrace fun and healthy habits. I am at complete and utter peace. I will get over this because I know that there are 7 billion people in this world; one being my soulmate. I deserve better.

Include some Affirmations on Your Own, Too (in your head or on a piece of paper). <3

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“When did a dragon ever die from the poison of a snake?”

— Nietzsche

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“No matter how busy someone gets, they will always find a way to make time for the people they want in their life no matter what -- remember this philosophy when people don't text you for days.”

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The Art of Being Mysterious

 Understand People's Intentions Better.

When I talk less and observe more, I've noticed that I can indicate red flags better; I can without this, too, but it's easy for people to slip, indicating red flags.

In the past two months, I've definitely gotten better at reading people, improving intuition and observing red flags. I can sense when there's something off about someone right away now and cannot really explain why but just a lot of videos on "dark psychology" and reading people in general.

I definitely recommend.

2. Always Stay Calm and Be Less Reactive -- but Not a Pushover

This is just self-explanatory; it also always makes you the stronger person in each case.

3. Use correct body language

First impressions are crucial so always use appropriate, confident, and approachable body language.

4. Don't always be available

Don’t be available all the time; focus on you. If you are constantly answering your phone, checking your phone -- it shows desperation and insecurity.

With me, I am barely on my phone... I only really go on it for my daily deep breathing exercises and for unlocking my email since it's protected beyond belief.

5. Not being a Try-Hard

It's not cute, and you just look extremely desperate -- huge turn off.

6. Revealing Small Details

This person doesn't need to know EVERYTHING about you. I've known my best friend for almost 4 years now, and she still doesn't know everything about me, so why should a guy you met an hour ago, 2 days ago, a week ago, or even a month ago?

Be like a book, reveal small pieces of information that will keep them wanting more but not too much.

7. Be Hard to Get

Don't sell yourself short for anyone.

8. Quantity Over Quality

You don't need one million friends to be happy; having just one authentic friend is all you really need over 100 fake friends.

9. Stay Off Social Media/Be Careful with Who you give your no. to

Give it time before you give someone your social media and phone number, especially phone no. if they turn out to be a total creep. I don't have social media anymore, totally gone, but when I did, I had no posts... None... with a blank profile picture, and I also didn't follow any topics or celebrities I was interested in in case people decided to dig around my account and get too much information about me. Not that the stuff I was into was bad, but it gave more information about me that I wanted to share when I was ready like my taste in music, favorite shows, hobbies, etc... I also think it added into the people pleasing aspect when I did post on my story occasionally, wishing people would just message me and say how cute I looked or how fun it looked which was not helping my mental health at all. Not to mention, I wasn't really close to anyone on there except 2 people out of 143 people.

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Reminder: If they text you out of the blue, don’t answer—

I can’t believe I’ve realized this after years of having dealt with this behavior but just block them— It’s not worth it. If someone’s going to treat you as a “plan b” option, they’re better off blocked. Have them treat someone else with that disrespect, not you.

No offense, but I don’t have time for people’s games anymore.

Focus on YOU! Be the best version of YOU! If you’re reading this, you deserve better this year and don’t you forget it.

Moral of the story: have high standards! You deserve the best!

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They won’t hurt you anymore.

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everyone has their own definition of a dream girl - a girl who is simply everything we want or everything we want to be. i strongly believe that discipline and the law of assumption can help anyone become their own version of a dream girl. so why not just manifest that into your reality?

start by figuring out exactly what it means to be a dream girl to you.

what's her name? what does she do for a living? how much money does she make? what about her education? where does she live? what does she look like? what does her body look like? what kind of clothes does she wear? what kind of person is she? what does her morning routine look like? what does her day look like? what does her night routine look like? what are her hobbies and interests? how does she see the world and other people? how do other people see her? what are her goals in life? what kind of people does she surround herself with? what does she do in her free time?

now the most important thing is to answer those questions like you're talking about yourself. not "she is..." but "i am...". i suggest you write it down somewhere just so you can come back to it whenever you need it.

answer those questions and add whatever details you want your dream girl to have. please remember that this is the version of a girl who is perfect to YOU. don't feel like your answers have to be something that other people consider perfect, just describe the version of yourself who is truly happy with her life.

now that you know what a dream girl is to you, tell yourself that you are that girl. i don't wanna hear any "oh but she's rich and i'm not" or "oh but she's this and that and i'm not". no! she is you and you are her. if you can imagine it you can have it. think about what your life would look like if you were that girl. daydream, make plans, journal, create vision boards, do whatever that helps you be in the dream girl state. you are your dream girl, that's it. you look like her, you talk like her, you walk like her, you are her. no matter what shows up in your reality, that doesn't matter, you're becoming your dream girl and nothing and no one can stop you.

something that will definitely help with that is doing the things on your list that are possible for you right now. if your dream girl wakes up early and you know that it's possible for you then start waking up early as well. if your dream girl does yoga and you have enough time and are physically able to do it, start doing yoga. you don't have to start with extremely expensive products and routines, just whatever is possible for you right now. do whatever will help you stay in that state and the rest will simply come to you :)

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Psychology Tricks and Tips

general tips:

If you stare at someone's lips during a conversation, they may think you're interested in them.

If you aim to get away with something, enter or exit a place with confidence; don't hesitate of look around.

If you ask someone "when can we meet," they're more likely to say they're not available then if you ask "what time works best for you to do "a meeting," for example, morning or evening -- this is a sales trick.

If someone insults you, ask if they're okay; they will feel "stupid" which will give the impression you are winning the argument.

The best way to make an impression is to teach. People will not remember what you said as much as how you made them feel.

In a group, notice who everyone looks at when they laugh; this shows who they're most interested in.

Never make an appointment on Monday or Friday. On Monday, everyone is "mad" and on Friday, everyone's thinking about the weekend.

Wear blue when trying to earn people's trust since this color is associated with positive emotions according to the brain.

Rub the back of your neck to calm down and reduce anxiety.

If you want to have power over someone, don't break eye contact with them first.

Yawn to see who's watching you.

Learn information by explaining.

Calm your nerves by chewing gum

When in doubt, stay silent when someone is arguing with you.

We have a negativity bias in our brain, so everytime you say something negative, say 5 positive things.

Treat a breakup like a drug addiction or really any addiction withdrawal and use the correct steps to get over it.

How to Seduce Anyone

Have them talk about their child hood, early life which has a lot of emotions surrounding it while letting them do the talking.

Find out what excites them with occasional connecting to your experience but not too much.

Make them feel special, brilliant.

Play the distance game to be respected more and to not be seen as a people pleaser.

Make prolonged eye contact!

Be confident but not overconfident.

Wear red/black to look more attractive and gain a boost of confidence.

Maintain mystery

Be willing to walk away

Prioritize yourself first.

Don't be available all of the time; create some distance and intrigue them.

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Dark Psychology Tricks People Use, so You Can Avoid being Manipulated

3-Step Hot and Cold Technique / Pursuit and Withdrawl / Push and Pull Method / Love Bombing

Build up a pattern of pleasure and validation, making them feel amazing around you.

Break it emotionally and physically by pulling away from them, making them chase after you to get the validation back since they just got addicted to your validation.

Then start validating them again

Insinuation

Hinting that you know something without saying what you know.

Example: If someone says, "I need to tell you something," but then says "nevermind" after you ask what it is.

The Silent Treatment

Distance

Give them the space to think about you and idolize you. This is kind of a two way street

Create Desire

Don't make them feel like they have you 100%

Be There Only Source for a Certain Need

Take them Somewhere like a Horror Film or Amusement Park; Somewhere that will get Their Heart Beating Fast

This gets their adreneline up, thinking they enjoy being with you, rather than the event itself.

Mirroring

Evalute what they need through verbal or physical habits even if not genuine to evaluate what they need in a relationship to bring their guard down even if it isn't genuine.

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guide to become your best version ✨

the first step, be clear about what your best version would look like. questions to ask yourself.

what would my best version look like?

what habits would i have?

what would my life be like?

what would be my morning and evening routine?

what thoughts would i have?

what would i focus on?

what thoughts and habits should i leave behind?

how would i like to feel?

and lastly…

what can i start doing to connect with this version of me?

you can also add your own questions if they resonate with you, the important thing about this exercise is that you connect a little bit more with that better version of yourself.

from my experience, it is important to focus and work on these three areas of our life at the same time so that none of these areas are out of balance and we can flow to that version more easily.

it is important because i have realized from my own experience and from other people who send me questions that they only focus on one area, in most cases, the habits, and forget others, then when something happens or we go through a bad moment we feel lost and it seems that everything is "wrong" but if we work on these areas at the same time and we nurture them day by day we will have more control of our emotions and thoughts, then we will not stagnate in "bad times". remember, we can always go through bad times but these always bring us a learning experience.

✨ physical

daily movement, create an exercise routine

eating healthy food, for the sake and perfect functioning of our body.

create a daily routine that will help us reach our goals.

healthy habits

hobbies that help us connect with our best self.

focus on the well-being of our body

✨ mental and emotional

read about personal growth, psychology, and topics that will help us to improve our personal best.

journaling

keep a daily record of our emotions, as well as our habits.

focus on what we do want rather than what we don't want

detect what our negative thought patterns are and change them for - more positive ones according to how we want to think and feel from now on.

affirm positively

work on those areas of our life that we need to improve or are damaged

✨ spiritual

healing and balancing both your feminine and masculine energies

develop your intuition

have faith in yourself and in the process of creation (god, universe, energy…)

read about spirituality

meditate day and night

doing energetic cleansing

connect with your spiritual side

love yourself for who you are now

forgive the people who hurt us and forget the past

practice gratitude

practice compassion and tolerance towards yourself and others

connect with nature

this is what i believe brings us closer to becoming our best version, as i am always learning new things about the subject and evolving both personally and spiritually so i will continue to share this in future posts.

as always all questions related to the topic are welcome and if you have any doubts you can also ask.

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The Backwards Law

The Backwards Law is the concept that the more you pursue something, the harder it is to achieve that thing.

When you actively pursue something and force outcomes, the more likely the opposite is going to happen to you. You are not trusting your subconscious mind which provides a significant role in decision making and is below the conscious mind; it also controls 95% of our lives.

When we decide to get involved and “force” an outcome, it makes it harder to achieve the success of the outcome we want because we’re so focused on an “end result” without consulting the process.

Focus on the present moment while embracing the process instead of obsessing on the end goal and trying to force everything; it will only cause pain and suffering.

We also tend to take advantage of what we already have, constantly craving “more.”

Also, people who are “hard to get” are generally more attractive to people then people who aren’t:

1. This creates a challenge which could end up in a reward if done right.

2. This also enhances one’s value by them not going for just anyone.

3. We also love things that are not as readily available

4. Enhanced appreciation — if this person doesn’t go for just anyone and goes for you, what does that say about you as a person?

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I made an affirmation tape that I listen to bed and meditate to, resembling

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My friend is a fan of Alan Watts, and I never really consciously looked into his philosophy, but I found the video relating to the “backwards law” interesting, realizing it’s Watts’ personal philosophy.

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"The harder we try with the conscious will to do something, the less we shall succeed. Proficiency and results come only to those who have learned the paradoxical art of doing and not doing, or combining relaxation with activity." - Aldous Huxley

Trust the process and trust yourself <3

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Self-Improvement: How to Increase your Intelligence

Word Games:

Word games make you recall information quickly and accurately, making it an excellent way to improve your memory.

Word games make players come up with new words and learn their meaning; this helps build a larger vocabulary.

By challenging yourself to come up with new words, you will boost your overall creativity.

Sharpen Your Problem-Solving Skills through thinking critically.

De-stress and Relax: They're fun, relaxing, and engaging.

Improve Your Concentration by focusing for long periods of time.

Give Your Brain a Boost via memory, vocabulary, creativity, and problem-solving skills.

Puzzles:

Improved Memory:

Better Problem-Solving Skills

Increased IQ

Delay Dementia and Alzheimer’s

Improved Mood

Lower Stress Levels

Increased Attention to Detail

Increased Productivity

Chess:

1. Helps you with focusing skills

2. Improves memory

3. Improves planning skills

4. Helps ADHD

5. Decision making/problem solving

Benefits of Trivia Games:

1. Improve memory

2. Reduce stress

3. Improve problem-solving skills

Neglect Technology/Social Media:

1. Reduce stress

2. Allows you to focus on gratitude

3. Reduces feelings of being “lonely.”

Question, Don't Assume/Think Philosophically: Questioning everything fosters critical thinking, helps uncover hidden truths, promotes personal growth, and encourages a deeper understanding of the world around us. It challenges assumptions, stimulates curiosity, and can lead to more informed and thoughtful perspectives.

Hang Out with People Who Are Smarter: This is self-explanatory.

Get Some Physical Exercise:

Regular physical activity improves brain health and cognitive function.

Read Frequently:

Reading frequently offers numerous benefits, including expanding ones knowledge, improving vocabulary, enhancing critical thinking skills, reducing stress, and fostering empathy by sharing diverse perspectives. It also stimulates the brain, boosts creativity, and provides a valuable source of entertainment and relaxation.

Watch Ted Talks / Educational Videos:

1. They encourage critical thinking.

2. Help develop public speaking skills.

3. Improves listening skills.

4. Widens knowledge.

5. Encourages questions and discussion.

Manage Diet:

The brain requires proper nutrients to function well like omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals support cognitive functions, memory, and overall brain health.

Manage Stress/Anxiety:

Managing stress is beneficial for intelligence because stress/anxiety can negatively impact cognitive functions and hurt ones memory.

To reduce stress/anxiety, practice gratitude and mindfulness to focus on the present rather than dreading on the past and worrying about the future.

Meditation Increases IQ

Meditators scored 20% higher on an IQ test and also were able to perform better under pressure.

Exercise

Question Everything No Matter What

Surround yourself with Intelligent People

When listening to an audio, Take Notes on the Important Parts so You Will Remember it Better.

Re-Teach what you Learned

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100 Words You Can Incorporate Into Your Speech To Sound More Elegant ✨

(Common word - Alternate variation)

Beautiful - Exquisite

Happy - Ecstatic

Smart - Intelligent

Big - Enormous

Small - Petite

Good - Excellent

Bad - Deplorable

Nice - Gracious

Tired - Fatigued

Old - Ancient

Rich - Affluent

Poor - Impoverished

Happy - Joyful

Sad - Melancholic

Hot - Sweltering

Cold - Frigid

Busy - Prolific

Loud - Vociferous

Easy - Effortless

Difficult - Arduous

Fast - Swift

Slow - Languid

Brave - Valiant

Funny - Witty

Rich - Opulent

Poor - Indigent

Old - Vintage

New - Novel

Strong - Robust

Weak - Feeble

Pretty - Alluring

Ugly - Unattractive

Clean - Immaculate

Dirty - Sullied

Happy - Jubilant

Sad - Despondent

Young - Youthful

Old - Antiquated

Big - Colossal

Small - Minuscule

Fast - Rapid

Slow - Sluggish

Brave - Fearless

Funny - Hilarious

Clean - Pristine

Dirty - Filthy

Strong - Stalwart

Weak - Debilitated

Happy - Content

Sad - Poignant

Confusing - Perplexing

Typical - Quintessential

Many - Myriad

Everywhere - Ubiquitous

Contradictory - Paradoxical

Showy - Ostentatious

Insightful - Perspicacious

Arrogant - Supercilious

Obscure - Esoteric

Flatterer - Sycophant

Favorable - Auspicious

Joking - Facetious

Indescribable - Ineffable

Wordy - Verbose

Respected - Venerable

Worsen - Exacerbate

Short lived - Ephemeral

Help - Facilitate

Sneaky - Insidious

Confuse - Obfuscate

Begin - Commence

End - Terminate

Start - Inaugurate

Get - Obtain

Give - Bestow

Make - Fabricate

Break - Shatter

Fix - Rectify

Use - Utilize

Look - Gaze

Find - Discover

Tell - Narrate

Ask - Inquire

Leave - Depart

Buy - Procure

Show - Exhibit

Think - Contemplate

Put - Position

Need - Require

Stop - Halt

Talk - Communicate

Like - Adore

Help - Assist

Call - Summon

See - Perceive

Tell - Enunciate

Go - Traverse

Tell - Express

Have - Possess

Feel - Experience