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𝐅𝐭. 𝐃𝐨𝐣𝐚 𝐂𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐉𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐕𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲

Good to see you! This PAC focuses on what goes through your future lover's mind every time they look at you rather than how they perceive you. Other than that, I'm pretty sure y'all know the drilll. Enjoyy! ♡ Lemme know which pile did y'all pick🥂

🫀𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟏

TW : slight sexual themes

The Devil ⟡ 8 of swords ⟡ 9 of wands

They see.... Their Love.

They always get a big fat smile on their face everytime they encounter you. Remember that light at the end of the tunnel everyone keeps talking about? You were like that for this person. This person was absolutely drained. They were done with love. Always reserved and aloof. And then boom, you showed up and this person had never opened their heart this much to anyone. They felt everything to be so easy with you, talking to you, having conversations with you, spending time with you, loving you. They look at you and they thank their luck for being with the most beautiful person they have seen, as if you are the birthchild of the sun and the moon and bought up by the stars. Even one look at you is enough to turn them on for the rest of the day, they fade back in their mind thinking about how intimate locking their eyes with yours feel, how heavenly your mouth tastes. They get weak in knees there and there, their mind full of how warm your breath feels on their when they kiss you, how you whimper as y'alls skin even slightly touch, how you play a bit hard to get at first and then eventually give in. They look at you once and they instantly know what you're feeling or thinking because y'all do the eye talk thing. They see you and they find the courage and the determination that you give them. Your future lover knows and understands your battle with your demons, and let me tell y'all, they are nothing but super proud of you for putting your best effort forward to triumph despite all the criticism and challenges placed in your path. They feel lucky to be around you, for you are the brightest star in the sky who never lets any of this come in between of anything and still continue to fill other's life with love and contentment. Your smile and wit takes a toll on their heart, for everytime they see you, their heart swells with warmth and affection. They get reminded how they thought they'd never do this love bullshit again but here they were practically praying that this feeling of paradise with you never ends.

“If you are intolerable, let me be the one to tolerate you”

🫀𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟐

The Moon ⟡ Queen of swords ⟡ 4 of wands

They see.... Their Bundle of Joy.

They ponder what is it about you that keeps haunting them day and night. Is it you having so many facets to yourself that just as they believe they know you, a new aspect of you emerges, or is it just how articulate you are? Is it that undeniable mysterious charm of yours or is it your ability to satisfy their interest while keeping them interested in coming back for more? Is it how you have answers to almost everything or is it how much you make them laugh? They want to know why they find themself thinking about you all the damn time because honestly, they probably never saw this coming. You and them?? in love?? always seemed unlikely to them but oh well, here we are. They always thought that you guys were probably never each other's type; two quite different people coming from different experiences, having distinct personalities and yet, you two fit together like the parts of a jigsaw. Perfectly. Everytime they see you, they see the person who's mere presence and smile makes all their trouble disappear, they see the person who seems like an open book but whose messages aren't supposed to be understood by many. And then, they see the real you, not the one that shows up when you're in front of people or the one who is merely a mask you wear to avoid being bothered by unneeded questions from others, but the one who you keep to yourself. The lively you, the amusing you, the crazy you, the mellow you, the imperfect you, the strong you, the clever you, the fluid you with whom they can go from having senseless, baseless conversation to having mature, natural and clear conversation. They are amazed at how just being in your presence makes them feel rejuvenated. The jokes you tell, the big smile that covers your face while talking about something that excites you, your confidence, your instincts - all of it makes them feel at home. As though they belong here with you. The admiration they have for you consumes them completely and makes them feel like some stupid main lead in a rom com. And they are here for it all.

“In case you ever foolishly forget: I am never not thinking of you”

🫀𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟑

The Magician ⟡ King of Swords ⟡ 9 of Cups

They see.... Their Life Flashing before their Eyes.

They meticulously examine every single moment that has led up to this point in the hope of determining what they did right to deserve you. They want to know how on earth did this happen, how did you end up with them, as if to count their blessings. Every time their gazes meet yours, they are reminded of the unwavering strength and support you have shown them. They become in awe of the person who brightens their day so greatly, sometimes just by being around them. The fact that they have you—the person who believes in them and makes them happy—makes their eyes twinkle with pride. It almost seems as though they had given up on love before you came along, but ever since then, not only have they realised what true love was, but they have also been fortunate enough to experience it. They see hope when they look at you, the hope you gave them as you gradually enamoured them with your presence. The hope that changed them and bought them this far in life. They weren't always the person that they are now and they probably wouldn't have been their current self if it wasn't for you. They get reminded that they are legit experiencing their own love story with someone who is incredibly funny and smart, occasionally grumpy but always just as endearing. They are starting to understand what it feels like to be in love, suddenly all that romantic music and poetry starts making sense to them. They don't mind getting lost in you, afterall it's the comfort that you exude that makes them feel secure (For some of you, your partner might end up lowkey idolizing you). Even if things don't work out in the end, their heart knows that you have left a mark on them. It's probably the way you speak, the magic that your smart mouth has, or probably your ability to turn them on without doing anything remotely sexual that keeps them coming for more. It's like being in your presence soothes them. Some might even mock your future lover for being whipped for you but you see, that's just how it is.

“you have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love, I love, I love you.”

🫀𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟒

3 of Cups ⟡ King of wands ⟡ 8 of wands

They see.... Their Best Friend.

They fall in love with you all over again, but this time it's far deeper. They are perplexed as to how everything could have transpired so quickly—almost in an instant. You were for them like a breath of fresh air that casually entered their life and brought them unbounded happiness and unceasing smiles, but at the same time, was very swift to completely captivated their heart, as though it were always intended to be yours. Probably for the first time in their life, they had found themself doing all those things which they had previously thought to be entirely cringe – constantly checking their phone for that one text from their special one, stealing glances and nervous conservations, smiling like a fool around you — you name it, they probably went through it! As they immersed themselves in this swamp called love, they realised how magical all of this felt, how magical having you felt. Simply One look at you serves as a reminder to them that they found a partner in you, rather than merely a lover - A partner who is always game for nuisance, the one with whom they exchange inside jokes, the one they fight for and fight with, the partner who holds their hand when they (your lover) feels anxious, the partner who best fit their vibe, the partner who was the catalyst behind all these new experiences, their partner in crime, the partner they turn to for solace, and the partner who annoys the shit out of them but also the partner they obviously so wholeheartedly love. Sometimes the clouds of worries rain on them, what if all of this will lead to nothing? What if this doesn't work out? What if they lose you? but then just being with you in that moment assures them that what they have with you is way far special to be worried about. They will always love you regardless of anything. They probably undoubtedly believed that this Jake Peralta - Amy Santiago and Monica Geller - Chandler Bing type of love could only exist in fictional sitcoms, but oh boy how wrong were they. They see you and they see their bestfriend, love and sunshine. The Passion and the fire between you and this person is off the damn charts.

“There I was, way off my ambitions, getting deeper in love every minute.”

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© Infipretty

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#0003 mars and their ideals

where venus is the ideal feminine for the man, mars is the ideal masculine for the female. traits the female may exhibit from her mars will be searched for in the man

(+ personal observations)

aries mars — a fighter, an over-achiever

these women will want the most fiery, the most dramatic, and the most spontaneous men out of them all. they crave adventure and deep stimulation that is not only mental but physical and spiritual also. these women rely on their impulses to keep them going and will want a man so attuned to his own impulses, he doesn’t know where to put himself. she wants to be put on adventures so little and so huge. she wants someone to explore with, to mentally grow with. somewhere she can go and learn. she wants someone who is dramatic and self-assured in who they are and what they want. she will want someone who encourages her to push her boundaries and to broaden her outlook on life. she looks at life with a large and broad perspective and will not settle for someone who restricts her on thinking big or narrows her vision to only one or two things

men who are forthright, direct, and independent will attract this female. these women like someone who doesn’t settle and keeps on the move. strong, macho men are attractive to these women also. they need someone who is aggressive and blunt in the way they move and speak. she will be attracted to men who are brave and initiate. she is the type to put pressure on the people she likes and will expect this also. she wants someone who goes after what they want. she will look for a man that is certain of his sexuality and is certain of his sexual capability. she, herself, is very sexual, and will look for a man that aligns with her libido. she will look for a man that is sexual and lustful. she wants to physically connect through the body but also connect through spirit. there needs to be drama, fire, and feelings in sex. she will feel most happy when she finds a man that matches her libido because sex, to her, is an act of self-expression

she may date men who are macho and cold. the men she dates may not be overly emotional, but she will require her man to be possessive. while she values personal space and independence, she will have a deep attachment to her lover and will want only him. she, too, wants a man that only wants her. she is very impulsive in everything she does and says and would expect her man to be the same

displays of affection might not be a regular occurrence, but there will be an attraction between her and her ideal so strong, sexual tension and chemistry will reign through and throughout the relationship. she will be the type to not get enough of her lover, all while he struggles to keep his hands off her as well. this is a touchy and affectionate placement and the woman will most definitely want a man that doesn’t wallow in his feelings or dramatise them. she is not overly ignorant of emotions but prefers them not taking over in everything she does

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taurus mars — a gentle beast, the most humble lover

this woman prefers the silent type. she does not go for men that overly exert themselves or the men who share too much of themselves. she is one to respect traditional values and has high morals. she looks for a man that respects and/or reflects these morals. she does not go for someone who is overly aggressive or spontaneous; she needs someone much more comforting, quieter, a lot more nurturing

she needs a man who works hard and has a stable footing in his life. she likes men who know how to manage money and how to make money. she needs someone resilient and disciplined. she holds a confidence that is silent and is displayed through her wealth of money, belongings, and wisdom. she does not cry for other people’s attention. she is not needy for other people. so, she would look for a man that is of the same calibre. she wants a man that doesn’t require anyone else’s validation but his own

she offers her devout loyalty to the man who does the same. she does not look for adventure or new horizons with her lover, but finds excitement through things much more sentimental. cooking, touching, and gifts are a few of her expressions of affection, and she will require a man that values her and appreciates her. someone to reinstate that yes, she is a strong woman, and that she is supported. she needs someone who is not frail to feelings and doesn’t melt when sad. she does, however, look for a man that knows to control his anger, his upset, and his love. she wants a man that touches her, a man that sends her gifts and shows her his appreciation through tangible things. but also, to show her his appreciation through acts of service and simply being there for her

a taurus’ love runs deep and pure, however it may seem on the outside. they are purely romantic and will expect their lover to uphold romantic values in the relationship. these women are highly sexual and will need a man that can reflect her sensuality and extreme displays of passion. someone who can take her affection and care. someone who is loyal to her and only her. emotions will run wild between her and her man but she will need a man who doesn’t drown at the sight of them, but instead tempers them gently. someone who, to the outside world, is cold and unavailable, masculine and uninterested, but to her, is always available, is always in love, is always ready to give love

her expressions may seem slow and timid initially, but this is also a method in which she can root out people who are authentic. whoever stays and is patient with her, will have her attention and loyalty. she does not open easily but once open, will remain open. she wants a man that honours her fear of opening up and gives her the necessary space to grow and to let her feelings roam. she is not overly sensitive in general but will become sensitive to him; if he is not sensitive to her needs and feelings also, she will feel insecure. in general, she will date men who are cold and detached. she will be attracted to men that don’t show much, fully knowing there is something underneath his veil. she may date men who are on a certain material plane or have some sort of financial benefit to them

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gemini mars — a curious man, the smartest lover

these women want a man that is aware of his surroundings. she doesn’t want a man that only thinks of himself and his home; she looks for someone who is constantly on the move and is always learning. this placement can make someone obsessive over education, travel, or learning. she will want someone who is well-educated and eternally curious. in order for her to pursue any relationship, she must have a mental connection with her lover. her fickleness in emotions is usually reprimanded by her ability to stimulate her partner mentally and intellectually. her inability to understand deep feelings is made up by challenging her partner through games. and thus, she does not look for someone who is gushy or gooey in relationships. she does not look for someone who wants to commit immediately. she wants a man that knows his personal freedom and honours hers. she looks for a man totally confident in himself and his ability to take care of himself. she, herself, is confident, and can be a player. she isn’t necessarily looking for “the one”, nor does she expect someone to look at her as “the one.” if someone sees her as this, she may feel restricted. even certain labels may eventually drain her energy and her efforts at love will diminish

childish and playful by heart, she does not look for a man that is serious or overly concerned with material things. as long as she can express her feelings and affection in a way that is light-hearted and unserious, she will be happy. high standards put on her will make her more unpredictable than normal as she will feel as though she has to restrict and “control” her energy instead of gladly expressing it as it is

these women don’t necessarily commit, but they will stay with the person as long as she feels the mental rapport going. intellect, wittiness, and versatility are all turn-ons for these woman. they appreciate men who know how to adapt to any and all situations; they fall in love with those who know things and want to know more. she is concerned with intelligence so much she may feel a certain superiority over her man. she wants someone open-minded and someone who has a broad view on love, sex, and life in general. she may be progressive or strange when it comes to sex or it may lack completely. this, she will look for in a partner

these women will appreciate a man that keeps her guessing. like mentioned, she is not concerned with material things. she remembers little things about her partner and knows how to please him. she will expect her man to do the same

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cancer mars — a children’s man, a masculine man

these women may prefer men who are built. when they look for a man they look for someone who can protect them rather than someone more feminine or leaner. they look for the typical masculine that’s macho, built, but sensitive to family. because she has such close ties to family and children, she will express herself in ways that are motherly, nurturing, supportive. in order for her to feel valued and respected, she must receive the room from her man to do this. he may be as masculine as he wants to be but if he doesn’t realise emotions need to glow behind closed doors, she will not be interested. she needs to have an emotional connection in which she can safely love and be loved back. men who are big in size but bigger in the heart are attractive to these women. if there is no emotional connection, she will feel void and will either stay in the hopes of eventually achieving one, or leave altogether. she will be protective over her man at whatever cost

children and family are important to these women, and so she will look for someone who reflects this. this placement looks for someone to love and to marry. and whoever she chooses, she will want to have them for life. for many women, there is a breeding or a mommy kink involved, and she would want her man want this as well

sensitivity and generosity are key for this woman. she is romantic and expects her man to notice it. she is affectionate and gooey when it comes to loving her man. compliments, food, and loyalty are only some of the things she offers to her man. her unconditional love and constant yearning for her man will always make the man feel truly loved, though she must feel the same coming from him. however, these women can over-sacrifice themselves for nothing. she is willing to give up everything for her man and still feel insecure she’s not giving enough or getting anything back. she will feel as though her value is tied to what she can support her man with rather than how her love influences him. she will have mood swings and may actually find it attractive if he has them as well

she may marry men that are overly cold in hopes of tempering him. she wants to be the one that softens the biggest man’s heart. she will be attracted to men that are built in size and display little to no attention to her in hopes of eventually wooing him with her allure. she is a passive woman when it comes to action and prefers when her man is the one that takes action. she may marry out of habit or for security if she, herself, doesn’t feel secure. she craves honesty and the purest love imaginable but seems to get out of control when she gets ahold of someone. she will constantly search for someone who matches a certain level of compassionate but masculine. she may be picky

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leo mars — a protector, an extension of her pride

she looks for someone she can be proud of and to grow with. she is enigmatic and self-assured. confident and buoyant, she is a playful person, and will emphasise the focus of play in her relationships. she looks for a man can appreciate adventure and fun; a man that plays, wanders, explores. she is attentive and will look for a man that is attentive also. vain, she will look for a man that appreciates her through words, touch, thought. she needs a man that is confident in who he is and what he wants out of life and out of relationships. she will be attracted to men that stimulate her mind and make her feel valued and attractive. she is attracted to men that are gaudy, men that flaunt, and men that are proud

these women look for things to be constantly impressed by. she will look to impress her man in the way she dresses, speaks, and through what she has. she will also look at her man and establish an opinion based on what he earns, has, or in the way he dresses and presents himself. she will want to look good at all times with her man. she needs someone who is optimistic and lucky; someone who is charming and magnetic. she looks for someone whose energy is as large as hers. she looks for someone who she can flaunt. someone who is as proud as she is

romantic, she is obsessed with love and will look for a man as obsessed as her. she may be a sentimental woman who appreciates the littlest things and will want a man that can appreciate and value little things in the relationship. she will want someone who can offer constant reassurance and praise. someone who can woo her all the time and show she is loved and valued. any leo placement tends to romanticise and idealise love too much, and she may have such an innocent version of love that is unrealistic and has unachievable standards. her self-esteem may be so high she feels undeserving of anything below her false construction she has created in her mind. really, she is scared of imperfection and is threatened by having something that is not in alignment with her desires. she wants someone to pour their heart over hers in compliments, praises, and affection. she wants someone who is touchy and clingy and will want someone who constantly needs her attention. she will see herself as a provider, though will want this from her man as well. she really just wants to have someone she can be proud of, to support, to mother

she offers unconditional love and loyalty, but only if he offers the same. she looks for a man that looks at her and only her. she is wildly sexual and will need a man that matches her libido and can sexually please and satisfy her. sex will be an important form of self-expression and she will need someone who wholeheartedly sees sex as something to pay attention to. she is deeply nurturing and supportive and will move mountains to show her love towards her man, though she will want the same. she wants a man that dedicates all his time and effort towards her. a man that becomes needy and clingy for her. she is turned on by men who are very masculine and express it confidently

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virgo mars — the “perfect” man, the gentlest lover

these women look for a man that is refined, quiet, and resilient. they are not the type to go for a man that is showy or loud. instead, they prefer men who act and move in silence. these women approach life with specific values and virtues that must be honoured and respected

women with this placement are attracted to men that are clean and neat. they look for someone they can relate with through daily life rather through ostentatiousness or some special spiritual connection. she is attracted to men aware of their social duty/responsibility and someone who concerns himself with money and materials. she needs a man that works hard. glamour doesn’t allure her to any man, but their ability to stay humble, neat, and loyal in relationships

she looks for a man that knows good manners and knows how to carry himself. she is attracted to men that speak calmly, act calmly, and are charming. these women’s romantic life may lack in their lives but when in love, will be simple and sentimental. they will value service to their partner and pick serving him over gushy romance. grand serenades aren’t her thing, and she doesn’t want it to be his either. she prefers him taking care of her by helping her, by offering himself to her, cooking for her, cleaning for her, working hard to provide for both of them

there is a need for her man to be socially aware of others. liking animals and having pity for humans is a must. there needs to be no disconnect between him and the outside world; he needs to realise that he is not alone in this world, and that there are people who suffer and need help, and they must be ready to help them

this placement remains more earthy than any other earth mars. they are as analytical as ever; they are observant, they overthink, they are quiet. their energy will be directed towards material matters and she would expect a man who is modest and is analytical as she is. she needs someone to keep her energy grounded. she needs someone who will support her through his actions rather than trying to push her boundaries and encourage her to try new things. this placement loves control and perfection and if she notices something is out of place, she will have no trouble putting it back or leaving it altogether. she is not looking for someone to tell her what to do, or a slave, but someone who wants to go about their normal lives while still being in love. love must be experienced through a wholehearted experience but not through grand displays of affection. handholding and gentle kisses suffice. if she is interested in someone but they are not financially grounded or are not concerned with social status, or the outside world, or have a weak work ethic, she will have no issue cutting them out

these women may have high standards for others that are hard to achieve. like other earth mars, she sees relationships as a team or a partnership in which both must work together to achieve a mutual goal, while also having someone to retreat to. her feelings may not run intensely deep but they still run. and she will need someone who is supportive and is as nurturing as she is. so she may date men who are cold for the sole reason of not attaching too deeply or feeling as though she needs to feel more, despite not wanting to. she doesn’t look for men who need a soulful attachment. she may date men with money or who have a prominent place in society

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libra mars — a soft-hearted man, an affectionate lover

these woman are extremely refined in the way they dress, look, or act. they are not ones for rude manners, vulgarity, or abuse. when she looks for a man she looks for someone soft-hearted, affectionate, and more feminine than masculine. rough edges and sharp corners are not for her as they would be for, say, cancer mars. she looks for a man that is willing to please her; someone that wants to woo her and will, at whatever cost necessary. in general, she will play games with her lover. she will constantly keep him guessing. this may come from her wanting mental stimulation; an air mars, her mind will constantly be on the move. her energy is not debilitated and, if anything, is set afire. she is very articulate and gentle in the way she moves and speaks, but she really moves and speaks. personal independence will be important to her but also cooperation and willingness to work together. she is a team-player who respects personal space but lacks it when in a relationship. she becomes devoured by the feelings that come with all of it and she becomes clingy, needy, and obsessive. she forgets the feeling of what it’s like to be alone and gets attached to her man’s energy so much, she must always be with him

she looks for someone who is charming and can adhere to her mind games. someone who flirts in the way they move and touch her. she is very idealistic and dreamy in love and may have many fantasies of love and the type of man that she wants. these women need stimulation so much that they may have many men in their mind, even when they have the perfect one right at their feet. they love to search for perfection and aesthetics and may be picky when it comes to relationships. she needs her man to be perfect but continue being perfect rather than giving her a reason to look at someone else’s beauty

these woman look for beauty in everything they do or in everything they participate in. she may date men who live a lavish lifestyle or are working for one. she may date someone involved with the law or is in a humanitarian position. she may also look for someone who has money or is very wealthy. above all, however, she is very feminine, and there is no doubt to what she likes and dislikes. she dislikes anything that is too cruel and ugly. war, abuse, and poverty make her depressed, but flowers, colours, and love make her happy. she is not ready to deal with things that are harsh on the soul. she may be the type to avoid conflict and is why she looks for someone that isn’t abrasive in the way they argue or the way they speak. she needs a gentle soul that recognises she is sensitive and anything he says must be refined

someone who takes care of their body, will attract these women. they look for cleanliness and may be neat-freaks. marriage may be something she would do out of security or impulse. in general, she needs someone who is light-hearted and prefers playing than obsessing over the world’s woes. she needs someone that is willing to explore with her; sexually or physically, through travel and the like. she needs a man that isn’t too laid-back but also isn’t so fiery she feels intimidated by his energy. she also needs someone to gladly mirror. she is a woman that naturally picks up people’s opinions and habits. she wants to do everything her man does, think what he thinks. she really is a hopeless romantic that loves love so much, she becomes engulfed by the other person

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scorpio mars — a soulful man, the neediest lover

her relationship with her man must be soulful and wholesome. there needs to be a purpose for her love. loyalty, obsession, and constant yearning must be prevalent between the two. she needs to feel wanted at all times; when she is with her man, and when she is not. she wants to feel her lover’s imprint on her day and night. she wants a man who sees her and only her. a man who touches, kisses, and dreams of her and only her. she is very romantic and appreciates sentimentality and romance from her man also

the woman’s magnetism may attract many men. however, this allure is only vanity. the woman will only pick out the man that matches her discipline, willpower, and drive. she needs a man that knows no boundaries when achieving what he wants. she needs someone certain in what he wants and how he is going to do it. there is a power dynamic between her and her man, and will dislike men who cannot submit to her or their desires. and while she shows that she is well capable of taking care of herself, will still want someone she can nurture, take care of, and love. if he chooses her, she will indefinitely choose him. she will baby him, constantly think of him, always yearn for him. this, too, will be wanted in her man. she wants someone as obsessed with her as she is with them. someone who constantly wants her, needs her, misses her. someone who is so entranced and into her he can’t seem to get enough of her. she wants to be wanted badly and indefinitely. she will have great love for him but only if he is ready to return the same level of intensity. if he recognises love and sex as something spiritual rather than earthly, and doesn’t date for fun, then she will keep him close and hold him down

deep passion is a necessity. there must be a spiritual purpose in what they do; feelings that lie on the surface are not good enough. they have to run through blood and nerves and pulse through the soul in waves that are overwhelmingly strong. she needs someone she can devour soulfully. someone to transcend with. there must be an ego death with her lover and an embrace of spiritual succession. full submission. loving confessions, touching, and neediness is all part of it. she needs to feel wanted by her man. if her man is willing to give her his undying love and loyalty, she will too. this isn’t the type of woman that wants the purest form of love, however. she wants the ugliest parts of it, the dirtiest, the most traumatic. she experiences love as a rebirth more than a duty she must accomplish

privacy is also very important. she is not the type to date and marry men who kiss and tell. any relationship that stays secret or hidden, is a happy relationship. she does not appreciate people knowing her business. the type of men she may date are: secretive/private, mysterious and cold to strangers, loyal, and “bad.” she may be attracted to dangerous thrill from men; she may date men that are toxic because she wants something dramatic, thrilling, different

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sagittarius mars — an energetic man, an adventurous lover

men who are adventurous, uncanny, and generous are these women’s ideals. they need someone who is spiritually energetic. someone who looks at things from an objective and meaningful view. these women like to direct their energy towards things that are not only exciting, but also soulfully thrilling. when she gets involved with a man she has an intelligent connection with, only then will she feel a sexual pull towards him. she needs to feel as though her existence is heightened and her intelligence is challenged through engaging conversations and adventure. when she feels as though her mind is sufficiently stimulated by the man, she will become sexual with him. generally, these women are sexual in general anyway, but she will always yearn for a connection that is spiritual and sexually gratifying rather than sex that has no meaning other than to org@sm

being spontaneous herself, she will want someone who can match her energy. she will keep you guessing and she will be unpredictable. her independence will have to be matched by her man. she is not the type, really, to cuddle and sleep all the time and constantly stay in and exchange words of love to one another. she wants to see the world with her lover and allow her mind and spirit to grow alongside his. she wants to feel as though her life has meaning and that she can share the goodness with someone else rather than experiencing it alone. she may feel alone with all the ideas she has in her head and the philosophies she follows in life. she may feel as though she is misunderstood by many men as her morals don’t align with others’. this, she will look for company in her man; someone to do everything with, someone to experience love, abundance, and growth with

these women are very playful and require light-heartedness in their relationships. they are not attracted to the overly soft or the lovey-dovey. they are attracted to men who stand their ground, are independent, and are self-assured. someone who doesn’t focus on the feelings too much, but at the same time acknowledges them. someone who prefers seeing the world through an objective lens, rather than an emotional one. these women don’t require a certain status or a certain level of pay. they may be very picky in the man they like or want because they don’t want to settle for less than what they imagine in their head. they tend to do this because they want the perfect image in which they can be themselves. they are not afraid of judgment, but will feel threatened if they are thought to be weird or strange for the way they think. they search for a one on one bond to have with someone; a wholehearted connection that is shared between two dramatic people obsessed with one another

and speaking of picky, they will settle on the one man she knows is different. similar to men with venus in sagittarius, there must be a strong contrast between the one man and the rest of the world. if there is a divide between him and the rest, she will look at only him. she is a curious woman and needs plenty of mental stimulation and an intellectual relationship. sexual urges are well prominent in her but knows how to save herself for someone that actually means something. but above all, she is wildly sexual and looks for a man to have deep, passionate sex with. sex that is riveting to the soul and is very healing

even in committed relationships, she may need spontaneity and independence. personal space is important to her and she may have boundaries regarding her personal space. she will take these boundaries seriously as her independence is the one factor that keeps her separate from everyone else. if she is in a relationship in which she feels consumed by her lover and not freed, she will suffer. her spirit will diminish and she will be unhappy. this, she may date men who are emotionally unavailable and give her lots of freedom. she is not the type to care and want to constantly baby and nurture her man, but she is very generous to him, and looks for this generosity also. she looks for a man that shares what he had with others — whether it be physical (money) or intangible (wisdom, intelligence)

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capricorn mars — a reliable lover, a family man

traditional values and ethics will be of utmost importance. this woman is independent and knows how to take care of herself and needs someone to merely accompany her in her growth. she is a leader by heart and will take charge in taking what she wants out of life. she needs a man who is the same. she values reliability, sincerity, and honesty. she does not love for the sake of it, for the sex, for the fling that comes out of all of it. she loves and dates for the long-term, for marriage. she takes commitment seriously and if she notices energy that is unaligned to hers, she will have no issue leaving. and if she feels her independence is threatened, she will have no issue leaving at this either

she needs a man that knows emotional control. she does not want a man who spills his emotions all over the floor in failure to hold them. she needs a man who will prove his masculinity to her; someone who knows how to work, knows how to make money for himself, knows how to provide. she needs a man that will match her need for a successful future and a high social status. she wants someone to grow with rather than use for growth. and her growth may come in many forms; to grow financially, in terms of family and children, etc.

and while she may want a man that is cold to the world and detached to other women, she wants him to show her his love in more than just words and admissions. she will look for physical affection; hand-holding, gripping, caressing, all of it. she has a strong connection to her body and what turns her on and off. she wants her man to know her body inside out; she wants him to run his hands all over it, to gaze at it, to accept it and love it

she is deeply loyal and ambitious. she does not stop at any hinderance, but uses it as a step to grow. she persists, no matter the energy needed for it to work. she may be a pessimist but she is kind-hearted and devoutly supportive of her lover. her self-esteem is high and she knows how to steady herself. slow to anger, she needs a man that has boundaries, that distances himself when necessary, and knows how to control his emotions

she may date men that have a high social status or work towards it. she may date older men or men who have strong footing in the world. financial stability is a must for this placement. a man who knows how to manage his money and knows how to look for further riches, has her eye

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aquarius mars — an unconventional man, a free man

this woman would be most attracted to men who are unconventional in their style. weirdness is attractive to them. for this placement, the woman would naturally feel as though she is an independent woman who feels no need to adhere to traditional or conventional ways of being. she finds her own way in what she does and expects a man who does the same. she needs someone objective and rational, as she is like this also. she is attracted to a man that isn’t rigid, one that doesn’t stick to the rules, and prefers breaking them to make his own

there needs to be a mental rapport between the two for any further intimacy to occur. and while sex isn’t important to her, there is a playful element to this placement. this woman doesn’t need a man that takes everything seriously, but a man that knows when to act serious and when not to. mental stimulation is key to a happy relationship with this woman. if she feels as though the mental connection is not there, she will not pursue any further. she may be sexually liberated or have a lacking interest in it or simply have very progressive ideas about sex. this is what she will look for in her man also. however, it may be that she yearns for an intellectual march so strong and specific, she physically cannot have sex until it is achieved. someone who is open-minded about sex or about life in general, secures her loyalty. she may not be into marriage or children but I have still noticed some women that marry for the security or because they feel like they should

intelligence and conversation are very important to these women. while she wants you to be impressed by her intellect, she will look for the same in return. in general, she always wants to challenge the man but not in a way that is demeaning. rather, she just wants room for her energy to pour. and men who make her feel less independent or somewhat trapped, will have no hope in her commitment

she may be attracted to men that are unconventional but also humanitarian. men who care for the world in ways that concern not only nature but also humans. men who hold a certain sensitivity for others, especially the homeless or the oppressed. the man must be competent enough to challenge her mind and to keep up with her games. she may not be the type to get jealous and she will see love and relationships as a mutual exchange of affection and stimulation rather than something deep and for a lifetime

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pisces mars — the dreamiest man, the tenderest lover

there is a strong need for sensitivity and generosity. this placement yearns for a man that is empathetic, sensitive, and gives easily. she needs someone she can sacrifice herself for, but a man who can also do the same for her. she needs a man that is emotionally expressive, open, and honest. a man who is ready to admit he loves her, a man who is ready to show her affection at all times. a man who compliments her and reassures her. macho men who hide behind their masculinity and logic are immediate turn-offs. and while she loves men that are physically aesthetic (sculpted in the face, are muscular/lean, and athletic), she needs someone who can submit to her as she does to him. she needs him to emotionally resonate with her and understand her complexity

and speaking of complexity, the woman needs someone who is willing to envelop themselves in a spiritual bond that is infinite, eternal, and obsessive. clinginess/neediness is strong with this placement; she needs to know she is wanted. she needs to know her man’s desire is her and only her. this can be a very insecure placement, though very nurturing and very loving all the same. commitment is given when the woman feels as though their emotional bond is stable enough to work from. if there is no emotional rapport with one another, the woman will feel vain and empty. to have a happy and loving relationship, there must be an honour and promise to exchange love — telepathically, mentally, emotionally, soulfully. really, she wants a man that can help her achieve the dream of being the perfect prince with the dreamiest, most romantic love

the woman must feel comfortable in giving aid to the man and not feeling as though she’s undeserving of the man. she wants someone to mother and take care of while also being babied. she needs to feel as though her efforts to care for the man are not in vain

she may be attracted to men that are helpless, unloved, and have low self-esteem. she typically plays the “saviour” in her relationships, in which she can “save” her man by providing him with the support nobody else gave him. she may want him to think she’s the only one that could ever love him, although this is a more extreme manifestation of this placement

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• Asteroid Juno •

[Long post ahead; Juno in the signs and houses!]

I wanted to get back to discussing asteroids for quite some time now, and I felt like this is the perfect placement to start again. Asteroid Juno (3) has been a very popular asteroid for a lot of people who wanted to know more about their Future Spouses.

However, it is imperative to know that Asteroid Juno (3) is not the end-all-be-all determinant for your Future Spouse’s characteristics. If anything, this asteroid is all about what you want or seek in a potential Future Spouse. It is what you believe is right for you, your preference, your standards, and what traits they have that attracts you to them.

In this post, I’ll be discussing both the sign and house your Asteroid Juno (3) is in, and what it means for your potential relationships that could lead to marriage or life-long partnership.

• Part 1: In the signs •

Juno in Aries

The first group of people with this placement are those who act in a dominating way during first impressions. These natives want to know if potential partners have what it takes to handle their fiery and strong energies. The second group are those who want a partner who is dominating and assertive in nature! They might purposely play coy and damsels-in-distress to see how those potential partners react. They need to see what the other person will do, or how they react to certain situations — if the potential partner can be as assertive as they are. And lastly, the third group is a mixture of the first and second groups. They might swing back and forth with their dominating, self-reliant attitude, to becoming a passive spectator in the next moment.

Out of all the placements, this may be the one who does not want to marry after all. These people’s self-reliance and confidence in their own company may overpower their desire for romantic partnerships. (I have this placement, so I know the struggle of this particular placement very well).

Juno in Taurus

People with Juno in Taurus are a lot of good things, but above all else, they are the ones looking for safety and security in a partner the most! Depending on which house this asteroid is placed, people with this placement tend to look for “something” from a potential partner; may it be financial stability, emotional maturity, creativity, being good with kids, or maybe a free spirit. But people with Juno in Taurus usually would want their potential significant other to tick off the boxes on their “standards list,” so most people would dub them as choosy or picky.

However, these natives tend to be happiest when their partner is providing them that personal brand of safety and security (according to what they actually want). I’ve observed that most people with this placement have a soft spot for when they’re being given personalized gifts by their partners or potential partners. It makes them feel very thought of, and that their partner is truly thinking about them when acquiring that present.

Juno in Gemini

Juno in Gemini natives crave intellectual connection the most. It might sound cliché for a Gemini/Mercurian placement, but the truth is that no matter how attractive a person is, it won’t truly matter to a Juno in Gemini native unless the mental connection is there. I have personally met a couple people with this placement, and they have identified as sapiosexuals (or sapiophiles). They just find mental stimulation as appealing as physical attraction, and they believe that lifelong partnerships and/or relationships are based on intellectual compatibility.

Without intellectual compatibility, these natives might find their relationships shallow, or without “anchor,” as someone with this placement once said. It’s as if there’s no real common ground if conversations are going nowhere, and the mental energies are not matching. People with this placement need someone who can establish cerebral rapport, and keep it interested that way.

Juno in Cancer

Emotional maturity and empathetic intelligence are what Juno in Cancer natives yearn for. For them, this is the bread and butter of any relationships they have and might have — regardless if it’s platonic or romantic. This is a non-negotiable trait for the people with this placement. Moreso, this placement gives the natives a sort of “radar,” in which they’d identify if the person who’s pursuing them is not being genuine in their approach. A lot of people can fall for sweet words, but not a Juno in Cancer native. They just know.

In addition, they’d want someone who can handle their emotional depth. They don’t want being hindered in expressing emotions because most of the time, they are already being suppressed by the coldness of society; these natives would never want to be in a relationship that extends that cynicism to their emotional needs.

Juno in Leo

Out of all the signs, people with natal Juno in Leo are the ones that wanted to be showed off. The refuse to be hidden by their partners as if being ashamed of being seen together with them. These natives also want someone who they can be proud to show off to people in their lives; which means someone who looks and sounds presentable, and someone who doesn’t need to be looked after. They want someone confident and outspoken, but not arrogant.

In addition, people with this placement want someone who can share creative ideas with them! Being able to express their creative side is one of the most important things they need in a relationship. And someone who shares the same amount of interest in the creative fields they are in is definitely a plus. They want their partners to also enjoy what they are creating. These natives are definitely going to create something with their partner. It could be a collaborative art piece, a dance, a song, a dish, a literary work, etc. Juno in Leo natives are most likely to treat their partners as their muses and inspirations.

Juno in Virgo

Juno in Virgo natives look for partners who are and can be put together. Most people underestimate the importance of accomplishing the mundane routines and everyday tasks. But these are things that do not go unnoticed by people with this placement. They want someone they can rely on to successfully execute a daily task, and do the necessary things to make life easier for them. They don’t want a partner that’s going to be “deadweight” to them. They didn’t get married (or entered into a lifetime relationship) to be treated as a secretary.

Furthermore, they want a partnership that fosters a progression in learning. These people abhor mental stagnation, and would want to be in a partnership that stimulates their minds so that they can learn from each other. Also, open communication is a must for the people with this placement. They absolutely hate misunderstandings because that results in a mess and unnecessary delays. In result, both them and their partner are working hand in hand to make daily things go smoothly for them and other people.

Juno in Libra

When Juno is combined with one of the ruling signs of Venus, people with this placement may be seen or regarded as the embodiment of spouse-material. A lot of people want to be with these natives; or at least, others have fantasized what it could be like to have this native as a long-term partner or spouse. And while these natives can be aware of the general population of their admirers, they tend to underestimate the depth that their admirers’ affections toward them. This is because Juno in Libra natives are very charming, welcoming, pleasant, can be romantic in their own way, and is the apple of people’s eyes.

On the other hand, while these natives seem to be receptive to the general public’s attentions, they are very strict with their standards. A couple of flowers and chocolates are not going to win their hearts that easily. They are easygoing in love but they are no going to stoop down to a standard they don’t want. They will not tolerate unsavory behavior from their partners, and will not hesitate to cut connections off if their peace is being disturbed.

Juno in Scorpio

As with all Scorpio placements, Juno in this sign is not exempted from intensity, passion, and emotional depth. Juno in Scorpio natives are your ultimate ride-or-die when it comes to their connections and relationships (regardless if this is romantic or platonic). When looking for a significant other, these natives can be quite reclusive and even cutthroat. They want to know if potential partner have what it takes to handle their intensity and seriousness when it comes to relationships. They have the habit of sizing-up their potential partners; even going as far as intimidation.

Most of the time, these people avoid casual relationships — or situationships — simply because they don’t want to be someone’s “for the meantime” partner. They want a partner who will treat them with the same seriousness and depth they’re willing to give back. If unhealthily aspected, they might even go as far as seeking a partner who would obsess over them, and exhibit possessive behavior towards them. This is something these natives have to watch out for because just like Juno in Libra, people with Juno in Scorpio are not in shortage of admirers. It’s just that their admirers are mostly keeping their desire hidden, and tend to go overboard with obsession.

Juno in Sagittarius

People with Juno in Sagittarius value experiencing life to the fullest. They have a lot of places, experiences, and knowledge they want to earn in this lifetime. Therefore, what they look for in a partner is someone who will not hinder their quest to accomplishing these goals and aspirations. These natives are one of the most open-minded people out there, and they do not mesh well with partners who limit their thirst for higher knowledge and the academe. This ability to absorb a huge amount of information about different topics at the same time can be polarizing to a potential partner of a Juno in Sagittarius native because these natives can stay afloat comfortably within two seemingly opposite ends of a topic’s spectrum. They don’t mind not taking a side for a while if it means they can see the biggest picture possible as they come to their own conclusion.

With that said, they would want a partner who they can converse with, and exchange thoughts and opinions to broaden their body of knowledge altogether. As a placement under the fire element, they don’t want boring life routines; they want dynamism and growth in a relationship instead of settling for the mundane and calling it a day.

Juno in Capricorn

Juno in Capricorn natives live their lives with a clear purpose. Whatever it is that they set their minds on, they will achieve one way or another. And this attitude bleeds through their approach in relationships as well. They would like a partner who is decisive in life choices and actions because these natives wouldn’t want to be with someone who can slow them down, or render them ineffective due to their partner’s hesitations. These natives don’t like an aggressive partner; they just want someone calm yet convicted. Someone who is level-headed, decisive, and grounded. This is because these natives really deserve someone who can take the wheels for them effectively every once in a while to give them a break.

In addition, Juno in Capricorn natives have a unique sense of humor that not all people can understand. It can range from dry to sarcastic, and sometimes even insult jokes — which can rub some people the wrong way. But truly, once these natives find someone who can take the jokes and handle it with grace, you found the shortcut to these natives’ hearts. They might seem too serious in relationships and friendships. But if you get their jokes, they’ll warm up to you more quickly, and they’ll feel more safe to express themselves to you.

Juno in Aquarius

When person has their natal Juno in Aquarius, this makes them one of the most open-minded people out there. The individual is often open to new ideas and takes on how relationships can work. While they can be your typical, traditional partner (if they want to), they often find themselves being alright in unconventional kinds of relationships as well. They’re also not bothered by other people who silently — or even outright — judge their relationships because in these natives’ minds, as long as they’re feeling happy and okay in these atypical partnerships, they don’t care about what others would say.

This isn’t to say that all natives with this placement have unconventional relationships. Most of the time, this placement calls for the native to look for someone who can be comfortable with unconventional things with them without judgment! I’ve also observed that people with this placement can be in relationships that are very proactive with human rights, going on parades for the marginalized and the minority; they’re that couple who are very outspoken with what’s going on in their community and their countries. And even what’s happening in the world!

Juno in Pisces

As with water sign placements, Juno in Pisces natives are looking for that emotional depth, intensity, and maturity. But what sets this placement apart from Juno in Cancer and Juno on Scorpio is the mental connection and total spiritual compatibility. I’ve known one person with this placement, and they refuse to be with someone who doesn’t feel like they are completely compatible with one another. They have this internal “scanner” that doesn’t fail them, and they can see past first impressions when people put their best foot forward in order to look or sound really good. Best believe these natives can see you underneath all that act immediately.

This is why they want authenticity above all else. Natives are those who want to deep-dive into their partner’s psyche to really understand who they’re being with. The thing is, they expect the same level of understanding to be given to them by their partners but not everyone can be ready for that. So, there’s the possibility of feeling isolated in friendships and relationships. What these natives look for is someone who isn’t afraid to introspect with them, and explore their internalized thoughts together. Only then would the native truly feel seen, heard, and understood.

• Part 2: Houses •

Juno in the 1st House

People with their Juno in the 1st House are looking for someone who is unabashedly themselves. They want someone who isn’t afraid of showing who they really are, without pretense. These natives usually feel on the first impression when a potential partner is pretending to be someone they’re not — or those with a different side to them that isn’t being shown on the surface. Juno in the 1st House natives are really good at spotting those have ulterior motives with them, and these natives are absolutely not afraid to call it out. This ability is a gift in disguise because these natives can easily weed out those who aren’t being genuine with them with this attitude of calling people out for their sketchiness. They just want someone who shows their true colors.

Juno in the 2nd House

When Juno is placed in the 2nd House, this urges the native to find material, tangible, and over-all security. There’s a sense of needing a “safe place” to stay at the end of the day where you can let loose, and just feel secure from all of the outside elements — like hunger, exposure from danger, monetary lack, and people that can do harm. There’s a real primal feeling in this house that you can combine with the particular sign that Juno is in. Therefore, they look for partners that can make them feel safe above all else. They yearn to feel that protection and security from their potential partners because they’re willing to do the very same protection they’re wanting to receive. They want someone who can act like a “pack” with.

Juno in the 3rd House

It’s safe to say that everyone wants a healthy open communication dynamic with their partners, but this is especially highlighted when a native has their Juno in the 3rd House. They go beyond hi’s and hello’s with their partner, and really do the work necessary to be crystal clear with their words and intentions and thoughts — no matter how uncomfortable this can be for their partnership sometimes. They aren’t afraid to speak their minds because they know it’s necessary to say what’s on your mind. The good thing is, these natives are really good with maneuvering vocabulary as to not sound harsh. They have a talent to choose their words wisely.

Juno in the 4th House

If Juno in the 2nd House natives yearn after the security and safety of a house, Juno in the 4th House natives yearn to make a “home out of the house.” People with this placement want to feel emotionally secure with the partner they’re with that goes beyond material things or tangible results. This is especially true if Juno is in retrograde. The native might have seen the unsavory dynamic of their childhood families, and may want to “do it all over” in a proper way to rectify and soothe their inner child. But they also could’ve had a good and emotionally secure childhood, and wouldn’t want to lower those standards their loving parents have established.

Juno in the 5th House

What these natives look for a partner is someone who isn’t afraid to explore theor creativity, dynamism, and unique approaches to life. Juno in the 5th House natives wouldn’t want to be with someone who is boring, or someone who would settle for the “tried and tested methods.” People with this placement are not afraid to try new things according to their personalities, and would want a partner who can encourage them to be more authentic; and someone who can dish out their own creative takes! Also, these natives want a partner who is good with kids! Someone who isn’t afraid to be playful and innocent — someone who isn’t afraid to be unapologetically themselves.

Juno in the 6th House

Duty calls for natives with Juno in their 6th House. They would want someone who’s reliable, trustworthy when it comes to accomplishing important things every day, responsible, and accountable. Speaking of routines, these natives would really like someone who their can incorporate into their daily routines with ease. They don’t like someone who is really hard to get along with. But most of all, they absolutely abhor potential partners who can be deadweight to their every day activities. Juno in the 6th House natives can be real cutthroat when people in their lives make their tasks and jobs harder than it already is. They’d rather not have a partner than deal with useless people every day.

Juno in the 7th House

Juno in the 7th House natives are more than love and romance. While this house certainly deals with those themes, they thrive in relationships that prove loyalty to their cause. They would want a partner who can protect them (or at least back them up) when unsavory people try make an enemy out of them. Frienships are also important with these natives. It can really turn them off if they can’t get along well with their significant other’s friends. Also, they like it when their partner can understand the nuances in they way they speak towards different people. Sometimes, this native can be casual with people they’re comfortable with, but stiff with those they’re skeptical of. And they want their partner to pick up on this.

Juno in the 8th House

People with Juno in the 8th House look for someone who isn’t afraid to get their hands dirty with diving deep inside the intricacies of intimacies. They don’t waste their time and effort on someone who isn’t willing to be as close and personal as they are, and to those who are only in a relationship with them for shallow purposes. Furthermore, these natives have a knack for getting into the inner workings of their potential partners like second nature, which can get very overwhelming for the person being mentally probed. But to those who can take it, they’ll find that these natives are more than what they seem.

Juno in the 9th House

Stagnation and mental inactivity — especially intellectual decay — are something that Juno on the 9th House natives absolutely abhor. These natives wouldn’t want to be with someone who is close-minded; or worse, someone who is ignorant by choice! They want a potential partner to be someone who can introduce them to new ideas and experiences, and those who can enjoy new places and information with them with no prejudices beforehand. Judgmental people are an absolute no for these natives. An ideal partner is that person who can mesh well with people from different walks of life.

Juno in the 10th House

People with this placement need someone who can understand the level and depth of dedication they have when it comes to their craft, their work, and most of all, their ambition. These natives cannot be with someone who isn’t going to help them achieve their goals, those who doubt their abilities, and those who settle for less. Juno in 10th House natives thrive with a partner who can push them to succeed when things get challenging, someone who trusts that the native can accomplish their work goals, and who can believe in the native’s leadership skills.

Juno in the 11th House

Natives with Juno in their 11th House look for someone who can understand their innovative way of thinking. These natives have a really fresh take on life and living, and being with someone who always does things by the book (or with “tried and tested” methods) without giving these natives’ ideas a chance would not be an ideal partner. Being able to share novel ideas with different people, and exchanging meaningful debates are something integral for these natives. They also prefer someone who can introduce them to eccentric and fresh connections. But most of all, these natives want a partner who can make socializing easier for them.

Juno in the 12th House

Juno in the 12th House natives put so much importance on connections that help them fulfill their karmic debt. These native wouldn’t waste time on potential partners who give them meaningless interactions or sweet nothings that don’t make an impact in their lives — and life purpose. These natives can develop a habit of looking for intense partners that can give them the internalized satisfaction of experiencing life-changing moments and/or lessons. They also tend to look for a partner who can really get into the depths of their psyche, it feels like they’re being psychologically undressed.

I believe this might be my longest astrology post ever. 😩 I don’t think I’ll do a post this long again! I just thought it would be a better idea to put both the houses and the signs in one post instead of cutting them in separate posts. I hope you all enjoyed this one!

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I know he's canonically a Cancer, but Denki Kaminari has Gemini somewhere prominently in his chart he just has to

I KNOW THIS GIF PROVES NOTHING BUT HE JUST HAS TO, IT JUST MAKES SENSE, LOOK AT HIM!!!

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Your First Love (based on your South Node)

The South Node is a very interesting placement, one from which we can learn a lot about our instincts and habits. For this reason, I think a lot of us experience our first love, whether that end up in a relationship or not, with someone who exhibits a lot of the traits of the sign on our South Node. It’s what’s most familiar to us, and it’s what calls to us naturally. It’s normal that we gravitate toward people that show these qualities, but it’s probably not very likely we will stay with them forever. This is because we are here to grow and expand, and our South Node is what we’ve already experienced. However, the South Node, even though we must learn to reach beyond its walls, can give us some of the greatest gifts we will ever receive. And, if you know how to use it right, the South Node can be an incredible asset to you. 

Aries South Node: Your first love was fiercely independent, probably to a fault sometimes. They made you feel alive when you were around them and their presence was electrifying. However, they also made you feel like you had to follow them or be left behind. They were very headstrong about what they were going to do and you may have felt that meant you didn’t have a big role in their life. You followed them for a while, going along on a wild ride that was mostly exciting but very exhausting. Eventually, they became too much to handle for you, too individualistic to cooperate on a team like you wanted them to. But, you’ll never forget how they made you feel like the sky was the limit, and that you could take on the world if you wanted to. 

Taurus South Node: Your first love was stable and reliable, drawing you to them with their utter transparency. You felt warm when in their presence, but something was missing. It may have taken you a while to put your finger on it, but you needed more depth and emotion which weren’t things they could offer you in abundance. You had to part ways with them because you two were searching for different qualities in a partner, but you’ll never forget their unflinching loyalty to you and their ability to make everything feel just a little bit better when it seemed like the world was falling apart. 

Gemini South Node: Your first love was bubbly and charming, armed with an incredible wit and a passion for learning. They knew how to make you feel like a million bucks with their words, but you could tell that they did this with everyone. You didn’t feel like they were being completely truthful when expressing their feelings for you. Rather, you felt like they were a player and you were another conquest. However, you always had a fun time with them and you knew they genuinely did have a heart of gold beneath all the facades. 

Cancer South Node: Your first love was warm and comforting, perhaps to the point of seeming like a parent at times. They were incredibly sweet to you, but they could’ve had a tendency to weaponize their emotions against you. Speaking of emotions, they were a highly emotional person and this took its toll on you. Eventually, you got worn out and couldn’t deal with the emotional gymnastics anymore. However, you’ll always remember how much they genuinely cared for you and how they did the sweetest little things when you needed it most. 

Leo South Node: Your first love was vibrant and show-stopping, always able to draw a crowd wherever they were. They were a natural born performer, but with this came a certain level of self-importance and jealousy. You never liked seeing the side of them that would come out when their confident facade failed. Deep down you know they were insecure and more than a little prideful, and you didn’t like feeling like they always stole the spotlight. You wanted to shine together, but they wanted to shine alone. But, you’ll always appreciate how generous and romantic they were towards you; they always did their best to make it feel like you were in a fairytale when you were with them. 

Virgo South Node: Your first love was reserved and practical; they gave you good advice and always seemed to know what your next step in life should be. Although they were very helpful to you, sometimes that led to criticism and judgment. When you did something they believed to be unwise, they didn’t hold back about telling you and it eventually became too much. It’s not that you didn’t value their advice, you just needed to experience things for yourself and be with someone who was more supportive when you failed. However, you’ll continue to enlist their advice for the rest of your life and you’ll always be grateful you first fell for someone who genuinely wanted the best for you. 

Libra South Node: Your first love was charming and sociable, always knowing exactly what to say and when to say it. They made you feel special for a while, but eventually, their wistfulness lost its effect. You may have thought they tried too hard to be part of the popular crowd or that they didn’t have a sense of originality. Ultimately, you got tired of being with someone who seemed totally caught up in other people’s business and seemed to say sweet things to you only because they thought that’s what you wanted to hear. You longed to be with someone who felt more ‘real’, but you’ll never forget how they helped you build your confidence and gave you butterflies with just one glance. 

Scorpio South Node: Your first love was intense and possessive, constantly analyzing every situation. Their mysteriousness excited you, but once you glimpsed into their dark inner world you felt overwhelmed. Their inherent suspiciousness of everyone, including you, made you feel somewhat offended. You may have grown to resent them a little bit because of their constant questioning of you, your whereabouts, etc. while offering very little information in return if you asked them the same questions. The uneven power dynamics in the relationship just weren’t your style and you wanted to be with someone calmer. However, you’ll always appreciate how they defended you to other people no matter what and how they always seemed to understand what you were going through. 

Sagittarius South Node: Your first love was optimistic and opinionated, never afraid to dream big or share their thoughts. This person always seemed up for the next adventure, and this may have been very attractive to you at first. Eventually, you burned out with the adventures; you wanted to explore the intricacies of the mind more intently, but they didn’t share your sentiment. They were probably hesitant to commit (if they ever even did), and this put a bad taste in your mouth as well. They loved their independence to a fault, and you couldn’t deal with their flakiness and false promises anymore. However, the great, fun times you two shared together will always be in your heart; they truly did know how to make a good memory. 

Capricorn South Node: Your first love was structured and ambitious, constantly on the road to self-improvement. There was never any question about where they were going in life, which was good for them but sometimes hard for you to deal with. Their inability to be flexible put a damper on your relationship, and you felt like it was always their way or the highway. They may not have been very in tune emotionally, and this also caused things to go south between the two of you. However, you’ll always appreciate how much they inspired you with their ambition and how they pushed you to the best version of yourself. 

Aquarius South Node: Your first love was off-beat and truly original, seeming like a mad genius most of the time. They thought outside the box and colored outside the lines because they saw the potential of what the world could be. With this incredible mental energy came distance and indifference on their part which never sat right with you. You saw all the wonderful workings of their mind, but you also felt the sting of them frequently rejecting you in little ways. There was always some problem in the world that was more important than their investment in what you two had and other people may have taken precedence over you in their eyes. However, you’ll always look back fondly on how you could be your honest, true self around them without fear because they wholeheartedly accepted you.

Pisces South Node: Your first love was other-worldly and enigmatic; they seemed like they came straight from a page in a storybook. They were very sweet and empathetic, always miraculously understanding why people were the way they were and having compassion for them. Their tendency to escape and, therefore, not deal with reality, however, created a rift between the two of you. You didn’t like how they saw people through rose-colored glasses and sacrificed their own happiness for that of others. It hurt you to see them be so frequently and significantly influenced and manipulated by others, but you also acknowledged their part in it. Eventually, the constant self-sacrifice and sadness because of it became too much for you to continue handling. But, you’ll always have a special place in your heart for them because they never did and never will give up on you; they were on your team since the moment they fell for you and you know there’s nothing they wouldn’t do for you. 

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HAPPY ARIES SEASON 💪💪💪💪💪

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OH MY GOD I AM HONOURED?!?!?!?! Reposting this onto mine so I can flex on everyone 💅💅

You’re also my best tumblr friend don’t even worry <3 I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!

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hey what does it mean if my venus (scorpio) is in retrograde? is it a bad placement?

Hi baby! I'm sorry it took so long to answer this. Honestly Scorpio Venus is a very very good placement when used correctly. I understand why you may be nervous about the retrograde though, so I will clear that up. No, it is not a bad placement. There is no such thing as a bad placement. Some can be difficult, but they all exist to teach us lessons. I will explain what retrograde in the birth chart, and what Venus in retrograde actually means. I would also like to say that once I get to the Venus in retrograde part way down below, there are some trigger warnings. Please read the warnings, and if you are sensitive to those topics, do not read those parts of the post. Stay safe <3

Retrograde In The Birth Chart

Retrograde is when a planet (except for the Sun or Moon) moves backwards. Now, the planet does not actually move backwards. It just appears that way. Basically it's whichever planet's orbit aligns with our orbit (Earth's orbit) just right, so it looks like it's moving backwards.

In astrology, this is exactly what it signifies. It's when issues from the past, or lessons you haven't quite learned resurface. It can also act as a period of time where you must review whichever aspect of your life that planet rules. This can cause disruptions, complications and stress on these issues for us in regular life.

A retrograde in the birth chart basically means this is going on for you all of the time. It means there are more lessons in this area you must learn. Some plus sides to this are the fact that when that planet goes into retrograde for everyone else, you aren't really affected because that is your norm. It also means you learn to master the lessons of that planet. You've got constant issues with it, so in order to get through life and grow as a person, you would have been forced to learn and work through that retrograde. This means you conquer and take control of this planet and it's lessons. Go you!!

Venus In Retrograde

Venus in retrograde means all of these things in reference to love/relationships/partnerships, design/fashion/aesthetics and finance.

- It could indicate being a 'late bloomer' in terms of romance or sexuality, maybe not finding that part of yourself for a while. Or possibly not being interested in that side of life for a long time.

- It could also indicate having issues with money. Maybe you spend too much and end up with not enough money when you need it, or the opposite, save too much and don't let yourself have things you enjoy.

- TW: Divorce, bad marriages, all that sort of stuff. You go through divorce in some way, or have an overall negative experience with marriage (divorced parents, just icks you out, whatever it is).

- A lot of Venus retrograde natives are huge feminists, and really hate female gender roles (or any gender roles). This is not a bad thing!! It is one of the good things that comes with Venus retrograde!!

- TW: toxic masculinity, gender stuff. Sometimes this can go quite bad, and have the native reject any femininity whatsoever. Obviously this is very harmful, and makes for a lot of toxic masculinity or women who are not remotely comfortable in themselves in that way (unsure how it would affect non-binary people. Maybe just immune?? I'm kidding they'd just reject femininity dw y'all I see you. Btw if I have any non-binary followers lemme know!! I feel like I've never specifically mentioned y'all, but I see you and love you <3).

- TW: Self esteem issues, self doubt, mental illness, body dysmorphia, eating disorders. There can be some serious self esteem or self doubt issues. If negatively aspected, it could indicate body dysmorphia or eating disorder tendencies. Being unhappy with yourself and how you look in particular, although it could be self esteem issues for any reason. Please look after yourself my love. Remember to eat if you can, drink water, and remember that we all want you here. You are stronger than you think and you can get through anything (I promise). I've struggled with all this stuff myself, so I understand. My DM's are open if anyone needs to talk <3

- Clashing fashion sense </3

- Cannot choose an aesthetic </3

The last two were jokes, but you get it. Now, because it is a retrograde, this means you will eventually master all of these things! If they are issues you struggle with now, you will one day learn all of the necessary lessons and be an expert on this planet. I know a lot of negative things were listed, but I promise there are no bad placements.

Okay everybody, this is all I have today!! Thank you so much for reading. If you have this placement, let me know how it affects you!! If anything in this post triggered you in any way, feel free to DM me if you would like to. I am here for all of you. Please take care of yourselves, my pretties. Sending you all so so so so so so much love <33

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Hi, it's the person who asked about your thoughts on Libra Risings! I'm sorry if it or I pressured you in any way - I didn't mean to add to your workload in life. Take care, take time for yourself, and I hope you're doing better <33

I'm so sorry it took so long to answer this! Baby I promise, people like you requesting posts are not the problem. Do not worry my love. You're all good, I promise <3

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i have scorpio moon and mercury in the 3rd house and i found your post about giving love to those placements. all i gotta say is… u read me to the brim 😭 ur really good! like wow

AAAAA you're so sweet!!! You're adorable I love your placements. Baby come to this blog any time and I will adore you don't even worry <3

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Consistently baffled at how on-point and wonderful every single one of her posts are <3

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heyoo c:

i'm back with another astro observations. if you haven't read pt.1 & pt.2 you can read them here and here.

✯ if you have pluto in the 3rd you may not have a good relationship with your siblings

✯ scorpio moon in 6h culture is being reluctant to open up to your pets or be affectionate with them in front of others

✯ it's true that 6h placements tend to always have pets

✯ i feel like water in 6h tend to get cats rather than dogs but it depends on the planet

✯ also leo risings usually get cats as well

✯ having jupiter in the 2nd house is a wealth indicator

✯ also people with north node in 10th are bound to succeed in life

✯ taurus placements have really deep and smooth voices kinda like honey

ex: stevie wonder, adele, sam smith, cher

✯ ruler of the 8th in the 7th will likely have spouses that are well off or like to share their wealth with you

✯ the moon rejoices in the 3rd house and that's why natives with moon in 3rd are easily able to communicate their feelings

✯ libra placements do this thing where they'll get really quiet if they're upset and you can't make them talk

✯ scorpio in the 4th natives can sometimes be ashamed to talk about their families

✯ having duplicate houses in the 4th and 5th houses can indicate a person having twins (especially if it's in gemini or pisces)

✯ having a 5h stellium in synastry with someone means you two will always have fun conversations and share hobbies with the other

✯ moon-chiron aspects can find it hard to approach their mothers and tell them certain things but once they do it can be so healing

✯ pluto in 7h natives could often be stuck in codependent relationships

✯ aqua placements could have really long features

for example: a long face, neck, legs, torso, feet, or fingers

✯ gemini risings (if they don't have aqua placements) tend to have little faces

✯ it's genuinely scary how young gemini placements can look even when they're old i swear those people don't age

✯ no one really talks about how versatile cancers can be. cancer exalts in jupiter, is at its detriment in saturn, domicile in the moon, and falls in mars. cancers can embody so many different traits along with being ruled by the tides of the ocean and different phases of the moon.

✯ scorpio & sag placements are the type to lie for no reason at all.. gemini placements too

✯ gemini placements/strong mercury influence tend to look tall in pictures

✯ i don't think a lot of people know this but mars in 6th people be just as secretly horny as virgo placements

✯ moon-venus synastry is so nice until you realize you forgive them even when they do you wrong.. you automatically will have a soft spot for the person

it could also cause trust issues bc your boundaries will likely be ignored and you'll let it happen

✯ a lot of gemini/aqua/virgo placements might have insomnia

✯ leo in 2nd have commanding voices

✯ ruler of the 2nd in the 6th culture is getting strep throat a lot

✯ chiron in 11th culture is being friends with the person that was excluded and no one liked or being the person that was excluded

✯ ruler of the 6th in the 3rd house culture is reading and writing a lotttt

✯ also ruler of the 6th in the 3rd is talking to your siblings everyday

✯ ruler of the 12th in the 4th culture is dreaming about your family

✯ ruler of the 4th in the 5th culture is sharing hobbies with your family and having the most fun with them

✯ intercepted 1st & 7h could make you feel like no one really knows the real you & you could constantly wonder how others perceive you

✯ saturn in 4th might have chest pains/heart issues

✯ gemini, virgo, 3rd & 11h stelliums talk the most

✯ saturn 7th house shows that you attract older partners and your relationships may teach you a lot of lessons. many of your partners could be karmic or you might get into relationships/marry later on in life

✯ your 7h ruler can tell you a lot about your fs's appearance (depending on the planets in the 7h and other factors this could change)

for example:

✯ sun as the ruler of the 7h can cause your fs to possibly have tan/darker skin, thick curly hair, a bright smile and a childlike aura. they might be similar to a golden retriever in their behavior

✯ moon as the ruler of the 7th may have fs's with deep, glossy and doe eyes that are like windows to the soul. it's easy to get lost in them. your fs could be emotionally intelligent. they could be curvy/thick or "wide" looking and generally short. could also have pale skin or a round face

✯ mercury as the ruler of the 7th could cause your fs to have a "fresh" appearance and they can look younger than you or just youthful. the types where if they're a man and they shave, they'll look 10 years younger. they might have round eyes and nice hands and could be tall or just look tall. your fs could also be quite talkative and intelligent

✯ venus as the ruler of the 7th could cause your fs to be materialistic or very romantic. your person could be conventionally attractive and possibly be curvy and/or muscular. they might have dimples or a beauty mark or they carry themself with grace and beauty. could be medium heigh/average or tall

✯ mars as the ruler of the 7th could cause your fs to be someone who works out a lot or who is generally very active. they could be someone who stands their ground often and says what needs to be said. they demand respect and they could have really intense eyes. they might be stocky or short and could seem very impulsive.

✯ jupiter as the ruler of the 7th could cause your fs to seem like a generally positive person. they may make you or others laugh a lot and their smile will likely be wide. this is another placement that could indicate dimples and your person could be very popular. some part of these people is widened whether that's their butt or their thighs and they could range from short to tall

✯ saturn as the ruler of the 7th could make your fs someone older than you or someone you meet before you're 30. they could age like fine wine or be someone with a sharp jawline or great bone structure. they could have a relatively dry face and they might have nice eyebrows

✯ neptune as the ruler of the 7th could indicate a fs that has really pretty eyes. their eyes might be a light color or they could be conventionally attractive since neptune is a higher octave of venus. they could seem really dreamy and they might be short.

✯ uranus as the ruler of the 7th could indicate a fs tbat's unconventionally attractive or has an unsymmetrical face. they could have a unique feature to them or have a poker face/rbf. your fs could be tall or appear tall and one of their body parts could be elongated (neck, hands, calves, legs, etc)

✯ pluto as the ruler of the 7th could indicate a fs with eye bags or dark eyes. your fs could be someone who seems like they don't want to be bothered and they might have dark features such as hair or skin. they may have nice eyebrows or eyelashes and seem closed off to the world.

✯ intercepted virgo/pisces in a chart causes difficulties in having a consistent routine and natives might find it hard to take care of themselves physically. they also might find it hard to trust their intuition since it likely was likely ignored and not encouraged to develop

✯ sag placements usually have cleft chins ex: vanessa hudgenson

✯ a lot of leo/10h & cap placements tend to compare themselves to others often :(

✯ taurus placements have such nice jawlines like they're usually sharp and square

✯ sag placements usually have cleft chins ex vanessa hudgenson

✯ a lot of leo/10h & cap placements tend to compare themselves to others often :(

✯ moon-mars aspects gain and lose weight so easily

✯ mars-jupiter aspects can go from 0-100 so quick and also they get random rushes of energy that die out just as fast

✯ the duplicate and intercepted houses in your natal chart may the ongoing ascendant signs in your solar return charts

✯ chiron 11h culture is feeling alone even when you're with people and friends

✯ taurus in the 3rd natives probably acted to respectful to adults when they were younger. the epitome of good manners but would sometimes be blunt if they wanted to leave

✯ moon - mars aspects also may spend impulsively (guilty of this)

✯neptune 6h natives usually make a routine and then forget what the things they're supposed to do

✯ this is similar for pisces in the 3rd except they tend to forget names or places a lot until it matters

✯ people call taurus placements lazy but they just value self care

✯ mercury-uranus natives tend to have good hand eye coordination

✯ mercury-uranus natives also tend to be quite good at math and they're also the type to predict the entire plot of a movie from watching one scene

✯ the people who give you the biggest lessons in your life are the signs in your 8h or if you have 8h synastry with someone else

✯ cancer/moon in 6h natives usually just give up on their normal routines if they're not feeling well or sometimes they won't even have a set routine since it just depends on their mood

✯ aquarius placements/stelliums are very observant and ask a ton of questions to see through others

✯ mars in 6h people do not like being underestimated bc they get even more competitive and that's when they're able to show their true skill

✯ 4h placements are likely more private than 8h placements bc the 4th house is a nocturnal house

✯ gemini placements cover up their sadness with jokes often times

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Ugh omg yes??? That sounds like a great time wtf 🙄🙄

Dates I Would Take The Venus Signs On <3

Hi everybody! I love you and all the Venus signs very much. So I decided that I wanted to do my best to make you all feel loved and appreciated!!! Btw this post was meant to go out yesterday but stuffs happened I'm sorry :(

Remember: You are gorgeous, you are smart, you are strong, you matter and I adore you. Enjoy!!!

ARIES: Roller-skating date!!! I cannot skate for shit, but you can have a good time laughing at my failure. It would be light, but still active and involved. I would try my best for you and you'd find it amusing and sort of endearing. Even if you can't skate either, I just know you're better than me. We could have fun choosing cute skates, or get matching ones!!! I would hook up my phone to the speakers and turn on the playlist I made for you. We would talk about nothing especially important, maybe sing a lil bit, but overall laugh and bask in each other's company. I would take you out for food afterwards, completely your choice. You are just so fun!! You are so energising!! You make people feel like they are on cloud-9 and could go on forever.

TAURUS: Dancing date!!! Let me elaborate. It would be us, alone, dancing in our special place that no one else knows. We would be dressed our best clothes, whatever makes you feel as gorgeous as you are. I would have a dessert charcuterie board for you, with strawberries and chocolate. I would set up a cute vintage record player and play all your favourite songs. I would hold you as close as you are comfortable with and kiss your neck softly, as I look at you with nothing but utter adoration. You can bring your guard down, it's just us. I am safe. I hold nothing but love and dedication for you. I only hope that my hours of effort is able to show a sliver of my feelings for you.

GEMINI: Mario Kart date!!! Our relationship may be destroyed after this, but I'll take my chances. You will be very good at it, because multitasking and stuff, but also it's not serious. We can see different sides of each other without getting insanely serious and intense. I wholeheartedly believe that building on our friendship would be the strongest way to progress our relationship anyway. I love seeing how excited you get about winning, I love seeing how passionate you can be, I love seeing you think and work out what the best thing to do is. I don't need to let you beat me, you can destroy me all by yourself. For once though, I'm not mad about it. Maybe seeing how beautiful you look when you're excited and happy is better than winning.

CANCER: Build-A-Bear date!! I'm sorry it sounds corny and stuff, but listen. You mean I get to snuggle a bear?? That you, my love, made for me?? You custom made it?? For me?? It smells like you?? It has your personality??? I am sobbing. It will immediately become my new favourite thing, second only to yourself. You bring me so much comfort and joy, I am so lucky that I get to experience those feelings when you are gone now too!! I also love the idea of telling you exactly how I feel via teddy bear. You are powerful and gentle and nurturing and safe and scary. Words cannot do you justice. Neither can a bear, but maybe it's a start??? I would also make you a bracelet to out on your bear, with my initials on it.

LEO: Shopping trip date!! This is not to be superficial, but so you finally spend some time and (my) money on yourself for once. You try on outfits that make you feel confident, I flirt and hype you up!! I will find outfits to match or correlate with yours in some way <3. I would buy you a bouquet of those year-lasting roses in your favourite colour and carefully craft you a perfume/cologne that would suit you pleasantly. None of these are to be materialistic or anything at all, I promise. I'm simply trying to make sure you feel as handsome as you possibly can. Also, make sure you KNOW I adore you from all the effort I put in :). You are the light of my life and you deserve the world. Please let me give it to you.

VIRGO: Picnic date!!! I would take us out to a richly green forest, that looks as if it could be home to the fairies. I would take out the frog cookies, bear-shaped sandwiches and heart-shaped cake. Yes, all for you, my love. I would bring a number of find-a-words, crosswords, games like that for us to play. We don't have to, but I figured it could be nice. Otherwise we can make a Pinterest board of our life together, or talk about how much better life would be if we owned a cat. I would gift you one of my crystals (cleansed of course) and tell you what it means. No matter what crystal it is or what it 'means', the truth is the only meaning it holds in that moment is "I love you". I would kiss you on the cheek, then pick up a beautiful flower on the floor. I press the flower once I get home, so it can be yours to keep as a memento.

LIBRA: Festival date!! I know that feels like an odd choice for Libra Venus, but hear me out. I take you out to do fun things!! We get cute and tasty food!! I go on rides with you!! I win prizes for you, and vice versa (if you want)!!! I can hold your hand and drag you around behind me excitedly. We can people-watch, talk about how we are clearly the cutest couple there. We can take pretty pictures, and you playfully hit me but blush as I remark that nothing could be as pretty as you. We see the petting zoo and talk about how good pet-parents we would be (we wouldn't). I would take so many polaroids of you. Darling, you deserve your own gallery.

SCORPIO: Driving date!!! I don't mean for this to sound boring, but it just feels more intimate you know? You are the one I can be myself around, you are the one that loves me despite everything, you are the one that is my safe haven from the world. I want you all to myself, and what better way to get you alone with me than a long drive in the middle of a beautiful nowhere? Tell me about your biggest dreams and ambitions, your biggest fears, your greatest shame, your favourite things, your deepest and truest feelings. No one else is around, so I can focus on only you. I can give you the undivided attention and unconditional love you deserve.

SAGITTARIUS: Anime date!!! I'm sorry if you don't watch anime, but it always makes me think of Sagittarius. I want to watch your eyes light up as I turn on your favourite. I want to watch you laugh at the jokes, even if you've heard them before. I want to see your whole body glow when I tell you I enjoy it too. I want to jokingly suggest we recreate any romantic scenes and make you flustered, but you don't back down from a challenge and we actually do it. I want to compare favourite characters and have affectionate arguments about why the other is very wrong (if any of you are wondering, Saiki Kusuo - aka my pfp - from The Disastrous Life of Saiki K is the best anime character, along with many more. Let me know if y'all want my list <3). Anyway!!! Just,,, cute anime date w y'all <3

CAPRICORN: Museum date!!! Tbh this is my placement and it's probably my dream date so I chose it. I don't care too much what kind of museum it is, as long as it's cool and interesting. I want to impress you with my care and knowledge on the world and historical subjects. I want you to know I'm mature and reliable ad stable and secure cuz I go to museums and that's totally something a responsible person would do??? I want to admire you while you admire the artifacts. All of this goes double if it's an environmental museum or something like that!!!

AQUARIUS: Star-gazing date!! Inquisitively and lovingly staring into something as impossibly incomprehensible as the galaxy is the most Aquarius thing I can imagine. We will take turns pointing out constellations and getting super excited about them. We will also take turns in telling the other each story behind each constellation. Even if they know it already, it's so fun anyway. Creating shapes with the stars, trying to figure out if they look like anything, and realising the person next to me is somehow more outstanding than the stars themselves. The star-gazing will quickly turn into a philosophical discussion, but it's equally as magical.

PISCES: Painting date!!! Buying the biggest canvas we can find, and then searching for an empty park to set up in. Painting shitty ('artistic') works of each other. Using the colours and the brush to convey feelings that words can't quite express clearly enough. Staring at you as I try to do your perfect features justice on this canvas. Unfortunately, you were clearly created ethereal by the gods and I am not that talented. I'll try my darn best though!! I'm just trying to show you how unfathomably magnificent you are :( please gimme kiss to feel better, I am not an artist <3

Okay everybody, that's all I have for today!! I'm not sure how I feel about this post tbh, but I hope you enjoyed!!! I also wanted to say that some of these sound weirdly personal, but they are not lol. I am literally just talking about that placement. Anyway!!! I love you all dearly, I hope you enjoyed. Sending you all so so so so so so so so much love !!!!!! <3333333

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ayo baby I can take you on an anime date if you wanna 😩😏😤🙏

(this was a joke but like tbh watching anime with you sounds great)

Dates I Would Take The Venus Signs On <3

Hi everybody! I love you and all the Venus signs very much. So I decided that I wanted to do my best to make you all feel loved and appreciated!!! Btw this post was meant to go out yesterday but stuffs happened I'm sorry :(

Remember: You are gorgeous, you are smart, you are strong, you matter and I adore you. Enjoy!!!

ARIES: Roller-skating date!!! I cannot skate for shit, but you can have a good time laughing at my failure. It would be light, but still active and involved. I would try my best for you and you'd find it amusing and sort of endearing. Even if you can't skate either, I just know you're better than me. We could have fun choosing cute skates, or get matching ones!!! I would hook up my phone to the speakers and turn on the playlist I made for you. We would talk about nothing especially important, maybe sing a lil bit, but overall laugh and bask in each other's company. I would take you out for food afterwards, completely your choice. You are just so fun!! You are so energising!! You make people feel like they are on cloud-9 and could go on forever.

TAURUS: Dancing date!!! Let me elaborate. It would be us, alone, dancing in our special place that no one else knows. We would be dressed our best clothes, whatever makes you feel as gorgeous as you are. I would have a dessert charcuterie board for you, with strawberries and chocolate. I would set up a cute vintage record player and play all your favourite songs. I would hold you as close as you are comfortable with and kiss your neck softly, as I look at you with nothing but utter adoration. You can bring your guard down, it's just us. I am safe. I hold nothing but love and dedication for you. I only hope that my hours of effort is able to show a sliver of my feelings for you.

GEMINI: Mario Kart date!!! Our relationship may be destroyed after this, but I'll take my chances. You will be very good at it, because multitasking and stuff, but also it's not serious. We can see different sides of each other without getting insanely serious and intense. I wholeheartedly believe that building on our friendship would be the strongest way to progress our relationship anyway. I love seeing how excited you get about winning, I love seeing how passionate you can be, I love seeing you think and work out what the best thing to do is. I don't need to let you beat me, you can destroy me all by yourself. For once though, I'm not mad about it. Maybe seeing how beautiful you look when you're excited and happy is better than winning.

CANCER: Build-A-Bear date!! I'm sorry it sounds corny and stuff, but listen. You mean I get to snuggle a bear?? That you, my love, made for me?? You custom made it?? For me?? It smells like you?? It has your personality??? I am sobbing. It will immediately become my new favourite thing, second only to yourself. You bring me so much comfort and joy, I am so lucky that I get to experience those feelings when you are gone now too!! I also love the idea of telling you exactly how I feel via teddy bear. You are powerful and gentle and nurturing and safe and scary. Words cannot do you justice. Neither can a bear, but maybe it's a start??? I would also make you a bracelet to out on your bear, with my initials on it.

LEO: Shopping trip date!! This is not to be superficial, but so you finally spend some time and (my) money on yourself for once. You try on outfits that make you feel confident, I flirt and hype you up!! I will find outfits to match or correlate with yours in some way <3. I would buy you a bouquet of those year-lasting roses in your favourite colour and carefully craft you a perfume/cologne that would suit you pleasantly. None of these are to be materialistic or anything at all, I promise. I'm simply trying to make sure you feel as handsome as you possibly can. Also, make sure you KNOW I adore you from all the effort I put in :). You are the light of my life and you deserve the world. Please let me give it to you.

VIRGO: Picnic date!!! I would take us out to a richly green forest, that looks as if it could be home to the fairies. I would take out the frog cookies, bear-shaped sandwiches and heart-shaped cake. Yes, all for you, my love. I would bring a number of find-a-words, crosswords, games like that for us to play. We don't have to, but I figured it could be nice. Otherwise we can make a Pinterest board of our life together, or talk about how much better life would be if we owned a cat. I would gift you one of my crystals (cleansed of course) and tell you what it means. No matter what crystal it is or what it 'means', the truth is the only meaning it holds in that moment is "I love you". I would kiss you on the cheek, then pick up a beautiful flower on the floor. I press the flower once I get home, so it can be yours to keep as a memento.

LIBRA: Festival date!! I know that feels like an odd choice for Libra Venus, but hear me out. I take you out to do fun things!! We get cute and tasty food!! I go on rides with you!! I win prizes for you, and vice versa (if you want)!!! I can hold your hand and drag you around behind me excitedly. We can people-watch, talk about how we are clearly the cutest couple there. We can take pretty pictures, and you playfully hit me but blush as I remark that nothing could be as pretty as you. We see the petting zoo and talk about how good pet-parents we would be (we wouldn't). I would take so many polaroids of you. Darling, you deserve your own gallery.

SCORPIO: Driving date!!! I don't mean for this to sound boring, but it just feels more intimate you know? You are the one I can be myself around, you are the one that loves me despite everything, you are the one that is my safe haven from the world. I want you all to myself, and what better way to get you alone with me than a long drive in the middle of a beautiful nowhere? Tell me about your biggest dreams and ambitions, your biggest fears, your greatest shame, your favourite things, your deepest and truest feelings. No one else is around, so I can focus on only you. I can give you the undivided attention and unconditional love you deserve.

SAGITTARIUS: Anime date!!! I'm sorry if you don't watch anime, but it always makes me think of Sagittarius. I want to watch your eyes light up as I turn on your favourite. I want to watch you laugh at the jokes, even if you've heard them before. I want to see your whole body glow when I tell you I enjoy it too. I want to jokingly suggest we recreate any romantic scenes and make you flustered, but you don't back down from a challenge and we actually do it. I want to compare favourite characters and have affectionate arguments about why the other is very wrong (if any of you are wondering, Saiki Kusuo - aka my pfp - from The Disastrous Life of Saiki K is the best anime character, along with many more. Let me know if y'all want my list <3). Anyway!!! Just,,, cute anime date w y'all <3

CAPRICORN: Museum date!!! Tbh this is my placement and it's probably my dream date so I chose it. I don't care too much what kind of museum it is, as long as it's cool and interesting. I want to impress you with my care and knowledge on the world and historical subjects. I want you to know I'm mature and reliable ad stable and secure cuz I go to museums and that's totally something a responsible person would do??? I want to admire you while you admire the artifacts. All of this goes double if it's an environmental museum or something like that!!!

AQUARIUS: Star-gazing date!! Inquisitively and lovingly staring into something as impossibly incomprehensible as the galaxy is the most Aquarius thing I can imagine. We will take turns pointing out constellations and getting super excited about them. We will also take turns in telling the other each story behind each constellation. Even if they know it already, it's so fun anyway. Creating shapes with the stars, trying to figure out if they look like anything, and realising the person next to me is somehow more outstanding than the stars themselves. The star-gazing will quickly turn into a philosophical discussion, but it's equally as magical.

PISCES: Painting date!!! Buying the biggest canvas we can find, and then searching for an empty park to set up in. Painting shitty ('artistic') works of each other. Using the colours and the brush to convey feelings that words can't quite express clearly enough. Staring at you as I try to do your perfect features justice on this canvas. Unfortunately, you were clearly created ethereal by the gods and I am not that talented. I'll try my darn best though!! I'm just trying to show you how unfathomably magnificent you are :( please gimme kiss to feel better, I am not an artist <3

Okay everybody, that's all I have for today!! I'm not sure how I feel about this post tbh, but I hope you enjoyed!!! I also wanted to say that some of these sound weirdly personal, but they are not lol. I am literally just talking about that placement. Anyway!!! I love you all dearly, I hope you enjoyed. Sending you all so so so so so so so so much love !!!!!! <3333333

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Dates I Would Take The Venus Signs On <3

Hi everybody! I love you and all the Venus signs very much. So I decided that I wanted to do my best to make you all feel loved and appreciated!!! Btw this post was meant to go out yesterday but stuffs happened I'm sorry :(

Remember: You are gorgeous, you are smart, you are strong, you matter and I adore you. Enjoy!!!

ARIES: Roller-skating date!!! I cannot skate for shit, but you can have a good time laughing at my failure. It would be light, but still active and involved. I would try my best for you and you'd find it amusing and sort of endearing. Even if you can't skate either, I just know you're better than me. We could have fun choosing cute skates, or get matching ones!!! I would hook up my phone to the speakers and turn on the playlist I made for you. We would talk about nothing especially important, maybe sing a lil bit, but overall laugh and bask in each other's company. I would take you out for food afterwards, completely your choice. You are just so fun!! You are so energising!! You make people feel like they are on cloud-9 and could go on forever.

TAURUS: Dancing date!!! Let me elaborate. It would be us, alone, dancing in our special place that no one else knows. We would be dressed our best clothes, whatever makes you feel as gorgeous as you are. I would have a dessert charcuterie board for you, with strawberries and chocolate. I would set up a cute vintage record player and play all your favourite songs. I would hold you as close as you are comfortable with and kiss your neck softly, as I look at you with nothing but utter adoration. You can bring your guard down, it's just us. I am safe. I hold nothing but love and dedication for you. I only hope that my hours of effort is able to show a sliver of my feelings for you.

GEMINI: Mario Kart date!!! Our relationship may be destroyed after this, but I'll take my chances. You will be very good at it, because multitasking and stuff, but also it's not serious. We can see different sides of each other without getting insanely serious and intense. I wholeheartedly believe that building on our friendship would be the strongest way to progress our relationship anyway. I love seeing how excited you get about winning, I love seeing how passionate you can be, I love seeing you think and work out what the best thing to do is. I don't need to let you beat me, you can destroy me all by yourself. For once though, I'm not mad about it. Maybe seeing how beautiful you look when you're excited and happy is better than winning.

CANCER: Build-A-Bear date!! I'm sorry it sounds corny and stuff, but listen. You mean I get to snuggle a bear?? That you, my love, made for me?? You custom made it?? For me?? It smells like you?? It has your personality??? I am sobbing. It will immediately become my new favourite thing, second only to yourself. You bring me so much comfort and joy, I am so lucky that I get to experience those feelings when you are gone now too!! I also love the idea of telling you exactly how I feel via teddy bear. You are powerful and gentle and nurturing and safe and scary. Words cannot do you justice. Neither can a bear, but maybe it's a start??? I would also make you a bracelet to out on your bear, with my initials on it.

LEO: Shopping trip date!! This is not to be superficial, but so you finally spend some time and (my) money on yourself for once. You try on outfits that make you feel confident, I flirt and hype you up!! I will find outfits to match or correlate with yours in some way <3. I would buy you a bouquet of those year-lasting roses in your favourite colour and carefully craft you a perfume/cologne that would suit you pleasantly. None of these are to be materialistic or anything at all, I promise. I'm simply trying to make sure you feel as handsome as you possibly can. Also, make sure you KNOW I adore you from all the effort I put in :). You are the light of my life and you deserve the world. Please let me give it to you.

VIRGO: Picnic date!!! I would take us out to a richly green forest, that looks as if it could be home to the fairies. I would take out the frog cookies, bear-shaped sandwiches and heart-shaped cake. Yes, all for you, my love. I would bring a number of find-a-words, crosswords, games like that for us to play. We don't have to, but I figured it could be nice. Otherwise we can make a Pinterest board of our life together, or talk about how much better life would be if we owned a cat. I would gift you one of my crystals (cleansed of course) and tell you what it means. No matter what crystal it is or what it 'means', the truth is the only meaning it holds in that moment is "I love you". I would kiss you on the cheek, then pick up a beautiful flower on the floor. I press the flower once I get home, so it can be yours to keep as a memento.

LIBRA: Festival date!! I know that feels like an odd choice for Libra Venus, but hear me out. I take you out to do fun things!! We get cute and tasty food!! I go on rides with you!! I win prizes for you, and vice versa (if you want)!!! I can hold your hand and drag you around behind me excitedly. We can people-watch, talk about how we are clearly the cutest couple there. We can take pretty pictures, and you playfully hit me but blush as I remark that nothing could be as pretty as you. We see the petting zoo and talk about how good pet-parents we would be (we wouldn't). I would take so many polaroids of you. Darling, you deserve your own gallery.

SCORPIO: Driving date!!! I don't mean for this to sound boring, but it just feels more intimate you know? You are the one I can be myself around, you are the one that loves me despite everything, you are the one that is my safe haven from the world. I want you all to myself, and what better way to get you alone with me than a long drive in the middle of a beautiful nowhere? Tell me about your biggest dreams and ambitions, your biggest fears, your greatest shame, your favourite things, your deepest and truest feelings. No one else is around, so I can focus on only you. I can give you the undivided attention and unconditional love you deserve.

SAGITTARIUS: Anime date!!! I'm sorry if you don't watch anime, but it always makes me think of Sagittarius. I want to watch your eyes light up as I turn on your favourite. I want to watch you laugh at the jokes, even if you've heard them before. I want to see your whole body glow when I tell you I enjoy it too. I want to jokingly suggest we recreate any romantic scenes and make you flustered, but you don't back down from a challenge and we actually do it. I want to compare favourite characters and have affectionate arguments about why the other is very wrong (if any of you are wondering, Saiki Kusuo - aka my pfp - from The Disastrous Life of Saiki K is the best anime character, along with many more. Let me know if y'all want my list <3). Anyway!!! Just,,, cute anime date w y'all <3

CAPRICORN: Museum date!!! Tbh this is my placement and it's probably my dream date so I chose it. I don't care too much what kind of museum it is, as long as it's cool and interesting. I want to impress you with my care and knowledge on the world and historical subjects. I want you to know I'm mature and reliable ad stable and secure cuz I go to museums and that's totally something a responsible person would do??? I want to admire you while you admire the artifacts. All of this goes double if it's an environmental museum or something like that!!!

AQUARIUS: Star-gazing date!! Inquisitively and lovingly staring into something as impossibly incomprehensible as the galaxy is the most Aquarius thing I can imagine. We will take turns pointing out constellations and getting super excited about them. We will also take turns in telling the other each story behind each constellation. Even if they know it already, it's so fun anyway. Creating shapes with the stars, trying to figure out if they look like anything, and realising the person next to me is somehow more outstanding than the stars themselves. The star-gazing will quickly turn into a philosophical discussion, but it's equally as magical.

PISCES: Painting date!!! Buying the biggest canvas we can find, and then searching for an empty park to set up in. Painting shitty ('artistic') works of each other. Using the colours and the brush to convey feelings that words can't quite express clearly enough. Staring at you as I try to do your perfect features justice on this canvas. Unfortunately, you were clearly created ethereal by the gods and I am not that talented. I'll try my darn best though!! I'm just trying to show you how unfathomably magnificent you are :( please gimme kiss to feel better, I am not an artist <3

Okay everybody, that's all I have for today!! I'm not sure how I feel about this post tbh, but I hope you enjoyed!!! I also wanted to say that some of these sound weirdly personal, but they are not lol. I am literally just talking about that placement. Anyway!!! I love you all dearly, I hope you enjoyed. Sending you all so so so so so so so so much love !!!!!! <3333333

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Congratulations on 1K followers love, THAT'S MASSIVE! MUCH MORE TO COME AND YOU DESERVE EVERY PART OF IT. I'm incredibly proud of youu and you're undoubtedly one of the Kindest and loveliest people here. You inspire me so much <3333 and your posts and content is legit chef's kiss 😘🤌🏼 can't wait to see more of your content heree! Thankyou for being here and being SO tender hearted and benevolent. sending so much love and blessings for you, munckinn💘

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The Venus-Mars aspect bit VIOLENTLY called me out p l e a s e

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♡ scorpio and 8h placements want some life changes but instead get a piercing or dye their hair instead of doing shadow work or going to therapy lmaooooooo.

♡ I find it hilarious that aries moon will snap on you real quick but will never hold a grudge against you.

♡ gemini stelliums or libra placements are the trend setters. everyone loves to copy u.

♡ I love how brutally honest capricorn & aquarius placements can be like yes tell me what. I. need. to. hear.

♡ activating your 12h by going out at night >>> 🖤

♡ If someone has the same moon sign as you, you will have similar emotional needs and temperaments. ex, two aquarius moon's will be in tune with one other's emotions and immediately know if something's off.

♡ I don't know why but when i think of sagittarius placements i think of 70s fashion...

♡ to catch gemini and scorpio placements' attention, you need to seem complex and interesting like a puzzle to solve.

♡ venus aspect mars people 🤝feeling physically attracted to aggressive, feirce, hot tempered people.

♡ 3h and 9h placements should always invest in their education or diverse experiences to learn something new.