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i love being a black girl. what would i do without french curl braids?

#hair #braids #girlblogging

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I'm sorry but this is honestly getting to a point where your just body shaming / race shaming. "Oh but I'm talking abt the make up" (←smt the creator has said). As multiple of the "chopped Jirais"(which literally all of them were stunning) had they're face covered. Reminder : you do NOT have to be Asian or skinny to be jirai, jirai is a mental health based subculture. And the fact that this person is bashing these people(all of them looking like minors) who are Jirai, meaning they are most likely mentally ill and everything ksusanisuajak

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“Jirai Kei is dying” thank god now all the posers are gonna start selling their shit for lower prices on Vinted because it’s “less desirable”

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Not everyone in the jirai community is against healing many of us want to recover.

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Does anybody else overhear conversations that are not really happening and u think people are talking about you?

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One thing that I regret is self h@rming yesterday. That doesn’t mean my healing is over that means I still have a journey ahead of me that I need to walk.

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　　 ˚ 　　　 . ✧　　 　　˚ 　　　 . ✧　　 　　˚ 　　　 .

you are pretty you are smart

you are kind you are worthy

you are powerful you are magical

you are intelligent you are fearless

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Healing is hard because I want to Jill myself still

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Letting go of someone who isn’t good for you shows growth and how much you love yourself

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Learning to sit with my negative emotions has been the hardest thing for me

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ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴄᴏɴꜰɪᴅᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴛ. 𝟤

1. Upgrade Your Self-Talk

Be Your Own Hype Person – Talk to yourself like you would a friend.

Challenge Negative Thoughts – Ask: Is this really true, or just fear talking?

Use Affirmations – Say things like "I am capable," "I deserve success."

2. Look & Feel Your Best

Dress for Success – Wear clothes that make you feel good.

Grooming Matters – A fresh haircut, skincare, or just standing tall makes a difference.

Exercise & Stay Healthy – Movement boosts energy and self-esteem.

3. Step Into the Spotlight

Speak Up More – In conversations, meetings, or even small social settings.

Take on Challenges – Volunteer for tasks that push you a little.

Learn to Handle Criticism – Take feedback as a way to improve, not as an attack.

4. Master a Skill

Be Really Good at Something – Whether it’s a hobby, work skill, or sport, excelling in one area boosts confidence in others.

Keep Learning – Confidence grows when you feel capable.

5. Visualize Success

Imagine Yourself Winning – Before an event, picture yourself doing great.

Use Positive Memories – Recall past successes to remind yourself of what you're capable of.

6. Keep Showing Up

Confidence Comes with Experience – The more you do, the better you feel.

Don’t Fear Failure – Every confident person has failed a lot. They just kept going.

Stay Patient & Consistent – Change takes time, but small steps lead to huge progress.

Drink water now <3

pt. 3?

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Learn to be more compassionate with yourself, you wouldn’t be so hard on a friend or a family member, so don’t be so hard on yourself

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Recovery isn’t a one way street. Bad days will come along it’s how you deal with those bad days that shows your healing journey. It’s ok to have bad days.

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congrats on your healing journey. but you might wanna get out of jirai spaces and get more into bpd recovery spaces. a lot of people in the yandere/jirai part of the internet encourage bad behavior and ik it negatively affected my recovery. hope you're doing well

Thank you so much. It’s hard for me to fully disconnect from the jirai community because theses people understand me fully. Just because I’m apart of the community doesn’t mean I can’t steal focus on my healing ❤️‍🩹. Not everyone in the community is against healing but, thank you for your concern your so sweet.

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My bpd core beliefs

- I’m ugly

- I’m stupid

- I’m Inferior to others

- I’m incapable

- I’m fat

Now that I’m healing I know these things are not true

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Trying to change my bpd core beliefs about myself so I can heal

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My bpd makes me feel inferior to others