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[kaznomi]

I do not want a life-long partnership, as an aroace person.

When I first learned about being aromantic and asexual, I saw a post on Tumblr about QPRs, aka “Queer/Quasi-platonic relationship”. Here is some quick information on what this means.

I thought that I was interested in this type of relationship. I have been in multiple QPRs in the past even. 

But, after really reflecting on it, I realized - it was the exact same situation as with romantic/sexual relationships.

I am not interested in any kind of relationship beyond friendship. Queerplatonic, romantic, sexual, anything like that. I do not want a “life-long partner”. I love being completely single. I am completely fulfilled and content.

Yet, that voice that tells me that I will never be happy without being in these types of relationships? Yeah, it’s still here. 

With QPRs, this was my unconscious thought process.

“If I am not in a romantic/sexual relationships, at least I can be in a QPR and be somewhat normal.” or “Maybe I will develop these feelings if I can hold out a little longer.”

I felt the exact same in QPRs as I felt in romantic/sexual relationships: trapped, awkward, uncomfortable, stressed. The fact I could not return these feelings would make me extremely stressed. In my last relationship, that was the biggest wake-up call. I was so stressed during that relationship and had no idea why. The second we broke up? I felt so much better.

My dream is living on my own, maybe own a pet, have my own space, but also have a few friends I can hang out with. This is completely fine! I am allowed to live however I want to as long as it isn’t hurting anyone.

Anyways, I guess I’m making this post to show people that you don’t have to be in ANY kind of relationship if you do not want to. I didn’t realize this until very recently, and if I had known earlier, it would’ve saved SO MUCH TROUBLE for EVERYONE. 

You can have a completely fulfilling life. You are not broken. It is your life, and you deserve to live it however you want to.

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*walks down an ominous hallway in a victorian gown but my candelabra lighting the way just has three birthday candles hot glued to the top*

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[ ID: tweet by @/DothTheDoth reading “Be the horrifying backstory of your family's lineage” ]

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Kelvariec: A kenic gender connected to cosmic background radiation. It is a dark, uncanny gender that is only able to be perceived as static. It feels astronomically vast; understanding every facet of it is impossible.

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KANDICORIC - aesthetic gender related to kandi/kandicore

IDOLCORIC - aesthetic gender related to idols/idolcore

FAIRYCORIC - aesthetic gender related to fairycore

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the first two already have flags but i wanted to do my own so!!

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Do you have any aesthetic genders/pronouns relating to cryptids, eldritch horrors, shadow monsters n stuff like that?

Yes!

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*»⟩ Pronouns

cry/cryptid/cryptids/cryptids/cryptidself

cryptid/cryptid/cryptids/cryptids/cryptidself

moth/man/moths/mans/mothmanself

mo/mothman/mothmans/mothmans/mothmanself

mothman/mothman/mothmans/mothmans/mothmanself

ne/nessie/nessies/nessies/nessieself

nessie/nessie/nessies/nessies/nessieself

lo/lochness/lochness'/lochness'/lochnessself

lochness/lochness/lochness'/lochness'/lochnessself

bi/bigfoot/bigfoots/bigfoots/bigfootself

bigfoot/bigfoot/bigfoots/bigfoots/bigfootself

elderitch/horror/elderitchs/horrors/elderitchhorrorself

el/elderitchhorror/elderitchhorrors/elderitchhorrors/elderitchhorrorself

elderitchhorror/elderitchhorror/elderitchhorrors/elderitchhorrors/elderitchhorrorself

el/elderitch/elderitchs/elderitchs/elderitchself

elderitch/elderitch/elderitchs/elderitchs/elderitchself

h/horror/horrors/horrors/horrorself

horror/horror/horrors/horrors/horrorself

body/horror/bodies/horrors/bodyhorrorself

bo/bodyhorror/bodyhorrors/bodyhorrors/bodyhorrorself

bodyhorror/bodyhorror/bodyhorrors/bodyhorrors/bodyhorrorself

co/cosmic/cosmics/cosmics/cosmicself

cosmic/cosmic/cosmics/cosmics/cosmicself

un/unknown/unknowns/unknowns/unknowwnself

unknown/unknown/unknowns/unknowns/unknowwnself

fe/fear/fears/fears/fearself

fear/fear/fears/fears/fearself

sha/shadow/shadows/shadows/shadowself

shadow/shadow/shadows/shadows/shadowself

mon/monster/monsters/monsters/monsterself

monster/monster/monsters/monsters/monsterself

da/dark/darks/darks/darkself

dark/dark/darks/darks/darkself

cre/creep/creeps/creeps/creepself

creep/creep/creeps/creeps/creepself

sc/scare/scares/scares/scareself

scare/scare/scares/scares/scareself

swa/swamp/swamps/swamps/swampself

swamp/swamp/swamps/swamps/swampself

for/forest/forests/forests/forestself

forest/forest/forests/forests/forestself

wo/woods/woods'/woods'/woodsself

woods/woods/woods'/woods'/woodsself

spa/space/spaces/spaces/spaceself

space/space/spaces/spaces/spaceself

su/supernatural/supernaturals/supernaturals/supernaturalself

supernatural/supernatural/supernaturals/supernaturals/supernaturalself

le/legend/legends/legends/legendself

legend/legend/legends/legends/legendself

ob/obscure/obscures/obscures/obscureself

obscure/obscure/obscures/obscures/obscureself

se/secret/secrets/secrets/secretself

secret/secret/secrets/secrets/secretself

🌲/🌲/🌲s/🌲s/🌲self

🌳/🌳/🌳s/🌳s/🌳self

🏞️/🏞️/🏞️s/🏞️s/🏞️self

🌫️/🌫️/🌫️s/🌫️s/🌫️self

☄️/☄️/☄️s/☄️s/☄️self

🌌/🌌/🌌s/🌌s/🌌self

👽/👽/👽s/👽s/👽self

👤/👤/👤s/👤s/👤self

👥/👥/👥s/👥s/👥self

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*»⟩ Genders

Gendercryptid- gender that feels like a cryptid. It's a gender related to cryptids, and it feels menacing, monstrous, and/or mysterious. Gendercryptid can refer to any type of cryptid

Cryptidcoric- gender related to cryptidcore

Crypacademic- gender is connected to cryptid academia; this gender is may also be connected to cryptids, cryptid aesthetics, and dark academia

Gendernuma- gender connected to wet, woody and green places, such as a swamp or a river within a forest, and feels as though you are a cryptid living in these places

Eldritchine- gender connected to eldritch horrors in some way. This connection could be aesthetically, kin, xenic, or some other way (warning: the link goes to M0gaipedia)

Horrorcosmium- xenogender influenced by or related to the genre of cosmic horror. It can not be completely described, as it has no recognizable geometry/shape. It is characterized by its difficulty to be fully known, its contents often inducing dread and confusion in those who struggle to understand it. This cosmic void induces this dread as it often causes people to look into their inner selves to attempt understanding

Daroric- gender alignment to darkness or shadow

Murkend- gender that is cloudy and hard to understand, but is definitely dark and/or connected to shadows/darkness/monsters

Shadend- when one’s gender is a shadow; up for interpretation

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If these don't work for you, let me know!

*»⟩ DNI

Gender critical, transmed, exclusionist, enby-skeptic, anti-neopronouns, anti-mspec gays & lesbians, anti-mogai, anti-acab, anti-BLM, autism speaks supporter, anti-anti, NSFW blog, map + no-map, zoo/zeta

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dentegender

( dente - tooth )

gender that feels like bones, teeth or horns; gender that is connected to skeletons, bones, teeth and horns.

pronoun ideas

skele/ton/skeletons/skeleself

bo/bone/bones/boneself

too/tooth/tooths/toothself

ho/horn/horns/hornself

hard/hard/hards/hardself

cor/corpse/corpses/corpself

rib/rib/ribs/ribself

skull/skull/skulls/skullself

cal/cium/calcium's/calciumself

jaw/jaw/jaws/jawself

fang/fang/fangs/fangself

joint/joint/joints/jointself

Tusk/tusk/tusks/tuskself

🦴/🦴/🦴s/🦴self

🦷/🦷/🦷s/🦷self

💀/💀/💀s/💀 self

-> flag and term coined by me

-> feel free to use with credit

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 🌊  CORALEAGENDER  🌲

A gender that is related or connected to foxes, deers, mustelids, and/or other related animals, as well as rose quartz, evergreen coastal forests, the sea/ocean or other bodies of water, murky weather, and pastel/muted colors.

Gender requested by and made with the help of @forestcoric-mogai-fox and the flag and coining was made by me.

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heizuian - a gender that is hazy and hard to see. heizuian sounds like raindrops hitting the roof of a car, and it smells like rain and vapor. this gender can feel drowsy and is sometimes too tired to be aware of it’s surroundings.

square version of the flag under the cut!

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❤️ || blushy_buff

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could you do neoboy i’d it’s not too much trouble?

Sure

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equius moment