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Hayley with Paramore before performing This is Why in Columbus Ohio

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At some point you realize, you don't need certain things in your life anymore. They have served their purpose. New things are calling you, things that match who you have become. You acknowledge that things have changed, as much as you have, circumstances have turned & you are at a place where you haven't been before. Embrace it. There was never something to fight about, there was just always this invitation to flow with it, as it naturally transforms.

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⭑˖‎𐦍˖☽𖤓𓊈 Pandora Bardott 𓊉𖤓☾˖‎𐦍˖⭑

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what’s harder, harder to say?

that you want me to stay

that you want me to stay unchanged for you?

chained to a lie, we’re the same you and I

we’re the same

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Part of accepting yourself completely is reframing your mind to make it about you, so that “will they like me?” turns into “will I like them?” and “did they like what I said?” turns into “did I say everything I wanted to say?” Everything you do should ultimately be brought on by what you think is important and by what you want. Not by what you think will be most accepted or most liked.

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stays up until 4am because of anxiety

wakes up at 4:01am because of anxiety

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Instagram

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hayley williams put out two of my favorite albums of all time in the span of a year and they haven’t gotten the praise they fucking deserve and every review I’ve seen don’t even understand the context or depth of either

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Dear father,

You did your part in biologically creating me but in no way psychologically. I daydream about the way things could’ve been if you stayed. Who would I be? Where would I be? How would you be? What would we be like? I know there’s no way to ever know these things and I know sitting here wondering about all the what ifs won’t change a thing but for a second, I would like to just envision a life with you in it.

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Learn to unlearn toxic behaviors that were learned subconsciously from unhealthy situations or relationships.

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Where can I turn

Cause I need something more

Surrounded by uncertainty

I'm so unsure

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The chill skater pumpkin

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“People think intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is ‘You’re safe with me’ - that’s intimacy.”

— Taylor Jenkins Reid, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo

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