newfinalform

[newfinalform]

every time you assume that others are thinking negatively of you or judging you behind your back, you are bullying yourself through them. at the end of the day, you don't know what thoughts are running through their heads unless they verbally express them to you. until then, every one of 'their' opinions about you is nothing more than your fear, and whatever assumption is born from your fear is yours to let go - not theirs to disprove.

[newfinalform]

You need to be okay with being crap at things to get anywhere in life. You might not be the best but that doesn't mean you can't fight for what you want. In the end it's always the people who are least ashamed to go for what they want who will get what they want.

[newfinalform]

i just heard the phrase “if you wouldn’t trust their advice, don���t trust their criticism” for the first time and i don’t think i’ve ever needed to hear anything more

[newfinalform]

focusing on what is actually good for you will help you more in the long run than something that only looks good and gives you a temporary high of attention

[newfinalform]

It's going to be okay. When you have no one else, you still have the moon and the stars.

[newfinalform]

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[newfinalform]

I'm learning (especially with the way everything and everyone seems to look the same these days) that being yourself like actually yourself and accepting yourself does more for your mental health and happiness than curating yourself to look and act a certain way to appease people whether its behind a screen or in real life, I need to let myself get tattoos freely without worrying about whether it's "aesthetic" or whether someones gonna like them, I need to let myself love comics and gaming without telling myself "I need to be more feminine" and I need to realize that actually finding love, community, and acceptance will only come if I start with myself first