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Reasons to not date until you're graduated:

• You have lots of time for yourself

• You stay focused on your goals

• You learn how to decenter men

• You have less distractions

• You prioritize yourself

• You develop more self-confidence

• You create more standards for yourself

• You attract people with the same ambitions as you

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Signs you're with the wrong people:

• You can't be yourself with them

• You're scared to say the wrong things

• You'd rather be alone than with them

• You're dreaming of having a different friendgroup

• You don't understand them

• You feel worse after hanging out with them

• You feel worse about yourself

• You got triggered

• You wonder why you keep staying with them

• You start to decline their invitations

• You think the grass is greener

• You start to doubt yourself

• You don't want to say anything about yourself

• You feel uncomfortable around them

• You feel like you don't belong to them

• You feel like an outsider with them

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How to prioritize yourself first without being mean:

You can't. For some people you will be considered as 'mean' when you put yourself first, because they're used to hear a 'yes' from you and you put them first. Once they hear a 'no' from you, it will trigger them and they will find some excuses to make you feel bad for them. It's time to get comfortable with being disliked and being perceived as mean, but as long as you put yourself first, it's worth it.

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How to get rid of your 'good girl' image and live happily:

• Ask yourself where your 'good girl image' began: Did you grow up being a people pleaser? Did you care too much about other people than yourself?

• Ask yourself why you kept that image: Are you afraid to disappoint others? Did you liked being perceived as 'good' to others?

• Ask yourself what this 'image' has led you to: Do you feel more disappointed in yourself? Do you feel like you're losing yourself for others? If yes, it's time to change.

• Don't be afraid to disappoint people: Learn how to stay no, set boundaries, and walk away from people that disrespect you.

• Make people feel uncomfortable: Being good means being comfortable and safe for them (in a negative way) it's about time tocl challenge their own mind by simply being yourself.

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How to be happy and detached in a relationship:

• Describe a relationship: A relationship consists of two healthy individuals bringing out the best of each other.

• Make time for people things beside your relationship: Your hobbies, your friends, your goals, your family, and most importantly yourself.

• Make time for yourself: Practice self-love and self-care. Take care of your mind, your body and your mindset. Dress for yourself. Go for solo dates. Don't forget the person you were without a partner.

• See the best in your partner: Have full trust in your partner, assume the best of your partner and love your partner deeply.

• Let go of things you can't control: At the end of the day we will never know what goes through your partner's mind and which choices your partner makes. Always be willing to move on if things aren't working out. We can only control the way we deal with things.

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How to be hot and detached:

• Always take care of your appearance: Your hair, your face, your clothes and your posture.

• Take care of your body and your hygiene, use a signature scent.

• Start working out: A simple walk will do wonders to your mental health

• Change your mindset: See the good in life, show gratitude, the way you handle challenges etc

• Boost your self-esteem: Create a new hobby, a new skill, learn a new language... do something with your life, something that makes you unique

• Detach from people and things: At the end of the day you only have yourself. Everyone and everything is temporary.

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How to find meaning in life:

• Discover yourself: Who you are as a person right now and who you want to be in the future

• Embrace challenges: You can't grow if you don't go out of your comfortzone.

• Find the right people: Get surrounded with people that hype you up and that makes you feel loved.

• Change your mind: Fill your mind with gratitude, positivity and strength. Consume less negativity on social media.

• Find your purpose: Find a hobby, skill or a passion that you like, that makes you unique. Something that makes people remind them of you.

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How to rest your mind:

• Stop overthinking: You're just thinking about the worst case scenarios, it's not reality.

• Let go of things you can't control: You can only control your thoughts, your feelings and your habits. Start focusing on them.

• Let go of what people think about you: You can't control their thoughts about you, and it's not your responsibility control them either.

• Move your body: Walking for 10 minutes will do a lot to your body and mind. A simple workout will make you feel better afterwards.

• Gratitude: Write down a list of things you're grateful for today, or things that makes you proud of yourself.

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How to not be jealous of other girls

• Ask yourself why you feel jealous of other girls: Do you think that other girls are prettier, smarter and better than you? If yes, where does this come from?

• Ask yourself why you think this way: Do you have lack of self-esteem? Are you talking down to yourself? Do you get criticized by other people in your surrounding?

• Change the way you talk to yourself: Start using kinder words to yourself, write down good qualities of yourself, keep telling yourself that 'you're pretty, smart, kind' and you'll start believing it, without putting other girls down.

• Have something going on for yourself: Move your body, create a new skill, create a new hobby and be consistent. The more you create something for yourself, the more confident you are.

• Change your look: Find a new makeup look, hairstyle, clothing style... start small. Find something that makes you unique and that makes you confident.

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Reasons why you're always tired:

• You overthink too much

• You sleep less than 8 hours

• You work too much

• You don't take rest

• You're always busy

• Someone is draining you

• You try to take control on things you can't control

• You're afraid of the future

• You worry too much

• You eat/drink unhealthy food/drinks

• You have unhealthy habits

• You scroll too much on your phone

• You don't listen to your body

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What to do after you get cheated on:

• Take your time to process your feelings: It's completely normal to feel sadness, anger and lost.

• Leave the cheater: No matter the situation, you should leave the person who cheated on you because he crossed your boundaries and trust in a relationship.

• Find support: Go to your friends or your family who will support you during a difficult time. If you don't have anyone, you can still support yourself.

• Analyze the situation: Which red flags did you miss during the relationship? How did your partner behave during your relationship? Which lessons have you learned and apply in your next relationship?

• Don't blame yourself: It's not your fault that your partner cheated on you. It was your partner's responsibility to communicate and to stay loyal to you.

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How to get viral (as a content creator)

• What is your purpose to create content? If your goal is to just make money or to get viral, you won't make it.

• Do I want to put my time and effort on social media? It's much more than to just create content. You need to search what's trending, what your followers want to see, how to make your videos attractive etc.

• Be consistent: You need to post regularly in order to be known. You need to post minimum once a day. Quality is better dan quantity.

• Engage with other creators: You need to leave a like, comment, save or repost their content. You can do it before you post or after you post something.

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Hii

Sorry for reblogging a lot of stuff lol

Your post is so helpful, so I repost a lot to read it or do it, sorry for being anon😅

My main account is a secret and my side account is for my improvement ajfjekgk

Hi love! It's totally fine, you can reblog my posts as much as you want :)

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Reasons why you shouldn't date before 25:

• You're too young: You don't know what you want in life, and these people don't know what they want. If they don't even know their future plans, careers, ambitions... what makes you think they know they want to keep you in the future?

• You have goals to accomplish: A lot of people get distracted once they get into a relationship, for example they don't finish their degree, they don't apply for a job, they have no goals at all. Make sure you get your degree and a job before you get a man, this way you'll be able to provide for yourself, without depending on anyone.

• You'll avoid heartbreak and trauma: Like I said, most relationships fail because they don't know what they want, which means they don't know if they want to move in with you, to marry you or to have children with you. What's the point of being in a relationship if you don't even know where you stand with your partner? Be selective with your time and effort.

• There is more than only a relationship: You won't die if you don't have one, especially if you're still in your teens or early twenties. You have lots of time. You will find love in everywhere: in your friendgroup, family, animals, everywhere. Let love comes to you.

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Can u link the safety post

https://www.tumblr.com/onehundredwishesss/783650266497024000/how-to-be-safe-online-in-2025?source=share

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How to be safe online

You can find it in one of my posts :)