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Instead of Denmark, we really should be having our eyes on Austria.

Think about it:

Not part of any military alliance

Small army

Super unfriendly according to https://www.internations.org/expat-insider/2017/ease-of-settling-in-index-39187 (they had it coming)

Acetria

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hate that i can't hang out in silence w online friends. sometimes when i'm not replying it's not in a "this conversation is over" way or in a "i'm too busy to reply" way. but in a "on all levels except physical my head is on your lap while we both silently scroll on our phones" way

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Just a reminder my blog is trans inclusive. It’s bi inclusive. It is pan inclusive. It is intersex inclusive. It is ace/asexual inclusive. It is aro/aromantic inclusive. It is queer inclusive.

I don’t support terfs or exclusionists.

If you came here looking for an ally in your bigotry you came to the wrong blog. Go away. You are not welcome here.

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Why is it when someone is talking about how to have a healthy marriage you gotta bone your spouse often, cant it just be picking fights with geese or something

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I’m realizing why I adore otome games despite being pretty aroace (and have a certain repulsion towards romance directed towards me)

Most games are story driven- but otome games tend to be more character-driven because the characters are the game. You become a part of a character’s story, and (usually) have a hand in how they grow or develop in the story.

I love a good story. But even more than that, I love characters. I like learning everything about them and watch them grow because of the story.

The romance aspect is… a little iffy but anything can be a qpr or a platonic relationship if you wish it hard enough

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The Emptying Of The Big Boy

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Does anyone else in the aspec community experience this? When I first start talking to a person in terms of possible dating, I can imagine a romantic/sexual relationship with them at some point, and I'm convinced that's what I want, but once I get to know them relatively well and figure out that I like them as a person, those potential sexual/romantic feelings just DISAPPEAR. Like, I respect them A LOT, and I can no longer see them that way.

The idea and potential of a romantic/sexual relationship is appealing, but I don't actually want it with an actual person in real life.

It's in those moments I realize I'm both aro and ace. Like, I would love to spend time with them all the time and talk to them, but not in a lovely- dovey, amatomormative way.

I hope I'm making sense.

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I'm the type ace that is a hoe in theory, but never in practice😆

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the way I've summed it up,

Libido -> physiological / impersonal.

Attraction -> psychophysical / interpersonal.

with this definition, libido being "I want stuff" and attraction being "I want stuff WITH / BECAUSE of this person", I have experienced attraction. I have blushed and gotten flustered and craved closeness to a few people before, but I can't recall a single time I've actually wanted to be anywhere near anyone's genitalia.

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clint: i’m cold

natasha: here, take my jacket

wade: i’m cold

peter: what? [taking off jacket] i told you to bring more layers but of course you didn’t listen and [piling scarves on him] now look, i’ve got to make sure you don’t FREEZE to death [taking somebody else’s hat] how long have you been cold you should’ve said something sooner

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“There are people who take the heart out of you, and there are people who put it back.”

— Elizabeth David

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Being a vampire was so easy just a century ago when all I had to worry about was the occasional tin mirror. Nowadays everywhere I turn it’s buildings made of glass, cell phone cameras, motion-activated doors and soap dispensers, biometric scanners, security cameras, and NONE of it works on me.

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