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I got so many fucking love in my souls 

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fictive culture is what do you MEAN there is literally hundreds of pieces of fanart of me and somehow NONE of them are accurate enough for a pfp??????

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the lack of recognition of how bathroom bills affect intersex people is intersexism.

this laws are usually pushed under transmisic agenda, and it's fair that trans rights advocacy addresses transmisia in these campains and laws. but these laws also affect intersex people.

some intersex people look visibly sex variant. and they are also seen as a threat to the sex and gender essentionalism. transmisia and intersexism are intertwined and may become inseparable in some parts.

intersex people are also at risk in gendered spaces. we can also be harassed, banned, charged for "violation," face various violence.

it's important to recognize that risk and remember about intersex people in discussions of these laws.

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Before discovering I had DID, I was very skeptical of those who claimed to have it. I would ask if they were diagnosed and make sure they said it was by a psychiatrist. That was ignorant, and now I have a very different view.

I had a psych evaluation recently, and she said at the end of it that I checked every single box for DID, but because I was schizophrenic, it was better explained by delusion, so I didn't get professionally diagnosed with it. That pissed me the fuck off given I went through months of testing just to be told that, by a different person, I would most likely be diagnosed with DID. That was the final push I needed to be pro-self diagnosis.

You know yourself best, and as long as you do your research and examine your motives behind wanting a label like dissociative identity disorder, or any other disorder/mental illness label for that matter, fucking go for it.

I am anti-psych for the most part, and the only reason I use diagnostic labels is so I can easily give someone a word that captivates all my symptoms rather than explaining the many that I exhibit.

I just wanted to ramble a bit about my views.

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Love when I google the new update on my abscess and it’s basically like emergency go to ER and I call the ER who says

“we can’t give you medical advice on whether or not you need to come but if you do you’ll be here till your scheduled appointment here in the morning waiting with a team who doesn’t know your case”

So now I can’t sleep, and I’m wondering if the infection just spread to my lymph nodes or if it’s septic. 🙃

just been waiting here since they discharged me monday with a leaking lump the size of a tennis ball under my arm and now it’s red & hot and has a white raised line leading up to my inner armpit. No pain meds btw. Thanks.

I’m also lonely and half my family won’t talk to me because of my plurality so I just want friends here.

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Pro endos can have did

They aren't faking by default

Love u pro endos you all awesome, you lovelies

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i was a kid asking questions like "when you say to rate my pain on a scale of 1 to 10 do you mean relative to what i have experienced before or what i could theoretically experience in the future because what if i say 8 and then later i get twenty billion papercuts and i realise relative to that this pain is a 1" and they would reply "just focus on what you know, you literally had your foot ran over by a ford focus" and id say "well exactly but it could have been both feet which i know would surely be worse" and it still took years to diagnose me as autistic

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Remember y’all, Median Systems are valid. When people say all systems are valid, they’re usually talking about endogenic systems. While yes, that’s true of course, I don’t know where to place Median Systems at along the spectrum. We’re not plural per se nor endogenic. We’re stuck in the middle. Our parts or facets are us and we’re them. We’re a breed of our own. I wish there would be more info out there about us. Endogenics please don’t forget your cousins so to speak hehe. 😄😅

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India K (tumblr)

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Enjoy my McCarthyist anti-endogenic satire

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all of our reflections endorse this message

i dont have a personality disorder my personality is completely ordered. and this is the order i like it in.

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They should invent a method of asking for reassurance that nobody secretly hates you that doesn't make people secretly hate you.

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-Carl Jung

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Welcome to Healthy Multiplicity

A Tumblr community dedicated to embracing and celebrating all forms of plurality. Whether you identify as traumagenic, endogenic, or anywhere in between, you are welcome here. Our community is a space for sharing experiences, learning from one another, and exploring what it means to live a healthy, fulfilling life as plurals.

Our Inner Family

We are the Reflection Family, a polyfragmented DID collective with over 200 members across eight distinct systems sharing one body. Our collective includes a diverse range of parts, each with unique identities, roles, and contributions to our shared existence. We’ve found that integrating as a team—working together, building communication, and nurturing strong inner relationships—is key to navigating our complex plural experience.

Our Beliefs and Mission

At Healthy Multiplicity, we believe that everyone has parts—different facets of their personality that play various roles throughout their lives. Embracing this belief, our mission is to encourage the acceptance and acknowledgment of these inner selves as a vital path to healing and personal growth. We see this approach as the future of psychology, where understanding and integrating our inner selves can lead to profound healing and self-awareness.

We encourage all members, whether plural or singular, to explore their inner worlds, embrace their parts, and foster a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships. This community is dedicated to supporting one another on this journey, sharing insights, and exploring the possibilities that come with accepting and celebrating all aspects of who we are.

Join Us

We invite you to join Healthy Multiplicity and be a part of a community where every experience and perspective is respected and valued. Whether you’re well-versed in navigating plural life or are just beginning to explore your multiplicity or inner selves, there is a place for you here. Together, let’s create a space where every part can feel seen, heard, and celebrated.

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Oh, so when they get spoken to by a god in their head they're a "prophet" and "will lead us to salvation," but when I get spoken to by a god in my head I have "DID" and "should go to therapy."

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The biggest advice I can give any system is: nothing is stable, everything is fluid. Don’t try to put yourself in a box. Document information, but don’t be surprised if some of that info changes with time.

Is it a headmate? Is it a fragment? Is it a facet? Is it a persona? Am I subconsciously masking? Am I subconsciously/involuntarily otherlinking/copinglinking? Is it a kinshift? Is it a ’flicker? Is it age regression? Is it a mood? Is it impulsivity? Is it an intrusive thought that I’m reacting to? Is it genderfluidity? Is it pronoun/namefluidity?

Who knows! Who cares! I don’t need to stress about this, it doesn’t matter! It’s a mode that the “I” is in, the way I feel in that moment! And I will make a pluralkit/tupperbox/simplyplural for it so I can express myself and decide the rest later! Or never! These labels are a construct! Personhood itself is a construct! I don’t need to box myselves! I can just live!

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plural queer system call that multifaggoted