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I'm on a baseball hyperfixation! My boyfriend got me into the sport recently (I only liked football and NASCAR before) and he just wants to watch the game. That's fine , but I'm over here being a diamond goblin! My hyperfixation has me spend 6 hours before the game watching the history of the Cardinals and weird stories from the 1940s lol ADHD can be such a pain in the feathers! I wanna gush about all the stuff I know now and he's just not about this. I'm wondering if he regrets getting me into the sport.

Help me! I'm obsessed with Cardinals baseball!

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Happy Pride! This page is LGBTQIA+ affirming! I'm an ally and happy to celebrate Pride with anyone who wants to be kind to others and spread Kattobingu!

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As an ace person...Is that what she thinks for real or is she just seeking clicks...I'ma share something just in case it's the former....

For the record.. I don't want everyone to know I don't want a shag. I want everyone to know that the idea that you have to shag to be in a healthy committed relationship is bunk! I love and feel love, sexual attraction just isn't a part of it. I have sex and do enjoy it, but it's on a long list of other activities I also enjoy with my favorite human. Aces are all different. Some will have shags and some won't and ALL of us can have happy, healthy relationships. Just because I'm not able to experience arousal doesn't mean I don't love my man with every fiber of my being. Oh and......You can have sex without sexual attraction. Sex workers do it all the time!

My 3 yr relationship is full of joy and respect and it's just as valid a relationship where shagging is often and intense. My partner loves me the way I am and understands my wants and needs and never makes me feel insecure about my lack of sexual attraction. I also understand his wants and needs and am super ready to brighten his day in whatever way I can.... Romance and sex are not synonyms! Stop acting like they are!

Also, As a woman of 35 I'd like people to stop acting like because I don't have kids that my life is somehow unfulfilled or that my partner will leave me if I don't put out. I've heard both of those many times. His love for me is constant. People want me to stop talking about being ace? Maybe they should stop acting like as a woman I must be letting my partner down by not having a family and frequent shag time. If what I do in the bedroom doesn't matter, then shut the hell up about my uterus and mind your own business!!

That's it. I don't want a victory parade, I just want to be treated as an equal to those who do shag. My relationship with my partner is perfect for us and it's beautiful and there is nothing wrong with me. I'm not in some sort of childish relationship, Chuck and I have faced a lot together and our relationship is just as valid as yours. He loves all of Ray including my acenees.

🦈🖤🩶🤍💜🦈

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Tailmon and I are here for #DigimonCon and we are having a great time! We miss Oliver though. So many times I've thought about them and it's not even half over. . . Seeing all the Diginon 02 stuff gut punched me.

R.I.P buddy!

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Went cheepo with my weenies this week so I charred them up really nicely on the stove. I think they turned out lovely! Can't wait to have " Ray's Chicago Salad" with them for my meals!

Cooking on the stove isn't something I do often so I always get super excited when I do it.

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PSA: if you ever spill wax on a plush or pillow, use a hairdryer to melt the wax & dab it up with paper towels! Fixing this accident took literally 5 mins!

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Yes, I did order Mac 'n cheese as a side to a breakfast platter...

That's the Ray way! Between gastroparesis & being neurospicy, I eat some odd things & that's okay! Let's normalize the idea that Food is food & we should eat what works for us as individuals.

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I've been playing Neopets nearly every day since 2005 and I'm finally able to have merch!! Thanks to my buddy Andy for the hookup!! It's so cool to actually own Neopets stuff! Yes, it's still around, No! It's not dead, and btw YOUR PETS ARE STARVING!! It's a Faerie Yurble enamel pin if you're wondering.

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Tea Consent

It's March 13th and while mostly this day goes by without my notice now as a survivor of being forced tea as a 12yr old....I need to remind you of 2 things.

1. It's a crime to give a minor tea! They cannot consent.

2. If a minor claims they were made to have tea.... REPORT IT TO THE POLICE!!!! No exceptions!!!

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If you've never had #Gatorade from a can, have you even lived? This stuff is the nectar of the gods and I will fight over that! I wish it was easier to get cuz it's the only good thing about all my time spent in hospitals.

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Positive of the Ray

March 06

Del came home with some Rengoku building blocks for my entertainment! It's the first 2025 addition to my Flame Husband collection!

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I'm sick again. Could have been from the hospital or my Pokemon adventure. Doesn't matter... I can't take the Tamiflu & they can't take me off the immune suppressors as I had a blood transfusion recently which means it's gonna. Be a tougher battle.

So yeah I'm not having a lot of fun tonight, but at least Ginny's here. That's why I've been quiet all day. Love y'all!

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Positive of the Ray

March 03

We had zesty storms come through last night at 4am and the sirens went off, but we are okay. There's some damage to the house, but it's minor and should be an easy fix. I'm just glad nothing happened too bad for us. Others were not so lucky.

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Every time someone says I have "TDS" this meme will pop into my head. Some of y'all didn't learn jack squat from your sci-fi and it shows

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My former cardiologist certainly threw fits like a 4-year-old but I'd be really concerned if a 4-year-old walked in for my EKG LOL

Some of the sentences in Duolingo are really funny for no reason!

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I have a found family of four adults and every month one of the members of our family selects a theme for our social profiles. It's a really cute way we all stay connected to each other. Anyway.....

Our profile theme for March is 'favorite childhood show growing up" and I wasn't going to miss the opportunity to share this art once again with all of you. Digimon con is this month so it's perfectly fitting. I've Loved Digimon ever since I first saw it when I was a little kid and it hasn't changed.

One of my favorite humans made this for me on commission when they were first getting started with digital art. They're no longer with us, but I cherish this. R.I.P Oliver, I miss you!

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These are so cute!!!!

sharks sticker sheet 🦈