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[some-quoi]

A Quoiromantic & Quoisexual aesthetic I made. I've discovered these specificities of the aromantic/asexual spectrum not so long ago, and they describe me so well. Thanks to @some-quoi , @quoisitively-queer and @official-quoisexual for your amazing blogs which made me sure of being quoi !

[some-quoi]

I made an asl sign for quoisexual!

[some-quoi]

[Image: A tweet.

Username: Dictionary.com

Text: "Quoisexual is a sexual orientation on the asexuality spectrum. It's also today's #Pride (square rainbow emoji) word"

Image: the quoisexual flag is the thumbnail for a link explaining what quoisexual means, on dictionary.com.

End description.]

Wooooo!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dictionary.com spreading a-spec info!!!!!!

[some-quoi]

how do u pronounced quoix

Hi there, quoix is pronounced as kwah-cks. Like a French duck

[some-quoi]

I find your quoiro flag with the words "platonic ?" and "romantic ?" very cool, can I use it in a moodboard ? Thanks !

Thanks and sure! All I ask is anyone who wants to save/use my art likes or reblogs it. As a way to acknowledge credit because otherwise I might assume it's reposted. (Edit: I guess it can be hard to cross-reference from different platforms but I'm not super strict on these things - like I said, credit is appreciated) No need to ask for my permission :)

[some-quoi]

[Image: typography art. A bunch of the words 'sensual' (in blue) and 'sexual' (in green) overlap each other until you can't tell them apart. Around this are the same words except colored black and with question marks. End description.]

Quoisexual Typography Art!

Don't repost. Like/reblog to save and use. Credit appreciated.

[some-quoi]

[Image: typography art. A bunch of the words 'romantic' (in blue) and 'platonic' (in green) overlap each other until you can't tell them apart. Around this are the same words except colored grey and with question marks. End description.]

Quoiromantic Typography Art!

Don't repost. Like/reblog to save and use. Credit appreciated.

[some-quoi]

[Image: the Spiderman mirror meme where two of them point at each other. Leftmost Spiderman is called "Quoisexuality" and the rightmost one is called "Me not labeling the sexuality I disidentify with" End description.]

Welp

[some-quoi]

Am I just being nice or am I flirting with you?? Bold of you to assume I know the difference

[some-quoi]

[Image: Friends TV show meme, four panels. First panel, Monica says "I am not someone you find sexy!" Rachel says "I am not a new crush!" Second panel, Phoebe says "Who said you were?". Third panel, Monica and Rachel say "You did". Fourth panel, Phoebe says "I'm quoi. I'll say anything". End description.]

[some-quoi]

[ID: a person in a quoiro shirt asks a person in an aro shirt, “Hey, what does romantic attraction feel like?” The person in the aro shirt responds, “Ask me that again and look me in my eyes.”]

Quoix | Quoiro | Quoipl | Quoigender

[some-quoi]

My personal motto is

Be Quoix Do Crimes

[some-quoi]

Probably a more accurate mood (which explains the first 3 dot points):

"I don't know if you think you're my friend, if I even want to be your friend. Actually, why not? I don't mind getting to know you. Sure we only talk once in a while, I consider that friendship... do you?? What is friendship anyway? No, I don't think we're friends(?) Is it still platonic if I don't want to be your friend but I don't mind hanging out...?"

Quoipl mood

We exchanged contact info so that makes us friends right?

Only meet up regularly cuz of club activity but we friends yeah?

Same interests = friends?

How do people level up from acquaintainces to friends, what’s the cheat code

We haven’t seen or talked to each other in ages and you still think we’re friends/are we still friends??

??? Is it weird to call my teachers friends??

Is platonic attraction even just about friendship, like what is platonic?? Is it

[some-quoi]

Quoipl mood

We exchanged contact info so that makes us friends right?

Only meet up regularly cuz of club activity but we friends yeah?

Same interests = friends?

How do people level up from acquaintainces to friends, what's the cheat code

We haven't seen or talked to each other in ages and you still think we're friends/are we still friends??

??? Is it weird to call my teachers friends??

Is platonic attraction even just about friendship, like what is platonic?? Is it

[some-quoi]

Being quoisexual/quoix for me is crazy. Besides my confusion, it describes how I disidentify with the concept of sexuality and sexual attraction. Meaning those things aren't relevant to me 93% of the time.

By irrelevant I mean seriously irrelevant. Like, I don't even identify as quoix most of the time. I disidentify with sexuality so much that actively labeling it, even as quoix, makes me uncomfortable.

It's led to a lot of confusion for me. But I've since learned that labels are there for you when you need them, and expressing identity doesn't have to be straightforward. I'm not being insincere when I say 'My sexuality doesn't matter to me, it's complicated, I don't have a label for it (all the time)'. Because that's what being quoisexual is for me. It's a part of me even when I don't say it is. The label is there for me when I need it.

[some-quoi]

[Image: Person wearing quoisexual flag shirt asks "Hey, what does sexual attraction feel like?". Person wearing asexual flag shirt says "Ask me that again and look me in my eyes." End description.]

Omg

Some of us be like

Quoix | Quoiro | Quoipl | Quoigender

[some-quoi]

Quick disclaimer

My posts about confusion over attractions aren't meant to invalidate the differences between them, that other people do perceive. I don't mean to imply that a romantic relationship is basically friendship, or that there's no difference between platonic and queerplatonic attraction. I'm aware there's a difference; I just don't fully comprehend it. So I express my confusion through memes like that 'hanging out and giving each other nicknames' one.

Basically, posts like that help me navigate my quoiness. They're done out of humor, please don't take them seriously!