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Movie date

Coffee date

Brunch date

Dinner date w sister are 😍😍🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼

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May taught me:

To be calm in the chaos

To remain silent till you have the right response to say

To sleep more and eat more food

To become confident in career decisions

To not get confused seeing 100 different things on the internet

To give your best at every shot

Do not try to advise someone until they ask for one

Do not try to do every little thing that interests you.

To firmly stick to your craft until you become a master in it, no break indeed!

☺️

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Please don't misunderstand your extrovert friend for not taking it easy on the mean joke you made.

Extroverts are not emotionally strong, they are the actual weaker ones. They feel bad easily when someone comments rudely. They can't take the rude behaviour because they are open, happy-minded always, spreading positivity around. They mingle easily, which means they accept the surroundings easily. People's attitude is not a big deal for them. They become friends easily, which means they believe everyone is like them; the positive.

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How poor it is of someone to not allow you to rest for a while when the work is loaded. A proper rest to the body and mind at the right time will help you do productive work. Doing 2 hours of productive work is >>>>> than the 10 hours of unproductive work! I hope, who work their sweat off will realize this and let their team rest for a while.

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Some places leave us in the state of joy that we never forget.

When we were on a family trip, my sister and I had a refreshing experience visiting the Tanjavur temple though it was the second time. The walls, architecture, people, the way, and the aura everything seems new to us. Everything felt as if it was the first time.

Some experiences leave us in a state of joy which we forever want to feel as if it's the first time. It's the best thing to happen 💗

Reminiscing one such unforgettable experience a day will keep the stress away.

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When you're 20-something, you always have a story to tell ❤️

That's because you observe every little thing. You like to experience little things. You like to fall in love with little things. You try to spend time on those little things. You become a child while enjoying those little things. You desire those little things to be present in your life no matter how far your life has changed.

🩷🩷The JOY is in little things you experience while living.

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Can you imagine women being happily wandering around in a mall or a crowded place?

Except for being at home, women loveeee to wander around and enjoy self-company. They love to eat the food of their taste, watch their favourite movie, purchase their favourite outfit, buy their favourite dessert, or just do window-shopping like a free soul. Isn't it amazing? But they can't do it. Because they live in such a society :(((

If they are, then there are limitations for sure. They are not completely happy, they feel happiness too in the instalment.

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My guilty pleasure is watching that same emotional movie (knowing that it won't solve my problems) and crying at the end.

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Until you know the truth, you see a stranger with such high standards, positive opinion, and righteous people on the Earth and don't even imagine what could be the reality is. Some assumptions are safe that way. Because if the truth hurts, we will lose that positive feeling we had earlier.

But knowing the truth will make us believe that life is beyond what you see and it always will be!

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There's always baggage though you move on!

Don't you think?

There's a glimpse of your past wherever you go, whatever you see, whomever you talk to, there's no escape. But there's a change in perspective which will allow us to see it differently this time.

Maybe we won't be irritated or off 😔 when we were reminded of that person. We won't be sad when we, get reminded of that song which was so special once. We won't regret the situation this time which made us vulnerable.

Hoping to see the situations , things, and conversations positively and make it a strength 🥂

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What's true?

What we see or what we think or what we believe?

Remember the days, when we believed the wrong thing as damn right and spent years of life in that belief!

It is all about how we think.

Think that failure has happened for bigger success, think that relationships broke for better and meaningful ones, think that career fell apart to something unexpected and successful for you, think that life always gives a better one its stopping you from doing a few things.

Think positively to make your life happy!

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Somewhere deep in our hearts, we feel

Maybe our career would have happened as we planned, our relationships worked out, our friendships wouldn't have changed, our vacation plans worked out without postponement for years, our instincts went right, and our life went as we planned!

It's dreamy for sure!! But who will enjoy the unexpected things that wouldn't have taken place if planned things worked out? Who will see those pretty moments that happened in your life? Who will experience failure and come back stronger than ever? How you will become the strongest, kindest and most beautiful soul as you are today?

Believe in Life!

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Determination -> Consistency

You make something in your mind, you work on it regularly, you learn new every day, you apply your insights, you rectify your mistakes, you become a master, you fall once, you start again, you fall again, you start again because your determination is stronger than your consistency, failure, and societal opinions!!!

When you decide to do it, you will surely do it!

Believe in your future!

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Believe this:

When you love what you do, there's no need for validation. You shouldn't wait for someone's validation because it's your hard work and your success. People who don't encourage you, shouldn't be in the place to decide for you. People who encourage you will always be there whether you succeed or fail.

Do you and be you unapologetically! And remember you're answerable for yourself!

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Unsaid opinion:

People don't get satisfied with what you do. They are up to their expectations no matter what. They choose what they want. Don't try to satisfy the world with your assumptions. They never end at a point. You never know what they love. There's a backlash for every little thing on the internet and applause for every good thing! So...

Keep doing you, people will eventually connect, share, and love it. TBH, It's all that's happening around.

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Forget about what people think,

But have you ever thought good about you? Have you thanked yourself? That you are doing your best to succeed in your career? You are working as hard as anyone to get one step closer to what you dreamt? You are losing so much to get that one thing right? You are overthinking and sacrificing sleep to get better at what you do?

Don't be so hard on yourself. Thank yourself often. Be that soft soul. Life comes with challenges all the time. What's new here is how you take it and move ahead with it. Don't ever dare to sacrifice your mental peace for your dream.

Mental Peace >>> Dreams

Take care, you!

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Learned lessons the harder way

When in college, I learned about friendship in my final year where the college was just about to finish in a month or two. I regret not meeting such great friends in my first year and spending the whole graduation with them. I would be a completely different person now.

When working, I learned that communication, responsibility, and team efforts are as important as results. It's okay if you are not willing to apply effort and get results, but appreciating people who are working their asses off will surely take your firm to places! I don't regret any of my experiences, but it all happened so fast, that I didn't even get the time to realize the truths and facts.

Act only when you know completely, or just be a viewer: there's nothing wrong with that!