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stellarsagittarius · 20 days

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⏳️🪐 12th House and How Your Mental Anguish Affects You 🪐⏳️

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12H ruler in 1H

Imma give you a hug first, okay. What you have gone through, like the experiences that you have had with the world at large, all that you have seen in your life, you internalized it all. You have sort of taken it upon you to be the witness of the suffering around you. Because you feel it all so personally. The person you have become, the thoughts and beliefs you carry are the way they are because of the absurdity of life that you have felt so deeply. It has shaped you, a lot. Next time, try to detach. It is not about you, it was never about you, it about them. You are observing, not absorbing.

12H ruler in 2H

When you are at that lowest point, second guessing everything, it really does affect your ability to manage your resources. And more often than not it can make you feel like you are not worth-it, or that you simply do not deserve to be happy. Especially if you have Chiron in the 2H too, it can feel suffocating because you keep on doing thing, trying to make it work, but you never feel like you did enough. Affirm to yourself about your successes, keep a gratitude journal and remind yourself that your need/wants are all valid.

12H ruler in 3H

You can completely obsess over finding out the reasoning behind why certain things happen the way it did. It's like you want to understand, you want to make actual sense out of it, why your problems are causing you the things that are happening. This can lead to a detachment from actually allowing yourself to feel things out and like emotionally get in a better shape first. You can get stressed out about the facts, a lot of the times. Perhpas communication is something you truly struggle with. Talk it out with someone, understand your feelings first and then a lot of the facts will start to make sense too.

12H ruler in 4H

A lot of your turbulent thoughts and experiences affect you very deeply, like the depth which can make you question your entire existence. Now, I gotta be honest with this one, you are clearing up a lot of karma from your family lineage. You are going to the very root of the issues. Because these mental anguishes aren't surface level for you, they are seated very deeply within your psyche. You have to face these deep seated demons, otherwise you can keep them shoving them down, till it becomes completely unbearable to face yourself. On the positive note, learn to be vulnerable with yourself, learn to be more accepting of what you are going through.

12H ruler in 5H

When you are at the low point in your life, you start to put a great distance between enjoying yourself and becoming completely oblivious to your childlike nature. You need to embrace your inner child. Do what you want, but do not do it because you feel like you can't do anything else with your life. There needs to be like a balance here, between enjoying yourself and knowing when it can get destructive. Too much of anything never did good. You can struggle with finding that simplistic joy in life. So try and spend time alone for a while, maybe get a coloring book or just try and bake cookies. You don't have to be good at something to enjoy it. Even if it's loving yourself.

12H ruler in 6H

You can neglect your health like nobody's business. These thoughts, stress and anguish can manifest directly in your body. That's what it is. When you are not in a good energy, you know you need to reconnect with your body. This may come initially as a bit challenging to truly get yourself to do, but, once you build that habit over time, you will realise how much you have mastered yourself. Focus on your physical well-being. This placement is very simple. You don't need to spend time spaced out and in another world. Get down and strengthen your body, you will notice that you will start to feel much more better in your mind.

12H ruler in 7H

When you get to a low point in life, the point where you are confronted with your old habits, fears and challenging emotions, it highly reflects in your relationships (more so the romantic kind). You can easily slip into unhealthy patterns with your partners, like seeing them with rose colored glasses or not having a proper sense of boundary with them. And you may even fear that true vulnerability with them. So when that happens, seek to be honest by being polite. You are not for everyone, and the ones that are for you will always understand this. Relationship can either make you or break you, choose the people wisely.

12H ruler in 8H

At the lowest points in your life, the people who aren't by your side intentionally, remember them because they are not supposed to be a part of your life. A healthy bond is where both people are there for each other, and that's exactly what life keeps teaching you over and over again. Your biggest anguishes are be caused because of the way certain people treat you and use you for their own benefit. When that happens, remember your biggest enemy is what you do not choose to see within those who take advantage of your kind nature. Yes, we can witness everybody's suffering, but at the end of the day everybody is responsible for themselves.

12H ruler in 9H

When you are at that low point in your life, you can question your faith a lot. There is a feeling where trusting your morals can become really hard. It's like when you know you truly love something, but the mere beliefs that everybody has instilled within you from birth hold you back. And you may even be the type who rebels often because of this thing. Create your own beliefs. That will require you to question what you have always been taught, don't be afraid to question it. You need let yourself see thing. At your lowest you can really see in black and white. Take a step back and observe. Read and learn.

12H ruler in 10H

Many of your mental anguishes come from you struggling with what kind of image you want to uphold between other people. You may struggle a lot with showing up between people or excessively thinking of what other people may think of you when you are at the low points in your life. You can often feel like other people look so deep within you, within the things you want to hide from everybody. When that happens, remember that what others think of you is absolutely none of your business. As long as you know that you are on the right track, you don't need anyone to tell you otherwise.

12H ruler in 11H

You are learning to trust in your dream and not hold yourself back from achievement. You know when you are at those low points in your life, there could be a deep seated fear of missing out on opportunities. You can start to second guess your own hopes, uncertain if you even deserve to have what you want or not. There could also be this sense of feeling like there is no hope left for you, like there is nothing anymore you want to have. When that happens, try to remain grateful, look at all the cool things you have achieved till now, appriciate yourself, open yourself up to something new.

12H ruler in 12H

When you hit rock bottom, it's like plunging into the deepest recesses of your mind, where you confront your fears and doubts about existence. It's a heavy burden, carrying the weight of your own struggles and the suffering of the world within you. At times, it feels suffocating, like you're lost in a maze of your own thoughts, trying to make sense of it all. But amidst the darkness, there is also potential for a lot of spiritual growth. Your journey through the depths of your psyche can lead to a greater understanding of yourself and the universe. Meditate often, and write your thoughts, talk to someone like-minded. Do not isolate yourself either.

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starastrologyy · 5 months

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Composite Chart Notes 🪐

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A composite Aries Rising, can often indicate a very active couple. They may enjoy partaking in various sports or various forms of physical activities together. However, they can appear to be a very argumentative couple, this is especially true of mars, mercury, or pluto squares the composite ascendant. Their conflicts can often be made public.

This is interesting because in terms of long-distance couples, I often see Uranus conjunct the descendent or Uranus in the 3rd house in their composite charts. A composite Sag or Aqua rising is also common in the charts of couples who are long distance.

The North Node in the composite 5th house can indicate a couple who have children together.

Another indication of a “hidden” or private relationship, is if the composite chart ruler is in the 12th house.

This is more of a personal anecdote, but I once had a man slide in my DMs on Instagram. We had mutual followers but I didn’t personally know him. Long story short, he just began offering to buy me things/send me money with nothing in return. Obviously I found that kind of suspicious as there’s usually a catch! He didn’t even push meeting me in person! We just kinda spoke online for a bit. I got his birth details and ran a synastry chart between us. We had no 2nd or 8th house overlays. However, his Jupiter did aspect my Sun (which explains why he was so generous towards me). I then took a look into our composite chart, and our composite Sun & Moon are both in the composite 2nd house! Additionally , the ruler of our composite ascendant is in the 8th. Which explains why our relationship is literally based on him sharing his resources with me, giving me money, and buying me things. Obviously not all relationships with this kind of configuration will play out like this, I just thought this was so interesting.

There can be elements of sexual idealizations in relationships where there are hard Mars-Neptune aspects in the composite chart. One or both people may feel as if they have met their “dream” sexual partner if the orb is particularly tight. However, once the illusion or initial “high” fades. This aspect can prove to be problematic in many ways. There can be deceptions and disappointments that start to manifest. Mars square Neptune is common to see in the charts of *affairs* or short lived sexual relationships. However, please remember the entire chart needs to be taken into consideration.

Couples who travel a lot together usually have significant 3rd and 9th house placements in the composite. Jupiter in the composite 9th, 3rd, or conjunct the composite Mercury can also indicate a couple that travels frequently.

A couple with Jupiter or Venus in the composite 7th house, can make very good business partners. Couples who have the ruler of their composite midheaven, in the 7th house, may also decide to go into business together.

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saturngalore · 1 year

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astroeleanor · 7 months

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˚₊‧🪐 Saturn: Where To Build Discipline for a Better Life 🪐˚₊‧

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Saturn’s placement in your birth chart shows where you need to build discipline. It points to a specific part of your life where lessons in responsibility take center stage. Saturn serves as a mentor encouraging you to roll up your sleeves & dive into self-improvement.

The challenges you face in this particular area of your life aren't just random events, they're essential for your spiritual & emotional growth. While this journey might involve some sacrifices & hard work, Saturn's lessons often lead to rewards that stand the test of time.

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1H Saturn

Saturn in the 1st House encourages you to practice self-discipline. Take your self-development seriously, emphasizing the importance of setting goals and working diligently to achieve them. Work on building self-trust & cultivating a strong sense of identity.

Saturn's influence in your 1st House also teaches you the valuable lesson of patience. It reminds you that personal growth & self-discovery are processes that unfold over time. Commit to your own well-being & self-care, understanding that self-improvement requires consistent effort.

2H Saturn

Saturn in the 2nd House suggests that you should build financial discipline. Work diligently to create a solid financial foundation by setting clear financial goals, budgeting wisely, investing & saving for the future. This placement teaches you the value of patience & the rewards that come with responsible money management.

Saturn's influence in your 2nd House prompts you to be mindful of impulsive spending and to prioritize self-sufficiency. Assess your material resources carefully & actively work towards financial independence. Saturn also urges you to align your life choices with your personal value system. Ensure that your work and financial pursuits resonate with your core beliefs.

3H Saturn

Saturn in the 3rd House highlights the importance of cultivating organized thinking patterns. Build mental discipline by being mindful of your inner dialogue & the kind of thoughts you give attention to. This placement reminds you that your mental landscape plays a crucial role in shaping your perception of the world & influencing your decision-making.

Saturn in the 3rd house also encourages you to overcome distractions & maintain focus, allowing you to harness your mental energies more effectively. Additionally, this placement urges you to practice active listening & develop effective communication skills. By honing these abilities, you can foster better connections with others, avoid misunderstandings, and express your thoughts and ideas with clarity & precision.

4H Saturn

Saturn in the 4th House prompts you to establish & enforce boundaries within your family dynamics, including your relationship with your parents. Define your limits & expectations while maintaining a sense of respect and responsibility towards them. Additionally, work on taking family responsibilities seriously!

Moreover, Saturn's influence in your 4th House highlights the importance of creating a stable & secure home environment. Work diligently to build a foundation of comfort & safety for yourself & your loved ones. This may involve financial planning, home maintenance, and emotional support. Additionally, Saturn encourages you to respect your need for privacy and personal space, reminding you that nurturing yourself comes first.

5H Saturn

Saturn in the 5th house suggests that you should aim for a harmonious work-life balance. While it's important to embrace the joys & pleasures that life has to offer, Saturn reminds you not to overindulge or become entirely consumed by these experiences. Instead, it encourages you to approach leisure with a sense of moderation & mindfulness.

Saturn in the 5th House serves as a gentle reminder that you can still bask in life's pleasures & creative pursuits while maintaining your commitment to your responsibilities. It encourages you to ensure that neither aspect of your life overshadows the other. By doing so, you can make the most of both worlds, nurturing your creativity while fulfilling your obligations.

6H Saturn

Saturn in the 6th House suggests that it's crucial for you to maintain a consistent & health-conscious routine. Prioritize a balanced diet, regular exercise & a well-structured sleeping schedule.

Saturn's influence in the 6th House also extends to your work environment & relationships with co-workers. It emphasizes the importance of setting strong boundaries in your professional life. This means being clear about your role, responsibilities & expectations at work. Make sure you establish healthy boundaries with co-workers to reduce unnecessary stress & conflicts.

7H Saturn

Saturn in the 7th House places a strong emphasis on establishing & maintain strong boundaries within your intimate relationships. While partnerships can be immensely fulfilling, it's crucial to define your limits, expectations & responsibilities within them. Prioritize fostering relationships that are built on trust, respect & mutual growth.

Saturn's influence in your 7th House shows the importance of cultivating committed, long-term connections. Approach partnerships with a sense of responsibility & dedication. Whether in your personal or professional life, find a balance between independence & interdependence, recognizing that healthy partnerships thrive when both individuals maintain their autonomy while also supporting each other's growth & well-being. If relationship issues arise, Saturn reminds you to take responsibility for your part and behavior, fostering open communication & a willingness to work through challenges together.

8H Saturn

Saturn in the 8th House indicates the need for you to develop a strong sense of financial discipline. It encourages you to take your financial matters seriously, emphasizing the importance of long-term planning, savings & investments. This placement also highlights the importance of taking a serious & methodical approach to your emotional & spiritual healing. Consider therapeutic or introspective practices that can help you navigate the depths of your psyche, confront unresolved issues & achieve profound transformation.

Moreover, Saturn in the 8th House prompts you to think about the legacy you will leave behind. It encourages you to work on leaving your own unique mark on the world, whether through your career, creative endeavors, or personal relationships. Saturn's presence in this house reminds you that your actions and choices can have a lasting impact on others and the world at large.

9H Saturn

Saturn in the 9th House emphasizes the need for you to approach your education with a serious & disciplined mindset. It encourages you to value the pursuit of knowledge & wisdom as a lifelong endeavor. Whether you're pursuing formal education or engaging in self-study, Saturn in the 9th House shows the importance of dedication to your intellectual growth.

Moreover, Saturn's influence in this house prompts you to develop a strong moral compass & a deep sense of ethics. It encourages you to seek higher truths & philosophical understanding, ultimately guiding you to make ethical & responsible choices in your life. Explore different belief systems, cultures & perspectives to broaden your horizons & gain a more profound understanding of the world around you.

10H Saturn

Saturn in the 10th House suggests that you would benefit from adopting a disciplined approach to your career & actively strive for long-term planning in your professional life. This placement emphasizes the importance of setting ambitious yet achievable career goals and working diligently to reach them. It encourages you to view your career as a journey that requires patience & persistent effort.

Saturn in the 10th House also points to the need for a healthy work-life balance. While you pursue your professional ambitions, it's essential not to neglect other aspects of your life, such as your personal relationships, well-being & leisure. Moreover, you should work on establishing strong boundaries in your professional relationships, particularly with superiors & authority figures. By setting clear limits & maintaining a sense of professionalism, you can navigate the challenges of the workplace with confidence & integrity, ensuring that your career path aligns with your values & aspirations.

11H Saturn

Saturn in your 11th House encourages you to establish strong boundaries within your circle of friends & associates. While friendships & social connections are valuable, it's equally important to define your limits & expectations within these relationships. Prioritize friendships that are built on trust, respect & shared values & distance yourself from those who may not align with your long-term goals or values.

Saturn's influence in your 11th House highlights the need for discipline & commitment when it comes to pursuing your dreams and making them a reality. It urges you to set clear goals for your future & to take meaningful steps towards achieving them.

12H Saturn

Saturn in the 12th House suggests that you should establish a consistent & disciplined spiritual routine. You would benefit from making a conscious effort to connect with your inner self regularly. Engaging in practices like prayer, meditation, and other forms of spiritual exploration can become powerful tools on your path.

Saturn's influence in your 12th House encourages you to hold yourself accountable by addressing & resolving any self-sabotaging patterns or subconscious behaviors that may be hindering your spiritual evolution. It invites you to confront the deep-seated fears & limitations that may be holding you back. By doing so, you can begin to transform these challenges into stepping stones on your spiritual journey. Embrace the discipline required to delve into your inner world, explore the hidden aspects of your psyche, and release any emotional baggage that may be weighing you down.

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astoldbytode · 3 months

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🔮✨ Exploring the Mystique of 8th House Synastry through the Planets ✨🔮

Sun in the 8th House:

🌟 Illuminate the depths of connection, undergo profound transformations together.

Moon in the 8th House:

🌙 Heightened emotional intimacy, understanding each other's vulnerabilities.

Mercury in the 8th House:

🗣️ Intense communication, sharing secrets and deep thoughts openly.

Venus in the 8th House:

💖 Experience intense passion, appreciate each other's qualities deeply.

Mars in the 8th House:

⚡ Powerful sexual attraction, navigate potential power dynamics.

Jupiter in the 8th House:

🌠 Expand shared resources and experiences, grow through deep connections.

Saturn in the 8th House:

🪐 Serious commitment, navigate challenges for long-term growth.

Uranus in the 8th House:

⚡ Unconventional changes, electric excitement with potential challenges.

Neptune in the 8th House:

🌊 Deep spiritual connection, beware of idealization and confusion.

Pluto in the 8th House:

🔥 Transformational experiences, navigate power struggles for growth.

Remember, the dance of planets in the synastry chart paints a unique picture of your cosmic connection. 🌌💫 ✨

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nitearmorweek · 1 month

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Happy Transgender Day of Visibility

Today, March 31st, is the International Transgender Day of Visibility. As sapphic moderators of various genders, we want to make space to celebrate trans creators and characters, and affirm the importance of transness in fandom 🏳️‍⚧️

TDOV was established to celebrate trans people and raise awareness of the discrimination trans people still face. Stories are as much of a part of this as anything - representation helps us understand and embrace our identity, and humanises us in the face of invisibility and bigotry.

We want to highlight some of this representation in Star Wars. Although there is a long way to go, there are some incredible canon nonbinary, genderfluid, and trans characters in Star Wars 🪐

This fandom is full of incredible trans creators bringing their lived experiences to Star Wars characters and showing transness in all its complexity and beauty 💝 We are committed as mods to making this event week a space for trans stories and uplifting trans identities. We’ve shared a resource post if you’re looking for some guidance on writing and/or drawing trans people, and encourage you to reach out if you have further questions! Check out our about, rules, and prompts for additional information on the event itself.

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We love you trans siblings, and we can’t wait to celebrate you during this event, and every other day of the year 💖🤍💙

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spaceny · 10 months

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thatstonedwriter · 5 months

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⋆˚ 「It's okay to be angry」⋆｡

◉ Sinopsis; Stolas' s/o works through their anger issues

◉ feat; Stolas

◉ Warnings; emotional dis-regulation, anger management, insecurity, effects of mental health on relationships

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At first, Stolas might be triggered by your struggles with anger management. With Stella, her anger was a stressful addition to an already strained marriage, and no matter what, was always taken out on him. After learning your anger issues were a matter of emotional dis-regulation, and not veiled hostility, Stolas is much more willing to help you with finding resources and coping strategies.

When you have anger issues, triggers are everywhere, so it's not a matter of avoiding them, but of managing your reactions. It takes a lot of work and patience

There's a prevalent issue of people romanticizing mental illness, so let me be real; intense anger can be exhausting, humiliating, and isolating. Managing it is difficult and takes a lot of practice and self-awareness.

At first, I think Stolas would brush off the more "realistic" aspects of this issue because he loves you, and it just doesn't occur to him that the issues affect you this deeply. It takes a minute for Stolas to learn, but when he does, he tries to be as helpful as possible.

If you're impatient and struggle with keeping yourself grounded, Stolas is there to help! Initially, he'd ask you to do those kinda basic coping mechanisms like focusing on your breathing

As he studies you more closely, and understands what works best for you, he's able to offer advice that caters to you more effectively. Stolas is willing to offer assurance of any kind- whether it's holding you close, distracting you with stories, or just sitting in the same room

It's important to remember that even during your outbursts, Stolas isn't afraid of you, and he doesn't judge. He may flinch reflexively, but always tries to make it clear- he's not afraid, he's there for help.

And in the moments where he can't help, and you need to be alone, he understands completely. He'll probably text you every 10 minutes to make sure you're alright, but tries not to be overbearing.

It's not easy, knowing that sometimes, you'll inevitably struggle more with regulating your emotions than others. Having a support system who understands you, who can extend patience and compassion, is so important. Stolas hopes he can be one of those pillars of support, holding you up so you can be the best version of yourself.

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