#19f

[thebendsbyradiohead]

trans. “Tito once said that all his wives were young and beautiful, but they later turned into tigers he had to tame.”

speaking of tito, he would’ve made numbers on r/AITA

[t4tails]

im #back and my houses pipes are #frozen

[theghostofashton]

i forgot i changed my weather app to celsius this morning bc i was talking to my coworkers who live in the uk about how chilly it's gotten........ the heart attack i just gave myself opening the app again and seeing that it's 19 degrees was real great thanks past me

[klaudia2646]

Foggy morning!

[koganelovesmcclain]

boys, it be fucking cold

[rubyneo]

THUNDERSTORM

[pebblethief]

-7c

[nvrqn-a]

i am awake but at what cost.

[trans-l-lawliet]

Am I the asshole for trying to kill my boyfriend even though I don't seem to remember it?

I (18M) met my current boyfriend (24? 25?M) because he was investigating me for being a mass murderer (I'm not), long story short after I was cleared of suspicion when my dad tried to fake-kill me and my sort of ex-girlfriend M (19F) and we spent some time chained together (you can check my post history for that one), we started dating. Even though we're now working together to find the actual killer, whenever he gets mad at me or we get into a fight, he brings up the fact I tried to kill him to win the argument, which I say is both really petty and stupid because I am NOT a murderer, but he insists I just don't remember it. Last time he brought it up, I really didn't know how to respond to him, so we haven't spoken in two days, which is also derailing the investigation. The other people in our team try to defend me most of the time, but they also want me to let it go so we can keep working. AITA??

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for kicking my friend out?

I (just turned 19f) live with my husband (30m). No, he didn't groom me. Yes, we knew each other and were cordial, but we never interacted until two years ago. We started talking and we are in love.

My friend (20f) has said he was creepy and a predator. It caused a huge fight but we've moved on. However, she came over to my place and was talking about Jules.

Jules (24f) was friends with my husband for years. She led him on and never actually wanted him (thankfully). She broke his heart when he was 21, but he's over her. He hadn't really talked to her for a few years, said she changed. But he completely cut her off because she got mad at him when we started dating. I think she's jealous.

My best friend is friends with Jules. I used to be too, but I've seen a different side of her. I asked my friend not to bring up Jules before. My friend was talking about her birthday plans and I told her to stop. Apparently she is inviting Jules. My husband interrupted and said he didn't want me around her negative influence and said if there was going to be a birthday event, he could go with me or I wouldn't go at all.

My friend got mad and said it was a girls day and called my husband controlling. It made me really upset and I yelled at her. I agreed with everything he said. I dont want to be around Jules without my husband. Me and my friend continued to yell at each other before I finally kicked her out after she said some deeply personal things that I won't share.

We never usually fight but since I started dating me and my friend have. My friend said she won't apologize for what she said. I won't apologize for kicking her out. My family is on my side and have told me to block her. But we were friends for 10 years! If im the asshole then I would apologize but everyone is on my side so far. AITA?

What are these acronyms?

[i-shits-you-not]

Would anyone here be willing to do an Roleplay with me? I don't me the dirty kind, I mean the sit down, write an epic plot with epic characters and have an epic time kind of rp.

I myself (19F) have been writing for Y E A R S and find that rp is a good what to build friendships and break the ice. So if you're interested, dm me!

[werewolfetone]

An AITA from 1700s Britain would be like. how do ye reddit today I (46m) took my wife (45f) and our children (1m) (2f) (7m) (5m) (18f) (12m) (22f) (8m) (3 months m) (9f) (14m) (17f) (16f) (13f) (3m) (4m) (15f) (18m) (22f) (19f) (11m) (21m) (6f) (10m) (16f) (20m) (23m) (24f) (25f) to the shops and

[theriverbeyond]

AITA - being rude to my (20F) ex's (19F) new gf (4.8bF)?

hi so context is my ex girlfriend (she dumped me after i proposed but im #overit) was missing for a long time and i was like KIND OF looking for her kind of not. i ended up finding her but turns out her body (??) was being posessed by the ancient ghost of a dead planet that also happens to be my dad's ex wife (who my dad killed but like it was an accident. long story) who didn't like me. eventually me and my coworker managed to get my ex's soul back into her body.

this is where i might be the asshole but the next time i saw her was because her new gf (ny dad's ex wife the dead planet) was biting (???) her face and i called her (the new gf) a slut because like, what the fuck. but now my ex isn't returning my calls. AITA?

[aita-blorbos]

AITA for whipping people when they are acting foolish?

I, 19f am a well-known prosecutor who whips people. Especially other attorneys. The judge either can't or doesn't do anything about it. My father was one of the best prosecutors of his time until that imbecile defeated him.

However, I will admit that that imbecile was clever enough to defeat both me and my father-

[markantonys]

AITA for joining a "cult" that thinks my sister and mom are Darkfriends?

First, some backstory. I (30m) have always been an outsider in my family. It wasn't anything to do with my parents - dad (dead) always spent all his time with me instead of my younger siblings, and (step)mom (43f) always gave me extra attention compared to her bio kids because she didn't want me to feel neglected - or with my brother (21m), who's always looked up to me. It was all because of my sister (19f). She's hated and bullied me ever since she was a toddler, and I have no idea why. I guess maybe she doesn't think I'm her real brother, or blames me for telling on her whenever she did irresponsible things like climb trees and talk to strangers. All I've ever done is try to keep her safe, but she's never appreciated it.

Anyway, there's this organization (my sister claims it's a cult, though I don't think that's fair) that's dedicated to serving the Light. My mom always hated them and kept them banned from our country because she thinks they have an agenda against women who can channel, and she's one herself, as is my sister. I used to believe her, but after reading one book written by the organization's founder, I realized that my mom has a totally biased view of them and they're actually doing really important work founded on admirable principles. So when my sister went missing at the hands of women who can channel, I decided I'd had enough of those women lying to everyone all the time and I joined this organization.

I did have my view of them shaken when I found out my mom had been kidnapped, abused, and murdered by one of their leaders (turns out she's actually still alive though, don't worry about that), but I challenged that leader to an honorable duel and killed him to avenge my mom, and my friends and I rooted out a handful of other corrupt members of the organization, so now with that small minority gone, the rest of us can continue doing the Light's work and spreading awareness of the evils of the One Power.

To be clear, I OBVIOUSLY don't think my sister and mom are Darkfriends; it's only everyone else who uses the One Power who is. I've explained this to my sister multiple times but it only makes her angrier instead of grateful that I'm making an exception for her and choosing to believe the best of her. It feels like I can never do anything right in her eyes, but maybe I've somehow got the wrong understanding of the situation. So, AITA?

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u/dainbornhald: NTA. Your sister's problem isn't actually that you joined this organization (which totally does sound 100% Light-serving). She doesn't think you're her real brother and is just looking for any excuse to continue the bullying, manipulation, and gaslighting she's been using on you since she was a toddler. [+5k votes] u/childbyar: Came here to say this. Sister sounds like a textbook abuser, and, honestly, almost definitely a Darkfriend. I'd go no contact with her, OP, and maybe get a restraining order if you have to - she's obviously unhinged. [+1.2k votes]

u/amyrlinseat: You joined a cult that thinks your sister is a Darkfriend based on an innate characteristic about her that she didn't choose and can't change (unlike you, who DID choose to join this cult), and you're whining that she's mad at you for it??? YTA [-749 votes]

u/luckyfox: YTA for the cult thing, but this whole family's got serious mommy AND daddy issues (take it from an expert). Sister resents you for getting all your parents' attention growing up, and you have a victim complex about being a stepchild/half-brother. I can only wonder what might be going on with the middle brother who wasn't mentioned much here. You guys need to go to therapy. [+2 votes] u/galaddamodred [OP]: My brother always seemed very well-adjusted, but a few hours after I made this post he actually died going on a suicide charge in battle because he thought he was unimportant enough to risk and no one would care much if he died in the attempt. Which sucks because now the only sibling I've got left is my sister who hates me. [+273 votes] u/luckyfox: oh my god [+312 votes]

[estavionpira]

AITA for giving my GF a Simurgh Valentine's card?

So I (20M) have been dating this girl (19F) for a couple of months now, and as Valentine's day rolls around, I decided to do what so many men in love decide to do, and invite her out for Valentine's day.

I wanted to make mine special, a Valentine's card you wouldn't get from just any guy, so I drew the art on it myself. It showed the Simurgh throwing up a peace sign, with some text on it saying "Kill your parents for me, Valentine!"

I thought that this was fine, a bit morbid, sure, but she likes dark humor (I told her the joke about dark humor being like food, and she laughed for a solid second), and I didn't think she would have a problem with it.

Needless to say, she did. As soon as she read the card, she stood there for a minute, staring at it, before throwing it on the ground and storming off. She hasn't spoken to me since, but some of her friends have told me that she's considering breaking off our relationship over this.

Now, I know a lot of people have trauma around the Endbringers, and I would never try to downplay that, but I know for a fact she hasn't lost anyone in her immediate family to one. PHO, AITA?