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thehealingsystem · 5 months
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currently crying as I'm writing this but uh I reeeaallyy wonder when people are gonna decide to leave us lesbians with unconventional gender identities alone. please leave the teenage bigender lesbian alone. they're a young girl in high school who likes other girls whom their mother will never accept and has to hide their relationships, and forever hide their heartache after they fail. please leave the transmasc lesbian alone. people will whisper behind his back about how much of a tranny he is while expressing disgust when he holds hands with a girl. please leave the nonbinary lesbian or just transfem lesbian alone whom is too masc or man-leaning for your taste, whether that be because they're amab or a nonbinary guy, they're trying super hard just to live and can barely pass and is forced to hide or else people will accuse them of invading spaces or being a predator. I know you won't ever see us as deserving of the lesbian label- no matter how much we present like a cis girl or how much we've been discriminated against for our attraction, from my experience- but we're just trying to make it by too. I'm tired of just trying to convince people I'm allowed to exist. not be in spaces, be in communities, exist. please leave me alone. please leave trans lesbians alone.
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angelsaxis · 1 year
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I swear I'm not trying to reignite old discourse but the people who insist that "queer is a slur" is exclusively an online T3RF psyop that popped up in the twenty tens are focusing on an extremely narrow demographic of experiences to make their claim that the idea that queer could be a slur is recent and invalid. Like using Google trends isn't evidence because Google trends do not take into account all the people who don't use the internet and who aren't connected to T3RFs in any way--like regular degular homophobes and transphobes in rural parts of America and people in other countries w no internet connection as well. Just because you as a white middle class american were able to study queer theory in college in the 90s and were able to march w the word queer in an urban place beforehand does not mean that the word queer wasn't ever being used in a violent manner in the rural south or in someone's home or in the Caribbean (as one of my friends put it) or even in the city at the exact same time--before, and after, and in modern times right now. And it's exclusively older white queer people who genuinely frame their experiences with that word as enough evidence to dismiss a whole host of other experiences. Like okay you studied it in the nineties and you rolled your eyes in the 2010s online. What does that mean to the people who aren't in either of those spaces at all. What about the homophobes in other countries or other regions of America absolutely hurling it around as a slur. Your experience is not universal. Two things can be true at the same time. Like be serious.
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plutoslvr · 1 year
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cannot believe tiny tim is real. like bros 5'5 and 125lbs i could bench press him.
i think he should be teased for being a shortie like im talking about dick going “where's tim?” and purposefully looking right above tims head. or jason looking down at tim like “hows the weather down there” and using him as an armrest.
and every time tim tries to say something back duke just goes “sorry cant hear you from down there” or "what was that tim? speak up." even tho duke has like one inch on him, thats one inch too many.
and dami's 5'4 at 14, i can just imagine the dread tim feels seeing dami catch up to him in height.
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hauntedhokage · 6 months
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Whitney who marks you where and however they can in places where people are sure to see them. Your sleeve slides up when you're handing Sydney a textbook to return and their eyes are glued to the fresh bruise on your wrist. Taking pictures with Niki and they're commenting on how they'll need to airbrush some bite marks out. Robin visibly worried every time they see you showing a bit more skin than usual because there are just so many marks and who also asks you to spray yourself with a perfume or cologne before entering their room just because you reek of cigarettes and whatever cheap body spray Whitney and their goons use.
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littlekingbergara · 5 months
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You should just stop talking about how mad you are that they walked back on their decision - a LARGE part of the fandom could not afford a subscription, YOU weren't one of those people - therefore you have no idea how it felt to think you had to say goodbye to them and their content.
actually it's my blog and i'm allowed to feel however i want and post whatever i want and YOU do not have to read it. also some of the people who couldn't afford it are my friends and they were sad but they weren't being fucking awful miserable goons about it like apparently that large part of the fandom felt was appropriate.
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florallylly · 4 months
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i feel like re: jonathan's camera, steve's reaction is way more focused on than jonathan's LITERAL CRIMES. like yes stevetommycarol like graffitied the movie theater and broke his camera, but jonathan... took illicit pictures of an underage couple THROUGH STEVE'S WINDOW. how would you feel? how would you react?
and jonathan never really faces any lasting consequences? he gets a new camera from steve. he eventually ends up with nancy. and nobody really finds out or punishes him for being a .... literal criminal....
meanwhile, steve reacting to it is treated like some huge thing bc he calls jonathan queer ?? like i get that it may be a little harder hitting considering the audience is (i think? i only know from the tumblr sample size) seems mostly queer, but context please. not excusing it, but it's the 80s during the height of the aids epidemic saur. and it's also easy to say things you don't necessarily mean in the heat of the moment. but guess what. he apologized. did jonathan?
other than that, name one thing that could actually categorize steve as someone who is Decidedly an Asshole. talking shit with his friends is such a non problem (do u not shit talk with ur friends...) and being popular doesn't mean shit unless there's evidence.
stop trying to give steve a redemption arc when he never needed ur absolution
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endenope · 1 year
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So Alhaitham got knocked around and pounded into the ground by the consecrated beasts right.
….…consecrated beast Kaveh???
is that a request for actual fanged beast kaveh or hybrid/humanoid ? 😳 u wanna see a big kaveh transformed into a beast pound haitham into the ground with his big barbed d-
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deus-ex-mona · 2 months
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such is the tale of a ✨chronically online hypocrite✨
#(please forgive this old folk’s rambling for a hot min bc i need to get this off my chest somehow and in some way)#tl;dr: come and get into the hw idol series!!! we have ship discourse; more ship discourse; even more ship discourse#(yes ik people should be free to ship what they do b u t claiming a noncanon ship as canon and forcing it on everyone else is. not cool.)#yes yes friday’s mv was visually cute and ino.rin’s singing was peak b u t i feel like it has caused more harm than good in some way???#i cant b e l i e v e the jp hwtwt beef over friday’s mv is still going on mannnnnnnnn#no less than 3 separate people have made posts along the lines of#‘p l s stop using [official tags] to post about *[unnamed] non-official ships* p l s there’s a time and place for everything’#and n o n e of them even remotely run in the same circles yet they’re all banded together against a *certain* group lmfao never change hwtwt#lhy (esp yhy) shippers are always at the scene of the crime mannnnnnn#i cant see anything on their end of the naval battle (has every single lhy tag+account that i could think of blocked)#b u t it’s still really funny to witness on my twtdash against my will. i think i need to touch grass#‘kyhn isn’t canon either so why do you like it while being such a hater towards lhy—‘#great question!!!!!! it’s bc (disregarding the movie) they actually interact really well together~~~ like the honeypre event y k—#and also bc yukki treats hina really nicely all the time (even when she was being tsun and literally running from her feelings for him)#a n d hina loved him for who he truly was; even before his image change arc. and she also does her best to appeal to him and such~~~~~~~#but lhy. uh. they just bully hiyo 95% of the time and while they do look out for her bc they’re pals#they’re just pals. guys. and lxl have gone ‘uwu it must be u uwu’ to each other one too many times so shoehorning hiyo between them would.#be pretty weird ngl? esp since the ‘widely accepted’ portrayal of lhy as a trio is p much just hiyo x 2 dudes who dont even like each other#and. like. a branch of such portrayals usually seem to have aizo waft away from the ‘r/s triad’ to date mona instead which is. very weird.#some people just pick and choose aizo and mona interactions dont they. all they see is the umbrella scene and go ‘ah yes. canon’#they dont even read further to see how mona doesn’t even use the umbrella after aizo leaves (clear rejection)#a n d how aizo doesn’t even remember giving the umbrella to mona + mona’s entire existence in general after that#and that’s not even counting the grudge mona refuses to let go of even after what looks to be literal months#so for certain shippers to just casually shoo aizo out of the hiyoharem and into mona’s unwilling arms for the sake of yhy is. weird.#and like. shouldn’t he and yujiro have a say in this?? they’re more interested in each other than hiyo so just how are they being commonly#portrayed as hiyosimps in fanon? im so confused… like. wouldn’t they be equally obsessed with each other (as w/ hiyo) if they were a rstrio?#aaaaaa get this off my twtdash plsssssssss pls see this post twtapp pls let this affect your dumb algorithm im tired of the ship discourseee#as funny as the ‘lhy vs the world’ naval warfare is it’s getting. um. very annoying!!!! and now im missing nagisa more than ever s o b s#plsplsplsplsplsplsplsplspls influence the algorithm ragepost; ik big brother is 👀watching👀 so do your thing—#(pls feel free to duke it out with me too if y’all read this i need my birdsite algorithm to le a r n that i dont wanna see stuff like this)
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bittwitchy · 1 year
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CS: Samara Weaving and Robert Pattinson.
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caffeinatedopossum · 1 year
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People keep sending hate comments on my tiktok that are like "oOoO I'm so quirky🤭" buddy this is the normal stuff, I'm actually so weird you have no idea
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lil-vibes · 1 year
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every chapter sukuna fans are fighting for their LIVES 😭😭 bro really pulled out the fire hydrant smoke grenade and a whole new homie for gojo to beat like 😭💀
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brittlebutch · 18 days
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realizing that it sounds kind of mean for me to be referring to this fic as the “cringe loser” fic if you don’t have the extensive lexicon i’ve created in my head for the lengthy opinion essay i haven’t written about how most people don’t actually want “good” autist-rep, they want “cool” rep even at the expense of ‘accuracy’. just believe me i say “cringe loser” with the highest degree of absolute affection
#N posts stuff#brief overview is: abed is generally one of the only characters i see lauded as Good rep#but there’s no way to quantify his representation in a way that successfully singles him out in the convo#ie; people claim it’s Good bc Harmon is autistic — doesn’t hold up bc post-music sia now touts a diagnosis#so either you think she’s lying for obscure internet clout OR having an autisticwriter in the room isn’t The Thing that makes it work#‘if they would hire autisticactors tho’ but that doesn’t hold up either bc abed is portrayed by an allistic man#and when that MH cartoon with the autistic character dropped people immediately started mocking the voice acting#even tho she was played by an autistic actress. so that also doesn’t hold up#so what differentiates abed?#shaun murphy is ‘cringe’ bc he talks weird and has meltdowns#and wendy please stand by is ‘bad’ bc she lives in a group home#and attorney woo is ‘embarrassing’ bc she has motor skill issues and makes odd facial expressions#and the MH girl is ‘childish’ bc she talks weird#etcetera and so on. so why is abed different? i don’t know if his portrayal Is significantly different#i think he just ‘looks cooler’ than these other characters so people like him more#the deficits he has are usually throwaway jokes instead of things that are given narrative weight. so you can ignore them if you want#and if you wanted to argue that the Narrative of the show is what makes a difference then i would also disagree with you#bc abed is pretty extensively mocked in the show. a lot of his autistic traits are just the punchlines of jokes about his characters#(i mean every character on the show is so at least abed isn’t single out but i wouldn’t exactly call it Respectful)#and if you argue that it’s good bc it’s ‘unintentional’ bc harmon didn’t know he was autistic at the time#then i’d point out that abed is made the punchline of an autism joke within his first five minutes on screen#so they knew Enough about what they were doing to make him the joke. so i don’t believe that holds water either#anyway the argument doesn’t cumulate in the opinion that any of these shows are definitively Good Rep#bc the notion of Good Rep is so shakily defined that it’s hard to quantify and also a lot of the examples i chose aren’t like#‘good’ narratively even if i like the characters so im not arguing that they’re better or worse than community or whatever#it really is just an argument about people wanting things to look ‘cool’ more than they want it ‘real’#and that’s why you see autistic influencers literally bullied off social media by other autistic people for acting ‘cringe’ by.. stimming#and that’s it. bc they didn’t look Cool Enough when they did it#so i think we desperately need to embrace Cringe Losers bc i think the Cool factor is a bad one to measure by
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seaweedstarshine · 2 months
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As the #1 Psychotic Eleventh Doctor truther around here, we're really not winning with Daemon Targaryen's psychosis huh? My man really had to go for the guilt-induced hallucinations trope…
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actual-corpse · 3 months
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You can't be an ally to anyone (LGBT+, religion, race, etc) and then say a group of people "should die".
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pacing-er · 5 months
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Oh wow the propal anon refused to read the sources I sent them bc they're claiming it's "Zionist" how surprising
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ladyimaginarium · 5 months
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NOT DRAKE TRYNA CLAIM MONTREAL?????
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