this might be controversial, but man am i becoming increasingly convinced that buddie trutherism* is just not (and probably never has been) a very healthy way to engage with this show. *to be clear, by this i don't mean shipping buddie, or hoping it'll be canon, or thinking that it could be, i mean the completely unshakeable belief that it is absolutely going to happen (and to a lesser extent that it's always been the plan).
every single piece of evidence for buddie is evidence of a potential, often very compelling potential, but there is really nothing to suggest some big six season plan or any plan at all.
i'm sure a lot of these ppl (maybe even most) aren't bad, or doing anything out of malice. however, i do think having a large chunk of the fandom make post after post, week after week, season after season going "don't worry guys, buddie's definitely happening because of x, y or z," has helped create the current environment. where ppl have spent so long in a bubble where buddie's been presented as the only reasonable outcome, that they can't conceive of the idea they might've been wrong.
atp a lot of buddie meta isn't a queer reading of the show/relationship it's just straight up lies. no tommy isn't a miserable hater who never smiles at his bf, nor is he a predatory freak preying on sweet baby bi buck, and no eddie wasn't jealous at the wedding, no buck didn't realise he was in love with eddie when he came out to him. truly, after a decade in different fandoms, I don't think i've ever seen shipping goggles this bad.
again i don't think the ppl making meta/analysis about things that genuinely have some queer subtext to them are bad or doing anything wrong. but, when a narrative that you're contributing to is feeding into this much wider ecosystem that's influencing others to harass ppl and peddle homophobic dog whistles in an attempt to bridge the gap between their fanon and canon, at what point do you step back and go, "you know what, i don't think it's responsible for me to feed into this anymore."
and i worry that even the people who aren't hurting others with this kind of engagement, are gonna end up hurting themselves in the long run.
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Peach day!
This's supposed to be a part of the challenge "Monkey May", but since I'm a little bit late, it will be just a "first post" thingie :)
Loved the reference omg
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Silver Fox Titus
I am actually fucking deranged. You cannot just put this shit in my askbox and not expect me to start eating my desk.
GRRRRRRRSLDJKFSLDJKF
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NO I NEED YOU TO LOOK AT THIS MAN AND HOW FOND HE IS OF HIS DAUGHTER
LOOK AT HIS FACE
LOOK AT HOW HIS EXPRESSIONS OF HORROR JUST MELTS INTO ADORATION FOR HIS DAUGHTER
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I've been watching Hazbin Hotel in prime. Just watched episode 5 and I gotta ask
Why, oh, WHY DON'T I SEE MORE PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT "MORE THAN ANYTHING" WHEN TALKING ABOUT THE HAZBIN HOTEL MUSIC???
Like I get it, the song before it "Hell's Greatest Dad" Is a bop reminiscent of other music from the era its parodying. I loved it.
BUT why are you only putting clips of that song when this MASTERPIECE comes a few minutes after
I honestly don't even know where to begin with this song. The visuals are beautiful, especially when we get moments like this where you can just see the absolute LOVE this man has for her daughter is so sweet and Heartwarming I just-
The voices are fenomenal but what else can you expect from the broadway talents of Erika Henningsen and Jeremy Jordan.
There is also the whole Symbolism with passing the baton to the next generation and stuff. I- I can't even get into the specifics right now Im too emotional.
But above all else THE LYRICS
ESPECIALLY THAT LAST ONE
"I'M GRATEFUL YOU ARE MY DAUGHTER/FATHER MORE THAN ANYTHING"
DO YOU WANT ME TO CRY?? CAUSE I AM. I AM BAWLING MY EYES OUT RIGHT NOW.
It's just so fucking beautiful man. Probably the best song I will hear all year. Obviously my favorite from Hazbin.
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Just out of curiosity, who’s your “man in his 40s” of choice? Mines Frank Iero which is kinda generic but whatevs.
Y’all can turn this into a tag game if u want. I’m too fucking lazy.
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I know we’ve talked about it before but bisexual disaster Harry has it so bad for Sirius. I don’t really ship Sirry (I get it, but it doesn’t hit me like Prongsfoot), but I DO subscribe to Harry having a huge crush, and Sirius being completely oblivious about it. Mostly because I can relate to the very specific situation of “my beloved father died before I formed memories of him, and upon entering puberty was presented with a young, attractive, caring father figure for whom I developed exceptionally complicated feelings.” Or more broadly, I had “daddy issues.”
Like I get it, Harry.
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do not repost on other social media without my explicit permission, mdni
not the usual stuff because i've been more focused on my hyperfixation, and this is the man i could have been if god was real and loved me.
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