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strawglicks · 1 year

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i dont know or care if this is fully accurate idc tbh i just had to make this real fast to spite this one post i saw that was basically this meme except it infantalized misty and flint by putting them in the bottom row so i had to fix it <3

#toontown #ttcc #toontown corporate clash #ok uh.#i am not going to tag everty single cog tbh. its too much.#instead i will use these tags to complain #abt the infantalization of adult characters #the cogs are adults . theyre not tiny infant children #and i hate. seeing misty and flint treated as little uwu cinnamon roll babies #the worst part is that they get infantalized bc of #misty being lonely and sad and wanting to make friends #and flint having. crippling anxiety and being shy #why are you. babying those traits?? thats kinda weird!!#this isnt even just about one post either. this happens to them a lot.#just in general #being lonely and anxious are real adult problems . why are we. ok.#flint infantalization is especially dumb because #he literally dislikes belittling?#his whole character is wanting to be more confident and struggling with it #why would you?????? infantalize him #if u infantalize flint he literally doesnt like you #...bc ur belittling him #imagine missing the point that bad #sorry i have been silently brewing abt this . i need this all out there.#sometimes u just gotta be a hater.

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knightelf · 17 days

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like i wish i could just even buy myself something for fun. just a little something. maybe a book or a game. but noooo. longest oh boy ever

#im done complaining for now 😮‍💨 just frustrated #being an adult with like no useful education really makes my world seem small #i never did anything for fun as a kid or teen bc i prioritized being the perfect kid that never asked for anything #but now theres literally no time for anything. and if i do have time im stuck at home cuz i cant drive lol #and im also mad bc im not working or making money on days off but im also like god when is my day off coming up bc i hate workinggg #ig i lied i had more to complain about. but im done now for real lol #off to pay $30 to get to my 3 hour shift bye

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delicatetaysversion · 1 month

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okay ventpost time im bored and my period is late

#my mother is leaving AGAIN #to stay with my father #bhai mujhe nahi rehna akele i don't want to parent my brother #i don't want to cook or stress about what to eat and clothes and laundry and literally buying vegetables every few days #well all these things are just surface level but i REALLYYYYY do not want to live alone with my thoughts #i want to study i can't just study on my phone with no adult mere sarr pe khade hoke asking ki itna tv #kyu dekh rahi hai kya hua class kyu nahi attend kari #kar liya try bhai call me immature and childish and pathetic and dependent and undisciplined whatever but mere bas ki baat nahi hai #also ooooh listen to my moms great solution: she'll stay there and dad will come!! to live with us two!! alone!! haha.#it's sk fucking sad and repetitively traumatizing ki i don't even know how to react #my sister is the only kid both my parents like when she stays home things are mostly calm and happy #they dote on her they tolerate us #and they should i love her too but now i feel like crying because i don't want her to stay back just for me??? my stupid mental health??#she's doing enough by staying here till rakhi just because i asked her begged her to not leave me alone mami ke side #she could've fucked off and gone to live her life 10 days ago #it's not fair #the person i love and want to live with.. if she stays she's miserable and her being miserable mskes me miserable #i just. i miss her so much. she already feels so distant and busy and then she'll go abroad and totally forget about me right #who doesn't need all this constant depression holding you back weighing you down when you're living your best life #i hate that there's no solution i just have to grow up and be okay with it #i already got more time with her than i thought she stayed home like 2 years extra cause of covid #3 actually #ab why am i crying it was a good day #also i don't want to make it all about me but like. idk when i was picturing my adult life i was thinking like #night clubs and gay bars and beaches at night #i never factored in real factors like the horrifying fucking country we live in 💀💀#it's just it was the only thing that kept me going the promise of a better future #but now what.#and like #it's feels so stupid now the fact that i sometimes want to like

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giantkillerjack · 1 year

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Dear horror youtubers who write video essays explaining and examining extraordinary works of horror that I deeply want to see and understand but will literally never be able to safely watch due to my own trauma - thus providing me with a way to learn from and connect to works of art that would be otherwise forever inaccessible to me,

I love you.

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#original #horror #final girl studios #if this youtuber is on tumblr someone should tag her #LOVE the idea of a girl coming of age and becoming monstrous but now obsessed with how they described this movie as #'a girl coming of age and finding that the people AROUND her have become monsters to her'#fucking. brilliant! thank you for giving me a way to learn from and enjoy this movie! i am more sure than ever that i should not watch it!#but i am so grateful to you for giving me such a gift! how wonderful!#that said - folks please be very cognizant of the warnings at the beginning of the video. there were still parts I had to look away from #also it was cathartic experiencing this movie from this POV bc 'the horror of girlhood being validated' is healing tbh #it was HORRIFYING being a little girl who became a teenage girl! and no one seemed to care what girl-children went through!#I mean folks were dismissive of kids in general but teen girls and little girls are like. a Joke to a lot of people.#everything we liked was ridiculed. and our fears held similarly little weight to adults. and yet. The Horror of Girlhood is so Real.#I Can Only Imagine how much more girls of color were dismissed and targeted and dehumanized.#and then you've got the little Trans girls and teens - who were playing The Horror of Girlhood on like. Nightmare Hard Mode.#the specific horror of girlhood for me as a transmasc AFAB person meant that the existential horror of being seen as a girl #meshed with my gender dysphoria in a way I did not have the language for and would not for many years to come #like the internalized misogyny and the gender dysphoria were literally impossible to parse apart. i couldn't tell which was which.#i just knew i HATED being a girl and i wanted it to STOP. and it was mostly because of how people treated girls.#like it probably took me longer to figure out my gender because of that.

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jjhonanana · 1 year

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Trans Confession #9173681

My biggest fear when I was younger was somehow becoming the Virgin Mary because my period was late.

My second biggest fear was my period.

#transgender #ftm #I hated my period so much but the relief I would get when it finally came was nice I guess #a little reassurance that I wasn’t cursed and doomed to have a baby against my will #literally have only been in one real relationship in my life and that was after realizing I was trans lol #so you can imagine how dumb it was for young me to be afraid of being pregnant suddenly 💀💀#either way I’m still afraid of getting pregnant so I’ve fully committed to be abstinent until I get a hysterectomy #which won’t be super long because I’m finishing school soon so I can come back home and get surgeries and stuff #yk before I go out into the adult world again and have to live on my own #I’m so excited to be flat chested and completely infertile #like I won’t even donate my eggs bc I do not want any copies of myself getting out into the world fr #it’d be funny for like a minute but absolutely not #trans confession

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maddy-ferguson · 7 months

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there's a post going around that says "“We need to strive to be more accepting of POC” you guys can’t even handle religion." and like. that's genuinely offensive to me lmao

#and like i say: brf slt #the word accepting. POC the acronym you couldn't even write all of it. again more accepting? just weird to me #and like...literally what. in their rb they say christianity and catholicism aren't the only religions when like...that's the same religion #so im gonna be crazy and assume theyre 14 or just kinda dumb.bc how are you not gonna make sure to be accurate in your big anti-racism rant #wait their bio actually says i'm an adult i promise. they're just dumb then #and like obviously there's not just christianity. i dislike every one of the big three equally because there's no meaningful difference #there to me...and i don't know enough about other religions but i would probably hate many others too because like...i don't like the #content but i also dislike just the concept of organized religion and also just think it's dumb since i'm not in it at all #and like. obviously you're allowed to believe in what you want and i think it's nice that people are able to have faith like i think that's #a nice concept. and yes religions are a big part of people's cultures (something the post says) but like...when you're not religious #religions are literally just cults that worked out but you're supposed to respect them because like we live in a society and it's sooo...😭#like i also think believing in the power of rocks is dumb #i know all about criticism of a religion being racism because french people do it all the time with islam because they just hate north #african people/arabs and black people (but i think islamophobia is mostly aimed at north africans). but like. when people talk about #islamophobia being a real problem it's not about people disliking the religion it's about them talking about it 24/7 just because they hate #the people who follow it when like. literally how is christianity better!!!!! when they're like oh it's so regressive but they themselves #are everything they claim islam makes people (idk homophobic misogynistic etc) like it's very transparent. but you're allowed to not like #religions unless you know blasphemy's a thing where you live. and it's actually very easy to be against islamophobia when it's literally #just a manifestation of racism while not being fond of islam or of any religion. because like. common sense. but anyway #i UNDERSTAND where the post is coming from it's like if you think religion is backwards you're gonna think religious people are backwards #and that includes 'poc' or like saying a religion is backwards is something racists do a lot. but like wdym to be anti-racist #you have to not be critical of religion(s) that doesn't make any sense to me. like if religions are against my values. i'm not gonna like #them😭 'religion isn't just what your parents used to be homophobic against you' well there's a lot of people worldwide who are using #religion to do bad things i fear...the post's arguments dont make sense and i dont care about people believing in whatever but also yes im #gonna think it's stupid and wrong if i think the opinions they have because of their religion are wrong when people aren't religious. like #it's not a trump card. i don't even think that's what that person's saying. but like...there's no correlation between 'not being accepting #of POC' and 'not being able to handle religion'?😭 implying there is feels racist to me literally what...and the reverse doesn't work either #and i'm aware trying to stop people from practicing their religion is like bad and a way to get them to assimilate and like racist and all #that.but that's not 'not being able to handle religion' in a tumblr way it's literally just racism again? and idk just weird it annoyed me #and also i know leftists can be anti-religion in a way that's racist and paternalistic again i live in france

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seonghwasblr · 8 months

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How am I supposed to get a job, when nobody wants an introverted humanist without any experience. Make it make sense

#maja talks #i know 3 months isn't that long to be without a job after graduation #but i'm lowkey tired of not being able to start my adult life for real #my life is literally paused and there's nothing i can do about it other than hope lol #on the other hand i'm fine without a job cause i'm also very anxious to get a job #there is no job where i won't have to talk to people and i hate that #what if i just start an only fans lmao #selling feetpics suddenly doesn't sound that bad

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twig-gy · 10 months

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okay but whenever proshippers say [thing i have literally never heard anyone say or consider saying] that’s really gross which is why i hate them

#literally don’t mind this post it’s just me being unnecessarily salty #like bro what. where are you getting this info. what tf are you talking about #give me a single example #feels like everyone hates proshippers for the most inane reasons #okay i’m just going to scream now bc i’m frustrtaed #AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAA #that isn’t very cathartic in text #it’s just like. so annoying. that’s not what ‘all proshippers’ think wtf #feels like ppl will go on this webbed site and say ‘dni proshippers. i hate them bc every single one thinks all dairy should be eradicated’#WHY. WHAT. SHOW ME THE DAMN BIBLIOGRAPHY #also my own sister has a dni proshippers on her thing. because she’s a minor????? what?????#well not minor anymore ig #she’s an actual real adult now what will she do……….#but anyway what am i supposed to do with that. she’s my goddamn sister. no i’m not gonna stop interacting with her bc of her dni #i hate breathing exercises they feel so trite like stupid breathing is going to fix all my mental issues?????#and then when it works it feels like it vindicates everyone #who instantly told me 2 do that when they heard abt me having any kind of issue #aghhhhh that thought Does Not Help #so when i do it i try to think of my choir teacher instead #yknow i used to show songs to him after class and then he’d comment on it and we’d talk about various song things like friends #it was nice. no one has really talked to me abt music like that before or since #and i miss it #i love music so much #theres nothing else quite like it. that’s true for all artforms but #what else can make you feel something so simply so easily?#when i make music i wanna be able to control my audience’s mood like that #sometimes i try for atmospheric pieces ones that really embody like a setting #like the glowing cave one!#when i’m not doing that i usually have a specific thing i’m trying out #like slides or chords or varying length of notes

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joshoconnaissance · 1 year

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i asked for a raise today for the first time in my life and it made me want to kms lol

#every other job i've had previously would have a system in place #like after 1000 hours you get a review then a raise #this job is just dead silent about things like that #which is fuckin stupid tbh #why should i be asking them to review my work and set expectations???#that's literally YOUR job #anyway i'm hoping for a dollar at the least i'm gonna be real fkn done if they try and offer less than that #in a recession #i'm literally making less money now than when i started due to inflation lmao #i hate being an adult

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pa-pa-plasma · 1 year

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i voted gwen but ranboo being trans isn't a headcanon please address this

addressing this because i hate dream & find liking him & his friends weird <3 hope this helps

#Gwen has infinitely more trans swag than a bunch of weirdo ableist cheating minecraft dudes who roleplay as children #you cannot convince me otherwise when i've literally seen them be shitheads #being into that shit is like. 2 steps down from being in pewdiepie for me #i simply dont think a real life person shouldn't be in a character competition #anyway not getting into every reason why i hate those guys but like i've seen some shit theyve done & written off when confronted #& i also just find being that obsessed with real people is like. a red flag #in all seriousness i'm not gonna go out of my way to attack these people. i ignore them #but there's something just. inherently wrong with the entire fandom. like something is off there #maybe it's the fact that they pretend adult men are minors or that they write RPF about them. it's just weird #idk. dont talk to me about the dude who's famous for cheating & his friends who use slurs. i dont wanna know

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anotherpapercut · 2 years

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It’s literally amazing that you almost never practice what you preach. Like I only know of you through people but you’re just..a complete hypocrite lmao.

so I turned off anon fucking foreeever ago when I was getting rape threats and now when people want to send me anonymous messages they have to go through the trouble of making a whole ass new blog or, if they've already been blocked, a whole ass account. when it's that, which I think it often is based on the similarity of the messages, I always wonder, did these people use a 2nd email that they have for such occasions? or did they have to make a new email as well? because akdnksnejdb that would be like extra pathetic

either way it's just literally impossible to be bothered by anything y'all say when you're like so obsessed with me (or just the idea of me as a person for you to blame whatever you want on) that you took the time out of your one and only life on earth to do this instead of idk spending time with someone you love? just cause..... idk you're clearly scared of something lol. it's just so funny but also sad? uhhhhh please get help lmfao