Caretakers that used to be Whumpees just hit differently.
They can emphasize with Whumpee, they know how it feels, they can care for them on a whole different level.
They thought they left it behind. They had thought they were fully healed but this makes old wounds ache.
They get to be the person they needed back then. They get to make sure Whumpee isn't alone, and they're supported, and they can fall apart, and that's great.
And they get to mourn that they had to do it all by themselves.
Whumpee thinks that's pity in the caretakers eyes, but it's understanding. It's recognizing the self through the other.
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y am i kinda thinking about scary and taylor hurt/comfort now ............... like............... oyuyghhhhh my god maybe i'm becoming a bigger gothweeb stan every second... i love being a multishipper ♡
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j-jinshi.... my wife reo.....
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Happy Valentine's Day to @gablehood 💖
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I like checked anyways because I was curious what your choice of menty b soundtrack is... you can do better than this. girl. this is an intervention.
THE NEW PORCUPNE ON THE BLOCK WITH THE BUFF CHEST OUT IN THE WILDERNESS WITH THE RUGGEDNESS KNOCK KNOCK IT'S KNUCKLES
I WAS BORN BY MYSELF I DON'T NEED A POSSE I GET IT ON BY MYSELF ADVERSARIES GET SHELVED
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when will my motivation and time to read and write fanfic come back from war?
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me, looking directly at hiphop unit: two of you gotta go. i don't care which two, you can sort that out amongst yourselves, but i can only keep two. those two [points to joshua and jihoon] have already commandeered positions and that's non-negotionable. so you guys figure it out, i'll be over here. let me know when you've decided what we're doing.
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that article going around abt firefox's new ad program is annoying bc it's phrased as though "mozilla has finally TURNED on its people and is SELLING YOU OUT for cold hard cash!!" when. that's not what's happening. it is specifically being implemented to discourage tracking behavior, and literally all the data they are giving to advertisers is aggregate and anonymized, which is like, the opposite of what that post wants you to worry about, lol
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in the hour or so it took me to draw this op turned reblogs off
EDIT: reblogs are STAYING OFF. op was right and correct and i have never regretted making a post as much as this one. if you want to reblog my art you can reblog something else from my blog. or commission me, lord knows i deserve financial compensation for the nightmare this post has put me through
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i do think there is a degree to which certain kinds of Instagram activists have convinced themselves that traumatising themselves in solidarity is a useful form of activism. "I'm having nightmares and crying so much I want to be sick because of all these videos of dying children but I can't look away while people are getting hurt" I mean don't you think you'd be able to help more if you weren't having nightmares and crying all the time?? don't you think this is a one-way trip to burnout? don't you think maybe increasing the amount of trauma going around is counterproductive? I dunno bro there's something to be said for bearing witness but there comes a point where you gotta look hard at yourself and go "am I helping, or am I just making myself suffer so I don't feel guilty for not suffering while somebody else is experiencing bad shit"
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