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a-side-character · 5 months
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So, hey, does anyone know what pronouns Translator Dlar officially uses? Because they say themselves that translators use They/Them as a rule (obviously not, Qven is technically a Translator and e makes it very clear what eir pronouns are. Same with Reet).
But. Like. All throughout Enae's chapter during the hearing (pp 279-288) they get hit with They/Them AND She/Her. And NOT by Radchaii! By Enae's own internal monologue and by Qven, who has always called Dlar "they" in eir own internal monologue (it happens in the same sentence too: "... Translator Dlar HERSELF wants me to make an adult with Reet, but THEY have no use for that adult.").
My instinct is telling me they're typos (which happens earlier in the book too, Enae pretty clearly only uses Sie/Hir pronouns and yet in the same chapter (I think?? Don't quote me on that) gets referred to by the narration as "she" instead of "sie" and "eir" instead of "hir".) but it happens so frequently in that chapter that it's making me question things.
I'd honestly just assume their pronouns were They/She if they hadn't been such a jerk to Qven about eir pronouns in the beginning of the whole hearing.
Anyways, it's just been bugging me. Did anyone else notice this?
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kiragecko · 6 months
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Know Your Neopronouns
If you look around online, you can find lists of neopronouns. (Neopronouns are words that get can be used instead of 'he' or 'she' when refering to someone.) Most show just the first 2 terms (‘Ey/Em,’ or ‘Ze/Zim’). Few provide any info about how to pronounce them. And even less provide examples of how messy real usage is. This guide is an attempt to show how real people are using neopronouns. It’s based off the data of the 2020-2023 (Nonbinary) Gender Censuses.
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English Pronoun Sets include:
Subject (the person acting) – ie. They
Object (the person the action is happening to) – ie. Them
Dependent Possessive (ownership, thing owned is named) - ie. Their
Independent Possessive (ownership, thing owned is not named) – ie. Theirs
Reflexive (action affecting the person who is acting) – ie. Themself
In a sentence:
They walked in and told me their name was Chris. I said hi, and showed them the name tags. They found theirs and put it on themself.
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Neopronouns come in 3 flavours:
The first type is based off the most common English personal pronouns:
‘They/Them/Their/Theirs/Themself (or Themselves)’
‘He/Him/His/His/Himself’
‘She/Her/Her/Hers/Herself’
This type of neopronoun usually mimics the ending sounds of one or more of the common pronoun sets. For example, ‘Ze/Zem’ pronouns are based on ‘he’ and ‘them.’
The second type includes pronouns not usually used as personal pronouns (like indefinite ('One'), neuter ('It'), or definite (‘that’)). It also includes neopronouns derived from them ('Thon').
The third type is based on various nouns not usually considered related to gender at all ('Star' or 'Pup'). These are called ‘nounself pronouns.’
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I’ve listed both the common pronouns, as well as the most used neopronouns. For each entry, I include a variety of forms and spellings. I do my best to provide pronunciation. (I have not heard all of them pronounced, and what little I was able to find online might not match what real people are saying.) And I mention if they mimic feminine or masculine pronouns, singular they, indefinite pronouns, nouns, etc.
List of the 25 Most Common Pronouns Used By Nonbinary People in 2023 (According to the Gender Census):
They
He
She
It
Xe
Fae
Hir
Ey
E
Ae
Ve
Ze
Star
Hy
Thon
Void
Ne
Kit, Cat
Pup
Vae, Vey
Xey
Mew, Meow
Bun
One
Moon, Lun
Other pronouns with more than 30 users in the census (not included as separate entries)
That, Thing (that/that/thats/thats/thatself, thing/thing/things/things/thingself, that thing/that thing/that thing’s/that thing’s/that thing – 56 people)
Vamp (vamp/vamp/vamps/vamps/vampself – 54 people)
Sun, Sol (sun/sun/suns/suns/sunself, sol/sol/sols/sols/solself – 51 people)
Dey, Dae (dey/dem/deir/deirs/demself, dae/daem/daer/daers/daemself – 46 people)
Zey (zey/zem/zeir/zeirs/zemself – 46 people)
Per (per/per//per/pers/perself – 18 people)
Rot (rot/rot/rots/rots/rotself – 37 people)
Sie/Sier (sie/sier/sier/siers/sierself - 36 people)
Nya/Nyan (nya/nya/nyas/nyas/nyaself, nya/nyan/nyans/nyas/nyanself – 36 people)
Bug (bug/bug/bugs/bugs/bugself – 35 people)
Ix, X (ix/ix/ixs/ixs/ixself, x/x/xs/xs/xself – 34 people)
Ce (ce/cer/cer/cers/cerself – 33 people)
1. Singular They (They/Them)
Most common nonbinary pronoun set, this was used by 30,188 people in the 2023 Gender Census.
Usual Set:
They / Them / Their / Theirs / Themself (30,107 people) Pronunciation: ðeɪ / ðɛm / ðeɪɹ / ðeɪɹz / ðɛmsɛlf (dhay / dhem / dhayr / dhayrz / dhemself)
Nonstandard Sets:
They / Them / Their / Theirs / Themselves (67 people) Pronunciation: ðeɪ / ðɛm / ðeɪɹ / ðeɪɹz / ðɛmsɛlvz (dhay / dhem / dhayr / dhayrz / dhemselvz) Plural they.
They / Them / Their / Theirs / Theirself (3 people) Pronunciation: ðeɪ / ðɛm / ðeɪɹ / ðeɪɹz / ðɛɹsɛlf (dhay / dhem / dhayr / dhayrz / dherself) Nonstandard They
Using them when talking:
They walked in and told me their name was Chris. I said hi, and showed them the name tags. They found theirs and put it on themself.
Nonstandard sets:
They walked in and told me their name was Chris. I said hi, and showed them the name tags. They found theirs and put it on themselves.
They walked in and told me their name was Chris. I said hi, and showed them the name tags. They found theirs and put it on theirself.
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2. Masculine Pronouns (He/Him)
Second most common nonbinary pronoun set, this was used by 17,182 people in the 2023 Gender Census.
Usual Set:
He / Him / His / His / Himself Pronunciation: hiː / hɪm / hɪz / hɪz / hɪmsɛlf (hee / him /hiz / hiz / himself)
Nonstandard Sets:
He / Him / His / His / Hisself Pronunciation: hiː / hɪm / hɪz / hɪz / hɪsɛlf (hee / him /hiz / hiz / hiself)
Using them when talking:
He walked in and told me his name was Chris. I said hi, and showed him the name tags. He found his and put it on himself.
Nonstandard set would end with: He found his and put it on hisself.
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3. Feminine Pronouns (She/Her)
Third most common nonbinary pronoun set, this was used by 13,220 people in the 2023 Gender Census.
Usual Set:
She / Her / Her / Hers / Herself Pronunciation: ʃiː / hɚ / hɚ / hɚz / hɚsɛlf (shee / her /her / herz / herself)
Using them when talking:
She walked in and told me her name was Chris. I said hi, and showed her the name tags. She found hers and put it on herself.
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4. Neuter Pronouns (It/It)
4th most common set of pronouns (up from 5th last year), and probably the most controversal. Seen as dehumanizing by many people, and as validating by others. (7,859 people)
Usual Set:
It / It /Its / Its / Itself Pronunciation: ɪt / ɪt / ɪts / ɪts / ɪtsɛlf (it / it / its / its / itself)
Using them when talking:
It walked in and told me its name was Chris. I said hi, and showed it the name tags. It found its and put it on itself.
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5. Xe/Xem Pronouns
5th most common set of nonbinary pronouns, and the most popular neopronoun set. (4,649 people)
Usual Set:
Xe / Xem / Xyr / Xyrs / Xymself (4,504 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɛm / zɚ / zɚz / zɛmsɛlf (zee / zem / zer / zerz / zemself) Based on: Singular They, with Feminine subject and possessive pronouns
Nonstandard Sets:
Xe / Xir / Xir / Xirs / Xirself (74 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɚ / zɚ / zɚz / zɚsɛlf (zee / zer / zer / zerz / zerself) Based on: Feminine
Xe / Xim / Xis / Xis / Ximself (27 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɪm / zɪz / zɪz / zɪmsɛlf (zee / zim / ziz / ziz / zimself) Based on: Masculine
Xe / Xem / Xir / Xirs / Xirself (23 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɛm / zɚ / zɚz / zɚsɛlf (zee / zem / zer / zerz / zerself) Based on: Nonstandard They, with Feminine possessive pronouns
Spelling:
Subject - Xe (4604), Xie (18), Xi (10), Xy (9), Xhe (7)
Object - Xem (4508), Xim (38), Xym (10), Xiem (3) | Xir (38), Xer (24), Xyr (18), Xher (3)
Dep. Possessive - Xyr (4472), Xir (62), Xer (43), Xeir (23), Xier (5) | Xis (32)
Ind. Possessive - Xyrs (4469), Xirs (54), Xir's (4), Xers (42), Xeirs (22), Xiers (5), Xhers (3) | Xis (25) | Xir (7), Xyr (3)
Reflexive - Xemself (4495), Ximself (31), Xymself (9) | Xirself (42), Xerself (28), Xyrself (22), Xeirself (7)
Using them when talking:
Xe walked in and told me xyr name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xem the name tags. Xe found xyrs and put it on xymself.
Nonstandard sets:
Xe walked in and told me xir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xir the name tags. Xe found xirs and put it on xirself.
Xe walked in and told me xis name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xim the name tags. Xe found xis and put it on ximself.
Xe walked in and told me xir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xem the name tags. Xe found xirs and put it on xirself.
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6. Faerself Pronouns (Fae/Faer)
6th most common set of pronouns, and the 2nd most popular neopronoun set. (2,662 people)
Usual Set:
Fae / Faer / Faer / Faers / Faeself (2,623) Pronunciation: feɪ / feɪɹ / feɪɹ / feɪɹz / feɪsɛlf (fay / fayr / fayr / fayrz / fayself) Based on: the noun Fae/Fairy, with Feminine object and possessive pronouns
Nonstandard Sets:
Fey / Fem / Feir / Feirs / Femself (10 people) Pronunciation: feɪ / fɛm / feɪɹ / feɪɹz / fɛmsɛlf (fay / fem / fayr / fayrz / femself) Based on: Singular They
Fey / Fem / Feir / Feirs / Feirself (9 people) Pronunciation: feɪ / fɛm / feɪɹ / feɪɹz / feɪɹsɛlf (fay / fem / fayr / fayrz / fayrself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Fey / Feyr / Feyr / Feyrs / Feyrself (6 people) Pronunciation: feɪ / feɪɹ / feɪɹ / feɪɹz / feɪɹsɛlf (fay / fayr / fayr / fayrz / fayrself) Based on: Feminine
Spelling:
Subject - Fae (2638), Fey (18)
Object -Faer (2625), Feyr (3) | Fem (14), Faem (7)
Dep. Possessive - Faer (2637), Feir (11), Feyr (7)
Ind. Possessive - Faers (2636), Feirs (11), Feyrs (6)| Faes (3)
Reflexive - Faeself (2625) | Faerself (7), Feirself (5), Feyrself (5) | Femself (7), Faemself (4)
Using them when talking:
Fae walked in and told me faer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed faer the name tags. Fae found faers and put it on faeself.
Nonstandard sets:
Fey walked in and told me feir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed fem the name tags. Fey found feirs and put it on femself.
Fey walked in and told me feir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed fem the name tags. Fey found feirs and put it on feirself.
Fey walked in and told me feyr name was Chris. I said hi, and showed feyr the name tags. Fey found feyrs and put it on feyrself.
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7. Hir Pronouns (Ze or Sie/Hir)
The set associated with older users. Shi/Hir is also associated with the furry fandom and intersex people (who may consider it a completely different set. Research suggests there might have been drama in the 90s.) (2,190 people)
Usual Set:
Ze / Hir / Hir / Hirs / Hirself (2,148 people) Pronunciation: ziː / hiːɹ / hiːɹ / hiːɹz / hiːɹsɛlf (zee / heer / heer / heerz / heerself) Based on: Feminine, with a long ‘ee’ for all forms.
Nonstandard Sets:
Shi / Hir / Hir / Hirs / Hirself (34 people) Pronunciation: ʃaɪ / hiːɹ / hiːɹ / hiːɹz / hiːɹsɛlf (shy / heer / heer / heerz / heerself) Based on: Feminine, with the same long ‘ee.’
Spelling:
Subject - Ze (2107), Sie (30), Zie (6), Se (3) | Shi (26), Shy (6)
Object - Hir (2177), Hyr (9)
Dep. Possessive - Hir (2174), Hyr (8) | Hirs (5)
Ind. Possessive - Hirs (2177), Hyrs (7)
Reflexive - Hirself (2173), Hyrself (7) | Hemself (3)
Using them when talking:
Ze walked in and told me hir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed hir the name tags. Ze found hirs and put it on hirself.
Nonstandard set:
Shi walked in and told me hir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed hir the name tags. Shi found hirs and put it on hirself.
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8. Elverson Pronouns (Ey/Em)
Very similar to Spivak pronouns (next), these ones have the subject pronoun (‘ey’) based on ‘they,’ rather than ‘he’ or ‘she.’ (2,056 people)
Usual Set:
Ey / Em / Eir / Eirs / Emself (2,037 people) Pronunciation: eɪ / ɛm / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / ɛmsɛlf (ay / em / ayr / ayrz / emself) Based on: Singular They
Nonstandard sets:
Ey / Em / Eir / Eirs / Eirself (10 people) Pronunciation: eɪ / ɛm / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / eɪɹsɛlf (ay / em / ayr / ayrz / ayrself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Spelling:
Subject - Ey (2051), Ei (3)
Object - Em (2048)
Dep. Possessive - Eir (2049)
Ind. Possessive - Eirs (2049)
Reflexive - Emself (2037), Eimself (3) | Eirself (11)
Using them when talking:
Ey walked in and told me eir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed em the name tags. Ey found eirs and put it on emself.
Nonstandard set would end with: Ey found eirs and put it on eirself.
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9. Spivak Pronouns (E/Em)
The set most often named in articles explaining neopronouns. (1,624 people)
Usual Set:
E / Em / Eir / Eirs / Emself (1,575 people) Pronunciation: iː / ɛm / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / ɛmsɛlf (ee / em / ayr / ayrz / emself) Based on: Singular They, with Feminine/Masculine subject pronoun.
Nonstandard sets:
E / Em / Es / Es / Emself (13 people) Pronunciation: iː / ɛm / iːz / iːz / ɛmsɛlf (ee / em / eez / eez / emself) Based on: Masculine
Spelling:
Subject - E (1604), 'E (3) | En (7) | Em (8)
Object - Em (1600), Im (6) | E (5) |En (4)
Dep. Possessive - Eir (1577), Er (5) | Es (14), Is (5) | Ems (6) | Ens (4)
Ind. Possessive - Eirs (1576), Ers (5) | Es (10), Is (5), 'Is (3) | Ems (9) | Ens (3)
Reflexive - Emself (1593), Imself (4) | Eself (4) | Enself (4)
Using them when talking:
E walked in and told me eir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed em the name tags. E found eirs and put it on emself.
Nonstandard set:
E walked in and told me es name was Chris. I said hi, and showed em the name tags. E found es and put it on emself.
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10. Lindsay Pronouns (Ae/Aer)  (344 people)
Very similar to Spivak and Elverson pronouns. Created for a scifi alien race in 1920.
Usual Set:
Ae / Aer / Aer / Aers / Aerself (236 people) Pronunciation: eɪ / eɪɹ / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / eɪɹsɛlf (ay / ayr / ayr / ayrz / ayrself) Based on: Feminine, with vowels similar to Singular They.
Nonstandard sets:
Ae / Aem / Aer / Aers / Aemself (22 people) Pronunciation: eɪ / ɛm / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / ɛmsɛlf (ay / em / ayr / ayrz / emself) Based on: Singular They
Ae / Aer / Aers / Aers / Aerself (20 people) Pronunciation: eɪ / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / eɪɹz / eɪɹsɛlf (ay / ayr / ayrz / ayrz / ayrself) Based on: Feminine, with possessives based on nouns.
Ae / Aem / Aer / Aers / Aerself (19 people) Pronunciation: eɪ / ɛm / eɪɹ / eɪɹz / eɪɹsɛlf (ay / em / ayr / ayrz / ayrself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Spelling:
Subject - Ae (328), Æ (4), Ay (4) | Aer (3)
Object - Aer (268) | Aem (44) | Ae (13)
Dep. Possessive - Aer (285), Ær (3), Aeir (5), Ayr (4) | Aers (24) | Aes (8)
Ind. Possessive - Aers (296), Aer's (4), Ærs (3), Aeirs (5), Ayrs (4) | Aer (6) | Aes (12)
Reflexive - Aerself (280), Ærself (3), Aeirself (3) | Aemself (25) | Aeself (14)
Using them when talking:
Ae walked in and told me aer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed aer the name tags. Ae found aers and put it on aerself.
Nonstandard sets:
Ae walked in and told me aer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed aem the name tags. Ae found aers and put it on aemself.
Ae walked in and told me aers name was Chris. I said hi, and showed aer the name tags. Ae found aers and put it on aerself.
Ae walked in and told me aer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed aem the name tags. Ae found aers and put it on aerself.
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11. Ve/Ver Pronouns
These seem to be the neopronouns to play around with! Many of the sets here alternate masculine and feminine forms, sometimes in unpredictable ways. (304 people)
Usual Set:
Ve / Ver / Ver / Vers / Verself (70 people) Pronunciation: viː / vɚ / vɚ / vɚz / vɚsɛlf (vee / ver / ver / verz / verself) Based on: Feminine
Nonstandard Sets:
Ve / Ver / Vis / Vis / Verself (42 people) Pronunciation: viː / vɚ / vɪz / vɪz / vɚsɛlf (vee / ver / viz / viz / verself) Based on: Masculine and Feminine
Ve / Vem / Ver / Vers / Vemself (32 people) Pronunciation: viː / vɛm / vɚ / vɚz / vɛmsɛlf (vee / vem / ver / verz / vemself) Based on: Singular They
Ve / Vim / Vis / Vis / Vimself (30 people) Pronunciation: viː / vɪm / vɪz / vɪz / vɪmsɛlf (vee / vim / viz / viz / vimself) Based on: Masculine
Ve / Vem / Vir / Virs / Virself (29 people) Pronunciation: viː / vɛm / viːɹ / viːɹz / vɚsɛlf (vee / vem / veer / veerz / verself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Ve / Ver / Vis / Vers / Verself (22 people) Pronunciation: viː / vɚ / vɪz / vɚz / vɚsɛlf (vee / ver / viz / verz / verself) Based on: Feminine, with one Masculine possessive
Spelling:
Subject - Ve (230), Vi (59), Vy (4)
Object - Ver (90), Vir (57), Zher (6) | Vim (59), Vem (56), Vym (5) | Ven (8) | Vis (4)
Dep. Possessive - Vir (73), Ver (56), Veir (18), Vyr (10), Vier (4) | Vis (107) | Virs (4), Vers (3) | Vens (3)
Ind. Possessive - Virs (83), Vers (67), Veirs (18), Vyrs (9), Vaers (3) | Vis (92) | Vens (3)
Reflexive - Verself (100), Virself (75), Vyrself (5), Verrself (4) | Vimself (48), Vemself (33) | Viself (4), Veself (4) | Venself (6)
Using them when talking:
Ve walked in and told me ver name was Chris. I said hi, and showed ver the name tags. Ve found vers and put it on verself.
Nonstandard sets:
Ve walked in and told me vis name was Chris. I said hi, and showed ver the name tags. Ve found vis and put it on verself.
Ve walked in and told me ver name was Chris. I said hi, and showed vem the name tags. Ve found vers and put it on vemself.
Ve walked in and told me vis name was Chris. I said hi, and showed vim the name tags. Ve found vis and put it on vimself.
Ve walked in and told me vir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed vem the name tags. Ve found virs and put it on virself.
Ve walked in and told me vis name was Chris. I said hi, and showed ver the name tags. Ve found vers and put it on vimself.
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12. Ze Pronouns
Pronounced almost identically to Xe pronouns, but derives from Ze/Hir pronouns (286 people)
Usual Set:
Ze / Zir / Zir / Zirs / Zirself (140 people) Pronunciation: ziː / ziːɹ / ziːɹ / ziːɹz / ziːɹsɛlf (zee / zeer / zeer / zeerz / zeerself) Based on: Ze/Hir, which is based on Feminine, with a long ‘ee’ for all forms.
Nonstandard Sets:
Ze / Zem / Zir / Zirs / Zemself (76 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɛm / ziːɹ / ziːɹz / zɛmsɛlf (zee / zem / zeer / zeerz / zemself) Based on: Singular They
Ze / Zem / Zir / Zirs / Zirself (26 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɛm / ziːɹ / ziːɹz / ziːɹsɛlf (zee / zem / zeer / zeerz / zeerself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Ze / Zim / Zis / Zis / Zimself (76 people) Pronunciation: ziː / zɪm / zɪz / zɪz / zɪmsɛlf (zee / zim / ziz / ziz / zimself) Based on: Masculine
Spelling:
Subject - Ze (237), Zie (27), Zhe (17), Zi (3)
Object - Zir (126), Zer (8), Zher (6) | Zem (83), Zim (31), Zhim (7)
Dep. Possessive - Zir (181), Zer (31), Zeir (20), Zyr (12), Zher (10), Zhir (3) | Zis (10) | Zirs (5)
Ind. Possessive - Zirs (178), Zers (31), Zeirs (22), Zyrs (12), Zhers (10), Zhirs (3) | Zis (8) | Zir (3)
Reflexive - Zirself (149), Zerself (14), Zherself (6), Zyrself (4), Zeirself (3) | Zemself (78), Zimself (25), Zymself (4), Zhimself (7) | Zeself (4)
Using them when talking:
Ze walked in and told me zir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed zir the name tags. Ze found zirs and put it on zirself.
Nonstandard sets:
Ze walked in and told me zir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed zem the name tags. Ze found zirs and put it on zemself.
Ze walked in and told me zir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed zem the name tags. Ze found zirs and put it on zirself.
Ze walked in and told me zis name was Chris. I said hi, and showed zim the name tags. Ze found zis and put it on zimself.
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13. Star Pronouns
The most popular nounself pronouns (13th overall)! (157 people)
Usual Set:
Star / Star / Stars / Stars / Starself (133 people) Pronunciation: stɑɹ / stɑɹ / stɑɹz / stɑɹz / stɑɹsɛlf (star / star / starz / starz / starself) Based on: Nouns
Nonstandard Sets:
Usual Set: Star / Star / Star / Stars / Starself (9 people) Pronunciation: stɑɹ / stɑɹ / stɑɹ / stɑɹz / stɑɹsɛlf (star / star / star / starz / starself) Based on: Nouns, with possessives influenced by Feminine/Singular They
Spelling:
Subject - Star (150) | Sta (3)
Object - Star (144) | Stars (4)
Dep. Possessive - Stars (119), Star's (16) | Star (12)
Ind. Possessive - Stars (130), Star's (19)
Reflexive - Starself (150)
Using them when talking:
Star walked in and told me stars name was Chris. I said hi, and showed star the name tags. Star found stars and put it on starself.
Nonstandard sets:
Star walked in and told me star name was Chris. I said hi, and showed star the name tags. Star found stars and put it on starself.
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14. Hy/Hym Pronouns
Pronounced identically to masculine pronouns. (130 people)
Usual Set:
Hy / Hym / Hys / Hys / Hymself (103 people) Pronunciation: hiː / hɪm / hɪz / hɪz / hɪmsɛlf (hee / him /hiz / hiz / himself) Based on: Masculine
Nonstandard Set:
Hey / Hem / Heir / Heirs / Hemself (9 people) Pronunciation: heɪ / hɛm / heɪɹ / heɪɹz / heɪɹsɛlf (hay / hem /hayr / hayrz / hemself) Based on: Singular They
Spelling:
Subject - Hy (97), He (10), Hie (5) | Hey (10)
Object - Hym (65), Hymn (44), Hem (15)
Dep. Possessive - Hys (97) | Heir (11), Hyr (3) | Hymns (4)
Ind. Possessive - Hys (97) | Heirs (1) | Hymns (5)
Reflexive - Hymself (58), Hymnself (46), Hemself (12)
Using them when talking:
Hy walked in and told me hys name was Chris. I said hi, and showed hym the name tags. Hy found hys and put it on hymself.
Nonstandard sets:
Hey walked in and told me heir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed hem the name tags. Hey found heirs and put it on hemself.
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15. Thon Pronouns
One of the oldest neopronouns, dating to 1858. A contraction of 'that one'. Linguists and social reformers LOVED these pronouns, actual users are much rarer. (122 people)
Usual Set:
Thon / Thon / Thons / Thons / Thonself (104 people) Pronunciation: ðʌn / ðʌn / ðʌnz / ðʌnz / ðʌnsɛlf (dhuhn / dhuhn / dhuhnz / dhuhnz / dhuhnself – ‘the’ + n) Based on: One (Indefinite Pronoun), which works identically to nouns
Nonstandard Set:
Thon / Thon / Thon / Thons / Thonself (6 people) Pronunciation: ðʌn / ðʌn / ðʌn / ðʌnz / ðʌnsɛlf (dhuhn / dhuhn / dhuhn / dhuhnz / dhuhnself) Based on: One, with possessives influenced by Feminine/Singular They
Spelling:
Subject - Thon (119)
Object - Thon (114) | Thons (5)
Dep. Possessive - Thons (104), Thon's (5) | Thon (7)
Ind. Possessive - Thons (101), Thon's (12) | Thon (4)
Reflexive - Thonself (119)
Using them when talking:
Thon walked in and told me thons name was Chris. I said hi, and showed thon the name tags. Thon found thons and put it on thonself.
Nonstandard sets:
Thon walked in and told me thon name was Chris. I said hi, and showed thon the name tags. Thon found thons and put it on thonself.
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16. Void Pronouns
The 2nd most popular nounself pronouns (16th overall) (117 people)
Usual Set:
Void / Void / Voids / Voids / Voidself (72 people) Pronunciation: voɪd / voɪd / voɪdz / voɪdz / voɪdsɛlf (voyd / voyd / voydz / voydz / voydself) Based on: Nouns (Void)
Nonstandard Sets:
Voi / Void / Voids / Voids / Voidself (69 people) Pronunciation: voɪ / voɪd / voɪdz / voɪdz / voɪdsɛlf (voy / voyd / voydz / voydz / voydself) Based on: Nouns (Void), with subject form shortened to better match established pronouns
Voi / Void / Void / Voids / Voidself (10 people) Pronunciation: voɪ / voɪd / voɪd / voɪdz / voɪdsɛlf (voy / voyd / voyd / voydz / voydself) Based on: Nouns (Void), with subject form shortened, and possessives influenced by Feminine/Singular They
Spelling:
Subject - Voi (108), Vo (3) | Void (80) | Vi (3)
Object - Void (180) | Voi (9)
Dep. Possessive - Voids (134), Void's (14) | Void (18) | Vois (14) | Voi (4)
Ind. Possessive - Voids (153), Void's (19) | Vois (12)
Reflexive - Voidself (181) | Voiself (9)
Using them when talking:
Void walked in and told me voids name was Chris. I said hi, and showed void the name tags. Void found voids and put it on voidself.
Nonstandard sets:
Voi walked in and told me voids name was Chris. I said hi, and showed void the name tags. Voi found voids and put it on voidself.
Voi walked in and told me void name was Chris. I said hi, and showed void the name tags. Voi found voids and put it on voidself.
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17. Ne/Nem Pronouns
(114 people)
Usual Set:
Ne / Nem / Nir / Nirs / Nemself (61 people) Pronunciation: niː / nɛm / nɚ / nɚz / nɛmsɛlf (nee / nem / ner / nerz / nemself) Based on: Singular They, with Feminine subject and possessive pronouns
Nonstandard Sets:
Ne / Nim / Nis / Nis / Nimself (19 people) Pronunciation: niː / nɪm / nɪz / nɪz / nɪmsɛlf (nee / nim / niz / niz / nimself) Based on: Masculine
Ne / Nem / Nir / Nirs / Nirself (8 people) Pronunciation: niː / nɛm / nɚ / nɚz / nɚsɛlf (nee / nem / ner / nerz / nerself) Based on: Nonstandard They, with Feminine subject and possessive pronouns
Ne / Nem / Nems / Nems / Nemself (7 people) Pronunciation: niː / nɛm / nɛmz / nɛmz / nɛmsɛlf (nee / nem / nemz / nemz / nemself) Based on: Nouns
Spelling:
Subject - Ne (98), Nie (4), Ni (3)
Object - Nem (65), Nym (25), Nim (16)
Dep. Possessive - Nir (48), Neir (11), Nyr (10), Ner (7) | Nis (13), Nys (6) | Nems (3), Nims (3)
Ind. Possessive - Nirs (45), Neirs (11), Nyrs (9), Ners (5) | Nis (15), Nys (5) | Nems (5), Nims (4)
Reflexive - Nemself (68), Nymself (22), Nimself (15) | Nirself (5), Neirself (3), Nyrself (3)
Using them when talking:
Ne walked in and told me nir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed nem the name tags. Ne found nirs and put it on nemself.
Nonstandard sets:
Ne walked in and told me nis name was Chris. I said hi, and showed nim the name tags. Ne found nis and put it on nimself.
Ne walked in and told me nir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed nem the name tags. Ne found nirs and put it on nirself.
Ne walked in and told me nems name was Chris. I said hi, and showed nem the name tags. Ne found nems and put it on nemself.
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18. Kit, Cat Pronouns
The first of the animal based pronouns! People using animal based pronouns frequently alternate between multiple sets - based off animals (kit, bug), their sounds (meow, caw), and their body parts (paw). (103 people)
Usual Set:
Kit / Kit / Kits / Kits / Kitself (60 people) Pronunciation: kɪt / kɪt / kɪts / kɪts / kɪtsɛlf (kit / kit / kits / kits / kitself) Based on: Nouns (Kit/Kitty)
Nonstandard Sets:
Cat / Cat / Cats / Cats / Catself (23 people) Pronunciation: kat / kat / kats / kats / katsɛlf (kat / kat / kats / kats / katself) Based on: Nouns (Cat)
Spelling:
Subject - Kit (69) | Kitty (6) | Cat (23)
Object - Kit (64) | Kits (3) | Kitty (8) | Cat (23)
Dep. Possessive - Kits (65), Kit's (3) | Kittys (4), Kitty's (3) | Cats (18), Cat's (4)
Ind. Possessive - Kits (62), Kit's (4) | Kitty's (4) | Kittens (3) | Cats (17), Cat's (6)
Reflexive - Kitself (67) | Kittyself (4) | Kittenself (4) | Catself (23)
Using them when talking:
Kit walked in and told me kits name was Chris. I said hi, and showed kit the name tags. Kit found kits and put it on kitself.
Nonstandard sets:
Cat walked in and told me cats name was Chris. I said hi, and showed cat the name tags. Cat found cats and put it on catself.
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19. Pup Pronouns
(102 people)
Usual Set: Pup / Pup / Pups / Pups / Pupself (75 people) Pronunciation: pʌp / pʌp / pʌps / pʌps / pʌpsɛlf (puhp / puhp / puhps / puhps / puhpself) Based on: Nouns (Pup/Puppy)
Spelling:
Subject - Pup (85) | Dog (6), The Dog (5) | Mutt (4)
Object - Pup (75) | Pups (6)| Dog (5), The Dog (4) | Mutt (4)
Dep. Possessive - Pups (69), Pup's (12) | Dogs (3), The Dog's (4) | Mutts (4)
Ind. Possessive - Pups (69), Pup's (13) | Dogs (5), The Dog's (4) | Mutts (4)
Reflexive - Pupself (82) | Dogself (6) | Itself (4) | Muttself (4)
Using them when talking:
Pup walked in and told me pups name was Chris. I said hi, and showed pup the name tags. Pup found pups and put it on pupself.
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20. Vae Pronouns
Ve pronouns have endless variations! These ones use a subject form based on They, rather than He/She, and seem to be influenced by Ae and Fae pronouns. (91 people)
Usual Set:
Vae / Vaem / Vaer / Vaers / Vaemself (42 people) Pronunciation: veɪ / vɛm / veɪɹ / veɪɹz / veɪmsɛlf (vay / vem / vayr / vayrz / vemself) Based on: Singular They
Nonstandard Sets:
Vae / Vaer / Vaer / Vaers / Vaerself (27 people) Pronunciation: veɪ / veɪɹ / veɪɹ / veɪɹz / veɪɹsɛlf (vay / vayr / vayr / vayrz / vayrself) Based on: Feminine
Vae / Vaem / Vaer / Vaers / Vaerself (11 people) Pronunciation: veɪ / vɛm / veɪɹ / veɪɹz / veɪɹsɛlf (vay / vem / vayr / vayrz / vayrself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Spelling:
Subject - Vae (63), Vey (24)
Object - Vem (26), Vaem (22) | Vaer (28) | Vae (3)
Dep. Possessive - Vaer (59), Veir (14), Ver (4)
Ind. Possessive - Vaers (58), Veirs (14), Vers (5)
Reflexive – Vaerself (37), Veirself (4) | Vymself (20), Vaemself (16) | Vaeself (4)
Using them when talking:
Vae walked in and told me vaer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed vaem the name tags. Vae found vaers and put it on vaemself.
Nonstandard sets:
Vae walked in and told me vaer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed vaer the name tags. Vae found vaers and put it on vaerself.
Vae walked in and told me vaer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed vaem the name tags. Vae found vaers and put it on vaerself.
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21. Xey Pronouns
Xe pronouns also have a version based on They in the subject form. (91 people)
Usual Set:
Xey / Xem / Xeir / Xeirs / Xemself (37 people) Pronunciation: zeɪ / zɛm / zeɪɹ / zeɪɹz / zeɪmsɛlf (zay / zem / zayr / zayrz / zemself) Based on: Singular They
Nonstandard Sets:
Xey / Xem / Xeir / Xeirs / Xeirself (37 people) Pronunciation: zeɪ / zɛm / zeɪɹ / zeɪɹz / zeɪɹsɛlf (zay / zem / zayr / zayrz / zayrself) Based on: Nonstandard They
Xae / Xaem / Xaer / Xaers / Xaerself (11 people) Pronunciation: zeɪ / zeɪɹ / zeɪɹ / zeɪɹz / zeɪɹsɛlf (zay / zayr / zayr / zayrz / zayrself) Based on: Feminine
Spelling:
Subject - Xey (71), Xae (10)
Object - Xem (70), Xaem (4) | Xaer (4)
Dep. Possessive - Xeir (49), Xyr (12), Xaer (8), Xer (7), Xeyr (3)
Ind. Possessive - Xeirs (46), Xyrs (12), Xaers (7), Xers (7), Xeyrs (3)
Reflexive - Xemself (61), Xaemself (3) | Xeirself (5), Xaerself (4)
Using them when talking:
Xey walked in and told me xeir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xem the name tags. Xey found xeirs and put it on xemself.
Nonstandard sets:
Xey walked in and told me xeir name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xem the name tags. Xey found xeirs and put it on xeirself.
Xae walked in and told me xaer name was Chris. I said hi, and showed xaer the name tags. Xae found xaers and put it on xaerself.
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22. Mew Pronouns
These pronouns often alternate with Kit/Cat pronouns, or other cat sounds like Nyan or Purr (89 people)
Usual Set:
Mew / Mew / Mews / Mews / Mewself (48 people) Pronunciation: mjuː / mjuː / mjuːz / mjuːz / mjusɛlf (myoo / myoo / myooz / myooz / myooself) Based on: Nouns (Mew)
Nonstandard Sets:
Meow / Meow / Meows / Meows / Meowself (27 people) Pronunciation: mjaʊ or mi‧aʊ / mjaʊ / mjaʊz / mjaʊz / mjaʊsɛlf (myow / myow / myowz / myowz / myowself) Based on: Nouns (Meow)
Spelling:
Subject - Mew (53) | Meow (29) | Mrr (3)
Object - Mew (49) | Meow (29) | Mrrp (4)
Dep. Possessive - Mews (47) | Meows (25), Meow's (4) | Mrrps (3)
Ind. Possessive - Mews (45) | Meows (27), Meow's (4) | Mrrps (3)
Reflexive - Mewself (50) | Meowself (31) | Mrrpself (3)
Using them when talking:
Mew walked in and told me mews name was Chris. I said hi, and showed mew the name tags. Mew found mews and put it on mewself.
Nonstandard sets:
Meow walked in and told me meows name was Chris. I said hi, and showed meow the name tags. Meow found meows and put it on meowself.
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23. Bun Pronouns
(71 people)
Usual Set:
Bun / Bun / Buns / Buns / Bunself (60 people) Pronunciation: bʌn / bʌn / bʌnz / bʌnz / bʌnsɛlf (buhn / buhn / buhnz / buhnz / buhnself) Based on: Nouns (Bunny)
Spelling:
Subject - Bun (69)
Object - Bun (69)
Dep. Possessive - Buns (59), Bun's (10)
Ind. Possessive - Buns (55), Bun's (10)
Reflexive - Bunself (68)
Using them when talking:
Bun walked in and told me buns name was Chris. I said hi, and showed bun the name tags. Bun found buns and put it on bunself.
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24. Indefinite Pronouns (One)
The 'formal' option - this is what grammarians used to suggest (64 people)
Usual Set:
One / One / One's / One's / Oneself  (51 people) Pronunciation: wʌn / wʌn / wʌnz / wʌnz / wʌnsɛlf (wuhn / wuhn / wuhnz / wuhnz / wuhnself) Based on: Indefinite Pronoun
Spelling:
Subject - One (53), That One (7), This One (4)
Object - One (50), That One (8), This One (3)
Dep. Possessive - One's (30), Ones (23), That One's (6), This One's (3)
Ind. Possessive - One's (31), Ones (22), That One's (6)
Reflexive - Oneself (53), That One's Self (4)
Using them when talking:
One walked in and told me one's name was Chris. I said hi, and showed one the name tags. One found one's and put it on oneself.
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25. Moon/Lun Pronouns
(57 people)
Usual Set:
Moon / Moon / Moons / Moons / Moonself (32 people) Pronunciation: muːn / muːn / muːnz / muːnz / muːnsɛlf (moon / moon / moonz / moonz / moonself) Based on: Nouns (Moon)
Nonstandard sets:
Lun / Lun / Luns / Luns / Lunself (9 people) Pronunciation: luːn / luːn / luːnz / luːnz / luːnsɛlf (loon / loon / loonz / loonz / loonself) Based on: Nouns (Lunar)
Spelling:
Subject - Moon (33) | Lun (9) | Lu (8)
Object - Moon (33) | Lun (10) | Luna (6) | Lunar (3)
Dep. Possessive - Moons (26), Moon's (8) | Luns (12)
Ind. Possessive - Moons (26), Moon's (7) | Luns (12)
Reflexive - Moonself (34) | Lunself (12) | Lunaself (4)
Using them when talking:
Moon walked in and told me moons name was Chris. I said hi, and showed moon the name tags. Moon found moons and put it on moonself.
Nonstandard sets:
Lun walked in and told me luns name was Chris. I said hi, and showed lun the name tags. Lun found luns and put it on lunself.
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A note on defining sets:
Deciding what to consider a variant, and what to consider a different set altogether, wasn't easy.
Elverson and Spivak pronouns are mostly separated because of their history, and how (relatively) well known they are. I then tried to stay consistent, and separated things like 'ze' and 'zey' sets.
Animal and sound based nounself pronouns are grouped based on how difficult it was to separate them. A relatively high percentage of people wrote 'kit' and 'cat' forms into the same entry. Less people grouped 'mew' and 'nya' forms. And, while 'mew' and 'nya' forms were FREQUENTLY grouped with 'kit' and 'cat' forms, I kept them separate for my own sanity.
I am also VERY glad that 'sie/sier' pronouns didn't make the top 25. 'Sie', 'se', 'sea', 'ce', and 'ke' are probably unsortable without talking to their users individually. (There's at least three pronunciations in there - 'zee', see' and 'kee'!) But I love the 4 people using 'sir' as a pronoun. That amuses me!
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January 2024 reading and Reviews by Maia Kobabe
I post my reviews throughout the month on Storygraph and Goodreads, and do roundups here and on patreon. Reviews below the cut.
Electric Bones volume 1 by Hazel and Bell 
Lucian is the son of a minor nobleman and the CEO of the galaxy's biggest AI company, but he's not so rich that he can't get in trouble. After being fired as a programmer from Echo Station he joined a startup with a couple friends and is now fishing for funding at an elite tech expo on board an expensive and exclusive space vessel. There he sees someone he thinks he recognizes- Ezra, a grey robot, an fully sentient AI who worked on Echo Station as a researcher and partially cost Lucian his job. So why is Ezra now working on the space vessel as an escort? Unless it's not Ezra, but just a look-alike robot model? These questions drag Lucian into the beginnings of tangled web of intrigue which include kidnapping, AI-hacking, and murder. I've been reading this story online as a webcomic for years; you can still read all of volume one here: https://electricbonescomic.com/index.... But last year I also backed the kickstarter, and just sat down to re-read the whole story in print form, including a sexy little bonus comic. I love these characters, I love the rich colors, the lovely sense of flow and design of the pages. I can't wait for volume two!
The Fox Maidens by Robin Ha
Action packed and exciting, this family drama is full of unexpected twists and turns. I loved the focus on female characters: passionate Kai, whose love of martial arts and sense of justice cannot be contained by the normal rules of Joseon society; her mother, Meorhu, a fragile woman with a surprising past; Sura, a thief turned mercenary; and the Gumiho herself, the deadly but alluring fox spirit who impacts the lives of all the others with her magic and charisma. The art is rich with historical details, beautiful nature scenes, and fast paced fight scenes. Lovers of ghost stories, kdramas, and queer re-tellings of fairy tales will find much to enjoy here. I was lucky enough to read an advanced copy of this book! Pre-order it now, or look for it in bookstores in mid-February 2024.
A Nobleman’s Guide to Seducing a Scoundrel by KJ Charles read by Martyn Swain
What a delightful return to Romney marsh! This book picks up 13 years after the dramatic conclusion of the previous installment. Luke Doomsday is now a secretary, looking for a new position in a large house were he can keep books and solve his master's problems. Rufus, the recently minted Earl of Oxney, formerly a major in the army and son of a draper, has problems. For one, he never expected to inherit and his uncle is doing everything he can to prove Rufus illegitimate in court. For another, the previous Earl of Oxney was a selfish old bastard who let the estates fall into terrible disrepair, while Rufus' timid cousin kept poor account of the estate's money in a chicken scratch handwriting. Rufus struggles to read at the best of times, and he can barely make sense of his newly inherited account books. When Luke shows up on his door, it feels like a godsend. The men are immediately attracted to each other, though both have reason to be wary. And Luke, in seems, may have come to Stone Manor looking for more than a job. This series is such a fun mix of spicy romance, action, mystery, and danger. I'm really enjoying the setting and time period, which is just after the end of the Napoleonic wars. I really hope there will be more books to come!
Translation State by Ann Leckie
No one is doing it like Ann Leckie! This sci-fi novel uses six different pronoun sets (actually kind of seven, except one is the same set just used culturally very differently by different groups of people). It’s fantastic. We’ve got they/them, e/em/eir, sie/hir, it/its, he/him, she/her, and she/her again except used as a universal pronoun regardless of gender (which works great inside the Radch Empire and badly outside of it). I'm on the fence about whether this book can be read as a stand alone, or if it would only really make sense after having read at the Imperial Radch trilogy and Providence. I suppose it depends on what level of baffling alien customs and politics you are willing to tolerate. This book opens with Enae attending hir grandmaman's funeral, only to learn that the seemingly wealthy old woman had sold her entire estate to a stranger before her death. For the first time in her life, Enae leaves home with a Foreign Affairs job: to see out a fugitive who left Presger space some 200 years prior. Enae isn't expecting to succeed, but sie gives it hir best shot- and in doing so completely upends the lives of a widening circle of bystanders including Reet, a man of unknown parentage, and Qven, a juvenile Presger. This book finally begins to explain this inhuman and terrifying species, and the reason why the Presger-Radachii Treaty defines the rules of so much of this universe. I deeply enjoyed this installment; it makes me want to go back and re-read the original trilogy.
Brooms by Jasmine Walls and Teo Duvall 
Set in an alternate 1930s, Mississippi, this story follows a group of friends and found family who have to hide their magic from the restrictive and racist government. They survive at the margins, but they don't let the fear of prosecution stop them from doing what they love: racing together as a team. Deep in the woods seers and witches host carnival like events where racers on brooms compete for prize money and glory. Each of them has reasons why they need to win; lives and futures depend on it. This book is deeply queer with a diverse and magical cast. If you're looking for historical fiction where the trans and lesbian brown witches win, this one's for you.
Boys Weekend by Mattie Lubchansky
Sammie is a recently out nonbinary transfemm but their college friend group has not picked up on that fact yet. When Sammie is invited to be the "best man" at their friend Adam's wedding and attend a bachelor weekend at a high-tech, no-laws resort built on top of the Pacific Garbage Patch they decide to go in stealth mode. The resort is a pyramid scheme mutated with a strip club, business conference, all you can drink brunch bar, pro-gamer, most-dangerous-game corporate nightmare. Also, the waters around it are infested with terrifying flesh-eating monsters and someone is trying to raise an eldritch god. It takes every bit of queer resistance Sammie possesses to survive this bleak, hilarious, and surprisingly moving tale. In both their fiction and nonfiction comics, Lubchansky continues to hold up the black mirror to our own dystopian times.
Belle of the Ball by Mari Costa 
A very queer high school rom-com comic with a satisfying message about growing into yourself and seeing others truly for who they are. It opens with a love triangle, but subverts that form into a more complicated shape by the end of the tale. Strong character designs and very effective limited color palette.
The Moth Keeper by K. O’Neill 
In a desert village, a group of folks choose to live a nocturnal life to keep the moon company, and to care for a small group of magical moths, the only creatures who can pollinate a magical tree which helps sustain the whole ecosystem. One youngster, Anya, volunteers for the important but lonely job of Moth Keeper. She yearns to be of service to others, and feels she must earn her place in the village. In reality, help and friendship are only an ask away, and in this space everyone is cared for. This is a very beautifully illustrated and brief tale of responsibility, community, and resilience.
Feeding Ghosts by Tessa Hulls
What an accomplishment! I savored every page of Feeding Ghosts, absolutely floored by the labor and courage that went into the writing of this book. The inking is gorgeous, the history is clear, digestible, and devastating. This book threads the line between honesty and compassion in a way that I appreciate so much in any memoir, but especially one dealing with family. Hulls lays out the story of three generations of women starting with her grandmother, Sun Yi, a Shanghai journalist who faced intense persecution during the rise of Communism in China, who penned a popular and scandalous memoir and then suffered a mental breakdown. This left her only daughter, Rose, a student at an elite boarding school with no parental figures and no other family to lean on. Eventually Rose earned a scholarship to an American university and in the end moved her mother into her California home. Sun Yi haunted that home during the author's own childhood. The unexamined trauma and codependency of Sun Yi and Rose drove the author to the extreme edges of the Earth, seeking freedom from their ghosts. But in the end, she stopped running from her family history and turned, instead, to face it. Shelve this book with Maus, Fun Home, Persepolis and The Best We Could Do.
I Keep My Exoskeletons To Myself by Marisa Crane read by Bailey Carr 
I really struggled with this book. I almost DNFed at 25%. Ultimately, I did finish it, and I am glad I did because I think the final act was my favorite part of the story. However, I think the title and cover set me up with expectations of what this book would be which were very different than what the book actually delivered. This is not science fiction- despite the fact it was nominated in the science fiction category in the Goodreads Choice Awards. It is only barely speculative. This is a book about grief, depression, and parenting a baby and then a young child as a single mom struggling with loss and borderline alcoholism. There were passages of the book which struck hard, individual observations and lines which rang like bells. There is also nearly no plot and I was frustrated by the lack of world building. I wanted to know more about the laws governing extra shadows- were Shadesters allowed to vote, hold passports, travel across state lines? Had anyone experimented with the removal of Shadows? When and how did cameras get installed in apparently every home in American, and how did the government hire and pay for a workforce of seemingly 1:1 surveillance agents to citizens? Also, how on earth did Kris manage to pay for a whole apartment on a single salary working a call center job, especially when as a Shadester she had to pay extra taxes? I understand that this is literary fiction, and these questions are obviously not the ones the book was interested in answering. But it felt strange to me that a book so focused on parenting would not include a single passage about struggling to pay for or arrange childcare. The "pop quizzes" that break up the text did not work well in audio, and did not add anything to my experience of this book. Ultimately, I would only recommend this novel to a vary narrow audience of readers who enjoy lit fic, and are willing to spend a lot of time in the POV of a character teetering on the edge of a mental breakdown through much of the story.
Atana and The Firebird by Vivian Zhou
Atana is a mermaid, but she was banished from her home to live alone on island for a reason she doesn't understand. One night a curious young firebird leaves her flock in space to come down and visit Earth, and she convinces Atana to go an adventure. They are soon pursed by magic hunters, but they also make friends, and end up as invited guests in the Witch Queen's palace. She makes them welcome in her massive library and gardens, but she also has ulterior motives. This is a fast paced story of magic, friendship, and young people slowly learning about the forces larger than themselves that shape their world and their lives. I really enjoyed the art, it has a very active, energetic line which serves the action scenes particularly well. I can tell the author came from an animation background! I am glad that the ending set up potential future installments in this world.
Portrait of a Body by Julie Delporte  
I really loved the colored pencil illustrations of this book, especially the botanical drawings, and the kind of abstract relation of the text and images. I thought the drawings paired extremely well with the hand lettering even if at times I struggled with some of the cursive capitals. This is a candid memoir of recovering from sexual assault and a dysfunctional relationship to ones body and sexuality, of stepping into queerness and self-acceptance. I couldn't really relate to the author's journey, but I appreciated the honestly and thoughtfulness with which the more challenging themes were handled.
Fool’s Fate by Robin Hobb read by Nick Taylor 
This book, and this series, has earned Robin Hobb a permanent place in my list of favorite authors. This story goes so hard, weaving together threads that are 9 volumes and 30 plus years of in-story history in the making. The final confrontations, reunions, and farewells at the end of this story were hard earned and so well written. This very much felt like it could have been a final volume of the Realm of Elderlings series, but I know that there are 7 more books to come and I can't wait to see what else this series has in store for me!
System Collapse by Martha Wells read by Kevin R Free 
This book picks up right after the end of the previous volume and I had, unfortunately, completely forgotten most of the previous plot. Once I got myself oriented I still had a great time with it. Wow, I just love watching Murderbot learn and grow and solve problems in unique and interesting ways! I kind of want to go back and re-listen to the whole series.
The Chromatic Fantasy by H.A. 
This comic blew me away. One of the most beautiful, strange, artistically ambitious and deeply trans books I've read in a while. Aesthetically, its as rich as a stained glass window or illuminated manuscript. Its narrative is psychedelic but emotionally it rings so tender and true. The story opens with Jules, a transman trapped in a nunnery who accepts a deal with a devil who promises to help him live as a man. Possessed and impervious to physical harm, Jules turns to a life of debauchery and crime. Then he meets another trans criminal, the poetic thief and thespian Casper, and they begin to fall for each other. They see each other as no one else ever has, they validate and treasure one another, but Jules' devil is a jealous master. The devil would rather see Jules burn than thrive. This is one of those books that made me want to draw, made me want to write, made me want to be bolder, weirder, freer, wilder in my story telling. An instant favorite, I expect I'll return to this over and over.
Mall Goth by Kate Leth
Liv's parents are on the verge of divorce; they've just moved to a new town and Liv will be starting at a new high school. At her last school, Liv was bullied for being openly queer and an unapologetic mall goth, and she is understandably hesitant to accept friendship overtures at the new school. However, a supportive male English teacher and a fellow goth gamer boy start to make Liv feel welcome. The goth introduces her to an MMORPG and the English teacher praises her essays and gives her Lolita. Both of them start regularly DMing Liv late into the night, more than is appropriate for the relationships they have. This book is in large part about a teen navigating confusing advances and how and when to disclose things that make her uncomfortable but feel hard to speak about or define. I thought that aspect of the story was handled very well. Some of the pacing in the friendship plot lines surrounding it felt a bit rushed, a few sections underdeveloped, but ultimately I think this book tackled an important issue not often seen in YA comics. It is also steeped in early 2000s Hot Topic/emo music/pop culture references- if you were there, you'll know.
What’s Wrong? Personal Histories of Chronic Pain and Bad Medicine by Erin Williams 
Williams illuminates, through memoir, interviews, and mixed media illustrations the extreme failures of the US healthcare system to address chronic pain. These failures are especially common for patients of color, patients who struggle with addictions, patients who are queer or survivors of assault and trauma. If you had any illusions that the systems of medical care are working in this country, shed them now. This book is half cathartic, half infuriating to read. I really appreciated the honesty and vulnerability of the interviewees and the trans and nonbinary inclusiveness of the language surrounding pain tied to the reproductive system.
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QUESTIONSSSS (you can pick and choose I intentionally put a lot of them)
1 and 41 for Olja 2 for all of Cassiopea, Dalisay and Beatrix 6 for Freya, Somsak and Marjolaine 7 THE GHOSTS 👍 13 Isel and Valerie 37 Peixin
DOING ALL OF THESE. HEH
1. What’s the maximum amount of time your character can sit still with nothing to do? (olzhas)
god probably like 5 minutes. e's usually extremely organised about eir day (to the point where like first thing e does in the morning is arrange a schedule/checklist of things to do) and in like the little moments where e's got nothing to do e will just run through things e's been working on and just like. progress from where e last left off even if it wasn't in the day's plan. conversely when e's like in a situation where e just Has to sit still and do nothing e'll get extremely antsy and stressed. like e hates waiting in line for things and will just like. complain to emself in eir mind about it. just gets soo annoyed
41. How do they feel about children? (olzhas)
oughh e's got the thing where e like. believes e's a bad influence and is just irrationally scared of coming into contact with them but e's like quite literally one of the most responsible people out of the entire cast and could like. decently look after a child. e's not fond of very young kids but like. e's got that 'really good grade school teacher' type temperament and is consciously way less abrasive around younger people than e is with anyone else just because e's like. very aware of eir position as an older guy who has the ability to maintain maturity even if the younger person e's talking to can't. and e's not like mean about it. thinking about it textually e is very attentive to like. somsak and dalisay in that precise way. though theyre older teens so it is just like. general respect for young people i think. i do think the entire teacher comparison is apt like e could not stand to be a primary caretaker but would both like. be good at and enjoy just supporting children in a more auxiliary manner
2. How easy is it for your character to laugh? (freya, olzhas, isel, dalisay, beatrix)
OUGHH okay so. freya and isel both have the thing of just like. being overly jolly and whimsical all the time. will literally just laugh in the middle of a conversation, whether because they just like randomly remember something funny or quite literally just to fill empty air. and theyre just kind of like that naturally but its like even worse when theyre together because theyre trying to make each other laugh and theyve got like. very good sense about it. they'll just drop in an inside joke and the other will howl with laughter soooo fucking easily and they will make each other laugh by laughing. so its just the worst ouroboros ever.
olzhas is kind of an outlier in cassiopeia in that regard because e likes to be all serious and most of like. the 'laughing' e does casually is sarcastic or dismissive. just like a heh when someone says something stupid to em. BUT when e's with isel and freya e's just completely touched by their senses of humor. so much so e's just regularly brought to tears or lightheadedness over stupid bits. niceys to me....
dalisay is the type of person to like. rarely laugh out loud but sie actually is humored really easily by completely innocuous things. often just hir own thoughts are enough to get hir to smile but like. it takes a lot to even get hir to giggle. stupid programming jokes are often what works
beatrix laughs super easily but its often like. ingenuine or just an absentminded thing he does without much thought. will laugh very easily at very stupid jokes told by anyone though and hes a bit embarrassed about it
6. Do they consider laws flexible, or immovable? (freya, somsak, marjolaine)
WELL considering somsak broke multiple to get onto the train i think none of them mean anything to him. freya's also generally just like. 'follows the rules so long as they benefit her' type person, but once one gets in the way she will like. find a way to tiptoe around it. she kind of just finds the overall idea of like 'oh yeah heres immutable things you MUST follow because some greater authority said so' kind of stupid so. again doesnt have much respect for rules in general if they dont make sense to her.
marjolaine though.... kind of touchy for him lol. has the thing of being just like. compete coward pacifist type guy and will just hide between frameworks. would probably bring them up if someone goes against them but will also like. disobey the same one and expect nobody to comment on it. just weird contradictions...
7. What triggers nostalgia for them, most often? Do they enjoy that feeling? (fornax ghosts)
HEY. answering this one some other time because ill have to think about it and get sad but as a general blanket answer just like. stuff that reminds them of where they used to live. like cas will always just adore crowded cities thuyết will always be deeply fond of seaside views.... everyone has probably spent some time just like visiting their hometowns and stuff through fornax and its very bittersweet.
13. What color do they think they look best in? Do they actually look best in that color? (isel, valerie)
GOD isel has a stupid thing where he probably thinks he looks great in like. green or something. but he's like "oh its such a good color on me i have to save it for special occasions. i can wear a green dress once a year to dazzle everyone" whatever the fuck and its just like. completely mid in the end. people are way too used to him wearing warm colors. so am i
valerie is a bit more sensible about it and indeed thinks like. pinks and purples are good on them. is probably very particular about shades like theyre picky about their purples being blue-ish and the pinks leaning on magenta, usually doesnt like very faint pastel tones... shit like that. but they can balance practically anything and make it look nice haha
37. Do they have a system for remembering names, long lists of numbers, things that need to go in a certain order (like anagrams, putting things to melodies, etc)? (peixin)
hmm i think its a bit less straightforward and its like. they will remember things IF they apply a weird rhythm to the way they list things. weird thing to explain so i will be blunt about it its based on a thing i have where i can just instinctually tell if i have listed 8 of something because my inflection changes due to like. compulsions of having to count to 8 and i just slip into it when listing stuff mentally. so probably has something like that LOL doesnt really have any tricks for remembering specifics but is good with amounts
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humandiversity4 · 2 years
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PRONOUNS
A pronoun is a phrase that is used to refer to someone or something for example he/ him, she/ her or they/ them. However some people don't feel comfortable being assigned those type of pronouns and instead use gender neutral pronouns. Gender-neutral pronouns are words that don't specify whether the subject of the sentence is female or male. 'They', for instance, is a third-person pronoun that is gender neutral. Other gender-neutral pronouns include 'them', 'this person', 'everyone', 'Ze', or 'Hir'. If you're not sure which pronoun to use, you can also use that person's name.
There are a few benefits to using gender-neutral pronouns. First, in the English language, "He" has often been used as an automatic fill-in for generic individuals. By using gender-neutral language, you're ensuring your sentences are inclusive for everyone. Second, "he and she" are two extreme binaries that don't leave room for other gender identities. This can be hurtful for individuals, such as transgender or gender queer communities, who don't identify with "he" or "she".
Ultimately, you don't want to make incorrect or hurtful assumptions about someone's gender. Just because someone appears feminine or masculine doesn't mean they are a man or woman -- they could be agender, nonbinary, or uncomfortable identifying with "he" or "she".
Here is a list of gender neutral pronouns 
He/She -- Zie, Sie, Ey, Ve, Tey, E
Him/Her -- Zim, Sie, Em, Ver, Ter, Em
His/Her -- Zir, Hir, Eir, Vis, Tem, Eir
His/Hers -- Zis, Hirs, Eirs, Vers, Ters, Eirs
Himself/Herself -- Zieself, Hirself, Eirself, Verself, Terself, Emself
If you aren't sure what pronouns to use the best choice is to use their name rather than assign them an incorrect pronoun as this can make them feel uncomfortable and it will help you create a. inclusive environment. 
I personally found that this website was helpful and educational as it explains what the different pronouns are and it also has a guide on how to ask what someones pronouns are if it makes you feel uncomfortable or nervous. using gender neutral pronouns doesn't take much effort and the difference it can make in society is huge. 
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intersexfairy · 3 years
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thinking of making a massive pride picrew (probs pronoun pin, but I might get creative). not sure how many pronouns i’ll be able to do, but i’ll put the list so far below the cut and if yours aren’t there, put them in the notes (emojiself ones especially, since i don’t have those yet) ! u can also look for new snazzy pronouns. also, for those that use nounself pronouns, take this strawpoll ^_^
GROUP 1
He/him, She/her, They/them, It/its, We/us, That/that, One/one, No pronouns, No Pronouns (Just My Name)
GROUP 2 
AE - Ae/aem, Ae/aer, Ae/em
C - Ce/cir, Co/co
FAE - Fae/faem, Fae/faer, Fae/fem
H - Hy/hym
SH - Shi/hir | SI - Sie/hir
NE - Ne/nem, Ne/nim, Ne/nym
P - Per/per | T - Thon/thons
VAE - Vae/vaem, Vae/vaer, Vae/vem
VE - Ve/vem, Ve/ver, Ve/vim, Ve/vir, Ve/vis
XE - Xe/xem, Xe/xer, Xe/xim, Xe/xir
XIE - Xie/xem, Xie/xer, Xie/xim, Xie/xir
ZE - Ze/hir, Ze/zem, Ze/zim, Ze/zir
ZIE - Zie/hir, Zie/zem, Zie/zim, Zie/zir
-EY/-EM - E/em, Ey/em, Dey/dem, Fey/fem, Hey/hem, Shey/shem, Tey/tem, Vey/vem, Xey/xem, Zey/zem, Zhe/Zhem, Zhey/Zhem
GROUP 3 
B - Bat/batself, Bee/beeself, Bot/botself, Bug/bugself, Bun/bunself
C - Cat/catself
D - Doll/dollself
E - End/ender/enderself
F - Faun/faunself, Fern/fernself, Fog/fogself, Frog/frogself
G - Ghost/ghostself, Glitch/glitchself, Gore/goreself
H - Hon/honeyself, Honey/honeyself
K - Kit/kitself, Kit/kittyself
M - Meow/meowself, Mew/mewself, Moon/moonself, Moth/mothself
N - Nya/nyanself, Nyan/nyanself
P - Pri/prin/prinself, Pri/prin/princeself, Pri/prin/princesself, Punk/punkself, Pup/pupself, Pup/puppyself, Purr/purrself
R - Rot/rotself
S - Skull/skullself, Star/starself, Sun/sunself
V - Vamp/vampself, Voi/voidself, Void/voidself
W - Wolf/wolfself, Woof/woofself
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Hey, so I'm really really confused, I just recently discovered neopronouns and I'm thinking of using them but the thing is, everywhere online says that they're invalid and that only non dysphoric people can use them and I don't understand, and I don't know if you are able to help me?
hey!! with the current state of tumblr discourse, there’s a lot of hatred of neopronouns, and with that comes a lot of misinformation. i’ll try to explain some misconceptions about them and give a little history!! (apologies, neopronouns are a big special interest of mine, so i tend to ramble fjkdgs)
- first of all, neopronouns are not just used by nondysphoric folks! i’m dysphoric and i tend to prefer neopronouns over he/him most of the time, and i know plenty of other dysphoric folks who use them.
- they can be used by binary folks - both cis and trans - and nonbinary folks. if a person feels comfortable or happy using a set of neopronouns, they can use them!
- they’re not just used by teenagers and are not just used online/on tumblr! a great example of an older/irl neopronoun user is butch transgender lesbian leslie feinberg, author of stone butch blues. ze used different pronouns - ze/hir, she/her, or he/him - based on setting and context, stating ze preferred she/her to be used in non-trans settings and he/him in all-trans settings and that ze enjoyed the ambiguity of ze/hir.
- yes, they/them can be used as a singular gender-neutral pronoun. however, this does not mean that the english language has no need for another gender-neutral pronoun, nor does it suit every person who wants to use gender-neutral pronouns.
- neopronoun users are not inherently ableist (i see this argument a lot). if someone has a reason for having difficulty learning/using neopronouns, such as being neurodivergent or a non-native english speaker, most neopronoun users are happy to provide an alternative pronoun set (he, she, or they)!
- though they’re referred to as ‘neopronouns’, plenty of gender neutral non-they pronouns date back to decades or even centuries ago! here’s a (incomplete) timeline of older pronouns:
- 1789: william marshal wrote about the dialectical pronoun ‘ou’, which he traced back to middle english (~14th century) ‘(h)a’.
- 1884: charles crozat converse coined ‘thon’, a contraction of ‘that one’. this one actually was in an edition of webster’s dictionary!
- 1890: james rogers proposed the ‘e/em/es’ set, derived from ‘he’ and ‘them’, in response to the ‘thon’ set. this is the first form of what we now call the spivak set!
- 1920: in his novel a voyage to arcturus, david lindsay used the pronouns ‘ae’ and ‘aer’ for his alien race, which were born from air and of a third sex.
- 1970: mary orovan coined ‘co’, which some fec groups now use as gender-blind pronouns in their bylaws rather than ‘they’.
- 1973: don rickter coined the ‘xe/xem’ set. though others coined versions of this set at around the same time, rickter is typically cited as the creator. it has a lot of variations!
- 1975: christine elverson coined the set ‘ey/em/eir’ for a contest to find an alternative to he/she. these were formed by dropping the first two letters from 'they/them/their’, and are now known as the elverson set, the second version of spivak pronouns.
- 1980: new zealand writer keri hulme proposes the ‘ve/ver’ set. these are also used by greg egan for non-gendered ais in his 1998 novel diaspora.
- 1982: editor sasha newborn first uses the ‘hu/hum’, or ‘humanist’, set in a college humanities text.
- 1983: michael spivak, a mathematician, wrote an educational book in which he used the set ‘E/Em/Eir', capitalizing the ‘e’ each time. this is the spivak set! though it was coined after the other two related sets, they are all typically lumped together under the label ‘spivak’ because of roger crew’s addition of the gender ‘spivak’ on the site lambdamoo. choosing this gender option would cause the game to use ‘e/em/eir’ for the player, and though it was originally only put there to test the software, it was left in due to the amount of players who enjoyed the setting.
- 1997, 1998: the first two versions of ‘ze’/’zie’/’sie’ pronouns are recorded. ‘ze/mer’ by richard creel of the apa in 1997 and ‘ze (zie, sie)/hir’ in kate bornstein’s 1998 book my gender workbook. perhaps the most widely used/well-known variation of this set is ‘ze (zie, sie)/zir’, which was coined in 2013.
i am one of many who thinks that pronoun usage is up to the individual. explore your pronouns, find those that make you feel happy and that honor your gender/expression/etc, and use them!
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mxadrian779 · 5 years
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40+ Pronouns and How to Use Them:
Included pronouns:
She; he; they; ae; ce; co; e; ey; hir; hu; jee; kye; lee; ne; per; sier; tey; thon; ve; xe; xie; zay; ze; zed; zhe; zie; plus my neopronoun creations shey, se, and zey.
 This post does not include all possible pronouns, just some culled from the following sources:
pronouns.failedslacker.com
faerieli.tumblr (reblogged by askanonbinary.tumblr)
pronoun.is
nonbinary/wiki/wiki/pronouns
I also got a little help from the book, A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns by Archie Bongiovanni and Tristan Jimerson.
If you need anything here, validated, my ask box is open~ 
Pronouns under the cut!!
Traditional English Pronouns:
 [She/her/her/hers/herself]
           Subject: She            Object: Her            Possessive determiner: Her            Possessive pronoun: Hers            Reflexive: Herself
Jordan needed some groceries, so she and her friend went to the store. Her friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it herself and joked that the soda was now hers. Jordan's friend repaid her the next day.
 [He/him/his/his/himself]
           Subject: He            Object: Him            Possessive determiner: His            Possessive pronoun: His            Reflexive: Himself
Jordan needed some groceries, so he and his friend went to the store. His friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it himself and joked that the soda was now his. Jordan's friend repaid him the next day.
 [They/them/their/theirs/themself]
           Subject: They
           Object: Them
           Possessive determiner: Their
           Possessive pronoun: Theirs
           Reflexive: Themself
Jordan needed some groceries, so they and their friend went to the store. Their friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it themself and joked that the soda was now theirs. Jordan's friend repaid them the next day.
 ==
 Neopronouns:
 [Ae/aer/aer/aers/aerself]
           Subject: Ae
           Object: Aer
           Possessive determiner: Aer
           Possessive pronoun: Aers
           Reflexive: Aerself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ae and aer friend went to the store. Aer friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it aerself and joked that the soda was now aers. Jordan's friend repaid aer the next day.
 [Ce/cir/cir/cirs/cirself]
           Subject: Ce
           Object: Cir
           Possessive determiner: Cir
           Possessive pronoun: Cirs
           Reflexive: Cirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ce and cir friend went to the store. Cir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it cirself and joked that the soda was now cirs. Jordan's friend repaid cir the next day.
 [Co/cos/cos/cos/coself]
           Subject: Co
           Object: Cos
           Possessive determiner: Cos
           Possessive pronoun: Cos
           Reflexive: Coself
Jordan needed some groceries, so co and cos friend went to the store. Cos friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it corself and joked that the soda was now aers. Jordan's friend repaid aer the next day.
 [E/em/eir/eirs/eirself]
           Subject: E
           Object: Em
           Possessive determiner: Eir
           Possessive pronoun: Eirs
           Reflexive: Eirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so e and eir friend went to the store. Eir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it eirself and joked that the soda was now eirs. Jordan's friend repaid em the next day.
 [Ey/em/eir/eirs/emself]
           Subject: Ey
           Object: Em
           Possessive determiner: Eir
           Possessive pronoun: Eirs
           Reflexive: Emself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ey and eir friend went to the store. Eir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it emself and joked that the soda was now eirs. Jordan's friend repaid em the next day.
 [Ey/em/eir/eirs/eirself]
           Subject: Ey
           Object: Em
           Possessive determiner: Eir
           Possessive pronoun: Eirs
           Reflexive: Eirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ey and eir friend went to the store. Eir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it eirself and joked that the soda was now eirs. Jordan's friend repaid em the next day.
 [Hir/hir/hir/hirs/hirself]
           Subject: Hir
           Object: Hir
           Possessive determiner: Hir
           Possessive pronoun: Hirs
           Reflexive: Hirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so hir and hir friend went to the store. Hir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it hirself and joked that the soda was now hirs. Jordan's friend repaid hir the next day.
 [Hu/hu/hume/humes/humeself]
           Subject: Hu
           Object: Hu
           Possessive determiner: Hume
           Possessive pronoun: Humes
           Reflexive: Humeself
Jordan needed some groceries, so hu and hume friend went to the store. Hume friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it humeself and joked that the soda was now humes. Jordan's friend repaid hume the next day.
 [Jee/jem/jeir/jeirs/jemself]
           Subject: Jee
           Object: Jem
           Possessive determiner: Jeir
           Possessive pronoun: Jeirs
           Reflexive: Jemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so jee and jeir friend went to the store. Jeir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it jemself and joked that the soda was now jeirs. Jordan's friend repaid jem the next day.
 [Kye/kyr/kyne/kynes/kyrself]
           Subject: Kye
           Object: Kyr
           Possessive determiner: Kyne
           Possessive pronoun: Kynes
           Reflexive: Kyrself
Jordan needed some groceries, so kye and kyne friend went to the store. Kyr friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it kyrself and joked that the soda was now kynes. Jordan's friend repaid kyr the next day.
 [Lee/lim/lis/lis/limself]
           Subject: Lee
           Object: Lim
           Possessive determiner: Lis
           Possessive pronoun: Lis
           Reflexive: Limself
Jordan needed some groceries, so lee and lis friend went to the store. Lis friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it limself and joked that the soda was now lis. Jordan's friend repaid lim the next day.
 [Ne/nem/neir/neirs/neirself]
           Subject: Ne
           Object: Nem
           Possessive determiner: Neir
           Possessive pronoun: Neirs
           Reflexive: Neirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ne and neir friend went to the store. Neir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it neirself and joked that the soda was now neirs. Jordan's friend repaid nem the next day.
 [Ne/nem/nir/nirs/nemself]
           Subject: Ne
           Object: Nem
           Possessive determiner: Nir
           Possessive pronoun: Nirs
           Reflexive: Nemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ne and nir friend went to the store. Nir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it nemself and joked that the soda was now nirs. Jordan's friend repaid nem the next day.
 [Ne/nir/nir/nirs/nemself]
           Subject: Ne
           Object: Nir
           Possessive determiner: Nir
           Possessive pronoun: Nirs
           Reflexive: Nemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ne and nir friend went to the store. Nir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it nemself and joked that the soda was now nirs. Jordan's friend repaid nir the next day.
 [Ne/nym/nis/nis/nymself]
           Subject: Ne
           Object: Nym
           Possessive determiner: Nis
           Possessive pronoun: Nis
           Reflexive: Nymself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ne and nis friend went to the store. Nis friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it nymself and joked that the soda was now nis. Jordan's friend repaid nym the next day.
 [Per/per/pers/pers/perself]
           Subject: Per
           Object: Per
           Possessive determiner: Pers
           Possessive pronoun: Pers
           Reflexive: Perself
Jordan needed some groceries, so per and per friend went to the store. Per friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it perself and joked that the soda was now pers. Jordan's friend repaid per the next day.
 [Sie/sier/sier/siers/sierself]
           Subject: Sie
           Object: Sier
           Possessive determiner: Sier
           Possessive pronoun: Siers
           Reflexive: Sierself
Jordan needed some groceries, so sie and sier friend went to the store. Sier friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it sierself and joked that the soda was now siers. Jordan's friend repaid sier the next day.
 [Tey/tem/ter/ters/temself]
           Subject: Tey
           Object: Tem
           Possessive determiner: Ter
           Possessive pronoun: Ters
           Reflexive: Temself
Jordan needed some groceries, so tey and ter friend went to the store. Ter friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it temself and joked that the soda was now ters. Jordan's friend repaid tem the next day.
 [Thon/thon/thons/thons/thonself]
           Subject: Thon
           Object: Thon
           Possessive determiner: Thons
           Possessive pronoun: Thons
           Reflexive: Thonself
Jordan needed some groceries, so thon and thons friend went to the store. Thons friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it thonself and joked that the soda was now thons. Jordan's friend repaid thon the next day.
 [Ve/vir/vir/virs/virself]
           Subject: Ve
           Object: Vir
           Possessive determiner: Vir
           Possessive pronoun: Virs
           Reflexive: Virself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ve and vir friend went to the store. Vir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it virself and joked that the soda was now virs. Jordan's friend repaid vir the next day.
 [Ve/vis/vir/virs/verself]
           Subject: Ve
           Object: Vis
           Possessive determiner: Vir
           Possessive pronoun: Virs
           Reflexive: Verself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ve and vis friend went to the store. Vis friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it verself and joked that the soda was now virs. Jordan's friend repaid vis the next day.
 [Xe/hir/hir/hir/hirs/hirself]
           Subject: Xe
           Object: Hir
           Possessive determiner: Hir
           Possessive pronoun: Hirs
           Reflexive: Hirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so xe and hir friend went to the store. Hir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it hirself and joked that the soda was now hirs. Jordan's friend repaid hir the next day.
 [Xe/xem/xyr/xyrs/xemself]
           Subject: Xe
           Object: Xem
           Possessive determiner: Xyr
           Possessive pronoun: Xyrs
           Reflexive: Xemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so xe and xyr friend went to the store. Xyr friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it xemself and joked that the soda was now xyrs. Jordan's friend repaid xem the next day.
 [Xe/xim/xis/xis/xirmself]
           Subject: Xe
           Object: Xim
           Possessive determiner: Xis
           Possessive pronoun: Xis
           Reflexive: Xirmself
Jordan needed some groceries, so xe and xis friend went to the store. Xis friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it xirmself and joked that the soda was now xis. Jordan's friend repaid xim the next day.
 [Xe/xir/xir/xirs/ximself]
           Subject: Xe
           Object: Xir
           Possessive determiner: Xir
           Possessive pronoun: Xirs
           Reflexive: Ximself
Jordan needed some groceries, so xe and xir friend went to the store. Xir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it ximself and joked that the soda was now xirs. Jordan's friend repaid xir the next day.
 [Xie/xem/xyr/xyrs/xemself]
           Subject: Xie
           Object: Xem
           Possessive determiner: Xyr
           Possessive pronoun: Xyrs
           Reflexive: Xemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so xie and xyr friend went to the store. Xyr friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it xemself and joked that the soda was now xyrs. Jordan's friend repaid xem the next day.
 [Zay/zir/zir/zirs/zirself]
           Subject: Zay
           Object: Zir
           Possessive determiner: Zir
           Possessive pronoun: Zirs
           Reflexive: Zirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zay and zir friend went to the store. Zir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zirself and joked that the soda was now zirs. Jordan's friend repaid zir the next day.
 [Ze/hir/hir/hirs/hirself]
           Subject: Ze
           Object: Hir
           Possessive determiner: Hir
           Possessive pronoun: Hirs
           Reflexive: Hirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ze and hir friend went to the store. Hir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it hirself and joked that the soda was now hirs. Jordan's friend repaid hir the next day.
 [Ze/zir/zir/zirs/zirself]
           Subject: Ze
           Object: Zir
           Possessive determiner: Zir
           Possessive pronoun: Zirs
           Reflexive: Zirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ze and zir friend went to the store. Zir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zirself and joked that the soda was now zirs. Jordan's friend repaid zir the next day.
 [Ze/zan/zan/zans/zanself]
           Subject: Ze
           Object: Zan
           Possessive determiner: Zan
           Possessive pronoun: Zans
           Reflexive: Zanself
Jordan needed some groceries, so ze and zan friend went to the store. Zan friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zanself and joked that the soda was now zans. Jordan's friend repaid zan the next day.
 [Zed/zed/zed/zeds/zedself]
           Subject: Zed
           Object: Zed
           Possessive determiner: Zed
           Possessive pronoun: Zeds
           Reflexive: Zedself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zed and zed friend went to the store. Zed friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zedself and joked that the soda was now zeds. Jordan's friend repaid zed the next day.
 [Zed/zed/zier/ziers/zierself]
           Subject: Zed
           Object: Zed
           Possessive determiner: Zier
           Possessive pronoun: Ziers
           Reflexive: Zierself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zed and zier friend went to the store. Zier friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zierself and joked that the soda was now ziers. Jordan's friend repaid zed the next day.
 [Zhe/zhim/zhir/zhirs/zhirself]
           Subject: Zhe
           Object: Zhim
           Possessive determiner: Zhir
           Possessive pronoun: Zhir
           Reflexive: Zhirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zhe and zhir friend went to the store. Zhir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zhirself and joked that the soda was now zhirs. Jordan's friend repaid zhim the next day.
 [Zhe/zhir/zhir/zhirs/zhirself]
           Subject: Zhe
           Object: Zhir
           Possessive determiner: Zhir
           Possessive pronoun: Zhirs
           Reflexive: Zhirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zhe and zhir friend went to the store. Zhir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zhirself and joked that the soda was now zhirs. Jordan's friend repaid zhir the next day.
 [Zie/zir/zir/zirs/zirself]
           Subject: Zie
           Object: Zir
           Possessive determiner: Zir
           Possessive pronoun: Zirs
           Reflexive: Zirself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zie and zir friend went to the store. Zir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zirself and joked that the soda was now zirs. Jordan's friend repaid zir the next day.
 My Neopronoun Creations:
 [Shey/shem/sheir/sheirs/shemself]
           Subject: Shey
           Object: Shem
           Possessive determiner: Sheir
           Possessive pronoun: Sheirs
           Reflexive: Shemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so shey and sheir friend went to the store. Sheir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it shemself and joked that the soda was now sheirs. Jordan's friend repaid shem the next day.
 [Se/ser/ser/sers/serself]
           Subject: Se
           Object: Ser
           Possessive determiner: Ser
           Possessive pronoun: Sers
           Reflexive: Serself
Jordan needed some groceries, so se and ser friend went to the store. Ser friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it serself and joked that the soda was now sers. Jordan's friend repaid ser the next day.
 [Se/sim/sis/sis/simself]
           Subject: Se
           Object: Sim
           Possessive determiner: Sis
           Possessive pronoun: Sis
           Reflexive: Simself
Jordan needed some groceries, so se and sis friend went to the store. Sis friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it simself and joked that the soda was now sis. Jordan's friend repaid sim the next day.
 [Zey/zem/zeir/zeirs/zemself]
           Subject: Zey
           Object: Zem
           Possessive determiner: Zeir
           Possessive pronoun: Zeirs
           Reflexive: Zemself
Jordan needed some groceries, so zey and zeir friend went to the store. Zeir friend wanted a soda but didn't have any money, so Jordan paid for it zemself and joked that the soda was now zeirs. Jordan's friend repaid zem the next day.
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ageloire · 6 years
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Gender Neutral Pronouns: What They Are & How to Use Them
In the past few years, the U.S. has made some small but mighty strides towards inclusivity, and language plays a big part in that.
We've become rightfully cautious when we label other people, and are learning the importance of asking permission before identifying someone as a certain gender.
In my English class in college, for instance, my teacher was progressive enough to say, "Please let me know which pronoun you'd prefer I use for you." While this might seem arbitrary or unnecessary, it's not -- everyone has the right to self-identify with whatever pronoun they feel comfortable (or, to avoid identifying altogether).
To avoid accidentally offending someone at the office before you know their preferred pronouns, it’s important to use gender-neutral pronouns in your workplace conversations.
Gender-neutral pronouns
Gender-neutral pronouns are words that don't specify whether the subject of the sentence is female or male. 'They', for instance, is a third-person pronoun that is gender neutral. Other gender-neutral pronouns include 'them', 'this person', 'everyone', 'Ze', or 'Hir'. If you're not sure which pronoun to use, you can also use that person's name.
Since gender-neutral pronouns have only recently become more commonplace, it's likely you aren't sure how to use them, or even what they are. Here, we've provided you with a list of gender-neutral pronouns and examples of how to use them, so you can begin creating a more inclusive workplace.
Gender-neutral Pronouns, and How to Use Them
There are a few benefits to using gender-neutral pronouns. First, in the English language, "He" has often been used as an automatic fill-in for generic individuals. By using gender-neutral language, you're ensuring your sentences are inclusive for everyone.
Second, "he and she" are two extreme binaries that don't leave room for other gender identities. This can be hurtful for individuals, such as transgender or gender queer communities, who don't identify with "he" or "she".
Ultimately, you don't want to make incorrect or hurtful assumptions about someone's gender. Just because someone appears feminine or masculine doesn't mean they are a man or woman -- they could be agender, nonbinary, or uncomfortable identifying with "he" or "she".
Here is a list of gender-neutral pronouns:
He/She -- Zie, Sie, Ey, Ve, Tey, E
Him/Her -- Zim, Sie, Em, Ver, Ter, Em
His/Her -- Zir, Hir, Eir, Vis, Tem, Eir
His/Hers -- Zis, Hirs, Eirs, Vers, Ters, Eirs
Himself/Herself -- Zieself, Hirself, Eirself, Verself, Terself, Emself
Typically, you won't use one of these gender-neutral pronouns unless a colleague asks you to identify them as such.
However, there are more traditional gender neutral pronouns you can introduce into your everyday conversation, regardless of the individual. These include "Them", "They", "Their", "Everyone", and "That Person".
When in doubt, refer to someone by their name, rather than "him" or "her".
"They" is one of the more common gender-neutral pronouns, and it's easy to incorporate into your daily conversations. Here are some examples of how to use it:
"I spoke to the marketing director and they said they'd get back to me."
"I think someone left their laptop behind."
"Who's in charge of that campaign? I'll email them."
You probably use "they" "them" and "their" often in your everyday language, even when you know someone identifies as "he" or "she". It's a natural substitute, but can go a long way towards creating a more inclusive office culture.
Finally, when addressing people in a meeting, it's best to say, "Hello, everyone," or "Hey, team." You'll want to avoid "Hey, guys", or similar phrases, since "guys" is typically masculine.
How to Learn Someone's Pronouns
When you first meet someone, you don't want to ask about their pronouns. This could make them feel like you're asking them to out themselves as transgender, agender, or nonbinary, which they might not want to do, particularly if you work in a conservative office.
Instead, introduce yourself with your pronouns: "Hi, I'm Caroline, and my pronouns are she/her." By sharing your own pronouns, you're allowing the other person to share theirs, but not forcing them to.
Additionally, avoid saying "preferred" pronouns. Despite the popularity of the term, it's incorrect, since "preferred" implies someone's gender is a preference.
Ultimately, using gender-neutral pronouns doesn't require too much effort on your part, but it could make a huge difference in creating a warmer, more inclusive workplace environment for everyone. 
from Marketing https://blog.hubspot.com/marketing/gender-neutral-pronouns
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lindyhunt · 6 years
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Gender Neutral Pronouns: What They Are & How to Use Them
In the past few years, the U.S. has made some small but mighty strides towards inclusivity, and language plays a big part in that.
We've become rightfully cautious when we label other people, and are learning the importance of asking permission before identifying someone as a certain gender.
In my English class in college, for instance, my teacher was progressive enough to say, "Please let me know which pronoun you'd prefer I use for you." While this might seem arbitrary or unnecessary, it's not -- everyone has the right to self-identify with whatever pronoun they feel comfortable (or, to avoid identifying altogether).
To avoid accidentally offending someone at the office before you know their preferred pronouns, it’s important to use gender-neutral pronouns in your workplace conversations.
Gender-neutral pronouns
Gender-neutral pronouns are words that don't specify whether the subject of the sentence is female or male. 'They', for instance, is a third-person pronoun that is gender neutral. Other gender-neutral pronouns include 'them', 'this person', 'everyone', 'Ze', or 'Hir'. If you're not sure which pronoun to use, you can also use that person's name.
Since gender-neutral pronouns have only recently become more commonplace, it's likely you aren't sure how to use them, or even what they are. Here, we've provided you with a list of gender-neutral pronouns and examples of how to use them, so you can begin creating a more inclusive workplace.
Gender-neutral Pronouns, and How to Use Them
There are a few benefits to using gender-neutral pronouns. First, in the English language, "He" has often been used as an automatic fill-in for generic individuals. By using gender-neutral language, you're ensuring your sentences are inclusive for everyone.
Second, "he and she" are two extreme binaries that don't leave room for other gender identities. This can be hurtful for individuals, such as transgender or gender queer communities, who don't identify with "he" or "she".
Ultimately, you don't want to make incorrect or hurtful assumptions about someone's gender. Just because someone appears feminine or masculine doesn't mean they are a man or woman -- they could be agender, nonbinary, or uncomfortable identifying with "he" or "she".
Here is a list of gender-neutral pronouns:
He/She -- Zie, Sie, Ey, Ve, Tey, E
Him/Her -- Zim, Sie, Em, Ver, Ter, Em
His/Her -- Zir, Hir, Eir, Vis, Tem, Eir
His/Hers -- Zis, Hirs, Eirs, Vers, Ters, Eirs
Himself/Herself -- Zieself, Hirself, Eirself, Verself, Terself, Emself
Typically, you won't use one of these gender-neutral pronouns unless a colleague asks you to identify them as such.
However, there are more traditional gender neutral pronouns you can introduce into your everyday conversation, regardless of the individual. These include "Them", "They", "Their", "Everyone", and "That Person".
When in doubt, refer to someone by their name, rather than "him" or "her".
"They" is one of the more common gender-neutral pronouns, and it's easy to incorporate into your daily conversations. Here are some examples of how to use it:
"I spoke to the marketing director and they said they'd get back to me."
"I think someone left their laptop behind."
"Who's in charge of that campaign? I'll email them."
You probably use "they" "them" and "their" often in your everyday language, even when you know someone identifies as "he" or "she". It's a natural substitute, but can go a long way towards creating a more inclusive office culture.
Finally, when addressing people in a meeting, it's best to say, "Hello, everyone," or "Hey, team." You'll want to avoid "Hey, guys", or similar phrases, since "guys" is typically masculine.
How to Learn Someone's Pronouns
When you first meet someone, you don't want to ask about their pronouns. This could make them feel like you're asking them to out themselves as transgender, agender, or nonbinary, which they might not want to do, particularly if you work in a conservative office.
Instead, introduce yourself with your pronouns: "Hi, I'm Caroline, and my pronouns are she/her." By sharing your own pronouns, you're allowing the other person to share theirs, but not forcing them to.
Additionally, avoid saying "preferred" pronouns. Despite the popularity of the term, it's incorrect, since "preferred" implies someone's gender is a preference.
Ultimately, using gender-neutral pronouns doesn't require too much effort on your part, but it could make a huge difference in creating a warmer, more inclusive workplace environment for everyone. 
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