#Selfshipping confession

[dalvs-wife]

honestly being a selfshipper and finding irl items that remind you of your f/o is just the purest thing....

find a t-shirt that looks like your f/o's? perfect, wear it when you feel down and revel in the feeling that you're wearing their shirt.

find a book you think they'd like? get it, read it, think about how overjoyed they'd be to know they got you into something they find interesting! how happy they'd be to share that with you!

find a perfume that reminds you of them? for the love of everything holy. get it and cherish it.

every trinket, every shirt, every little nick-nack that reminds you of them. that's them loving you through the little things!!!

[my-gf-is-kazuichi-soda]

This was on an antishipper selfship confession blog. I wanted to respond but I know I would get instablocked and the anon would never see my response.

This is so sad

Silence the cop they put in your head. It literally doesnt matter, it's all fiction. Free yourself. Ship with whoever you want. If the age discrepency makes you uncomfy, age down your s/i or age up your f/o, but you dont have to change anything for anyone other than yourself. Ship the way it makes you happy.

[selfshipconfessionz]

im so tired of self ship imagines having these huge gaudy dni banners on them.. like why would i ever want to reblog that when its got a giant graphic on it telling a (rather large) demographic they suck? its just getting more and more common... it takes some work but i feel its better to just be proactive and block people you don't like in the community.

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[selfship-vent-confessions]

I will never understand non-sharing. Their F/Os are just fictitious characters, they are not their property. :/

It's usually for comfort. Some people are just very closely attached to the characters and thus feel uncomfortable sharing them. Sometimes it's because they're ficto in some way and thus view the characters as being genuine partners cause the love for them is the same as any nonfictional relationship (which is completely valid, by the way), and sometimes it's just because they don't want to for their own reasons

Yes, some people can be rude about being not open to sharing, but not all non-sharers are aggressive about it. Most are fans just like you who want to feel safe in their community just like you do. Most don't even view the characters as their "property", they just don't feel comfortable interacting with those who have the same F/O as them. It's a boundary and should be respected just as much as people that are okay with sharing

I'm mainly answering this just to give some information, but this is a safe space for sharers and non-sharers. You gotta realize that to some people these aren't just "fictitious characters", and selfshipping is a lot more personal.

[tsbs-shipfessions]

creator x me

This is the boldest fucking confession I've ever received.

[deathdetermineslife]

you, yes, you!

does your f/o wear a mask ???

KISS THEM THROUGH THAT MASK RN. 🔫 they loooovvveee it dw

[aidoriimu]

Imagine sleeping together with you f/o, that kind of non-sexual intimacy with both of you simply existing together, quietly. Fingers intertwining with yours, soft kisses exchanged before you both drift into the realm of unconsciousness.

"I hope I meet you in my dreams," Your f/o confesses.

☁︎ proship/comship DNI ☁︎

[cutely-inserts-my-opinion]

Fellas I gotta say... THANK FUCK kidscove isn't canon cause foxy can't handle a pretty boy like him the way I can😈 /silly

Chat Sun is so pretty when people draw him i can't even- im not a sun simp but I understand them so well bro

[proselfship-confessions]

I hate that antis have taken over selfshipping. Selfshipping is a proship thing. It has always been.

it ALWAYS has been

[riisume]

Okay so I wound up redesigning my Dungeon Meshi sona after talking to a couple of besties oop— 🧍🏽‍♂️

Kaebo’s just.. A Half Foot now. He has a distrust for other adventurers after getting exploited by a previous party.

But he’s generally pretty friendly, if not just socially anxious and awkward when he’s not comfortable with people.

But when he’s comfortable/trusts you, he’s pretty fun to be around and playful as hell.

Kaebo and Chilchuck have been friends before joining Laios’s party buuut I’m shy and I’ll cover that later/never;;

[lobcon]

𖥨┉┈ I made this account because I've grown tired of constantly seeing "proshippers dni this isn't for you" on the most mundane imagines. 'Imagine your s/o brushing your hair! PROSHIPPERS THIS ISNT FOR YOU' or 'Imagine having a movie night with your s/o. comshipper freaks dni' and then their s/o is canonically 'problematic' or a paraphile (looking at proship dni okegom fans)

This account is safe for ANY selfshippers, any labels, any stances, yumeship is a community that has always included dead dove works and medias- you ARE welcome here and my imagines ARE for you

ㅤㅤ ㅤㅤ ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ ㅤㅤREQUESTS ─ᬊ⠀open 01 ﹒ genre ︴ ︵︵ : let me know what kind of scenario you want, be as detailed or as vague as you want

02 ﹒tagging ⌣ 𖢒 : please include warning tags such as, cw incest, cw noncon. etc as well as general tags like fluff, angst, comfort, etc

03 ﹒ ship ︴ ︵︵ : you can request an imagine specific to your f/o or s/i, just let me know their name and your relationship w them and I'll write something out!

04 ﹒limits ⌣ 𖢒 : if you have any limits or triggers to stay away from in the imagine just let me know

꒱ ┉┈ All content will be tagged appropriately so please filter out content you don't like/aren't interested in

Feel free to gush about your s/o in dms or asks, I LOVE hearing about everyones love life!

You are also allowed to submit little comfessions, I'll post them ^^

(;´༎ຶٹ༎ຶ`) I will give my selfship acc if asked... I am lonely, I'll be your annoying mutual who sends you every art piece I see of your s/o

You can call me Lailos here 𓄂𓆃

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My lovely nonnies... soon

[selfshipconfessionz]

fellow selfshippers who can draw and have no f/o merch, get a:

piece of paper

scissors (not required but makes it easier)

pen or pencil (pencil recommended)

youre gonna start by drawing a chibi of your f/o, cut it out (or tear), maybe even make it have a back side with a different expression, boom portable f/o. ive done this with my self insert and my f/o and the other side is them making kissy faces and i feel like im making barbie dolls kiss /pos

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[selfship-vent-confessions]

ngl i wish people would be less like, overtly violent with their dnis on imagines and stuff sometimes. like i hate pro shoppers as much as the next guy but it’s just kind of awkward to read a cute imagine and then there’s just “proshippers please impale yourself on a metal pole” or something at the end. or worse something like “im sending feds to check your hard drive” or stuff like that because it’s bound to mess with people’s heads if they have paranoia or similar issues (proship or not) and i just don’t think that’s a good thing to be promoting in the community. but idk maybe i’m overreacting, im just kinda tired of seeing really graphic death threats on otherwise nice posts

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[tsbs-shipfessions]

i think people should ship their ocs w canon characters more often

You're damn right they should.

[selfshipconfessional]

Do any other 25+ self shippers exist? :/ I feel so alone...

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[petrichorium]

Shanks like never gets jealous he simply isn’t the type esp not when it comes to his crew and their treatment of me BUT the one time he genuinely gets spun up enough that we can all feel his haki building is actually right before our elopement bc Beckman gets me a little cotton sundress to wear just like from a random shop on the island and it flatters me So insanely well and the fit is So perfect that Shanks is immediately like hey Beck? Why do you know her exact measurements and the style that would look best on her like what the fuck’s up w that—