#ace into feedism

[ace-marshmallow]

"You've outdone yourself today, you've eaten so much. I'm proud of you." I say as I'm rubbing their belly and kissing their cheek.

There's something so personal and intimate about praising someone for their efforts, isn't there?

I'm all for praising how a person looks, especially if they themselves love it. But I think acknowledging someone's efforts or the fruit of their actions be it "your eyeliner looks great today." Or "this outfit looks great on you, you have such a good sense of fashion." Or if we go back to the feedism context: "I love what you've done to me. I love seeing myself rounder in the mirror and getting bigger for you. Thank you. *kissy kissy* I love you."

[uhitsum]

this paunch has thickened up so nicely, i had a good night in with an encourager too 🥴 had me chugging shakes and snacking for the past 2 hours, i feel sooo bloated. if i wasn't so damn fat, this belly would've been taut as a drum for the video lol.

^ proof of being taut as a drum, i recorded the video like half an hour after the shake so it had settled a bit

[indulgencedreams]

Someone told me to (rough translation) "fuc already bro" in response to a joke I made. I ended up doubling down and asking if that was a mathematical theorem however it left me pondering. Do non ace people genuinely believe fucking changes your life so much you would stop making jokes they would find cringy?

[thetumarchive]

Feedist Library Prompts

- A comes in to the library once a week to return a cookbook and take out a different one. B can't help but notice that each week A comes in, they're a little softer than before.

- A is hungry but B is busy reading so A whines about being ignored with the librarian constantly telling them to hush. But then their stomach growls loud enough for the whole library to hear it and B, red as hell, finally puts their book down.

- Similarly, A is reading while absentmindedly rubbing B’s stuffed tummy. B is mortified as they burp and it echoes through the library.

- There's no eating in the library, but A always sneaks in food anyway. B, the observant librarian, notices and tries to confront them, but A scarfs down all of the evidence. After witnessing the resulting upset stomach of A, B decides not to bother them anymore.

- A and B are studying for an exam and every time B gets a question right, A feeds them a treat. B aces the exam but also packs them on.

- A accidentally leaves their browsing tab open and B discovers they were looking at feedism porn. B also discovers that they’re into it.

- A has developed a sedentary lifestyle behind the circulation desk. They mostly just type in data while drinking several cups of overly sweetened coffee. B, their coworker, has started bringing them pastries to go with it.

- The library has a game day with pizza, cake, and soda. Nobody shows up because A got the date wrong, and B, seeing how sad A is, makes sure none of it goes to waste.

[ace-marshmallow]

I'm so proud of you, sweetheart.

You just look so marvelous with the extra weight, I can't wait to see how much more good-looking you'll become as time goes by.

I know you've been trying very hard to accomplish your goals and every morcel of food that passes your lips is a little victory. You're doing such a great job at gaining weight for you and for me.

You are so so beautiful and loved, baby.

I only wish you could see yourself as I see you, so cute, so chubby and lovely. I want to kiss you each time I see you, hug you so tight to share the butterflies in my stomach and feel how soft you are.

The indent of your belly button in your t-shirt is only my latest obsession, without mentioning your soft arms, face and hands.

You are so beautiful, so perfect.

And I am so proud of you.

[uhitsum]

nothing like having someone force me into a 2500 calorie feast ☺️ my belly was actually so tight standing up straight, please forgive me for bending over lol. once again thanks to the amazing @teddywoo83 for sponsoring this stuffing ❤️

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for hiding my kink from my partner?

My partner (21NB) and I (22F) have been dating since high school. It’s the best relationship I’ve ever been in. They’re understanding and communicative and we’ve never had major fights- nothing that we haven’t been able to talk through within a week, at least.

When I was 17, I did a bit of soul searching and ended up discovering I had a feedism kink. I’m mostly ace, so it came as a pretty big surprise, and I’m still coming to terms with it. The only content I engage with is from fat liberationists in the scene, and I try really hard to be mindful of fat politics and only seek out stuff made by sex workers who are willingly in the feedism scene. I grew up catholic and my guilt about having a kink at All is pretty bad, so I haven’t told anybody in my life about it. Nobody at All.

A few years ago, my partner opened up to me about having an eating disorder. Anorexia that progressed into bulimia. They mostly let me know so that they’d have somebody to talk with about it since the people in their life who Do know don’t really care. They’re seeking treatment for it and for the most part I try to only talk about whatever they’re comfortable with; I don’t bring it up if they don’t, I’m not trying to fix them myself or anything; I know this is something I don’t have control over and it’s not something I’m qualified to try and help with.

My kink is completely disconnected from my partner. They know I’m ace and they’re fine with it, and we don’t really have plans to be intimate with each other. We haven’t before. I have a really strict boundary in my head between my kink and my partner- they’re entirely separate and I’d never ever want those streams to cross. I keep a tight lid on the kink in general. Being mostly ace, I’ve never gotten Turned On by anything in day to day life. I only get horny when it’s time to jerk it and I pull up porn or whatever.

I think that bringing up my kink to my partner right now could trigger them, which is another reason why I DON’T and really never want to. I’m honestly not sure how bringing it up would go. As a person, I don’t think they’d judge me for it and I’m sure we could talk it through, but I don’t want them to think I’ve ever thought about them in the context of the kink bc of their disorder. I never have and I’ve never wanted to, but the idea of triggering them at all is really upsetting to me. I’d never push anything on them without their consent and I’m way too eager to convict myself of thought crime to ever be comfortable actually Engaging with the kink and involving anybody else.

I’m fine with it being a secret forever, but AITA for that? I have no intentions of letting my partner know about the kink and I’m wondering if this is a dick move. Is keeping it a secret the right way to go about it? Would it be MORE of a dick move to let them know?

What are these acronyms?

[likebreadandwine]

What’s your favorite aspect of feedism? If you don’t mind…

there is nothing more primal or carnal to me than appetite.

appetite is desire. it is need and want, powerful craving. eating is sensual; it is rooted in the body; it is a sensory feast.

what greater expression of care is there than to provide something that is both essential and a source of pleasure? to be a provider of abundance, to indulge the appetite, to say, "you can have whatever you want, as much as you want. I will give it to you."

it is the wanting that I love. wanting beyond the limits. you're full, and you still want more? it hurts and you still want more? (bonus: you know that I want you to have more and you're willing to do that for me?) and you trust me enough to be vulnerable and admit that, when the world so often tells us to be ashamed of wanting, especially when it comes to food?

we gather over meals because we understand, intuitively, that to break bread with someone is to form a connection and share intimacy. that intimacy is exponentially greater when feeding someone.

maybe this all seems overly philosophical or spiritual, but...it is that for me. I mean, I definitely have a belly kink, and I get very flustered when people eat till it hurts, but all this also plays right into my personal philosophies about care and a kind of non-sexual sensuality that my ace brain is completely infatuated with.

[the-duchess-of-domination]

✨welcome to the duchess’s play pen!! ✨

(˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶)

🪷 im a dominant cis female, 23, asexual, and romantically and physically attracted to men!! stomachaches and feedism is how i express intimacy!!

🌈 all (except terf, minor, and pro-ana blogs ofc) are welcome here, although my content specifically caters to those attracted to male aligned people, especially BHMs

‼️ im not actively a feeder or encourager so i won’t answer DMs about that. if you want to tell me a fantasy or idea you have, send it to my inbox so i can post it. see below for taken anon emojis‼️

taken anon emojis: 🎀 🌸🍰 🥐☂️🦊

what you can expect to see on this blog:

💊 stomachaches

☁️ chubby boys!!!

🍭 stuffing/forcefeeding

🎢 mild emetophilia (im emetophobic but love when men get a little queasy and green-faced after eating too much, getting motion sick, or from food poisoning. i prefer vomiting “off screen”)

🫧 all things stomach gurgle related (LOVE)

🍹 mild burping/gas

👠 a general emphasis on male submission and female dominance

⛓️ mild BDSM elements

what you won’t find here:

❌ explicit sex (i am ace)

❌ any fetishism related to BBWs/women

❌ hard/death feedism

❌ graphic depictions of emeto

❌ extreme humiliation/fat shaming

❌ scat/piss/farts

❌ inflation

[vanillachaiwhiskey]

hi i'm venn and

i am here to be sexy and insane!

(translation: this is my kink and autonecro blog!)

i post about the following things as kinks:

petplay

murder/(auto)necrophilia

feedism

dumbification

weed/alcohol/etc.

and more! those are just the big ones

i make moodboards and text posts about these things!

i am an autonecrophile! which means i am a paraphile! i do not want anti-para interaction thank you very much but i am also strictly anti-contact and do not fucking want pro-contact interaction either

please check out my carrd especially if you want to know what other kinks to expect here, need to blacklist certain things and want to know how it's tagged, and/or want to engage with me in a kink capacity (which i'm open to!)

i am ace-spec and none of my kinks other than deathplay are sexual, and the way i prefer to talk about the sexual aspect of that kink is not very (sexually) graphic, so depending on how you prefer your kink, this may or may not be the blog for you! depending on how sexually graphic your blog is and your tagging contentions, i might not be able to follow back.

i am in a system and my alters make kink posts on here too! it's tagged as "alterposting: [name]". one of our alters has faer own blog at @bigcatbutch!

thank you for looking at my blog <3

[junthepanda]

Ace person who takes the "cake is better than sex" bit to heart and finds out they're like super into feedism

[ace-marshmallow]

holy fuckimg shit i have never seen another ace person into feedism befpre

thats it thats the ask

So I only just found out right now how to look for the asks I had so let me answer.... months later (I'm so sorry 😭)

I'm happy to see another ace person in the community and I hope that by the time I answered you found all the wonderful ace folks who are also part of the feedism community. ^^

[uhitsum]

lazy morning, felt hella puffy after last night lol. got a little board waiting for my breakfast to cook.

[softerandsofter]

There's a tantalizing paradox to Feedism: We all dearly crave a society in which fatphbia is utterly eradicated, plus-sized peeps are totally accepted and we can all weigh whatever we wish without shame. But I feel much of the irresistible thrill of being a Feedee / Gainer derives from its taboo transgressive illicit defiant rebellious urge to subvert overcome reject and counter that very fatphobia we've all endured! But if fat was 100% acceptable would it still enthrall allure and appeal to us?

Okay, this is a really interesting question, thanks Anon! I’ve been thinking about it a lot, trying to examine my feelings on this. Full disclosure, I’m somewhere on the ace spectrum, so I dunno how other people think about this stuff, and I don’t claim to understand what other people like about feedism.

Anyway, I’ve thought a lot and come to a single conclusion: I don’t think the transgressive nature of feedism is what makes it attractive to me, like, at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Not that it’s unattractive or a turn off, but to me, it’s like roleplaying: I can play out this form of rebellious taboo, but deep inside me, I actually love being fat, and don’t actually believe there’s a moral component to it (I mean, I’m fat 24/7, it’s just something I am). I play with fatness as transgressive, but it’s roleplaying, just like I play with me being the cocky, overfed warrior queen and my fiancee being the bratty yet easily-flustered princess from a recently conquered kingdom :p

Another parallel that might work is Oral— oral sex is way more socially acceptable now than it was, say, 50 years ago, but I don’t think anyone’s decided “meh, it was cool when I wasn’t supposed to suck your dick :/” and stopped enjoying it.

Generally, it might also just be worthwhile for everyone to think about how much forbidden-ness really plays into your sense of sexuality. What would it feel like to you if your form of sexual expression was completely normalized? What does that imply about how you feel about yourself or the people you’re attracted to?

[calicoboycunt]

howdy! you can call me eli/orion

i'm a 26yo plussized dom-leaning nb tguy switch and my pronouns are he/fae/it

i'm sorta demi/grey ace but otherwise pan with a pref for masc leaning/presenting folks

i'm polyamorous and in a relationship with 3 people atm, i'm open towards adding more though~ 😘

this blog is gonna be very reblog heavy since i don't always have the energy to draw, and for the time being y'all prolly shouldn't expect any selfies either

i'm also kinda on the shy side but feel free to dm me if you wanna chat ;P (no nonconsensual dick pics though pls)

i generally have a tendency to forget to tag stuff on my own but if you need me to tag anything specific lemme know, your comfort matters

kinks/fetishes:

cnc (esp. somno)

petplay

tentacles

certain types of gloves (earliest fetish fun fact)

forcemasc

blood/violence

bondage, especially shibari

not a fan:

anything pregnancy/childbirth related (old phobia of mine, i'm getting better about it but maybe don't)

blueberry (feedism and such is fine though)

inflation (phobia for balloons)

guns (kinda hit or miss for me tbh, guess it depends on the situation)

HARD NO:

piss/shit/puke/any of that

ageplay

raceplay

detrans/misgendering

weight loss

[likebreadandwine]

Bearing in mind that you're ace, I've noticed that there are certain scenarios which seem to get you a little worked up, or at least flustered in what I would consider a typically sexual way

Some examples of this range from you "daydreaming about the moaning and groaning 🥵" (emphasis on the emoji) to sometimes encouraging anons who "get off" from feedism to describing various things as "hot" (as well as reblogging posts that say "X thing is hot as fuck") and so on

I know you've spoken about this stuff in the past (I even sent some of those asks), but I guess for the sake of curiosity and understanding, do you personally consider these particular feelings arousing in the typical sense? Do they manifest in such a way that they feel like a physical desire that needs to be tended to or is it more like a strong emotion that's disconnected from physical stimulation/intimacy?

Apologies if any of this is too personal to answer (feel free to click the Pass button if need be, lol), I'm honestly just curious to learn more as someone who has always had typical sexual urges

this is a great question.

I absolutely do get all worked up and flustered by things. does it manifest like a physical desire that needs to be tended to? um...kinda? but I don't really...tend to it?

here's a true thing about me: I love flirting. I think it is so fun. but I don't want the flirting to go anywhere. as soon as it looks like it's gonna go somewhere, it ceases to be fun. I have a million crushes! I love the butterflies-in-your-tummy feeling of a crush. but I can only think of one person in my adult life, irl, who I've ever met and thought, "yes, I really want them to touch me. I really want them to kiss me." (and honestly, that situation ended really badly because I was 20 and I had never had feelings like that before and I had no idea how to handle them.)

when I'm here on tumblr, I'm flirting. I'm using the language available to me, language which I know resonates for other people. in some ways, I perform sexual desire. it's like playing a character on stage—I may share some traits with this character, and find them fun to inhabit, and enjoy the audience's reaction...but it's different than just being myself. I like knowing people get off to my posts, but I usually won't reblog a post or answer an ask that's sexually explicit.

I love the sensuality of feedism, I desire physical intimacy, but I don't desire sex. I get turned on, but I don't feel sexually attracted to people. it's like...it feels pleasant to lie in the sun. it feels thrilling to ride a roller coaster. it feels comforting to wrap yourself up in a blanket on a cold day. I like the way arousal feels in my body without needing to do anything with it. I like writing encouragement and fantasies and inspiring strong feelings in other people, without necessarily wanting those people to desire me.

this was a thoughtful question and I'm glad you asked it. I hope my answer makes some kind of sense 😅