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HE WAS SO MAD
#classic Kakashi DID disobey orders for his kids#It's insane when people say he'd never act rebellious against konoha when the evidence is there in the classic#or course things changed in shippuden#but in the classic? he went to the land of the waves mission without reporting the the classification was wrong#because he wanted to help tazuna properly#he allowed sasuke to fight in the preliminaries with the cursed mark and secretly sealed it went it was over#he hide the fact that a three men cell was needed for the chuning exams to give sakura the space to decide for herself what she wanted#he was all the time hiding information and acting on his own#even when he says later that he couldn't do much for them it's not because he didn't try#the village fucked him over they set him up for failure and in some sense he knew it#he accepted to be their sensei because he cared for them and he was on their side#I'm fully convinced that if shippuden had followed the classic as it was supposed to do kakashi would have rebelled in more than one way#but it didn't happen :( so#Kakashi Hatake#naruto#Tsunade Senju#Naruto Classic
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Friendly reminder that Starfire's solo comic from 2015-2016, which had mediocre to straight up bad writing, did not end because of poor sales, unlike so many other comics which actually ended because of how weak they sold. Starfire actually sold well and DC wanted more issues, but the writers had another project and did not have any ideas so they decided to walk off:


Starfire sells very well. Her most recent graphic novel from last year sold incredibly well, surpassed Batman comics in print and made it to the New York Times bestsellers list:


Starfire is a fan favourite that can very easily hold her own solo comic. It's the lack of interest in her character at DC that keeps her down, not the fans or the sells, which were never the issue.
#there is so much misinformation - mainly in the online bubble - on how Kory could not hold her own solo#which is simply false#and both these comics had incredibly mediocre writing and characterization#and people still bought them#imagine the number of sales with a good writer and artist? with a good storyline?#Kory antis stuck in the online bubble really push this idea that she's not truly relevant or loved - which is simply insane 😭#Kory and Diana are the most popular it's time some people accept that#the only reason they're not allowed to reach their true potential is misoginy and crusty dusty old men terrified they will surpass the men#Kory on her own has been popular for years with absolutely no help or input for DC#so I need people to do actual research before speaking on her#the people's princess 🩷#koriand'r#starfire
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I’m gonna need to be held back when I see Joel and Tommy on that screen in April…
#help#I need to chill but not really I am who I am#joel miller#pedro pascal#tommy miller#gabriel luna#excuse me who allowed those men to look so fineeee in this show#the last of us
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retail would be pretty good, if only certain old men were banned from interacting with other human beings
#personal#i honestly enjoy it#i like being able to help someone figure out what they need (and not what the company wants me to sell)#(also the way some people's eyes shine when i say that “that's my recommendation and not the company's” is really nice)#(makes me want to learn everything correctly so i can help them the best way)#i like being useful even for something that feels so simple#but certain old men shouldn't be allowed out in public#the rare old man that's polite is a god among them
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hiii, hello i'm in love with ur universe and wanted to do some brainstorming
how do u imagine the packs individual fashion styles? do you have some aesthetic or style in mind when writing each character going to work/uni/events etc, or is it up to imagination? like if each walked into a clothes store what's the first thing that would catch the eye of kit or natty for example
as always, take care of urself 💕
Helloo!<3 Ohh fun fun funn!
I do very much so have thoughts on this but I'm so curious to know what you guys think / have imagined??
You take care as well lovelyyy, and thank you for reading and dropping me a message xx
(edittt I had too many tags and it deleted all my hard workkk noooo)
-> I think I also had:
Izzy wears comfy shorts at home with no ulterior motives to showcase his thighs which the giants are obsessed with.
Nat <3 mittens
Nat has his warm aviator jacket for colder months - mans never getting rid of it shit was expensive when he had just one coin and one pistachio in his pocket
Liam probably wears the brightest colours - And loves his jumpers - Izzy also loves Liam's jumpers.
Kit's mission is to get everyone out of clothes at all times - he's anti fashion???
Izzy likes to dress the others up when there's a chance??
Nat <3 occasional nail polish whenever Lucy feels like it
Lime does top of the head ponytail sprout whenever his hair is long enough and needs to be off his face for work😭 - is that fashion?? - ehh its cute that's what it is
#It's definitely up to imagination#so anything goes really#there's certain things that come up every now and then in the series#Like Nizzy stealing clothes#but also all of them stealing everyones clothes??#(Except Izzy's for the most part bc hims tiny)#Lime in sportswear bc obvious reasons#comfy clothes at home!!#joggers and hoodies we cherish#Izzys jeans are torn at the knees#it's not just a fashion statement - it's skateboarding baby#Kitty in blacks and maroons#and lots of button ups - Nat also#Izzy likes those too#especially in oversized baby blue#combats/docs/boots for nat and kit#vans and sometimes converse for kit-nat & izzy#Lime just wears A Nice Sensible Shoe for Men#unless it's footy or running specific#He's in workout gear most of the time okay?? it's just practical and comfy lmao#Also he gets most of it through work so#Kit wears sunglasses when its bright out#and looks like a smug wanker but also hot so the others allow it#Liam is also hot in his posh PR suit get up#Izzy wears beanies sometimes#Nat wears Izzys beanies sometimes#that hair needs help at times yanno?#Kit can be a bit emo when it comes to his fashion#nat n his legs look like a “chic french model” or whatever it was that Kit was yapping about when they first saw him#izzy can be a bit punky but its mostly the way he carries himself 🤺💖
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Theres a very weird movement going on here, where if you mention issues related to men, you are automatically labeled an MRA.
In all honesty, it makes sense with what feminist theory has been clipped off after t*rfs got their hands on the "feminist" title and ran it through the mud. Because to them- men are evil. Masculinity is evil. Specifically trans men are evil gender traitors who want nothing more than a slice of the patriarchy pie.
Where is the space now in progressive/feminist circles for men? Especially queer men? Men who have BEEN feminists, who have been active politically, in their communities and homes- where is the space for them? What happened to stronger together? When did the mass begin adopting t*rf talking points? When did feminism as a whole become centered on those talking points?
Like. I AM allowed to talk about the issues I face in a heteronormative cis-centric society plagued with patriarchal views. That shit affects me deeply! I talk about it on my blog. In my own space. I also uplift the voices of others- especially women, and fem-aligned people. It's important to have connections with all sorts of people- it makes me feel more whole, both in the personal connections, and the connections made through works of art, books, etc.
It is frightening to watch the community splinter apart as the looming threat of a Trump term is happening. It feels like being in a crowd, helping everyone into a safe zone and reaching for a hand up- only to be left behind and closed out as the zombie hoard closes in.
Under pressure, things begin to break down. But we really need to do our best to mend the splintering, to fill the cracks and seems and divides. Because otherwise, their next step is "Conquer" and I don't want to see that for us.
#divide and conquer is the tactic. we need to be linking arms instead of acting fucking horrible to each other#we need to be a unified force not fighting each other#i saw a post that was pretty solid about needing another feminist movement BUT they were allowing some really#nasty shit to be said about trans men/mascs on their post#i can understand the frustration in some cases but. good god. everyones got a fucking anecdote#when are people gonna realize that man hating isnt cute and quirky#NO THIS IS NOT ME SAYING MISANDRY IS REAL JFC REREAD THE POST IF YOU GOT THAT OUT OF IT#im literally saying we need a new feminist movement thats completely removed from t*rfs and their ideals. its not productive not helpful#and honestly incredibly regressive ESP for how they treat women. which is crazy bc thats their entire thing.
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do you think the post from kt’s mother on ig is about this whole thing? she made a long post saying how nothing can change a true friendship
for those who might not know what op is talking about, khaotung's mom posted on ig today, and @/nellyangyang translated it.

seeing the edits that she often posts in her stories, i would assume she is as updated about somdom as the next som, tbh, so i wouldn't assume it couldn't be. i don't know if her dms are open or if people openly comment stuff under the things she posts, but i also assume there are many people who don't have a lot sense and are a bit desperate hence why she might have made this post.
the way i'm interpreting it is, she knows these men better than any of us (first is also her son, remember) and though i haven't seen it, i assume there's a part of fandom that might be fearing a break up just because of dating rumors and think they won't work together anymore bc it might have created animosity or weirdness in the relationship (though i'm choosing to believe that's a small minority in the fandom, like very small, we're not like the people who say they are queebaiting for dating women and we're also not the people who doubt their bond and friendship, pls). i think khaotung's mom's message serves as a reminder of how strong and reliable fk's relationship is, and that nothing has changed. we follow them for their bond, yes, and that hasn't changed, but also as actors and performers and we will continue to support them regardless if the rumors are true or not (and if people do decide to drop them just because of that, good riddance).
#bibs ask#Anonymous#kind of needed to get this out of my chest ngl#here is the thing i won't pretend this whole thing hasn't upset me bc i have read the things that those stalkers and haters have written#these are two people that i've been following closely for the past two years it is upsetting and i think you should allow yourself to be#upset if that's how you're feeling there's no shame in that bc as matter of fact we know they affect our lives in a way or another#the last time i stanned men was back in 2013 when i was 15 and was a massive super junior fan (i know) and the news about sungmin's wedding#around the time were such a nasty issue in the fandom that left me feeling sick for weeks and now at 27 i like to believe i'm better at#handling emotions but if you're sad about it or feeling down don't bottle it up fandom stuff affect you just like any other issue#though id also like to believe that we're all aware that the personal lives of these people shouldn't be of our interest but when it become#such a massive issue like this one you just can't help it#it doesn't help that im sicker than i have been in years so jesus help me#(not religiously)
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watching this video about the wasted potential of jjk is making me feel so bad for this guy 😭 like oh noooo you had hopes and dreams...
#it's different for me because at the very beginning jjk was my fun horror anime with some good character work and also men i wanted to fuck#and then the culling game happened and i went ah! okay gege is pulling a me in regards to overextending a concept#to the point it gets absurd in a way that will NOT lead to anything satisfactory and instead is going to get like. painful.#and then i knew exactly how it was going to end because you can't really dig yourself out of that hole.#i know. because i do it.#so i struck all my expectation from the reading experience#and decided to lean really hard into the mindless shonen enjoyment aspect#+ the sexualizing those men aspect.#so i had a great time!#@other people you need to try getting overambitious while under a lot of stress#with solid foundations that quickly spiral out of control in a way that once released are literally impossible to wrangle.#it will help you jump ship faster. and also make you want to kys.#but we must all pay a certain price for knowledge.#anyway this is why i'm not allowed to write anything longer thank like 50k words#something happens to me after that point. and it's not good.
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i keep saying i need to make some zhaoryu shit but i'm back on my y5 kazusaeji bullshit again they are just so. m
#ada speaks#there NEEDS to be more zhaoryu shit. but kazusaeji still holds my ass hostage so#if i am to write a comprehensive timeline of kiryu's sexuality and him coming to realizations about himself that lead to the way he's#changed in gaiden to be more. uh.#then i have got to start at 5 because its literally when he first begins to realize he's fr into men. and then gaiden & 8 he's like Out#i need his first time to be with saejima when he's at his lowest it just makes sense#theres so fucking much in 5 that feels like its really coming to a head#mayumi. why did they fucking do that. like also nakajima and his coworkers being like U Are Gay but.#mayumi. and hinata. why are you having him refuse sex with women TWICE in one game#i hc him as acespec but i also think he should get to fool around w saejima for narrative reasons#and by that i mean i think it would be absolutely devastating and tragic and also they would both legitimately be so normal about it#saejima knows he's going back to jail anyway so there's that#but god help kiryu he's absolutely trying to fill the loneliness void with People all the damn time#lowkey doing what he did with kaoru to saejima 😭#you're grieving the loss of your family? time to latch onto the woman going through the same thing just a year later#lost your emotional support daughter? allow a woman to live with you while you continuously rebuff her advances#lonely and directionless and feeling guilty for having dragged your loved ones into conflict again and again?#have sex with probably the Only guy who can understand exactly what you're going through but is consistently in a Way healthier mindset#it also makes the conversation they have on the rooftop of new serena so much more deranged if it happened before that#im normal btw thanks for asking
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Does anybody else feel the waves of history crashing over them constantly and like they can't escape the generational trauma that permeates and poisons every interaction they have or do I just need to chill and have a drink lol
#'our day has come and we are here. we are alive here. we've built this place. we suffered and starved here.#we own not an acre of land we belong to it. the land of cú chullain and macha. ní muid 'hungry crocodiles'. we are full.#full of knowledge. and talent. and success.#full of drink. and drugs. and stories.#agus beautiful ceol. that spills on sundays. from the windows of ancient pubs like smoke#tá vóta agam. tá acht Gaeilge agam. agus táimid sa rialtas.#we are the landscape. we are the trees and the rivers and the mountains. an integral piece of someone else's infrastructure.#growing strong between cracks in the concrete.'#and whatever else seán an seanchaí said.....#would recommend his instagram. his posts always hit#ngl tho when men post stuff like this about ireland i always think...do you see the similarities between this and patriarchy tho?#but maybe im better off not knowing the answer#whatever!!! we will persevere!!! we will help one another and build trust and relations and improve no matter what governments say or do!!!#just like generations have been doing before us!!! and we who have benefited from our parents making this place better will work to make it#better for our children. who will make it better for theirs.#and maybe i need to stop shying away from difficult conversations. maybe we all do. and maybe then we'll be okay.#my thoughts on mental health + the north + my own personal experience is such a mish mash of several different things#im only truly starting to realise that it's all connected. yes i got depression because i was lonely and vulnerable. but also because of th#trauma my family's been through. and sometimes i feel so angry thinking about what certain family members have been through#and there has been too much silence surrounding it. but maybe i just have to feel the anger and sadness and allow myself to feel it#but continue reaching out and trying to talk and having cups of tea and walking my dog and making memories.#memories that aren't political or based on trauma. to get out of my head and realise that yes this was a terrible thing#but there's so many good things too. and the best thing i can do is to try to make life better for those who lived through the worst of it#and make society better for those who are too young to know any of it yet.#instagram is actually a tonic for me sometimes. would never get such taig specific posts on here like the one from seán#which is probably a good thing lol
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#alison speaks?#to be deleted probably#not to like be weird about things people are already pretty weird about#but like beyond the absolute turn of ‘aCTUALLY this dude we liked for the past six years was a VILLIAN in her story’#it’s the fact that some people have an audacity to look at the relationship they were in for six years#and go ‘yknow what? it was all just so she could get here. it was all about the healing’ and granted yeah#good people can help you be better. a safe person and a safe place can allow yourself the time and safety it takes to grow and heal#but honest to goodness they did NOT commit to their six year long relationships and endure all their hardships#he did NOT support her during some of the worst moments in her career#just for y’all to reduce him to some stepping stone in her story#to view him as if the whole universe revolves around her like#like imo he deserved way fucking better#and honestly unless the relationship ended in a way that i really really really could not believe it did#it’s pretty fucking shitty that he had to put up with all the shit he got from the internet after the split went public#it’s pretty fucking shitty that y’all act like she can’t really do wrong in a relationship#that y’all STILL are unable to see it as anything other than sure humans make mistakes but men are absolutely terrible#like the need to analyze the fuck out of a song yall call deep and sad and so telling#that really just sounds like ‘why couldn’t you read my mind?’ makes me want to YELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL#anyways that’s enough and maybe the last thing i’ll say#bc honestly if the current relationship ends up not lasting (not that i wish that on them#don’t get me wrong) but like if it doesn’t? just wait for everyone to come up with all the reasons why#this guy who brought her back and made her so happy and blah blah blah was ACTUALLY? a shitty guy the whole time#okay yeah that’s all that’s it#i think the reason this makes me so angry is bc y’all would not tolerate this if the situations/reactions were reversed#and honestly the amount of disrespect for a relationship that did not go burning down in flames between two people together for six years#that shared a life and a home … to get this disrespect i just….#i wish healing and happiness and growth for both of them#but damn
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Me when i dream of lil Mika but it's another nightmare
#and this one was so stressful bc like#i dreamt he was indeed my s/o but he was so controlling#like i was so stressed out felt like a trapped deer trying to gather a support circle so i can get away from him and he just kept ruining it#all for me. fucker learnt my native lang just so he could monitor my conversation with my family🤕#at one point he made me agree to marry him and dream me did just bc she was absolutely terrified of him????#girl just beat his ass ?????????#but like jokes aside i'm still in that ''just woke up from a nightmare'' mood so i still feel the adrenaline so i still get#why he was so scary like. i didn't know he knew my lang until he threatened me and told me i'm not allowed to speak to#my family anymore (bc i tried to get my dad to help me) and he was very. pushy with se.xual stuff#which like here's a fun fact but i'm a hypochondriac and i find it very hard to bond with people so i just kinda#accepted that i'm waiting for marriage (which is easier to explain than ''i need to REALLY trust you'' and agreeing to marriage is on that#level anyway) so when i TRIED to get him to stop by telling him i don't want to before i have a ring it did fuck-all to stop a guy#who was just like ''well we ARE getting married so what's the problem''😔😔😔😔#i woke up before he did anything tho which i'm thankful for bc every time i dream of being sa'd it feels like it reopens old woundd#and it takes me a while to actually calm down from it#i will say tho. it's a vibe to dream of thingd you consider hot in concept but terrifying irl (controlling/abusive men <3)#bc like you know in-dream it FEELS like it's real life i really didn't care that it was Mika and he's not real it was reality for me#and so it was terrifying i was crying every time i'd get a hope of getting away from him he'd ruin it for me very swiftly etc etc#like i'm still stressed out. but. the concept? like now that i know i'm safe and none of that was real? i just think o-kayyyyyyyyy#lmfjsjsnmemdksks i'm hopeless. but not really! confirmation i'm actually normal just like certain things from the safety of fantasy
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men love to take a situation, make it unbearably toxic, and then blame their partner for how toxic the situation is
#this is about jax but it's also about men#watching him gives me war flashbacks to my life previously and i think brittany should kill him#am i allowed to say that on tumblr?#i just want this bitch to get out. she doesn't know how good it can be.#like how did he become physically violent with her and then blames her for him going to a facility for his mental health#while all of his friends are saying 'you're at rock bottom you need help'
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Aww. Cracks knuckles. I think it's time to beat the shit out of Giacomo's self esteem again lads!
#how does it feel to find warmth and safety in the most unstable and unpredictable of men.#to expose your neck to someone who could and given the chance would absolutely tear it to shreds#you kinda hope he will. because if killing you makes him happy then at least your death will mean something to someone.#you need help. and so does he. and maybe in allowing yourselves to be near one another#you can finally become a little bit human.#giacomo
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