if i can impart any one piece of wisdom to y鈥檃ll, it鈥檚 to, whenever possible, assume good intentions
assume people are trying their best, want to be good and treat others well, and that when their behavior doesn鈥檛 align with those goals, it鈥檚 because of outside factors that are pushing them to their limit
it鈥檚 hard to do, it doesn鈥檛 always come naturally, but it鈥檚 worth it
Obsessed with characters who portray themselves as worse than they are. Who are lying to everyone including themselves about it. People generally assume if someone's lying about themselves they're trying to look better but sometimes they're trying to look worse. They attribute agency to where they had none, add intend to accidents, try to convince everyone that this is something they did instead of something that happened to them.