#cglre relationship

[smolspace]

baby time!!

[childish-toddlr]

Admiration

Little: *giggles and lays down cuddling arm fulls of stuffies*

Cg: *stares at little, smiling ear to ear*

Little: What chu lookin at?

Cg: I’m just admiring my baby. Is that okay?

Little: *giggles and covers face*

Cg: You’re so unbelievably adorable, Sweetheart.

[abdlmommy-rieser1]

Mommy's here for y'all MESSAGE MOMMY FOR ONLINE AND IRL SESSION EXPERIENCE NOW 💩💩

[piinktearxs]

i feel like we should make a special date be cglre caregiver day, because i think most littles have either a bad relationship with mother’s/father’s day or just don’t feel like it’s necessarily a holiday for agere caregivers, I feel like they deserve their own day where we get an excuse to spoil them and give them extra love

[havinganfois]

Imagine your normally strict/controlling caregiver f/o easing up on any house rules or routines because you're in pain. Noticing you can't focus on your studies, or do the dishes, or what not. Perhaps creating an entirely new routine just for when flairups occur.

[pidoveandfriends]

Omw home from work and all I can think about is getting to my jammies and playing mc while my fiance gives me treats and kisses <3

[teddys-safespace]

long distance cg/l

*on FaceTime*

Baby Girl - *yawns and rubs my eyes*

Daddy - is someone tired?

Baby Girl - nuh uh, i not

Daddy - yes you are baby, come on, let’s nap

Daddy - I’ll be here when you wake up

Baby Girl - okie dada, nini, wub chu

Daddy - I love you princess

[kitty-safe-space]

idk who needs to hear this but i could use some comfort w this topic so friendly reminder that you're not weird or a bad person if you:

have a romantic relationship with your cg outside of your regression

fantasize about someone being your cg

dont wanna take sides on community discourse

dont wanna be a part of any specific community

you know who you are, you know your regression is completely sfw and no one else can tell you otherwise! stay safe, love urself and remember you're loved <3

Dni: lgbt+ exclusionists, r/adfems, ns/fw, e/d, s/h or discourse blogs, pr0ship, anti-agere/petre/sfw cglre or if you call people cringe because of their interests.

[childish-toddlr]

Matching Pjs!

Little: Close your eyes and put your hands out!

Cg: Okay, deal. *closes eyes and puts hands out*

Little: *puts a set of pjs on cg’s hands* Open your eyes!

Cg: *opens eyes* Oh! These are awesome baby! I love them! Thank you so much! *pulls little in for a hug*

Little: Yay! And one second! *runs to the other room for a few minutes and comes back out wearing matching pjs*

Little: Tada!!

Cg: *chuckles* Those are adorable baby. How about, I go change and we have a Christmas movie marathon tonight to get into the Christmas spirit?

Little: *bounces excitedly* Yay! Hurry!

[plural-sunny]

Hhh just had such a cute thought for an ideal world / agere fic idea

Baby Shower but for littles.. 🥺

I'm thinking it could be to celebrate a new CGLRe relationship lol. but it could also work to congratulate & help new CGLRes discovering their spaces 💛

Imagine being an ""expecting"" CG or a little getting gifts from friends. there's lots of fun games to play too!! of course there's a reason to have cake now, too!

like it's just so cute?!?! 💕💖💕

[crumbakery]

terms to use / avoid as a age regressor

made by a regressor, for regressors.

This post is to educate the community! I will not shame anyone for using (most) terms listed, this is just for your awareness. cross-tagging and cross-terming is extremely dangerous especially when minors use agereg and can have osdd/d.i.d child alters.

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Littles/LittleSpace : can be used, but is not suggested

littles / little space used to be a sfw term used to describe child alters within a osdd/d.i.d system. this term was taken by the nsfw community and adopted by the sfw community. if you were to tell someone you were a "little" they will assume it's sexual.

CGL/CGLRE : should never be used in sfw terms

cgl or cglre used to be a strictly sfw term do describe a CareGiver Little Relationship. these terms were taken by the nsfw community to identify sexual relationships with caregivers and littles

Age Regression : this is mostly safe to use

Age Regression is a term that even therapists and psychologists know! Age Regression is a sfw coping mechanism for those who need to relive a proper childhood due to trauma. This can also be referred to as a Inner Child, and the method being called Inner Child Healing. When Regressed, most people are in a true child state of mind, like having a child alter without being an alter, and just a Regressed version of yourself.

Though Age Regression is a sfw term, the nsfw community sometimes uses this term (but not as often as cgl) so you can separate it by using the term Sfw Age Regression.

Age Dreamer : this is basically as safe as you can get

The terms Age Dreamer or Age Dreaming means someone enjoys childlike things without actually regressing. instead they lightly pretend to be around the age they're dreaming about. instead of needing supervision or help cutting up foods, ect.

these dreamers are much more independent no matter where their age range falls. So far, we have personally never seen nsfw users use this tag before!

Please be aware that just because "sfw" is tacked onto a term, does not make it sfw- and here's why..

Sfw Kink does not exist. kink is a literal synonym for fetish, and a fetish is something (usually seen as taboo) used for sex. I will be listing a couple kink terms below so you can block / mute those who use them.

DDLG, DDLB, MDLG, MDLB, SFWDDLG, SFWMDLG,SFW CGL/RE or more commonly known as AGEPLAY — honestly there's more than this because the kink community does not know when to stop. Adding "sfw" onto these terms helps these people gain reach on platforms. "sfw kink" users often post suggestive but not nude content.

Sometimes they post sfw content, while also sexualizing the fact that it's sfw- A lot of "sfw kink" users make the account itself sfw, while sexualizing it off screen. This is where the term, "hiding behind age regression" comes into play.

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I hope you found this tiny guide helpful!

remember to take care of yourselves and stay safe ♡

- 🍪

[little-bunny123]

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A little chat: cglre and how it works in a relationship between two partners

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I’ve realized that some people don’t exactly talk about how cglre can work alongside of a regular relationship; This meaning how a relationship which was created (gf/bf for example) can also have a safe and pure cglre side like me and my current girlfriend have! This post will be going through these type of things in order to help others out there who are struggling to find the boarder lines between what constitutes a cglre relationship and an old fashioned regular relationship!

My current relationship with my girlfriend (@ayoitsjupiter) kinda began with the knowledge that both of us knew what regression was and how it worked, me more than my gf, but there was a clear elephant in the room that we addressed right at the beginning of our relationship! This helped because it got that awkwardness surrounding that part of our relationship out of the way so we could focus on what really mattered, making sure each-other was comfortable!

Some ways we did this were by setting up boundaries, such as:

🧸 - making sure to tell each-other what we were feeling, weather that be emotionally, physically, or cglre time related (we call our time spend in cg-space and little-space cglre time)

🧸- ensuring that each-other was comfortable with what the other was doing, that being padding checks, tush pats, cuddles, kisses, and other things a cg would do to help make the little feel smaller! This helped us figure out what we were all comfy with and this gave us a starting point to figure out what we both wanted and needed out of the relationship on the cglre side of things

🧸- we made sure that not all of our time spent was spent in cglre time, and that there was at least a 50/50 split between our time as a regular couple, and a cglre one! This helped ensure that both of our needs were met on the big side of things (that being emotionally and physically, and as we are both consenting adults, the obvious would occur as well during big time)

🧸- we promised that we would never forcefully or purposefully try to cross each others boundaries while in cglre time. Boundaries would include things like taking a shower together and ensuring that neither of us would make it sexual (even though it might be an inherently sexual act). Small things like this would ensure that both of us were happy and felt safe while trying to help each-other cope (my cg finds that her cg-space helps her cope with stress as well, making it the perfect storm for our cglre relationship as everyone is coping in a healthy way!)

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All of these boundaries were put into place to make sure that we were both happy and getting what we needed out of the relationship! Now, I’d like to talk about how we made sure that 50/50 balance was met!

1 - To keep the balance alive we would go out on little dates every week or so to ensure that we got to spend that time with each-other while I was big to talk about adult related things. We would talk about our families, fun y things we found online, make jokes, poke fun, and many other things regular couples would do!

2 - We would tell each-other if we needed a mental health day, meaning that we drop everything to make sure the other is okay other than important responsibilities (such as classes or exams or work)

3 - We would tell each-other if we felt like we needed more cglre time or if we needed more big time. This was to make sure everyone involved was getting what they needed, and although sometimes these times would conflict, (me wanted to be little while my cg wanted big time, or me wanting to be big while my cg wanted little time) we would make sacrifices to ensure we were getting the love we needed!

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Now I know it’s a tough road to find that perfect balance, and me and my partner dealt with that too, but we are starting to level out and find more about this relationship that we didn’t know was possible! It’s a long journey but once you get to a place where you feel you have everything worked out with each-other there’s not another feeling in the world that could top it!

Have a great day cglre peeps! I hope I offered some good insight into how to have a healthy balance with your partner with big time and cglre time!

- Lil-Bunny

[agere-fic-recs]

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Wednesday (TV 2022) Rating: General Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Wednesday Addams & Enid Sinclair Characters: Wednesday Addams, Enid Sinclair Additional Tags: agere, Age Regression, pet regression, sfw, CGLRE, puppy enid, caregiver wednesday, snuggles, Cuddles, Fluff, no hurt comfort, Non-Sexual Age Play, Comfort No Hurt

Summary:

Startled, Enid sat up quickly, taking the blanket with her. She looked around, slightly disoriented before managing to shake it off. She lifted a hand - paw - in the air before making eye contact with Wednesday. The stern look that she was receiving made her want to whimper, so she instinctively bowed her head a little, giving Wednesday the biggest puppy dog eyes she could muster.

submitted by @sleepy-lil-kit-kat