#chocoqtelle

[chocoqtelle]

pac 🕊 love reading 🌷

pile one

you're not letting things flow at all 😭 if you want a relationship you have to actually let it happen. you also need to get all of your shit together before you date. that means no overs3xualizing yourself, no sabotaging, no isolation, no closing yourself off from people you love. none of that. you realize you have to also heal from the last relationship before jumping into a new one? you have to actually leave the toxic situations and environments so you have real time to recover.

pile two

so there's either new love or experiencing love a new way with someone. take it slow and don't rush through it. trust your intuition and yourself especially when it comes to deciding who's right for you. when i say don't rush, just make sure you're prepared and try to rest a bit until the new love/new view of love comes. I think for most people in this pile it'll be a new person. if someone is rushing you, set boundaries. It's important that you understand your feelings. this will be a time where good decision making is really important.

pile three

your struggles are not forever. right now it might be a little tiring or stagnant but very soon it won't be. remember things are going to get better soon. if you just got out of a break up, it might seem like you lost the love of your life but think of all the new opportunities and people you can meet. sometimes when things are lost, it's to make way for the new. soon, this will balance out. do not even consider going back to your ex. even if they're just an ex crush or ex relationship, you know who you don't need to be going back to.

[chocoqtelle]

⊹ ̟˖ ⁀꒷꒦ 𝐏𝐀𝐂 𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐭 ₊꒷꒦˚‧๑˖

clarity reading; your current situation

꒰꒰ ⊹꒷︶ 𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐎𝐧𝐞 ☂︎

to start off, i have to acknowledge that you're doing great by saving financially and focusing on your career/finances. however, you completely boarded yourself up emotionally. you experienced some type of heartbreak. likely from a man (not shocked. 😭) since then, you put your walls up. you've avoided every romantic option and opportunity. keep in mind you can love and focus on yourself at the same time. you're faced with a choice; do nothing and suffer or do something and grow. eventually a change will happen regardless, it's your choice if you want to delay it. just remember that being cold and distant is not the person you were or really are.

꒰꒰ ⊹꒷︶ 𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐓𝐰𝐨 ☂︎

you've made a big decision. you initiated a positive necessary change but you're disappointed. that's because this change is a slower change. it's good to understand that these changes will take time since they're for such long term things. view it as an investment and not a quick purchase. at this time, you might be confused like you're wandering through daily life. the choice you made was regarding a passion. possibly art (music, painting, dance, drawing, film, etc) related. you're leaving behind old ways of thinking that previously held you back. this is a fresh new start for you, don't let old ways get in the way of your passions.

꒰꒰ ⊹꒷︶ 𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞 ☂︎

okay, on a completely unrelated note you are hilarious. 💀 but back to the topic, you are in a hot mess right now. i probably don't have to tell you that. right now you should be relying on your intuition heavily. this mess could also relate to mental health and/or (romantic or non-romantic) love. there may be conflict now, but if you can survive and sort through everything, it'll get better. once you walk away from all of this, make sure to celebrate your victory. you likely don't reward yourself for your success, but when it's something as large scale as this you probably should at least try to.

[chocoqtelle]

❀ pac, calling you out

❀ pile one

you are in a really bad relationship. no, it's not "romance" bc they're emotional. they're emotionally manipulative 😭 not emotional. if you gotta deal with all their problems to the point you can't deal with your own and theirs start becoming yours, they're not good for you. if you'd do the work and fix your issues, maybe you'd get someone better. instead, you choose to stay here and not take any risks because you're comfortable being with losers. can't blame you though cuz it seems like you're scared of chaos cuz you grew up in/lived in that type of environment. do some shadow work and dump them. have some value for yourself, damn.

❀ pile two

you are way too focused on money right now. remember, this is a collective so it won't apply for everyone, but some people in this pile could have like sugar daddies or something? 💀 which no judgement but you need to stop worrying so much about money. you don't HAVE to date for money. you don't HAVE to work extra. you're fine where you are. you also isolate yourself a lot like some kind of sneaky, lonely merchant. how about you put this energy into dealing with your messy emotions that you've been neglecting? you might feel mature with intelligence and all that but your emotions are more immature. you can't logic or buy your way out of everything. go do what you want and feel, not what's "most beneficial" or most logical.

❀ pile three

you're annoying asf with your stubbornness. "i want change i want change 🥺" idk then maybe do something about it? 😭 do you expect everything to just go your way? everybody you admire who's more successful than you put actual work into it. you refuse to take care of yourself. you could deal w toxic masculinity? maybe a trans man or smth? it seems like you're afraid of "feminine things" like crying or self care. go start smth new instead of sitting here moping about how nothing changes. you're literally the reason nothing is changing for you. you refuse to change and expect your environment to. every tarot reader has been tryna tell you this but you wanna scroll past or pretend it's not for you. what you need to do is sit down and listen to your readings. celebrate once you start doing things and maybe you'll actually be motivated since you complain about motivation too.

[chocoqtelle]

[[pick a card]] three affirmations to help your confidence

[[pile one]]

i deserve to choose myself

my peace is worth more than people's entertainment

i don't need anyone, i choose to have people around me

[[pile two]]

my kindness does not make me weak

i don't have to be perfect to be great

my passion only makes me stronger, my emotions are a gift

[[pile three]]

nobody owns me but me

im looking forward to seeing myself grow

my past is behind me, past people are beneath me

[chocoqtelle]

i notice how y'all only look at the romance readings 😒 y'all love living in the delusions

[chocoqtelle]

AAAA I WAS GONNA DO A READING AND ALL THE PILES DIDN'T SAVE

well one of y'all was being over giving

one of y'all was rushing into short quick relationships with terrible immature people

one of y'all was trying to logic ur way out of feeling (especially romantic)

that's basically what each pile was about 😮‍💨

[chocoqtelle]

me watching mfs say "divine masc/fem" and it's just gender norms and heteronormative

[chocoqtelle]

don't ever be afraid to like my posts cuz you'll "ruin" an angel number 😭 u don't gotta force angel numbers and i def appreciate the extra support <33 the next one will be there soon enough dw

[chocoqtelle]

Hi!

May I please have a reading on the physical appearance of my first boyfriend?!

Thank you in advance!

TM ✨

sure :) sorry for the late response

he might look a bit mature in a way? like not super old but mature. he might also have a bit of an intimidating look to him. he has brown eyes or brown hair. you might catch him busy doing work or handling things and enjoy seeing him focused. he has a darker look in some sense. this could be clothes, eyes (I'm definitely picking up darker eyes), hair or vibe but he seems like hes a little edgy in some sense. he probably deals with a resting bitch face a little and seems like he has strong walls up.

[chocoqtelle]

I HATE SPAM MSGS 😭😭😭

[chocoqtelle]

just so I can finish the asks I have I'll probably start having free reading events instead of keeping the free readings up continuously. for now I think I'll say to get questions in before the end of Friday :)

[chocoqtelle]

I'm back <333

[chocoqtelle]

Hey, not an ask I just wanted to say thank you for the reading. It was really helpful ♡ sending you lots of love!

it's no problem <3 I'm always happy to help

[chocoqtelle]

Hey!

Please don't fuss about the free readings.

I hope you're taking care of yourself and giving your mind enough rest :)

The readings can wait ✨✨

awww ty (*ˊᗜˋ*) I appreciate you looking out for me I'll try my best to watch our for myself too

[chocoqtelle]

reminder that free readings will be over by the end of Friday :) so please make sure to get them in on time and I'll respond whenever I can

[chocoqtelle]

Hi If you are still doing the readings I would like to know about my future spouse like how they will we meet and our feelings about the meet?

M 🏵️

I got you ヾ(＾-＾)ノ

it's kinda giving slice of life/romance anime filler episode. like you two have a very chill dynamic. you two might meet outside or in a breezy/chilly area. you could be a hard worker but they probably don't have to put in a whole lot of work. it's like Haruhi x Tamaki in ouran high school host club. you might be a little stubborn about this connection. this could be at a workplace, especially one that requires creativity. pottery could be significant in some sense (maybe for a date or job or something you're interested in.) you two meeting feels refreshing. I'm definitely getting that it'll be at a job, probably your workplace. even while you're working, it'll feel like a break if this person is there. you two might have a calm chat when you first meet for a while and lose track of time.