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Philip Michael Lester and Daniel James Howell, what in the fuck do you mean by husband?
I know that Phil likes to wander and stalk these spaces for some reason. So I would like an answer personally, how much are you fucking with us.
Do you like seeing us have parasocial crises over minor word changes?
#I feel like we know the answer to this is yes#but the point stands!#what do you mean commitmentphobic DJH is using husband casually?#god gay people#dan and phil#phan#losing my damn mind#phil lester#dan howell
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#look it's fine really i am far too commitmentphobic a person to do something ridiculous and final#but you know when you're just SO tired and you feel fucked over by the world and your own body#and you feel like you're fucking up everything in your life#and being a bad friend and a bad son and a bad all round human being#yeah.#anyways.#this message brought to you by I Got No Fucking Sleep Last Night#Newt go actually talk to your friends instead of venting to tumblr strangers challenge#mr. bees speaks
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why is it so embarrassing being so understanding and sweet to a girl who’s treated you like fucking shit
#if one more commitmentphobe tries to date me I’ll go insane leave me alone#lesbian#wlw#wlw blog#I should have just said fuck you#instead of wasting time on a paragraph in my notes app lmao
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Oh no, I fear the 'failed one night stand' Bob Floyd headcanon has taken over 😬
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Just rewatched that clip from freshman year just to remember what the first jaceporter exchange even was and the Jace characterization is so fucking funny. This is straight up a different person from junior year
#I love him so much#we’ve all glommed onto commitmentphobe Jace so hard that we forgot he actually is like#WAYYYY more of a tryhard than any of us remember#shut up Janelle
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JACK NEW KIT AGAIN?????
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Happy Stellaride Appreciation Week!
Day Two: Favorite Quote(S)
This was so hard & I honestly couldn't choose, so here we are!
Runner up is Stella confessing her love, fears & apprehensions on marriage with Kelly @ the end of 10x19. "...Thinking of a life without you felt like no life at all & I never want to feel that way again..." The entire speech was beautifully written & delivered. I feel like Kelly catches flack for not using his words, but Stella doesn't always express herself either, so this was huge for her as well.
The winner definitely goes to 10x22 & their wedding vows! I wish I was joking when I said I have their vows memorized! 🙃 I will never forget watching it the first time and literally balling my eyes out!
#stella kidd#stellaride#kelly severide#favorite quotes#life without you is no life at all#when two commitmentphobes become one
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wait it would be literally so funny if i’m like this because my mom never encouraged me to follow my dreams and i didn’t realize it til i was 30
#my mom is the nicest person in the world but she is very dedicated to trying to keep me realistic#and i never realized how much that affected me#i think i never wanted to judge my mom’s parenting because in all the important ways i was supported#i was loved i was given attention i was taken care of#and it’s not like they actively discouraged me#but something about me i’m only now accepting is#i back down from a challenge#i will turn this car around#i’m the quitterrrr#so i think the fact that nobody was there saying YES YOU CAN DO IT#instead of well it will be really difficult and most people don’t make it and you have to be really dedicated#made my commitmentphobic ass go NOT WORTH#i have the opposite of the sunk cost mentality#i have quit when you plateau mentality#fuck i didn’t even need therapy to figure this out i just needed a fuuuuuck of weed
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never get over how excited eddie is when he tells marisol she should move out like you are the funniest little guy ever
#bro you are not a commitmentphobe you just don’t want to be in any of these relationships#rey actually speaks#911
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sophie saying she's married to nate despite not having a ring or legal status and nate just being like yeah. true.
#jack facts#i love romance and i love criminals#leverage#reading process#they were soooooo nonchalant and matter of fact about it you'd never know they used to both be pathological commitmentphobes
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open ; 21+ ; unrequited love vibes river carson ; 22-28 ; artsy himbo with a heart of gold
Still in her slinky little party dress, she looked just a touch out of place lounging on his couch with her feet in his lap, his bag of doritos clutched in her greedy little hand. But it was a welcome sight. River laughed lightly as she regaled the dramatic tale of her friend throwing a drink in a guy’s face before promptly going home with that guy, and he shook his head. “Sorry I missed it.” He wasn’t. At all, actually. But he was delighted to have her here telling him all about it now. “But you had fun?”
#independent smut rp#indie rp#starter ; open#gimme that 'in love with my commitmentphobe bff' shtick#starter ; river carson#recycled
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sometimes i have very goth music taste for a nongoth
#also known as a prep#im extremely fickle with music so it would be impossible for me to dress in a way that reflects it#not that i would but i do respect when people have a style and they stick to it#couldn't be me im a commitmentphobe with music as with all things#in a few weeks i'll have moved on from this passionate affair and be listening to like honky tonk or something
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Top's childhood trauma is just like chef's kiss. You can see it come out in a few ways and it's beautiful and painful to watch.
According to Boston, he's never dated anyone for more than 3 months. After needing to flee safety, of course staying anywhere too long is hard. Fear of abandonment is at the core of a lot of fear of commitment.
When Mew stops him in the first scene, he asks 'What did I do wrong?' and not something like 'Why?' He blames himself even if there's no evidence that he's done wrong.
In the shower scene with Boston, you can see his visible discomfort at being cornered. It isn't significant on his own, but Top has a habit of crowding other people's personal space. Maybe part of the reason he does is so that he himself isn't trapped.
It's so early on in the show that it's difficult to say anything definitive about any of the characters, of course. But there are a lot of really nuanced hints at the different ways the characters have dealt with their fear of abandonment that make me look forward to where the show is going to take us.
#only friends the series#only friends spoilers#spoilers for episode 1#spoilers for episode 2#top only friends#top ofts#only friends meta#commitmentphobe with abandonment issues is one of my favorite types#but it's rarely done well or with nuance#top has nuance and that's pretty lovely#not to say he's not an asshole because he is a giant asshole#but everyone's a bit terrible or the show wouldn't work narratively
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I think you should TOTALLY tackle multi chapter fics! If you wanted!! My single fic isn’t nearly we popular we my chapter one!! You have brilliant writing so I’m sure it’s be amazing!!
Thank you🖤 I used to write multi-chapter fics for another fandom, but people would ask for a part 2, and then none of those people even ended up reading them anyway🫠 So I was kinda like “this isn’t worth my time.” I might go for it again one day!
🦇 Battie
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i absolutely despise how many hozier songs make me think of the little lesbians that live in my head. so stereotypical
#someone new reminds me SO MUUUUCH of one of my ocs and one of her future wives...#they meet so disastrously (having sex w a stranger lmao it varies but the current one is rhys picking ro up at one of her punk shows bc ofc#and have this whirlwind romance and uhaul and then flame out#bc they're commitmentphobes who realize they're in love w each other and are probs soulmates or whatever so they each explode it#and it's just like. they both knew what they were getting into w each other. they're the fucking same aoiewfjaowife#but they stay best friends for like four years and then end up working together again and disastrously hooking up again#but the second time it works out at least#oc: romy cho#ro x rhys#oc blogging#*dykeposting
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Single once again and feeling good about it
#🎶боль будет завтра а пока🎶#I feel relieved tbh#personal#a tiny bit sad but overall relieved#the commitmentphobe in me is relieved af lol
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